Billy G say: The suggestion that you need sex to be happy is one of the biggest > lies we are born into. What you need to be 'truly happy' is a > relationship with God. If that truth were proselytized as much as the > other we'd have a happier world.
-------You know, happiness is a subjective thing. My main objection to this invective is from nondual POV of lack of POV where this 'God' really does cease to exist. I remember how Billy G is really intractable and ineffable so it would be foolish for me to feel offended by the fact that his viewpoint will not be changed by mine. That's the great thing about some people. It would be hard for my opinions also to mean much and it would be hard for me to hurt such people also. My wife is like that. I couldn't change her mind about anything. But that's a good thing as we have spent 20 years in each other's presence and so I am glad she brought herself to the table as I have and we changed ourselves very little for each other. That has made for the simple comfort of our relationship. But we are a needy couple in the sense that we dominate each other completely. There's really no question to me where the necessity of pairing up comes from. Pairing up comes from the fact of the basic goodness of the base of all including the elements of humans like one. Thus there is no 'transcendental' anything separate from anything, as evidenced in the fact that no separation can be found from any perspective between Absolute and relative. No separation being found, one should understand gradually that 'creation' per se, has never itself taken place. It's important to find and hang out with other really enlightened beings. Like for instance I know someone so claravoyant he can read the future in his own palm. It's good to have such people for companions because you get used to this total integrated synchronicity between inner/outer. My question for Billy G and people (few) who think like him beliving in this 'God' thing. My question is this - do you really believe that beliving in God has made you happy? Happier than sex? And is sex separate from this 'God' and if not then it's pretty damn good aye? So it's then like adding 100 percent and 100 percent, easy, very easy to understand that as sex after program is really ideal as mind is soft and silent, senses are heightened and one is feeling empathy, this is then ideal time for sexual healing. Not being any sort of monk I am pretty much free from rules and such. How awesome is that? To have the benefits of tantra as well as being able to choose hedonism as my lifestyle. How awesome is that? To the devotional such as myself. (Goddess is great!) I feel quite blessed. Very blessed indeed. So to steer people away from grooving out in sex and so on as if there's some being out there or something to me is both not only incorrect intellectually but also experiencially. There really is no good excuse for not getting into sex. Especially if one is married one has no excuse for not giving in. And if you live in this world you should also indulge some other fantasies and whims while you're at it. This world is rare. This life is rarer. Indeed the huge dependencies of things which it took for any thing at all to occur is preposterous. Life itself is preposterous. 'Preposterous' is God. So also preposterous is life.
