Does your Dad perceive or admit to a problem? Maybe the first person to
see someone else might be your Mom?
Well, Joan you have guessed it. He doesn't really admit to any problem. If my Mom gets too pushy with him, he will ask her what she wants him to do. If she says something like put up a birdfeeder and clean the mildew ( its a humidity thing, you probably don't have mildew on garages in Alberta ) off the side of the garage, he readily agrees and might even follow through. If she said anything like talk about whats bothering him he would not be happy that she mentioned it and certainly would not comply. She is the one who voices a need for changes, what kind of help would you think of for her? -- Jody
