no need to apologize.... everyone wants everyone to be safe and we all tend to forget from time to time.... we think we are a little closed group of friends but in truth, a lot of folks are out there watching and reading for what ever reason.... not to worry, Amanda, no one is mad at you!!!!!!
take care and loads of love.... hugs, mj and benji girl On Jan 26, 2011, at 8:57 PM, amanda christopher wrote: I apologize there is so much going on I didnt think. Please dont boot me from the group. I will be more careful. Have A Beautiful Day, Each And Every Day! --- On Wed, 1/26/11, dasha <[email protected]> wrote: From: dasha <[email protected]> Subject: RE: [Chihuahuas] OT Need Advice To: [email protected] Date: Wednesday, January 26, 2011, 9:17 PM We do have hackers and spammers in the groups. It is pretty much a given with yahoo. Better to be safer. No one is angry just concerned From: [email protected] [mailto:[email protected]] On Behalf Of amanda christopher Sent: Wednesday, January 26, 2011 6:31 PM To: [email protected] Subject: Re: [Chihuahuas] OT Need Advice Im so sorry I wasnt thinking. Please dont be angry. Im just so frazzled lately. I will be more discreet in what I post from now on. Have A Beautiful Day, Each And Every Day! --- On Wed, 1/26/11, Peggy & The Girls <[email protected]> wrote: From: Peggy & The Girls <[email protected]> Subject: Re: [Chihuahuas] OT Need Advice To: [email protected] Date: Wednesday, January 26, 2011, 6:24 PM Just my opinion, but you guys really shouldn't be giving out such personal information on the web, it's for your own safety. You can always privately email your dresses and phone numbers. Sorry that you are going through this Amanda, every woman deserves to be treated so much better, and you can do it, all on your own!! No woman really needs a man to make her feel like a self confident human being, it comes from within the person. Just say that you can do it, for you, and you will. Been their too! Hey since so many of us have been their, maybe we should call this the Cheat Group, instead of the Chi Group, LOL, just kidding of course. Smiles!! -------Original Message------- From: amanda christopher Date: 1/26/2011 4:59:02 PM To: [email protected] Subject: Re: [Chihuahuas] OT Need Advice I trust the group Amanda Christopher 822 west south street mayfield ky 42066 270-908-5572 Anyone who wants to call or write feel free. Today has been rough for me. I saw on his facebook that he has changed his status from married to me to engaged to her. ENGAGED after only three days away! Talk about moving on quickly. Its like I never existed. Have A Beautiful Day, Each And Every Day! --- On Wed, 1/26/11, Nancy Lucky <[email protected]> wrote: From: Nancy Lucky <[email protected]> Subject: Re: [Chihuahuas] OT Need Advice To: [email protected] Date: Wednesday, January 26, 2011, 3:36 PM Amanda - please send your address if you do not mind, Nan When you are gifted... give; when you learn... teach Nancy, Abbey-Rose and Maggie-Mae --- On Wed, 1/26/11, maryjane turner <[email protected]> wrote: From: maryjane turner <[email protected]> Subject: Re: [Chihuahuas] OT Need Advice To: [email protected] Date: Wednesday, January 26, 2011, 12:05 PM So good to see you post, Amanda, and to hear that you are doing better. I've been thinking about you a lot and worried too. Thanks so much for checking in and letting us know. hugs... mj On Jan 26, 2011, at 8:51 AM, amanda christopher wrote: thank you all for your love and support. Im doing better now and Im moving forward, slowly but surely. Have A Beautiful Day, Each And Every Day! --- On Wed, 1/26/11, flopo <[email protected]> wrote: From: flopo <[email protected]> Subject: Re: [Chihuahuas] OT Need Advice To: [email protected] Date: Wednesday, January 26, 2011, 1:52 AM Seven years into my marriage, the man of my dreams, (I moved 3000 miles to be with), cheated on me. When I found out, he didn't care, she would even call him while he was sitting on the sofa next to me. At first I acted like a fool, half ass attempted to kill myself, did the begging, etc. Then after a couple of months of Hell, told him to go ahead, leave do whatever. Then he didn't want to go. Oh brother. He had received and income tax refund and had plenty of money to move out if he wanted to, but for what ever reason, he didn't. Not long after that he decided I guess, the grass in NEVER greener on the other side. After a few months he realized eventually everything is the same after the excitement wears off. Well anyway, we did reconcile, and even though he was a complete jerk at the time, he did a 180. That was five years ago, and I swear, I think he's trying to spend the rest of his life trying to make it up to me. It changed me fundamentally forever, I don't believe in that "true love" business anymore, (except with my chis), but I can tell you, we have a much better relationship now than we ever had before. I can almost bet you, you haven't seen the last of them. I think a lot of them try to come back once they've figured things out and realize things aren't any better or different with someone new. You just have to decide what your going to do when that time comes. I think the decision will ultimately be yours. Men always screw things up, so don't look for reasons to blame yourself. They also lie, he may have told you things, that aren't necessarily true, (i.e. Consolation prize), just so you wouldn't try to stop him. Decide what you want for yourself and you can have a good life with or without him. You'll be in my prayers, Pam flopo -------Original Message------- From: amanda christopher Date: 24/01/2011 10:49:35 AM To: [email protected] Subject: [Chihuahuas] OT Need Advice My husband of over six years left for good last night. Rented a car and packed it tight, took his puppy and moved to Michigan to be with another woman. I'm so numb right now Im unsure what to do. I havent been on in several days and the reason is, when he told me it was over I tried to overdose and had to be admitted to the hospital. I got out saturday night.I hadnt even gotten to the car when he told me he was leaving the next day. He tells me he loves me and cares for me but he has to see what is between him and her. They dated for two years and broke up eight years ago. He claims he thought she was dead and after learning differently he has to see if they are in the past or still in love. He said that after seven years together he had grown to love me but that I had been a consolation prize because he couldnt have her. He tells me to wait for him, that he may come back to me one day. Im a fool of course because I will probably wait forever. Im so scared, Im not sure how to go on. He controlled and handled everything. I have no income, Im trying to get my disabilty. My mother and stepfather live across the hall. Its a duplex and the deed is in my name. They say they will handle the bills, theyve been paying them for awhile now anyway. Im so lost at least I have my chis. He also left his foxhound. Nine years old the poor thing seems lost as well. I just need you to know whats going on in my life. You guys online are my only friends. . Stationery by Cloudeight, Art by ©Peter R. Gerbert. Click here for more.
