This talk about TOP< BOTTOM< VERSATILE etc. has been stretched too long...........
So, I see no harm in adding my bit, based on my observations...... Bottoms or Passive role adaptors are often clueless how to handle a male to male interaction physically but do feel strongly thrilled with the idea. If they find a Top, they let him do the "needful" adjusting well to the situation and enjoying it too ! The same guys are at ease as Tops in a Heterosexual relationship with virtally 100 % success and ease.... Tops are mostly Pure Gays ! They get a turn-on, excitement n thrill in company of a male only, mostly a passive one. They also love rugged , muscular, sporty and middle-aged guys, indulge in rough love-making and get thrill out of bondage, S & M etc. Such guys fail to even fake it in company of a female.....as is obvious by their failure to get a hard-on ! Versatiles are the ones who get turned on by any situation. For them Homo,Hetero, Bi, Transvestite, Transgender.....any and everything goes ! For them their self-gratification comes from any possible source....and have full capacity to adapt to them. Finally pure heteros are 100% comfortable with females; and if situation permits, go for a cute smooth passive guy whom they handle while fantasizing about a female's company...........They do not prefer body builders, rugged, masculine, hairy or middle-aged partners. The soft n smooth twinks turn them on like any female partner. If the guy in their company starts getting passionate and active, they immediately loose erection ! Hope many of us will agree to my observations.... M. : > Hi Cooper! > > I do agree with aditya's views about this group. > Many may agree with > your choices and many wont. But I guess its a free > world and every > one has the right to have their own judgement of > whats right and > whats wrong. As for me Im a Bisexual but Lean more > towards the > Homosexual side. I donot see myself living with a > guy as Husband and > husband (or what ever terminology). When I visualize > myself when my > mother is no more... I can feel the vacuum existing > because of the > absence of a women. No I dont need a women so that I > can USE her to > satisfy my emotional needs. But I believe that I can > find a women to > whom I could disclose my sexual orientation and live > a peaceful > life. What if my wife is a bisexual herself... > > Many might disagree with my views, but I would like > to state taht I > am not against their views. I am not opposed to > lifetime committed > gay couples, Infact I appreciate them. But this is > what I feel > personally. > > > Regards, > Rajeev > > --- In gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com, "Aditya > Bondyopadhyay" > <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > > > > Dear Cooper, > > Please join in. Personally I do know of many > Bisexual people who > are on this > > list. But one trend that I have noticed in the > past is that when > gay men > > criticize some manifestations of biexuality [like > cheating on your > wife by > > not disclosing that you are bisexual, while at the > same time not > giving your > > fife that same freedom of sexual exploration - OR > - getting > married when > > there is no intention of fulfilling the marital > vows, but only to > satisfy > > social pressures or mores], bisexual people often > cannot take it > in their > > stride and in the right spirit. they take an > attack on cheating and > > mala-fide intent to be an attack on bisexuality > itself. This > attitude is > > inane at least and extremely selfish at worst. > > > > However, in this list people have the right to > express themselves > and also > > to criticise what they feel is not OK. if you have > it in you to > take that > > and keep it at a dialogue, without acting the > injured bloke or the > wilting > > lily, or for that matter making it into a slanging > match, I am > certain that > > people would not have any problem with you being > here. > > > > Another thing that I have noticed is that you have > repeatedly sent > out an > > almost identical message at least three times. > Seems like you are > wanting to > > have a response so that you can create either a > discussion string > or a > > debate. However after the first round, not many > have replied to > yuo. That is > > the other pitfall of being in a public fora like > this. You do not > > necessarily always get a reply. there is a big > probability of you > being > > ignored as well. You have to also learn to take > that imn your > stride and not > > feel let down because of it. > > > > Hope you have a good time obn this list. > > > > best regards > > > > Aditya Bondyopadhyay > > > > > > On 18/11/06, doc cop <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > hi > > > > > > hav recently joined the group > > > > > > infact am still not sure from where i got the > initial invitation > for the > > > gaybombay group > > > > > > as i intoduced myself earlier > > > > > > i am not GAY > > > > > > i am bisexual > > > > > > and after interacting with a large number of > poeple i am very > sure that > > > gays and bisexuals are two absolutely differant > personalities > > > > > > have been following the conversations of lately > > > > > > and hav been chipping in my views > > > > > > but all is not as simple as it sounds > > > > > > and as someone rightly said yesterday that we > cannot compare any > two or > > > three groups as poeple in the groups itself are > indivisuals with > a large > > > range of variation in personality nature and > needs > > > > > > but before i proceed with my views,i wanted to > know if the > conversation is > > > for GAYS onluy or BISEXUALS can join too > > > > > > hope we are not UNWElCOME > > > > > > bye > > > > > > cooper > > > ===================== this group is a LGBT group > as it says on > home page. > > > that means it is for lesbians, gays, bi-sexual, > trans-gender. so > you are > > > welcome to posts your views. it is not necessary > that you will > have everyone > > > agreeing with your views. but then that should > not stop you from > expressing > > > your views. so go ahead and start emailing:) > regards moderator > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > -- > > Aditya Bondyopadhyay > > > > > > > > > Group Site: > > http://www.gaybombay.info > ========================== > This message was posted to the gay_bombay Yahoo! > Group. 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