It is very useful to have the toolbar automatically opened, this increases the working speed enormously. If I'm out of the table the toolbar disappears and doesn't consume window space. So what is annoying or irritating with this behaviour from your point of you.
Hi, just to give my 2c: I think a nice way to handle diverging points of view of this kind is to make the feature optional. Well, there still can be discussion as to whether it should be enabled or disabled by default, but democracy can easily solve that. As far as I'm concerned I'd love those automatic toolbars. g