What my friend Andrea said is so true. I'm in the prime of my life at
30. I'm not a beauty queen, but I think that I am an attractive
person. I used to get hit on all the time. Some of you guys talk
about how you have had girlfriends, partners, wives. A lot of women
like men in chairs because they feel less threatened. Men are
superficial. They just think we can't have sex, therefore they can't
get off. I go out on occasion. Before I got sick I used to get
hit on all the time and get drinks bought for me. Since I got sick, I
haven't had someone I don't know buy me a drink since I got sick.
Socializing and talking to new people is not a problem and I am a very
approachable person. I have a good time, dance, and smile while I am
out. We never sit at a table. We are always at the bar or in the
general area. Never have our backs to people. I know the chances
of meeting my soul mate in a bar aren't good, but damn, they don't even look
twice.
It's funny, we went to a customer appreciation party at a
rest/club/bar. They had a DJ. My friends and I were up there
dancing and some woman came up and started dancing with me, holding my hands
and treating me like I was mentally disabled. Telling my friend who is
also a girl how pretty I was. It was so funny. I was cracking
up. Trying to pull my hands away, she wouldn't let me. Was
pretty strange.
Just a funny story to share. My Gift to you,
Stacy
----- Original Message -----
Sent: Tuesday, December 21, 2004
10:09 PM
Subject: RE: [QUAD-L]
Frustration
Billy,
Sexual frustration is the big
problem for me too. First of all be being a women with a disability is
really hard to get a man to just to see you as being sexual. Even men
with a disability want a non-disability women. Like Steve if you gave the
slution PLEASE let me know.
Billy...
Do I suffer
sexual frustration? Only daily, many times...
If you find the
solution, share it with the group!
Steve
This is a serious question, not to insinuate that other questions
are not, but I recall one individual who was so preoccupied with sex
that I felt compelled to leave the site for a short amount of time
just to get away from him. Anyway, does anyone else on here suffer
from bouts of extreme sexual frustration? I frequently attribute this
frustration to a lack of female companionship, but it is often very
difficult to concentrate on other things when I become fixated on this
particular subject. Any suggestions?
Billy
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