--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "curtisdeltablues" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > > Judy: > > It's one thing when you're young and foolish and > > don't know any better--I had more than my share > > of casual sex when I was that age, believe me--but > > quite another when you're still bragging about it > > decades later as if you never got beyond it. > > > Me: > There was no triumphalist tone Judy.
Oh, nonsense, of course there was. You made it all up. All my > "boot knocking" at MIU was in the context of relationships, I was > never into casual sex since relationship sex is much better for me. > You made up a put down, and having been called on it, you are > attempting to continue your farce. You were wrong about the > words and what I meant, and even after that is proven to you, you > hold on to your malicious agenda. It was a throwaway line for > people with a sense of humor, only you would try to twist it into > a putdown of me. You mean, the way you tried to twist what I wrote to start with into a slam at you for putting down women? Not to mention your insinuation that I don't enjoy sex much. You aren't exactly in a position to be self-righteous about "malicious agendas." I'm not sure how you have "proved" anything to me. You've made a claim about what you actually meant. > Our class at MIU was mostly just out of high school, normal college > kids. We were not exposed to the celibacy weirdness that came later. > So we had normal relationships and had sex like normal college kids. > The later classes of MIU got the "sex is bad" message so they were > conflicted about having sex, even in the context of committed > relationships. So my class had the most sex because we had not yet > bee messed up my movement superstitions about sex as losing magic > energy. So your point was a made-up put down, and you can't admit > you were wrong like a decent person You were wrong in your first impression of what I wrote--that I was accusing you of putting down women--and I haven't seen you admit that. And I haven't had a *chance* to admit I was wrong about what *I* actually meant until this post. I'm happy to take your claim in the post I'm responding to at face value and acknowledge that I misunderstood what you were getting at. I guess I was misled by some of your previous remarks, and those of a couple of the other men here, which have seemed to me to put a premium on sex for its own sake. That isn't what you were doing in this post. I should have commented on those earlier ones rather than waiting until this post. To subscribe, send a message to: [EMAIL PROTECTED] Or go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/ and click 'Join This Group!' Yahoo! Groups Links <*> To visit your group on the web, go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/ <*> Your email settings: Individual Email | Traditional <*> To change settings online go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/join (Yahoo! ID required) <*> To change settings via email: mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] <*> To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to: [EMAIL PROTECTED] <*> Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to: http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/
