Colin wrote, among other things, in response to me: " But doesn't the ultimate root of the illness/negativity lie elsewhere?
no. it lies with all concerned. Personal responsibility means us too!" Colin, I agree wholeheartedly with your last sentence. And I agree with much of what you wrote. My point is that sometimes the "jerks" get let off the hook a little too easily. I'd just like to see people take a little more responsibility, in general, for the effects of their behavior on others. It's on my wish list--just as my hope that this war can be averted is on my wish list. That doesn't mean I expect it to happen anytime soon. Mary P.
