colin wrote: > The abusee gets scapegoated. At the very least > they are made to feel bad, like they are making > a fuss over nothing.
In my posts about Marcel, it was not my intention to minimize the experiences of anyone else, but to share my own experience with and impressions of him which were quite different from those of the people who complained about him. I apologize if this offended anyone. I'd really like to know what has been going on. This post from colin saying that the list is not longer a safe place, and the one yesterday from Kate about verbal abuse and the one from Kakki agreeing with her and colin leave me wondering what is going on and who is victimizing whom. Can somebody clue me in here? I'm not very good at reading between the lines! Marian [EMAIL PROTECTED] http://www.jmdl.com/guitar/marian/guitar.htm
