Dana
>Buying an expensive car <> "micromanage".
>I don't think you get it...
>-Ben
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>> And if I were he, I would be concerned that she would try and
>> micromanage my every decision after we were married.
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>> ----- Original Message -----
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>> From: Ben Doom
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>> To: CF-Community
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>> Sent: Tuesday, December 30, 2003 9:48 AM
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>> Subject: Re: I think I'm in trouble
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>>
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>> I would postulate that she was worried that he might make similar
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>> decisions *after* they were married. I'd bet that it was amplified
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>> quite a bit by the fact that he hadn't mentioned it, and she felt like
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>> she was being left out of important parts of his life.
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>> Not so much the car, but what the car represented.
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>> --benD
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>> BethF wrote:
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>> > Obviously, the amount of money wasnt' the issue for this woman since
>> she
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>> > suddenly likes the car.
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>> >
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>> > ----- Original Message -----
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>> > From: Deanna Schneider
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>> > To: CF-Community
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>> > Sent: Tuesday, December 30, 2003 9:02 AM
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>> > Subject: Re: Re:I think I'm in trouble
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>> >
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>> > I think it affects her because she's his fiance, who he soon will
>> live
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>> > with
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>> > and share all expenses with. And, unless he paid in full for the
>> new car,
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>> > it's another bill that she'll be sharing. I think.
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>> > -d
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>> >
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>> > ----- Original Message -----
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>> > From: "BethF" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
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>> > To: "CF-Community" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
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>> > Sent: Tuesday, December 30, 2003 11:37 AM
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>> > Subject: Re: Re:I think I'm in trouble
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>> >
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>> > > How does this decision affect his girlfriend he doesn't live
>> with?
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