Thouston,
I really don't have anyone to come home for or someone that will say I love you. My marriage ended after my husband tried to kill be and put me in a wheelchair for life I guess he really took that marriage vow "Death do we part" for real .Now because of him I have to ask is there a men out there that will love me and not hart me again. Now that really frustration.
Wheelchair Warrior Andrea
THouston <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
THouston <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
I do remember her saying that I don't take her out like I used to, I don't buy her things like I used to and that the majority of the housework was left up to her now. Also we couldn't afford the things we used to albeit she couldn't think of any at the time!tahouston----- Original Message -----From: Houston809Cc: quadlistSent: Wednesday, December 29, 2004 5:12 PMSubject: Re: [QUAD-L] FrustrationThat’s not the reason she left you. After 17 yrs your relationship should have been well past physical. And as some of us have stated I’m pleasin AB women intimately :) she probably just cleared the way 4 the woman that’s going 2 go the rest of the distance with you.
Houston
On 12/25/04 11:29 PM, "THouston" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
I beg to differ Houston809, my sexual experience wasn't gratifying unless I felt that she was satisfied. I refrain(unfortunately) from the intimate acts now because I know I can't please an Ab like I used to, the main reason my wife of 17 years left me.
tahouston
----- Original Message -----
From: Houston809 <mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
To: Stacy Harim <mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]> ; andrea murray <mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
Cc: quadlist <mailto:quad-list@eskimo.com>
Sent: Friday, December 24, 2004 11:54 AM
Subject: Re: [QUAD-L] Frustration
Stacy that’s because we all know it doesn’t take much 2 satisfy a man in the bedroom. :) we come we roll over go 2 sleep.:)
On 12/23/04 3:57 PM, "Stacy Harim" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
It is true that quad men are know for their abilities in the bedroom. They are said to know how to really please a woman. Never heard it the other way around before.
Stacy
----- Original MessIage -----
From: andrea murray "><mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]> <mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
To: Stacy Harim "><mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]> <mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
Cc: quad-list@eskimo.com
Sent: Thursday, December 23, 2004 3:52 PM
Subject: Re: [QUAD-L] Frustration
Thanks Stacy, You have shared your feeling about us women. I know that the men on the quid list is not superficial,! but they do not thank about the quad women. How we feel! I just want to be held and love by a man I love. But, every time I think me soul mate is found he disappeared. How do us girl get good feeling about ourselfs? What do you guys want from us? We don't have the thumb. Wheelchair Warrior Andrea
Stacy Harim <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
I'm sorry. I know that. I should have said most. I know also that you guys here on the list aren't. I apologize for saying it because I knew when I said it that ALL men AREN'T superficial.
can you find in your heart to forgive me?,
Stacy
----- Original Message -----
From: Martin T. Brown <mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
To: Stacy Harim <mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]> ; Steve Oldaker <mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]> ; andrea murray <mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
Cc: quad-list@eskimo.com
Sent: Wednesday, December 22, 2004 3:52 AM
Subject: Re: [QUAD-L] Frustration
[quote] Men are superficial. They just think we can't have sex, therefore they can't get off. [/quote]
Stacy don't swing this term above imposing that all men are superficial, we are not.
QuadMedic
----- Original Message -----
From: Stacy Harim <mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
To: Steve Oldaker <mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]> ; andrea murray <mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
Cc: quad-list@eskimo.com
Sent: Wednesday, December 22, 2004 10:05 AM
Subject: Re: [QUAD-L] Frustration
What my friend Andrea said is so true. I'm in the prime of my life at 30. I'm not a beauty queen, but I think that I am an attractive person. I used to get hit on all the time. Some of you guys talk about how you! have had girlfriends, partners, wives. A lot of women like men in chairs because they feel less threatened. Men are superficial. They just think we can't have sex, therefore they can't get off. I go out on occasion. Before I got sick I used to get hit on all the time and get drinks bought for me. Since I got sick, I haven't had someone I don't know buy me a drink since I got sick. Socializing and talking to new people is not a problem and I am a very approachable person. I have a good time, dance, and smile while I am out. We never sit at a table. We are always at the bar or in the general area. Never have our backs to people. I know the chances of meeting my soul mate in a ! bar aren't good, but damn, they don't even look twice.
It's fun! ny, we went to a customer appreciation party at a rest/club/bar. They had a DJ. My friends and I were up there dancing and some woman came up and started dancing with me, holding my hands and treating me like I was mentally disabled. Telling my friend who is also a girl how pretty I was. It was so funny. I was cracking up. Trying to pull my hands away, she wouldn't let me. Was pretty strange.
Just a funny story to share. My Gift to you,
Stacy
----- Original Message -----
From: andrea murray <mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
To: Steve Oldaker <mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
Cc: quad-list@eskimo.com
Sent: Tuesday, December 21, 2004 10:09 PM
Subject: RE: [QUAD-L] Frustration
Billy,
Sexual frustration is the big problem for me too. First of all be being a women with a disability is really hard to get a man to just to see you as being sexual. Even men with a disability want a non-disability women. Like Steve if you gave the slution PLEASE let me know.
Wheelchair Warrior
Steve Oldaker <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
Billy...
Do I suffer sexual frustration? Only daily, many times...
If you find the solution, share it with the group!
Steve
-----Original Message-----
From: B. Kimberlin [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]
Sent: Monday, December 20, 2004 8:39 PM
To: Quad
Subject: [QUAD-L] Frustration
This is a serious question, not to insinuate that other questions are not, but I recall one individual who was so preoccupied with sex that I felt compelled to leave the site for a short amount of time just to get away from him. Anyway, does anyone else on here suffer from bouts of extreme sexual frustration? I frequently attribute this frustration to a lack of female companionship, but it is often very difficult to concentrate on other things when I become fixated on this particular subject.! Any suggestions?
Billy
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