At the age of 28, I went to our local off licence (which I visited regularly
with the children)  to buy a bottle of cider.  It was the first time I was
asked and it had been legal for me to buy alcohol for 10 years.  I had
nothing with me to prove my age, but managed to purchase the cider anyway -
probably more the result of my shocked response that I was 28 than anything.
Don't think it would be a problem now, as at 38 I am definately going grey -
and my husband just cannot understand why I don't want to dye it.

Age is notoriously difficult to estimate.  I once worked in a library, where
senior citizens (as they were then called) were entitled to waived fines on
overdue books and we had to check their library tickets for eligibility.
The number of times I had to apologise for asking to see the library ticket
of those who were under the age limit.  At least apologising to those where
I had underestimated the age and asked for the money was easier.  It wasn't
just me that had the problem either.

Karen,
in Coventry

Ruth wrote:  Then I was very small and skinny when I was a young adult - and
was so annoyed
when people thought I was still a teenager when in fact I was in my twenties
and married!!   The crowning indignity was when, with a toddler by the hand
and
the newest baby on my hip, I went into the local butcher's shop to be asked:
"what can I do for you, girlie??"

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