You are right about this John! When my wife was my girlfriend, she never complained about Cert testing or buying equipment. I was making $70,000 and could not afford to get married yet. When my wife was my fiancee, she started to complain about the certs. I worked 2 part time jobs in addition to my full time job to pay for lab equipment, books, airplane tickets, a PIX 515 and 2621, both used. I was making $85,000 and hated my job came home at 10 pm-did weekends too.
I passed the CSS1, CCNP, and CISSP. Wage is now $120,000 and I am the #1 engineer in my company working on wireless network design, policies, and security. I am relaxed and come home at 7 pm no weekends and I pay for everything. My wife now fights with me when I want to buy aironet access points and cards. I have lost this fight totally. She has nearly stopped my Amazon buying, although she doesn't know about the $1000 I just did :-), If I even mention that I am taking a Cisco test, forget love for a week. I figure since I will have to fly to Belgium for the CCIE security, no love for a month. And get this, if I hadn't invested my money like I did, Marriage would have been impossible financially. Now she wants to quit her job and have a kid yet she is stopping me from investing in IT with training/books/devices...etc and she thinks I should be able to earn $150-200,000 a year within 3 years! (Holy Delusions of Grandeur!) I have no idea how I am going to finance next years' changes. How can I possibly make more money without investing in my education be it cert or not cert? Certs are really not that important, I need all the training I can get. Education is necessary to supplement on the job experiences. What is it with these people???? If only I could be a Cisco Certified Wife Troubleshooter! A call center. Something is wrong with my woman. What is it? She is not functioning normally! When did this start happening? It started back in March. What happened back then? Nothing. Come on! What changes happened then? We got married. Volia! You no longer have the right specs for your woman. But she was functioning properly for so many years. Everything was okay. Sorry, but when you upgrade from Girlfriend 5.0 to Wife 1.0, your entire network must change. What this was not written in the book nor was it on the home page. Ha ha, it's a gotcha! Welcome to Marriage! Theo "John Hutchison" Sent by: [EMAIL PROTECTED] 09/25/2002 11:38 PM Please respond to "John Hutchison" To: [EMAIL PROTECTED] cc: Subject: Re: CCIE written "revised" [7:53972] heheh...you now know the difference between dating and marriage! Where I work, we have a trade agreement with a testing facility, so I get cisco boots and tests for free. Not only do I not have to pay first then get reimbursed. But even though I'm missing work, I still get my 40 hours paycheck when I'm at the boot. Sounds like a win/win situation, right? Wrong, my wife complains because I have to sign an agreement that says I won't get the cert and then quit. She think they should shell out 10k for it all and that I should just be able to leave the next day. Message Posted at: http://www.groupstudy.com/form/read.php?f=7&i=54161&t=53972 -------------------------------------------------- FAQ, list archives, and subscription info: http://www.groupstudy.com/list/cisco.html Report misconduct and Nondisclosure violations to [EMAIL PROTECTED]