As maybe the 2nd oldest known member of the list, who in a lot of ways HAS been there, I think you are absolutely correct, sir.
Wait - does that make me a "has been"?
Oy.
;-)
-BenB
>If she freaked over a HDD or something, yeah. Cars, at least to me,
>qualify as Major Decisions. While I can totally see myself doing
>exactly what he did, I can also see her point. She's wondering if one
>day he'll change jobs without mentioning it, or say "Oh, by the way. I
>just bought a house."
>
>Of course, I could be wrong. As the 2nd youngest known member of this
>community, it's not like I've been there. :-)
>
>--benD
>
>BethF wrote:
>
>> And if I were he, I would be concerned that she would try and
>> micromanage my every decision after we were married.
>> ----- Original Message -----
>> From: Ben Doom
>> To: CF-Community
>> Sent: Tuesday, December 30, 2003 9:48 AM
>> Subject: Re: I think I'm in trouble
>>
>> I would postulate that she was worried that he might make similar
>> decisions *after* they were married. I'd bet that it was amplified
>> quite a bit by the fact that he hadn't mentioned it, and she felt like
>> she was being left out of important parts of his life.
>>
>> Not so much the car, but what the car represented.
>>
>> --benD
>>
>> BethF wrote:
>>
>> > Obviously, the amount of money wasnt' the issue for this woman since
>> she
>> > suddenly likes the car.
>> >
>> > ----- Original Message -----
>> > From: Deanna Schneider
>> > To: CF-Community
>> > Sent: Tuesday, December 30, 2003 9:02 AM
>> > Subject: Re: Re:I think I'm in trouble
>> >
>> > I think it affects her because she's his fiance, who he soon will
>> live
>> > with
>> > and share all expenses with. And, unless he paid in full for the
>> new car,
>> > it's another bill that she'll be sharing. I think.
>> > -d
>> >
>> > ----- Original Message -----
>> > From: "BethF" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
>> > To: "CF-Community" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
>> > Sent: Tuesday, December 30, 2003 11:37 AM
>> > Subject: Re: Re:I think I'm in trouble
>> >
>> > > How does this decision affect his girlfriend he doesn't live with?
>>
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