At 12:41 PM 2/12/03, Mafud wrote:
Some police officers, architects, software engineers, soldiers, carpenters, lawyers, truck drivers, football players, authors, politicians and photographers are gay, too. What does that have to do with anything?I used to be a photographer at dog shows. It took about two shows for me to discover that most of the male professional handlers and groomers, even a vet or two, were homosexuals. A lot of "Hair Stylists", barbers and "Cosmetologists" are Gay; but you already knew that, didn't you?
What snide comment? Since you specifically pointed out that gay florists might take a request for photographic access to be a pass, I wondered if heterosexual florists do that as well. You claim to be including it for informational purposes, it's only fair to include other relevant information. My guess is that you just wanted to spread a little of your homophobia and now you're incensed that someone takes issue with it.You failed to comprehend the intent of my statement I quote here: "**With the caution that many of them are Gay and may take your approach as a come-on." The words and phraseology in the sentence should have given you a clue. You decided to ignore what you read to make a snide comment.
I do not know as truth that gay florists interpret photographic requests as an invitation to sex. I don't think anyone outside your community of small-minded homophobes "know" that.My comments on Gay florists spoke a truth you probably knew already but also chose to ignore.
So if you were alone in a camera shop looking at cameras, would a gay camera shop employee think you were there because you wanted to have sex with him? Or is this behavior confined to florists? If so, again, does it also apply to heterosexual florists? Is this part of the florists' training?here's something else you already know: some Gays, just like other men, are aggressive. A single man drifting around in a warehouse full of flowers taking pictures would draw attention, as if the person was "cruising".
You ought to try going around florists, see if it what I observed is true. You might get thrill.
The florists I know are professional, no matter their orientation.
Your "observation" was not innocent. It was inflammatory, prejudicial and informed by your discomfort with your own sexuality. You are, of course, free to hold such opinions, but if you insist on trying to peddle them here, prepare to be challenged.Nothing like making an issue of an innocent observation.
Doug