Tara, We at PariSoMa had a small coworker party about a month ago. I knew pretty much every one there, except there was one tall, balding guy kind of lurking around that no one knew. He introduced himself as Ryan and said he was interested in renting a desk from us. I asked him how he knew about the very small gathering and he just kind of mumbled something incomprehensible about a website. For the next hour and a half, he hung around our office and kind of creeped about and made everyone uncomfortable. When the party was over, a handful of us went to dinner and of course someone invited Ryan. Throughout dinner, his erratic behavior really weirded us out. He got up about 3 or 4 times to use the bathroom announcing loudly "I GOTTA PEE", disappearing for 10 minutes at a time. He knocked over his glass of water and then pushed the water onto the floor. After I'd finished my meal there were still some scraps left (mostly chicken bones and a pile of greasy rice) and he asked my boyfriend if I was going to finish my plate. He then ate the tiny bits of chicken left on the bones and scarfed all the rice. We all pretty much sat there WTFing the whole time. The next day, I told everyone in the office that if a guy named Ryan came by looking to rent a space, to politely tell him no. I felt bad because he seemed kind of lonely and lost, but he obviously has problems and made everyone really uncomfortable. He must be hitting up all the coworking spaces in SF. I wonder if anyone else has had any experiences with him.
Anyway, wow. I will definitely be on the lookout. Melanie Berlin PariSoMa On Oct 1, 2:31 pm, "Tara Hunt" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > Hey all, > > So, I thought I'd relay a story...not to freak anyone out or change > anything, but just as an experience that others can learn from. > > For about 6 months, there has been a guy who drops in regularly at > Citizen Space for free - almost too regularly at times - and would > fall asleep at the communal tables in the back. I thought, "Whatever, > no biggie, really," until I got a complaint from my landlord that, > when CS wasn't open, he would sit outside of our door or wander around > the building for hours. So, the next time I saw him I told him that he > isn't allowed to be in the building hanging around when we aren't > there. So, that was problem A. But he didn't really listen and we > would still find him sleeping outside our door. I must have told him > about 10x personally. Then he hadn't come around for a while, so I > thought that the issue was done. > > But no. One day I received an email from Eddie from The Hat Factory > asking me if Ryan Cook ever hangs out at Citizen Space and that they > had to finally ask him to leave and not come back because he was doing > the same thing - sleeping in the building - as well as bringing his > clothes and showering there. Eddie and another guy had taken Ryan to > lunch to get more information from him and didn't find much out. > According to Ryan, he had a job and a place to live. So they said he > would have to limit the times he dropped in and no more showering or > sleeping there. But he continued, so they finally threatened him with > calling the police if he returned. > > After that point, he stepped up his presence at CS again, this time he > had no laptop with him and people in the space (renters and other > dropins) were starting to complain about his presence. He would come > in, eat stuff from the cupboards, make coffee and leave a mess, then > sleep at the table. So, I told him he couldn't come back to CS without > his laptop - "This isn't a shelter, it's a workspace." I said. But a > couple of nights later, I came into the office to check on a package > at around 10:00 pm and, after unlocking the security door, I found him > behind it, hanging out. Of course, this freaked me out a bit, but I > firmly told him he wasn't allowed to be there, to leave and not come > back until he gets a computer. > > A couple days later, Jonathan, one of the desk renters, found him, > again, behind the locked security door and observed a pile of luggage > and clothes. This was early in the morning. He instantly left and > called me, telling me he didn't want to have to deal with this any > longer. I was very angry at that point and went directly over there, > but he was gone. Later that day, I caught him in the building again > and told him to take his clothes and leave and that I would call the > police if he returned. That was last Friday. > > On Monday, I wasn't at the space, but Arne told me he came in to > gather 'some of his things that he had left' at the space. CS is NOT a > storage locker. Arne supervised him and walked him out of the > building. I thought that was the end of it. But no again. > > Today, I stopped by CS to check on a package and, lo and behold, he > was there again. I totally blew up and told him I was going to call > the police and locked myself in the office. The police came by and he > was STILL hanging in the building. The officer talked to him, then > came and talked with me. I told him the story and the officer told me > he would tell Ryan that he would be charged next time he came into the > building. > > I hope this is the end of it. It's driving me nuts. I don't know if > he's a physical threat - he hasn't made any threats or moves. However, > his continued presence feels like a fear tactic and he makes everyone > at CS extremely uneasy...even the big guys. > > I'm looking for advice here...but also to open up a discussion on > whether others have shared this problem and, if so, how have you dealt > with it? > > Tara > > -- > -- > tara 'missrogue' hunt > > Book: The Whuffie Factor: Using the Power of Social Networks to Build > Your Business > (http://www.amazon.com/Whuffie-Factor-Capital-Winning-Communities/dp/0...) > Company: Citizen Agency (http://www.citizenagency.com) > Blog: HorsePigCow: Marketing Uncommon (http://www.horsepigcow.com) > Twitter:http://www.twitter.com/missrogue > phone: 415-694-1951 > fax: 415-727-5335 --~--~---------~--~----~------------~-------~--~----~ You received this message because you are subscribed to the Google Groups "Coworking" group. To post to this group, send email to coworking@googlegroups.com To unsubscribe from this group, send email to [EMAIL PROTECTED] For more options, visit this group at http://groups.google.com/group/coworking?hl=en -~----------~----~----~----~------~----~------~--~---
