--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "Rick Archer" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > > From: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] > On Behalf Of authfriend > Sent: Sunday, March 25, 2007 12:26 AM > To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com > Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Heart-stopping > > > > > That's sweet, Judy. To me that reveals that you have a good > > heart. I would suggest to your critics that much of what they > > criticize in your behavior is an expression of emotional > > wounds, either fresh or old, which we all possess to some > > degree, and which can only be healed by love. If we were all as > > loving as we might potentially be, we could avoid reacting > > in kind when you speak harshly, and help you heal those wounds. > > I'm saying this sincerely, without any condescension or judgment. > > I often hear Amma say things like this. > > And I would suggest you leave it to Amma to say > things like this. I'm sure she *can* say them > without condescension or judgment and with > sincerity; and I suspect as well that she's a > whole lot better at seeing into people's hearts > than you are. > > Way better. And I really did mean what I said as a compliment.
Next time, leave it at the compliment. And look to your own emotional wounds, because I'm not loving enough to react pleasantly to this kind of passive-aggressive garbage. Sorry if I > wasn't able to express it well. >
