On Thu, Mar 25, 2004 at 11:34:56PM -0700, Monique Y. Herman wrote: > On 2004-03-26, s. keeling penned: > > Incoming from Monique Y. Herman: > >> <snip> > > Marriage shouldn't have to mean becoming someone else's property! > > Indeed, and it doesn't. There's a huge difference between choosing to > do something because you know it would mean a lot to your s.o., and > being forced/railroaded into doing something. If someone tells me I > have to do something, I tend to do the exact opposite, even if I would > originally have done it the way I've been told to. > > But just because I've chosen a particular route doesn't mean I'm yet > fully comfortable with it. That will take a while.
Maybe a compromise would be to take on your s.o.'s last name, as you say you probably will, and in recognition of that your s.o. recognizes you as the c.s.o. =P -- Chris Harris <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> ------------------------------------------- GNU/Linux --- The best things in life are free. -- To UNSUBSCRIBE, email to [EMAIL PROTECTED] with a subject of "unsubscribe". Trouble? Contact [EMAIL PROTECTED]