Judy: "You were wrong in your first impression of what I wrote--that I was accusing you of putting down women--and I haven't seen you admit that."
Judy from an earlier post: "No, no, "booty," as in plunder, prize, the spoils of conquest; "knock" as in knock down, conquer, take for oneself." Me: Yeah, I don't know how I would have interpreted this as a putdown on me for having a bad attitude about women. It might have been the words you used and their meaning. As far as my own malicious digs back at you, you are right. We have a shitty communication dynamic and I take responsibility for my part of it. --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "authfriend" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "curtisdeltablues" > <curtisdeltablues@> wrote: > > > > Judy: > > > It's one thing when you're young and foolish and > > > don't know any better--I had more than my share > > > of casual sex when I was that age, believe me--but > > > quite another when you're still bragging about it > > > decades later as if you never got beyond it. > > > > > > Me: > > There was no triumphalist tone Judy. > > Oh, nonsense, of course there was. > > You made it all up. All my > > "boot knocking" at MIU was in the context of relationships, I was > > never into casual sex since relationship sex is much better for me. > > You made up a put down, and having been called on it, you are > > attempting to continue your farce. You were wrong about the > > words and what I meant, and even after that is proven to you, you > > hold on to your malicious agenda. It was a throwaway line for > > people with a sense of humor, only you would try to twist it into > > a putdown of me. > > You mean, the way you tried to twist what I wrote > to start with into a slam at you for putting down > women? Not to mention your insinuation that I > don't enjoy sex much. You aren't exactly in a > position to be self-righteous about "malicious > agendas." > > I'm not sure how you have "proved" anything to me. > You've made a claim about what you actually meant. > > > Our class at MIU was mostly just out of high school, normal college > > kids. We were not exposed to the celibacy weirdness that came > later. > > So we had normal relationships and had sex like normal college > kids. > > The later classes of MIU got the "sex is bad" message so they were > > conflicted about having sex, even in the context of committed > > relationships. So my class had the most sex because we had not yet > > bee messed up my movement superstitions about sex as losing magic > > energy. So your point was a made-up put down, and you can't admit > > you were wrong like a decent person > > You were wrong in your first impression of what I > wrote--that I was accusing you of putting down > women--and I haven't seen you admit that. > > And I haven't had a *chance* to admit I was wrong > about what *I* actually meant until this post. I'm > happy to take your claim in the post I'm responding > to at face value and acknowledge that I misunderstood > what you were getting at. > > I guess I was misled by some of your previous > remarks, and those of a couple of the other men > here, which have seemed to me to put a premium on > sex for its own sake. That isn't what you were doing > in this post. I should have commented on those > earlier ones rather than waiting until this post. > To subscribe, send a message to: [EMAIL PROTECTED] Or go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/ and click 'Join This Group!' Yahoo! Groups Links <*> To visit your group on the web, go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/ <*> Your email settings: Individual Email | Traditional <*> To change settings online go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/join (Yahoo! ID required) <*> To change settings via email: mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] <*> To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to: [EMAIL PROTECTED] <*> Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to: http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/