--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "Xenophaneros Anartaxius" 
<anartaxius@...> wrote:
I suppose I ought respond to a few of these comments. Perhaps Xeno has taken
leave of his senses.

> awoelflebater wrotes:

> So Xeno writes the other day to Judy:

> "I feel Barry is more spiritually advanced than Robin"

> This alone made my head spin. But just, for example, take a look at Robin's
commentary to Emily after she took his quiz yesterday (post 317866) and explain
to me how you could possibly argue for this point Xeno. What exactly is your
definition of spiritual? Maybe it is something I don't want to aspire to or can
view as a positive thing if that is your assessment. If spirituality has
anything whatsoever to the quality of heart, openness, willingness to
understand, desire to be transformed by truth and life, sensitivity to other
living creatures then, dear Xeno, I think you have miscalculated badly - your
assertion has missed the mark.

> Emily wrote:
> I found that an interesting statement, to say the least.

> raunchydog wrote:
> I'd missed this one, Em. What a hoot!

> Ravi wrote:
>
> ...I think Xeno, the frozen, immobile, sitting duck with his neo-advaita
platitudes, the one who used to serve as a target practice for me to whup his
ass any time, at my will, at my fancy, has finally stepped up the ante to fill
the huge, gaping, void left by His Holiness...

> ...This cold, heartless one has been brutally stung by my ambushes. And this
ultimately is a victory for me!!!

(Your ambushes, Ravi are particularly inept and unfocused and largely
self-congratulatory. But then that is Ravi!)

> ...Glory to Xeno - the Maitreya of Morons !!!

> salyavin808 wrote:
> I guess it boils down to that most curious trait that makes people in the TMO
(and perhaps other groups) ascribe enlightenment to people simply because they
like them.

First of all, I said 'I thought', meaning that is my opinion; I did not ascribe
enlightenment either to Robin or Barry. I said 'more spiritually advanced'. That
implies some relative difference in what I consider a person's understanding of
spirituality, but it does not imply what that value of advancement is, other
than I thought there was a difference. It does not imply how much the degree of
separation is either. Emily was kind enough to quote a few comments I made as
reasons for the choice I made.

It is based more on a feeling than anything else. If I had to trust someone to
watch my back, I would pick Barry over Robin. Fewer blades, and were one to fly,
Barry would be up front about it. I do not trust Robin. For whatever problems,
shortcomings, and curmudgeonly gripes Barry may have, he is far more direct than
Robin, Barry is calculating in many ways, to my mind, but Robin is cunning, and
that is danger. Further Robin has a history that is less than savoury in his
interactions with people. I do not know Barry's, but based on the interactions
here, my guess with normal people (that is, not us), he is a regular guy, maybe
a little crusty, but essentially normal. Here on FFL, our IDs (the monsters of
the ID) are not so restrained. Robin's does not appear to have been much
restrained. People who have the experience of slipping into unity or Brahman, to
use that term, seldom take and run with it. They are taken aback by it. It stuns
them. They sometimes think they have gone nuts, and are unsure, especially if
unprepared for the astonishing shift in awareness.

Robin, to my mind, and remember I am saying 'to my mind', I might be wrong in
this - is deeply attached to both himself as a person (ego), and to a particular
brand of theology, not sure exactly what, it seems kind of Catholic, but with
the Robin twist. Barry has basically flown the coop here regarding ideology, but
he is still practicing some form of meditation. Barry's ability to make fun of
all the holy holies of spiritual life has a certain insight into spiritual
puffery and ostentation. He has taken me on for this. But what that means is a
lot of spiritual baggage has fallen off from him. This does not mean
enlightenment. This does not mean he is a shining example of spirituality.
Nobody here even agrees what a shining example of spirituality is. Robin is
preloaded with plan, and eventually attempts to move one along that planned
path. Barry does not care, but if he gets you right, as he does sometimes, you
move, but not according to some preplanned path, he tries to get you to see your
inanities and peculiarities of belief. This is the difference between being
sucked into some kind of theology and experiencing spiritual spiritual growth.
Spiritual growth destroys your crap; it is not ultimately a respecter of what
you believe, because what you believe is just an idea in the mind about what is
real. Beliefs have a tenuous relationship with reality. You cannot get rid of
them all, but pruning is always in order. Barry takes pot shots at you. Robin
tries to suffocate you in his grasp. What Robin does does not feel liberating in
any way. It has some semblance to what some teachers of 'reality' do, but the
end result is different.

The reason I feel Barry is 'advanced' over Robin is I think there is less
obstruction in his mind as to what reality might really be, and thus, given the
right conditions, be more likely to slip into an enlightened realisation. Robin
of course says he already was, but it was a lie, and he destroyed it, but now
has another version of reality. If it had been real, there is nothing he could
have done to get rid of it, because it is not something you can acquire in the
first place. Robin has definitely had some profound mystical experiences, and he
is very into the metaphysical. But this is not to my mind really related to
spiritual growth. Enlightenment is not a special state of holiness, it does not
make you lord and master over others. It makes one realise what a total idiot
one has been in its pursuit. But the pursuit's 'goal', if consummated finally
settles one down, the mystery of life has a curious resolution without the
intrigue, or even the trials of life being sapped away. So the pointless pursuit
is felt to have been worthwhile. And then one can be just an ordinary person.
Robin does not want to be an ordinary person, he wants to be in some highest
state of personal ontology in relation to a metaphysical super being, and make
sure that you know that is the case, and that for you that is not the case.

Barry is pretty much a normal sort of person from what I can tell, in spite of
his pointed attacks on spiritual pomposity which can be perhaps a bit over
biting at times and his ongoing taunting of Judy and her supporters. But his
attack mode, if we characterise his writing style here, is also not the mindless
ad hominems of Ravi, or the fiendish snares of Robin's overtures.

Now Judy does not really talk about spirituality as such, so there is not much
way to even attempt such an evaluation of her - she is our editor. However I can
say I think I have learned more from interacting with Judy than with Robin. I do
find her annoying sometimes, but the first question I think I should ask myself
in such a situation is why do I feel that way? Being peeved at someone has two
loci - one's self and the other person.

Dear Xeno,

I can only pray that one of my disciples straightens you out in this. How could 
you possible say what you have said? I find this so insulting: imagine, placing 
Barry above ME? You have made a serious cosmic miscalculation, Xeno: I am so 
much smarter and cooler than Barry Baby. And I am disappointed you would make 
of me a public spectacle by essentially calling me out. I feel you have exposed 
me here, Xeno. And I don't like it one bit. Where is your compassion, your 
sympathy, your pity? I am angry at what you have done here, Xeno, and I shall 
try to find my revenge. I am currently at a loss to know what I should do; but 
never fear: there shall be consequences for this, Xeno. I know there are some 
persons on FFL who disagree with your comparison of Barry and me. Did you hear 
that, Xeno? Just because this is what you believe, that doesn't turn it into 
truth. And I shall just have to be satisfied with this consolation: that, after 
all, this is just your OPINION. But you have really hurt what I assumed I 
always was; your *friend*, Xeno. I hope you're happy now, Xeno. Thanks a lot!

Robin





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