> It's the kind of decision that can dictate all of your future quality > of life. IMO, if waiting a few years lowers the risk - do it!
And then you have people like my wife's cousin and his girlfriend, who had a baby when she was 18 and he was 17; now he's in and out of jail with alcohol and violence issues and she's moving to Florida so she can live with her grandparents. They made the *decision* to have a child... actually tried a couple of times before they were successful. Their "grand plan" was to get married when they turned 21.... a plan that now will never come to pass. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~| Adobe® ColdFusion® 8 software 8 is the most important and dramatic release to date Get the Free Trial http://ad.doubleclick.net/clk;203748912;27390454;j Archive: http://www.houseoffusion.com/groups/CF-Community/message.cfm/messageid:264080 Subscription: http://www.houseoffusion.com/groups/CF-Community/subscribe.cfm Unsubscribe: http://www.houseoffusion.com/cf_lists/unsubscribe.cfm?user=11502.10531.5
