--- In [email protected], Know Mystery <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > sorry ts, but you continue to be wrong and you continue to project your own stuff onto me. > until you can step back and see your pattern of doing that, there will be no lasting peace. > > what people so often complain about in others is their own dislike for their own traits - you are just seeing yourself in the mirror... not me... you don't have the capacity to see me at all... ~~~ "no matter what we talk about ... we talk about ourselves." good advice you give joyce ... listen to it. or does it only apply to "others"? too close to it to see it applying to yourself? take a step back. i have admitted to my shortcomeings. you still deny yours. you have them too ... cop to it. i am offering you a chance to work through the process along with me. i have no fear of doing so. how abut you? i don't mind being a fool. how abut you? that's the first step. not minding. ~~~ "I" Have nothing� Nothing to attack Nothing to achieve Nothing to maintain Nothing to forgive; Nothing to expect Nothing to believe. No one to defend -yosy the fool- ~~~ > someone here, a friend, said that the recent behavior here - your acting up and people turning their heads and condoning your foul language and behavior was something to be chalked up as Boys WIll be Boys. > > Well, "Boys", happy? > > joyce ~~~ yes. very happy. this process has resolved a great deal for me. i now understand how i have been allowing you to "pull my stings" and push my buttons ... now and in the past. no blame. my fault. i accept full responsibility for my "responces". i have taken an honest look at my reactions and what causes them to arise. i have seen them. this is a good thing. it may not always be pleasant ... growing pains are just that ... painful. no pain, no gain. so yes ... i am very happy. and you? am "i" making you unhappy joyce? take a step back. see it for what it is. come on in ... the water's fine. -ts- ------------------------ Yahoo! Groups Sponsor --------------------~--> Give hope to a child. Helping a needy child is easier than you think. Click here to meet someone who needs your help. http://us.click.yahoo.com/hq3f6C/iJlJAA/i1hLAA/wDkolB/TM --------------------------------------------------------------------~-> Yahoo! Groups Links <*> To visit your group on the web, go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/HolyGeek/ <*> To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to: [EMAIL PROTECTED] <*> Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to: http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/
