I’ll disagree with you on the point here.  The tone I referred to was one that 
I attempt to avoid using myself.  I don’t feel that it is conducive to 
discussion when used by males or females.  On the topic of the Gender Gap.  
Thanks to the awesome help of Sarah, I just created 5 articles about the 100 
most powerful women in the world.  I’m also drafting a letter to the editor to 
be sent to the Daily Pennsylvanian to encourage female participation on 
Wikipedia.  On the topic of Wikinews, it’s a writing style that I’m not 
comfortable with.  I’m a very poor writer in general (still putting off my 
writing seminar) so trying to manage multiple writing styles is too much.

 

Ryan

 

From: gendergap-boun...@lists.wikimedia.org 
[mailto:gendergap-boun...@lists.wikimedia.org] On Behalf Of Laura Hale
Sent: Sunday, August 26, 2012 3:40 PM
To: Increasing female participation in Wikimedia projects
Subject: Re: [Gendergap] Reminder of Feminism Article Alerts

 

Hate to be a pain... but Ryan, your comments and the comments by another male 
on the list, they make me feel uncomfortable as the tone argument is one 
historically used to repress women and to silence them.

 

As women in western cultures, many of us have been culturally indoctrinated to 
be loud, pushy and abrasive in order to get things accomplished.  If we just go 
along with the flow, we cannot get things accomplished that men could get 
accomplished.  This is a historical thing, and I would hope as a man on a list 
like this, you would be aware of the historical backdrop for which your comment 
sits.

 

I find nothing wrong with Carol's tone and I find it troubling that the people 
who do are all men, and that men continue to dominate the conversation with out 
having provided any real evidence of their value to improving the gendergap or 
any evidence of having learned lessons from this list... such as, you know, 
using the tone argument to historically repress women and how it really looks 
when men appear to gang up on a woman to do that.

 

Now, that may not be your intent, and I assuming you were acting in good faith 
in making your comment... but now you know. :)  And hopefully, you will use 
fewer arguments used to historically repress female voices. :)

 

Anyway, what gendergap work have you been doing lately Ryan?  We miss you on 
Wikinews and would love to have you writing articles about women over there. :)

 

Sincerely,

Laura Hale

 



Sent from my iPad


On 26/08/2012, at 7:11 PM, "Ryan Vesey" <rdjve...@gmail.com> wrote:

Carol, I have to point out that I added myself to the gender gap list because I 
want to help reduce it; however, comments you make are pushing me to remove 
myself.  Your attitude when it comes to feminism is combative.  Taking a 
combative stance doesn’t help your argument.

 

Ryan Vesey

 

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[mailto:gendergap-boun...@lists.wikimedia.org] On Behalf Of Thomas Morton
Sent: Sunday, August 26, 2012 11:38 AM
To: Increasing female participation in Wikimedia projects
Subject: Re: [Gendergap] Reminder of Feminism Article Alerts

 

What I am taking personally is your assertion that we nominated these articles 
for some anti-female agenda. 

 

Which you continue to do by suggesting my characterisation of your argument as 
ridiculous is due to you being a woman.

 

The irony of then telling me not to take it personally is... Ah, well.. 

 

Of course I take personally being characterised as holding offensive views. 

 

The point was; I am educating you about the sorts of things that put people off 
editing. I am a big believer in making wikipedia a welcoming place, and your 
comments characterise the unfortunate low level nastiness that often puts 
people off. I am sure it was unintended, hence the explanation. 

Tom Morton


On 26 Aug 2012, at 17:28, Carol Moore DC <carolmoor...@verizon.net> wrote:

As a female I've been called ridiculous for having an opinion so many times I 
don't even know what it means anymore :-)

But seriously, it's not like the nominator said:"I'm on the GenderGap list and 
here's why I think this list would agree these articles should be deleted... "

Don't take rejections of AfD nominations so personally...

CM

On 8/26/2012 11:50 AM, Thomas Morton wrote:

 

On 26 Aug 2012, at 16:36, Carol Moore DC <carolmoor...@verizon.net> wrote:

Questionable just means one has questions.  So it's nice, unlike the other 
words which I was contrasting with questionable - not using to describe my 
specific questions on specific articles in that particular AfD list.  See:

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wikipedia:WikiProject_Feminism/Article_alerts 

But frankly I do wonder why two people on this list nominate brand new articles 
related to women for deletion rather than improving them.  

HOWEVER --  the specifics should be discussed at the relevant AfD pages, so if 
this little dust up gets people there, goody goody!! :-)

CM

 

 

Wow. What a ridiculous way to say "yes". Ive always found you to be switched on 
and relevant in the past; but looking over your contributions to those AFDs it 
feels like your certain the aim is to remove these articles because we are 
anti-women. And for no other reason.  

 

This is the sort of thing that puts women off editing Wikipedia and I am happy 
to call it out. 

Tom

 

 

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