Re: [QUAD-L] Frustration

[Stacy Harim]

It is true that quad men are know for their abilities in the bedroom.  They are said to know how to really please a woman.  Never heard it the other way around before.   Stacy ----- Original MessIage ----- From: andrea murray To: Stacy Harim Cc: quad-list@eskimo.com Sent: Thursday, December 23, 2004 3:52 PM Subject: Re: [QUAD-L] Frustration Thanks Stacy, You have shared your feeling about us women. I know that the men on the quid list is not superficial, but they do not thank about the quad women. How we feel! I just want to be held and love by a man I love. But, every time I think me soul mate is found he disappeared. How do us girl get good feeling about ourselfs? What do you guys want from us? We don't have the thumb. Wheelchair Warrior Andrea Stacy Harim <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: I'm sorry.  I know that.  I should have said most.  I know also that you guys here on the list aren't.  I apologize for saying it because I knew when I said it that ALL men AREN'T superficial.   can you find in your heart to forgive me?, Stacy ----- Original Message ----- From: Martin T. Brown To: Stacy Harim ; Steve Oldaker ; andrea murray Cc: quad-list@eskimo.com Sent: Wednesday, December 22, 2004 3:52 AM Subject: Re: [QUAD-L] Frustration [quote] Men are superficial.  They just think we can't have sex, therefore they can't get off. [/quote]   Stacy don't swing this term above imposing that all men are superficial, we are not.   QuadMedic ----- Original Message ----- From: Stacy Harim To: Steve Oldaker ; andrea murray Cc: quad-list@eskimo.com Sent: Wednesday, December 22, 2004 10:05 AM Subject: Re: [QUAD-L] Frustration What my friend Andrea said is so true. I'm in the prime of my life at 30. I'm not a beauty queen, but I think that I am an attractive person.  I used to get hit on all the time.  Some of you guys talk about how you have had girlfriends, partners, wives. A lot of women like men in chairs because they feel less threatened.  Men are superficial.  They just think we can't have sex, therefore they can't get off.   I go out on occasion. Before I got sick I used to get hit on all the time and get drinks bought for me.  Since I got sick, I haven't had someone I don't know buy me a drink since I got sick.  Socializing and talking to new people is not a problem and I am a very approachable person.  I have a good time, dance, and smile while I am out.  We never sit at a table.  We are always at the bar or in the general area.  Never have our backs to people.  I know the chances of meeting my soul mate in a ! bar aren't good, but damn, they don't even look twice.   It's funny, we went to a customer appreciation party at a rest/club/bar.  They had a DJ.  My friends and I were up there dancing and some woman came up and started dancing with me, holding my hands and treating me like I was mentally disabled.  Telling my friend who is also a girl how pretty I was.  It was so funny.  I was cracking up.  Trying to pull my hands away, she wouldn't let me.  Was pretty strange.   Just a funny story to share.  My Gift to you, Stacy ----- Original Message ----- From: andrea murray To: Steve Oldaker Cc: quad-list@eskimo.com Sent: Tuesday, December 21, 2004 10:09 PM Subject: RE: [QUAD-L] Frustration Billy, Sexual frustration is the big problem for me too. First of all be being a women with a disability is really hard to get a man to just to see you as being sexual. Even men with a disability want a non-disability women. Like Steve if you gave the slution PLEASE let me know. Wheelchair Warrior Steve Oldaker <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: Billy...   Do I suffer sexual frustration?  Only daily, many times...   If you find the solution, share it with the group!   Steve -----Original Message----- From: B. Kimberlin [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] Sent: Monday, December 20, 2004 8:39 PM To: Quad Subject: [QUAD-L] Frustration This is a serious question, not to insinuate that other questions are not, but I recall one individual who was so preoccupied with sex that I felt compelled to leave the site for a short amount of time just to get away from him. Anyway, does anyone else on here suffer from bouts of extreme sexual frustration? I frequently attribute this frustration to a lack of female companionship, but it is often very difficult to concentrate on other things when I become fixated on this particular subject. Any suggestions? Billy Do you Yahoo!? Yahoo! Mail - Easier than ever with enhanced search. Learn more. __________________________________________________ Do You Yahoo!? Tired of spam? Yahoo! Mail has the best spam protection around http://mail.yahoo.com Do you Yahoo!? Take Yahoo! Mail with you! Get it on your mobile phone.