Dear Mary
The other question that comes to mind is also
a reflection on what we claim as midwives to believe.
1) That child birth is normal life event so
when else do we feel we need to take a pulse or other checks that all
is as it appears normal?
2) That it is the woman' s birth and preganacy & we are there as her advocates, it is a partnership of trust and empowerment. How empowering is it for us to take FH to allay our
fears and keep us in the loop as to when to expedite the
birth?
The woamn is giving birth not us & she needs to be in tune with her body and her baby not what we need to do to allay our fears, or those of our hierachies. Adrenaline is contagious & inhibititing in
labour!
There are more signs that all is well than a FH and
also there are signs that all is not well besides a FH, being fearfull at a
birth is one.
Similarly doing VE's so we can know
...........
We have all experienced women who have told
midwives what is happening regardless or despite the VE similarly many women can
tell us they know their baby is fine or not!
Now I am not saying do not do either
!!
I am saying midwives need higher skills than
these!!
We need to develop empathy, high communication
skills a 6th sense, (not to be trivialised) to be truly empowering, truly a
midwife (with woman).
What better start can a woman have to parenthood
but to know she is intune with her baby and her body and she can trust herself
& her feelings??
Is this not with woman??
If a woman is working with her body and full of
endorphins, in a position that is not conducive to us getteing an FH do we
disturb them to get that FH in our notes or we risk censure from others?
Last night I was in a hospital and the doptone I had with this particular woman every time I used it brought on another contraction, so I was disturbing her labour making her work more than her body might otherwise have done!! I understand many women labour in Holland with out
their midwives, in fact the midwives tell them to get on with it and
call their midwives when they feel the birth is iminent or or they need
them!!
Look at the outcomes, in Holland & everywhere. Women have given birth for thousands of years with
out any one, they do it today, it is normal .
Even in Africa where thay have x number of
problems, yes they die but comparatively few & often not of obstructed
labours etc, but because they have X number of diseases on top so they have no
reserves!!
Again I am not saying we should leave them but I am
saying when at birth (here) be realistic, (our women are healthy, they can
& should be helped to listen, be aware of the workings of their bodies)
supportive and a guardian of normalcy as we claim
we are suposed to be the supporters of
normal,
women who listen to their bodies and feel confident
THEY know when to expedite the labour (they try to get off beds in hospitals
where our profession has helped put them!!)
They know when to call for help and when they know
we will support them in their knowledge and understanding/attempts to help
themselves and their babies
they will call Midwives first as they do in
Holland!!
Even Florence is credited with saying First do no
Harm!!
Do any one know what the Dutch or Kiwi giudelines
are for FH monitoring ???
Denise
Denise
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