children. It's the only way they can invalidate homosexual marriage.
C'mon get with the program. You don't want to be known as a liberal :)
marlon
Larry C. Lyons wrote:
> I have never understood the rationale that kids=family. Wendy and I
> do not have kids and probably never will. Yet I'd wager that we are
> as much of a family as a couple with 10 kids. We have more privacy at
> least.
>
> larry
>
> >I tried to have kids, couldn't (well, now ex-hubby couldn't) and resigned
> >myself to not having kids. I'm happy with the decision.
> >
> >
> >What bugged me was my sister equating having kids with having a family.
> >"Well you don't have a family Sandy, you can take care of x".
> >
> >
> >Married, Job, Home, Responsibilities, but in her mind the only thing that
> >made a family was kids.
> >
> >
> >Sandy,
> >
> >
> >No Kids, No Husband (now), Great Job and Boyfriend and Life and HAPPY AS
> >HELL!
> >
> > _____
> >
> >From: Dan Phillips [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]
> >Sent: Thursday, December 18, 2003 12:38 PM
> >To: CF-Community
> >Subject: RE: Having kids (was RE: Exploring Frugality)
> >
> >While on this subject, there is another aspect I just thought of. I have
> >some friends that are newly married and all anyone asks them is "so when
> >are you having kids?" Amy and I are starting to get the same questions.
> >I find it a bit...rude maybe?...that people assume a wedded couple will
> >have kids. Am I the only one?
> >
> >-----Original Message-----
> >From: Erika L Walker-Arnold [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]
> >Sent: Thursday, December 18, 2003 12:24 PM
> >To: CF-Community
> >Subject: RE: Having kids (was RE: Exploring Frugality)
> >
> >Thank you for the support guys, Deanna! :D Means a lot.
> >
> >I totally respect other people's wishes and wants to have children, and
> >I admire them for it because it's a huge commitment. A HUGE
> >responsibility, and one I just can't be a part of.
> >
> >Seriously, some of my hostility towards a comment like "you don't know
> >what you are missing" ... comes from hearing it a gazillion times.
> >
> >Why is it other people seem to know what you should do with your life?
> >Why is it that people have to jump on the wagon and try and convince you
> >that you are wrong? Why do people not realize that what works for them
> >might not work for others?
> >
> >Yeah yeah yeah, don't preach to me because everyone is human and it's an
> >instinctive reaction to spread the wealth and joy they feel. Bah humbug.
> >
> >We love our pets and we are enjoying them to the hilt. We get a
> >tremendous amount of joy from having them around. I don't know what we
> >would do without them. But I'm not busting on everyone I know who
> >doesn't have pets and saying "You don't know what you're missing" ....
> >
> >Happy Holidays! :D
> >
> >Cheers,
> >Erika
> >--------------------------------------------------
> >
> >-----Original Message-----
> >From: Deanna Schneider [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]
> >Sent: Thursday, December 18, 2003 11:52 AM
> >To: CF-Community
> >Subject: Re: Having kids (was RE: Exploring Frugality)
> >
> >So, good for the two of you for making a decision that's right for you.
> > _____
> > _____
> >
> >[
>
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