This is why a “community gathering” space is so important in a new Community 
Center. I was happy to see that in all the options, there is now a space that 
is labeled “community gathering” because not everyone wants to sign up for an 
exercise program, learn a new language, or join a specific program. Many people 
just want to see another human being, especially if they live alone. A space 
with cozy and comfortable chairs that facilitates this is sorely needed in 
Lincoln.

> On Oct 7, 2023, at 11:43 AM, Sara Mattes <samat...@gmail.com> wrote:
> 
> What is the likelihood you would meet any of these folks at a Hartwell CC, 
> between the hours of 9:30 AM and 3:30 PM?
> 
> We meet at events like you have just described - at DeCordova, at Pierce 
> House ( First Day, 4 th of July), at Codman Farm, at the Library, and 
> sometimes at events at the schools ( Town Meeting, eg), and Winter Carnival.
> …just a few examples.
> 
> 
> …just a reality check.
> 
> Sent from my iPad
> 
>> On Oct 7, 2023, at 6:05 AM, Anne Sobol <anne.so...@gmail.com> wrote:
>> 
>> 
>> The Twisted Tree at DeCordova was open last night from 5-9. I arrived at 6 
>> and was disappointed not to see anyone in my age group (over 75), but I 
>> bought an interesting non-alcoholic drink and went out on the terrace to 
>> mingle with the young adults and their beautiful, active children. A woman 
>> with a lovely little daughter said she'd met me at the dump (how Lincoln!), 
>> and we commenced to talk about how we had both grown up in Lincoln (I in the 
>> '50's, she I think she said in the '90's). We both had lived in California 
>> when Covid hit in 2020, and ended up moving back to Lincoln. She told me 
>> about her work and we discussed how we found Lincoln after living in 
>> California. She asked me for my contact info and we agreed to get together 
>> for coffee in the future.
>> 
>> I went into the shop to get a plastic cup for the remains of my drink, and 
>> struck up conversation with a man and his wife, both more or less my age, 
>> who were waiting in line (the only other people my age I saw while I was 
>> there, they in the company of their family and small children). He was into 
>> the Hanscom expansion opposition, and we had an animated conversation until 
>> I felt I had to leave to get ready for a trip in the morning. We exchanged 
>> info about where we lived and they invited me to stop by.
>> 
>> When people ask me what I want in a Community Center, I say a place to meet 
>> people without a specific date. This is what I got at the Twisted Tree 
>> DeCordova last night. I haven't related to the often-mentioned notion of 
>> intergenerational mixing in the context of a Community Center, but I enjoyed 
>> last night mixing with younger people and their children.
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