--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "authfriend" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> > wrote: > <snip> > [I wrote:] > > > Giving the child a realistic approach to death and > > > dying, moreover, is not necessarily something that > > > can only be successfully accomplished if you start > > > at the age of 4. > > > > That's the story you tell yourself. I have seen evidence > > to the contrary. > > Read the words, please, Barry. Is what you go on > to say really "evidence to the contrary" of what I > wrote? > > > I had probably the best discussion in > > my *life* on the nature of death and dying with a four- > > year-old. She grew up to be a rather balanced and > > successful young woman. > > This was your daughter, right?
Nope. Don't have any kids of my own. This was the daughter of a friend, whom I helped to raise for many years. She grew into a lovely young woman. > <snip> > > > (Also, I wouldn't automatically take your word for > > > it that the Tibetan children were all that happy > > > or well adjusted.) > > > > I think we've established that you wouldn't take my > > word for it if I said the Earth revolved around the Sun. > > You'd assume I was lying. :-) That's another of the > > stories you tell yourself. :-) > > I just don't consider your judgment to be anything like > infallible. That's a story *you* tell *your*self. On the contrary, as I have stated many times before (and as you have chosen to disbelieve many times before), I assume that I am wrong about pretty much *every- thing*. That helps me when I state opinion X one day and then state opinion Y (completely contradictory) the next day. Both were my opinion at the time, from the respective state of attention in which they were stated. Neither has anything to do with truth or infallibility. It's *you* who has the hangup about consistency, remember? :-) To subscribe, send a message to: [EMAIL PROTECTED] Or go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/ and click 'Join This Group!' Yahoo! Groups Links <*> To visit your group on the web, go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/ <*> To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to: [EMAIL PROTECTED] <*> Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to: http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/