Buying an expensive car <> "micromanage".
I don't think you get it...
-Ben

> And if I were he, I would be concerned that she would try and
> micromanage my every decision after we were married.
  
> ----- Original Message -----
  
> From: Ben Doom
  
> To: CF-Community
  
> Sent: Tuesday, December 30, 2003 9:48 AM
  
> Subject: Re: I think I'm in trouble
>
>
  
> I would postulate that she was worried that he might make similar
  
> decisions *after* they were married.  I'd bet that it was amplified
  
> quite a bit by the fact that he hadn't mentioned it, and she felt like
>
  
> she was being left out of important parts of his life.
>
  
> Not so much the car, but what the car represented.
>
  
> --benD
>
  
> BethF wrote:
>
  
> > Obviously, the amount of money wasnt' the issue for this woman since
> she
  
> > suddenly likes the car.
  
> >
  
> > ----- Original Message -----
  
> >   From: Deanna Schneider
  
> >   To: CF-Community
  
> >   Sent: Tuesday, December 30, 2003 9:02 AM
  
> >   Subject: Re: Re:I think I'm in trouble
  
> >
  
> >   I think it affects her because she's his fiance, who he soon will
> live
  
> > with
  
> >   and share all expenses with. And, unless he paid in full for the
> new car,
  
> >   it's another bill that she'll be sharing. I think.
  
> >   -d
  
> >
  
> >   ----- Original Message -----
  
> >   From: "BethF" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
  
> >   To: "CF-Community" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
  
> >   Sent: Tuesday, December 30, 2003 11:37 AM
  
> >   Subject: Re: Re:I think I'm in trouble
  
> >
  
> >   > How does this decision affect his girlfriend he doesn't live
> with?
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