On Sun, Sep 09, 2018 at 11:24:38AM -0500, Ed Ahlsen-Girard wrote: > > While you should not take technical advice on mail servers from me, > I've raised two kids to adulthood with a 17 year old to go, and had > almost 200 foster children. > > The impedance mismatch you have with the missus is more important than > the mail. > Yeah, I know, and maybe I am exaggerating it in this discourse. Her words are, "they can have all the privacy they want when they are 18" and I don't feel that is a completely practical stand point. And in fact her own experience should tell her that might not be the best approach.
I think what I want is something that I could monitor if need be, but would rather not. I am starting to lean more towards either paying for email service or paying for something that is a stronger parental control for all of their devices. My bigger concern is the link jacking porn sites can do. I recall once in the 90's mistyping msnbc.com at work and the carnage from a site called cafe flesh that came out. Ken
