hi all, ha ha ha. a gay from behind and straigt--ish from front. bj --- maiaurmerasaya <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
> Huh! That brings us a brand new topic for > discussion.....are you a PART TIME GAY or a FULL > TIME GAY??...anyones interested??...:-) > > ........a stevie wonder sequel to PART TIME > LOVER?? > > > > > > > Sumeet Mehra <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > Hey Guys! > > Thanks Angel! > > Guys who agree or disagree with me, just go and > watch broke back moutain. > In this movie there is gay couple who after > departing from each other get married to female. > Both have kids. They both are living very > responsible lives, as a husband and even as a > father. Then after 4 years the guys happen to meet > again. They again enter into realation, without > their woman knowing it. But one guy's female come to > know and after some years she breaks the relation. > But the other guy's female is not aware and so she > is happy with his man. This is no more just my view > point but now even others agree. > > Look guys if you want to marry...go ahead. If you > dont want to then don't, but dont give lame excuse > that you cant spoil any girls life. You are by no > means God that you can make any one's life good or > bad. Stop treating your self as God. > > Why stick on to just one identify as Gay when one > is not gay for all 24hrs? Like woman even man is a > son, brother, father, husband, so what if one more > thing added gay. I think we can fulfill all > relations properly. I dont say one must ignore > family. Yes family comes first. But when you want to > live for yourself for a while in a day, which > everyone does, do whatever you like. Thats where I > think we make a difference. So guys just by carrying > a bit difference in our preference of sex, why do we > want to run away from our social as well as family > responsibilty. > > Cheers! > Sumeet. > > > Android Angel <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > Hey Summet, > > I can very well understand what you mean to say. > Some of the members here confusing keeping secret as > cheating. But then they fail to understand what > indian culture means so far still in some families > where family values don't see personal space > destroying them. > > Also I have become a fan of ur thought process ( > no sympathy or surrender). At least I will look > forward to ur mails without skipping them for any > topics u post it. > > Angel > > > Sumeet Mehra <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > Hey Sonub! > > I clearly mentioned that its my point of view. > Again the man was in need of help. I tried helping > him the way I felt appropriate. What have you helped > him with? I have certainly not made you my judge. > Again I dont require you consent to be in this list. > > For guys like you is easy to say. Its rightly said > "Its easy to be brave from far." > You are just behaving like a spectator. Want to > see how the person is getting destroyed. None of you > guys can lend a helping hand to those guys like him. > > Have you ever thought why guys marry? > and, Why gays marry? > > No gay marry's willingly. You might be having > different family atmosphere and might be from broad > minded society. And if you are from conservative > family, as you mentioned, then you are very selfish. > And again being a gay what big achievement have you > made? Increased the list of guys with whom you got > around, at cost of your parents health, who have > giving you birth and made you capable enough to > stand on your feet and oppose them? > > "For those of you who are married...you can spend > the rest of your life "adjusting" and "rubbing your > wife's cheeks" or acknowledge the clossal mistake > you have made and go your separate ways. Acknowledge > that you are "not a perfect husband like heteros" > and a hetro is what any straight woman deserves, > while you are respnsible for denying her that." > > Adjustment is part of every one's life. We all > have to adjust in every walk of life, be it work > field, family, friends so what big deal if its > marriage. Every one is doing that. Even hetros have > to do. For your and others information: woman have > more sexual desire than man. Thus even hetros find > it diffucult in satisfying woman. > A woman's appetite is twice that > of a man's; her sexual desire, four times; her > intelligence, eight times > But anyways why am I banging my head with you? To > who ever I wanted to help, its reached. Even other > guys have liked my advise. I am not concerned with > guys like you. Your attitude is very selfish. You > just think about your self. > > Infact I have found people like you in this group. > You'll live in fantasies. You'll have just one thing > to say "How can you spoil a girl's life?" But its > what you feel. Your point of view. > Unlike hetros we dont have mutiple females. One > woman one life. More dedicated towards her. Atleast > we have a family. Because Nature's rule-man and > woman only can give birth to a child, no two > gays/lesbains can ever give birth to a child. This > truth no one can deny. > > One side you show you dont want to spoil any > girl's life and other side what are you doing with > your parents? > > Actually you dont want to marry a girl because > then you will be deprived from your freedom of > having sex with guys. You are actually not concerned > neither with your parents nor with anyone else. Its > only to show world how good you are and what good > thoughts you have. Because if you would be really > concerned and responsible then you would certainly > not let your parents be in misery, as you mentioned. > Guys like you run away from responsibilties. You may > have many excuses to prove your self right, but > excuses are after excuses. > But the bottom line is that you are wrong. > I do not want to argue any further on this topic. > > Regards, > Sumeet > > > Sonub Jalan <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: Arent you > contradicting yourself? "Sex is in the mind" and > "still at heart we are gay"...who are you fooling? > If you have indeed attained intimacy with your wife > (proving that it is possible) then why the need to > be here? > > I dont know under what circumstances you have had > to marry and I will not like to sit in judgement of > your actions. But this is definitely not the advise > you can give to people who are under pressure to get > married to a woman. What such people (people like > me) need to know is that you will then be using a > woman's life to experiment. You are living in > denial about what you and she needs and someday you > will not be able to live the pretence any longer. > > For those of you who are married...you can spend > the rest of your life "adjusting" and "rubbing your > wife's cheeks" or acknowledge the clossal mistake > you have made and go your separate ways. Acknowledge > that you are "not a perfect husband like heteros" > and a hetro is what any straight woman deserves, > while you are respnsible for denying her that. > > And then maybe some of you married guys have been > lucky in that your wife has waited long enough for > you to "get physical as if it means nothing to you > as would between two friends". I know of women who > kicked the living daylights out of their husbands > for not being good enough. Lots of rounds to > hospitals to cure their impotency. So dont you dare > make your plight a general rule. > > Get real guys. While the honourable GB list jury > is still out on whether true love is possible in the > gay world, I believe it is better to be alone than > to live a lie. > > I have fought really hard not to marry, being the > only son in a very conservative family. It has > affected my parents health and been the cause of a > lot of tension in my family. But I would rather > live with this than a wife with whom I need to > develop === message truncated === __________________________________________________ Do You Yahoo!? Tired of spam? Yahoo! Mail has the best spam protection around http://mail.yahoo.com Group Site: http://www.gaybombay.info ========================== This message was posted to the gay_bombay Yahoo! Group. Responses to messages (by clicking "Reply") will also be posted on the eGroup and sent to all members. If you'd like to respond privately to the author of any message then please compose and send a new email message to the author's email address. 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