No problem Jim. Simply a matter of which boundaries to cross. I have what I feel to be appropriate boundaries that I wouldn't cross, and you have yours. If I feel someone is out of bounds, I will say something, and then move on.
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, doctordumbass@... wrote: > > Give me a break, Steve. You have become so accustomed to Barry's lack of accountability and distortion, that you are coming after ME?? > > Yes, I always act with integrity, and if I sometimes communicate in a provocative way, that tramples boundaries, so be it. I have nothing to apologize for. As I said, my point was to illustrate the instability and antisocial nature of Barry's personality. To do that, I had to address Barry the same way he addresses others. Like I said, but you don't want to hear it, if you want to get an asshole's attention, you must emulate them. > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "seventhray27" steve.sundur@ wrote: > > > > > > > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, doctordumbass@ wrote: > > > > > > I specifically targeted Barry, and his punching his brother in the > > stomach, because I wanted to respond to him, as he does others, and get > > his attention. I would do exactly the same thing again, if necessary. > > Instead of getting my point, the best be could do was criticize the fact > > that my brother was gay, and that I could be too. > > > > > > I was shocked by his juvenile response, though perhaps in a quiet > > moment, he will recognize he is mostly fighting with himself on here. > > > > > > I also find it fascinating that this guy, who will fling a ball of > > shit at someone, faster than a chimpanzee, is so so very delicate and > > such a wounded child, within. He actually feels that I am not responding > > to him, but have a vendetta *against* him. Pretty fucking sick. > > > > > > My comments about Barry sharing the same DNA as his crazy brother were > > not meant to be all that funny, just a pointer to his unstable and > > antisocial tendencies, and a possible reason for same. > > > > glad for the clarification Jim and for letting us know how "above board" > > and "honorable" you are for bringing a family member's suicide into the > > discussion here. > > > > > > > > > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "Ann" awoelflebater@ wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb wrote: > > > > > > > > > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > turq, I'm sorry about your brother. It sounds like you > > > > > > cared about him a lot. Hope you all had some good times too. > > > > > > > > > > He was a funny guy, and yes, we had some good times > > > > > before the alcoholism got to him. It's a scary disease, > > > > > and alcohol-induced psychosis is even scarier. But I > > > > > don't want to talk about him here, because Judy and > > > > > Richard and Jim will just find some way to use anything > > > > > said the way they already have...as just another tactic > > > > > in their "get Barry" vendettas. > > > > > > > > AIDS and alcohol-induced psychosis. Two dead brothers, two brothers > > left to grieve in their own ways. Not a subject to take lightly or to > > use to hurt each other. I have a dead sister who drowned as an indirect > > result of alcohol. Also not something to use against anyone. I think we > > can all agree on this. My condolences to you both. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > >
