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________________________________ From: Bukan Pedanda <bukan.peda...@yahoo.com> To: proletar@yahoogroups.com Sent: Tuesday, April 23, 2013 11:05 PM Subject: [proletar] Re: SA: Homophobes (Hasan Basri yang memang nggak begitu waras... Habe tukang kibulin istri yang - juga - memang nggak begitu waras bilang, tanpa argumen: "perkawinan tetap aja secara ilmiah dilakukan antara laki laki dan perempuan" --- In proletar@yahoogroups.com, Habe Proletar <proletar4@...> wrote: > > merejek " pernikahan sejenis " bukan berarti anti gay > soal life style dan kecenderungan sex mereka, itu sih urusan mereka sendiri > > perkawinan tetap aja secara ilmiah dilakukan antara laki laki dan perempuan > gimana menurut elu nub? > > > > > ________________________________ > From: Nub <nubtheologian@...> > To: proletar@yahoogroups.com > Sent: Tuesday, April 23, 2013 4:14 PM > Subject: [proletar] Re: SA: Homophobes Might Be Hidden Homosexuals > > > >  > Kalo orang batak bilang: > Strong rejection may be interpreted as affirmation > > --- In proletar@yahoogroups.com, Bukan Pedanda <bukan.pedanda@> wrote: > > > > > > Permanent Address: > > http://www.scientificamerican.com/article.cfm?id=homophobes-might-be-hidden-homosexuals > > > > Homophobes Might Be Hidden Homosexuals > > A new analysis of implicit bias and explicit sexual > > orientation statements may help to explain the underpinnings of anti-gay > > bullying and hate crimes > > By Jeanna Bryner and LiveScience  | Tuesday, April 10, 2012 | 40 > > Image: Wikimedia Commons/thaths > > Advertisement > > Homophobes should consider a little self-reflection, suggests a new > > study finding those individuals who are most hostile toward gays and > > hold strong anti-gay views may themselves have same-sex desires, albeit > > undercover ones. > > The prejudice of homophobia may also stem from authoritarian parents, > > particularly those with homophobic views as well, the researchers added. > > "This study shows that if you are feeling that kind of visceral reaction to > > an out-group, ask yourself, 'Why?'" co-author Richard Ryan, a > > professor of psychology at the University of Rochester, said in a > > statement. "Those intense emotions should serve as a call to > > self-reflection." > > The research, published in the April 2012 issue of the Journal of > > Personality and Social Psychology, reveals the nuances of prejudices like > > homophobia, which can ultimately have dire consequences. [The 10 Most > > Destructive Human Behaviors] > > "Sometimes people are threatened by gays and lesbians because they are > > fearing their own impulses, in a sense they 'doth protest too much,'" > > Ryan told LiveScience. "In addition, it appears that sometimes those who > > would oppress others have been oppressed themselves, and we can have > > some compassion for them too, they may be unaccepting of others because > > they cannot be accepting of themselves." > > Ryan cautioned, however, that this link is only one source of anti-gay > > sentiments. > > Hidden homosexuality > > In four studies, the researchers looked at the discrepancies between > > what people say about their sexual orientation and their implicit sexual > > orientation based on a reaction-time test. The studies involved college > > students from Germany and the United States. > > For the implicit measure, students had to categorize words and pictures > > flashed onto a computer screen into "gay" or "straight" groups. Words > > included "gay," "straight," "homosexual" and "heterosexual," while the > > pictures showed straight and gay couples. Before each trial, > > participants were primed with the word "me" or "others" flashed > > momentarily onto a computer screen. The researchers said quicker > > reaction time for "me" and "gay," and a slower association of "me" with > > "straight" would indicate said an implicit gay orientation. [Why Gay > > Parents May Be the Best Parents] > > In another experiment, the researchers measured implicit sexual > > orientation by having participants choose to browse same-sex or > > opposite-sex photos on a computer screen. > > Questionnaires also teased out the parenting style the participants were > > exposed to, with students asked how much they agreed or disagreed with > > statements such as: "I felt controlled and pressured in certain ways;" > > and "I felt free to be who I am." To gauge homophobia in a household, > > students responded to items such as, "It would be upsetting for my mom > > to find out she was alone with a lesbian" or "My dad avoids gay men > > whenever possible." > > Participants indicated their own level of homophobia, both overt and > > implicit; in word-completion tasks, students wrote down the first three > > words that came to mind when prompted with some of the words' letters. > > Students were primed at some point with the word "gay" to see how that > > impacted the amount of aggressive words used. > > Controlling parents > > In all of the studies, participants who reported supportive and > > accepting parents were more in touch with their implicit sexual > > orientation, meaning it tended to jibe with their outward sexual > > orientation. Students who indicated they came from authoritarian homes > > showed the biggest discrepancy between the two measures of sexual > > orientation. > > "In a predominately heterosexual society, 'know thyself' can be a > > challenge for many gay individuals," lead author Netta Weinstein, a > > lecturer at the University of Essex in the United Kingdom,said in a > > statement. "But in controlling and homophobic homes, embracing a > > minority sexual orientation can be terrifying." [5 Ways to Foster > > Self-Compassion in Your Child] > > Those participants who reported their heterosexuality despite having > > hidden same-sex desires were also the most likely to show hostility > > toward gay individuals, including self-reported anti-gay attitudes, > > endorsement of anti-gay policies and discrimination such as supporting > > harsher punishments for homosexuals. > > The research may help to explain the underpinnings of anti-gay bullying and > > hate crimes, the researchers note. People in denial about their own sexual > > orientation, perhaps a denial fostered by authoritarian and homophobic > > parents, may feel a threat from other gay and lesbian individuals. > > Lashing out may ultimately be an indicator of the person's own internal > > conflict with sexual orientation. > > This inner conflict can be seen in some high-profile cases in which > > anti-gay public figures are caught engaging in same-sex acts, the > > researchers say. For instance, evangelical preacher and > > anti-gay-marriage advocate Ted Haggard was caught in a gay sex scandal > > in 2006. And in 2010, prominent anti-gay activist and co-founder of > > conservative Family Research Council George Rekers was reportedly > > spotted in 2010 with a male escort rented from Rentboy.com. According to > > news reports, the escort confirmed Rekers is gay. > > "We laugh at or make fun of such blatant hypocrisy, but in a real way, > > these people may often themselves be victims of repression and > > experience exaggerated feelings of threat," Ryan said. "Homophobia is > > not a laughing matter. It can sometimes have tragic consequences," as > > was the case in the 1998 murder of Matthew Shepard, a gay man. > > * 5 Myths About Gay People Debunked > > * Understanding the 10 Most Destructive Human Behaviors > > * 10 Scientific Tips For Raising Happy Kids > > Copyright 2012 LiveScience, a TechMediaNetwork company. All rights > > reserved. This material may not be published, broadcast, rewritten or > > redistributed. > > > > YES! Send me a free issue of Scientific American with no > > obligation to continue the subscription. 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