--In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, <sharelong60@...> wrote : Emily, I didn't and don't deny having any emotion. I questioned the value of expressing it here. I also disagree with various opinions and assessments of me. That is not denial either.
C: I find it completely outrageous that Share is choosing what questions she answers and how she expresses herself here. Bravo to the committee that is trying to help her see that she is not enough of one thing and too much of another. She should stop resisting the unflattering view of herself that is being offered to her about herself and should accept the higher wisdom of people who post their opinions of her on FFL who do not like her. Share you should be ashamed of yourself for the way people who post here see you through the unflattering lens of unfriendliness. From now on Miss Missy, I expect you to answer every question posed to you, then accept every criticism sent your way for how you answered it as a fact about yourself that you don't see, but the people who are unfriendly toward you see clearly and with your best interest in mind. Their contempt for you is a form of good intention toward you, so you must take them seriously and lower you self-esteem accordingly. I also find it deplorable that you continue to seem unaffected by your critics. You should be cowering before their mighty perspective on you. Also the blouse you are wearing does not go with those shoes. And your hair could use a little attention from a brush. Stop looking at me funny. You made me do this. On Friday, June 13, 2014 10:46 AM, "emilymaenot@... [FairfieldLife]" <FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com> wrote: Defending oneself through denial is *not* "as positive a way as possible." It's a simple case of someone saying to someone who is yelling...."You sound angry." The person responds...."I AM NOT ANGRY." lol ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, <steve.sundur@...> wrote : you know, I think you have to give someone a little wiggle room in expressing themself. I would not call Share's comment expressing a "negative emotion". I would call it defending oneself in as positive a way a possible. Not that she has to defend herself, but if she cared to respond, then I think she expressed herself clearly. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, <emilymaenot@...> wrote : I don't think she does! [Note: Share, do you get how what you said demonstrated Fleetfoot's point?] She would have to acknowledge that she might be engaging in a negative feeling. Oh no...that is not O.K.! Particularly here on FFL (smile)! ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, <authfriend@...> wrote : Bingo. Do you think she really doesn't know she's doing just what he described? ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, <awoelflebater@...> wrote : ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, <sharelong60@...> wrote : Yeah, Fleetwood, I see how you enjoy turq's and Xeno's posts so much! I see the nature of your so called enjoyment! Thanks for proving Mac's point. On Thursday, June 12, 2014 5:44 PM, "fleetwood_macncheese@... [FairfieldLife]" <FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com> wrote: I enjoy everything I read here, even when I disagree with it. I was noticing your passive aggressive nature, on here, Share, and wanted you to know, as a helpful hint, that your repressed anger leaks out, even when you think you are hiding it. Makes no difference to me, what you do about it, if anything. I won't be holding my breath. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, <sharelong60@...> wrote : Fleetwood, again, if someone doesn't enjoy my posts, for whatever reason, then why are they even reading them?! On Thursday, June 12, 2014 9:37 AM, "fleetwood_macncheese@... [FairfieldLife]" <FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com> wrote: Oh, I strongly disagree, Share - You definitely express negative emotions on here, plenty of them. Just not in a straightforward way. Passive aggressively. Repression, or rationalization, doesn't work with that shit. Invariably, the negativity leaks out, and like many who have been admonished for expressing such things, it can be quite an internal battle. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, <sharelong60@...> wrote : Fleetwood, I don't see the value of expressing negative emotions here. If that means others think I'm dishonest and avoid me, that's their choice. <snip>
