[AI] Help regarding finding out any RP related genetic disorder in the expected child

[Alvesh]

Dear list members,
I have been diagnosed with RP and currently I have near about 40% of
sight remaining. I am married to a a girl who has no kind of
disability. On the recommendation of one of my friends, before 2 years
I also got myself tested for genetic disorder in Dr. LV Prasad eye
institute Hyderabad. At that time they only told me which genes are
affected in your body, but they were unsure about any disorder in my
children after my marriage.
Now my wife is expecting a child and she is in first trimester of
pregnancy. Now i wanted to make it sure whether the child is affected
with any RP related disorder?  How to proceed with it? Should I again
visit Dr. LV Prasad Hyderabad and get my wife tested to find out any
genetic disorder in the expected child?  Or should i get simply
discuss this issue with out gynecologist? Any help is appretiated.

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Re: [AI] Any preference in Promotion for disabled central government enployee

[Alvesh Shokeen]

Reservation in promotion and discrimination in promotion are two
different things.

On 3/16/19, Amiyo Biswas  wrote:
> S20 of the RPD Act should help. I shall try to find something particular on
>
> promotion next week. Many of my friends including me have got promotion in
> due course.
>
> With best regards,
> Amiyo Biswas
> Cell: +91-9433464329
>
> - Original Message -
> From: "Vaibhav Kasar" 
> To: "AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerning
>
> the disabled." 
> Sent: Saturday, March 16, 2019 12:21 PM
> Subject: Re: [AI] Any preference in Promotion for disabled central
> government enployee
>
>
>> Thanks Amiyo Sir ,
>>
>> But still query has not resolved...
>>
>> As per above information there is a provision of reservation in fresh
>> recruitment. But what for already recruited or For promotion. Is there
>> any
>> reservation policy  in promotion ...
>>
>>
>> On Sat 16 Mar, 2019, 8:50 AM Amiyo Biswas,  wrote:
>>
>>> You had rather try this link for the office memorandum:
>>>
>>> https://www.dropbox.com/s/y3irdfv6176i6gk/Reservation%20in%20Government%20Jobs%20for%20Persons%20with%20Benchmark%20Disabilities.pdf?dl=1
>>>
>>> With best regards,
>>> Amiyo Biswas
>>> Cell: +91-9433464329
>>>
>>> - Original Message -
>>> From: "Vaibhav Kasar" 
>>> To: "AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues
>>> concerning
>>> the disabled." 
>>> Sent: Friday, March 15, 2019 8:53 PM
>>> Subject: [AI] Any preference in Promotion for disabled central
>>> government
>>> enployee
>>>
>>>
>>> > Hello All,..
>>> >
>>> > Have a good time ..
>>> >
>>> > One of my friend working in central government under defence Unit . He
>>> >
>>> > is
>>> > seeking the reservation rule in promotion for disabled.
>>> > Anybody having idea about this plz do reply on immediately
>>> >
>>> >
>>> > Thanks
>>> > Vaibhav
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Re: [AI] Urgent emotional support required

[Alvesh Shokeen]

Thank you friends for your emotional support. I will be calling you
for seeking an assistance. Hope I am recovering soon from this
emotional breakdown. I am also in Delhi.

On 2/21/19, Prerna Sobti  wrote:
> And one more thing I was a corporate trainer nationally and have even
> trained internationally I was literally living out of a suitcase used to
> travel everywhere one day in Jaipur next day in Chandigarh morning in Bhopal
> evening in Delhi and next in Calcutta that was the life and for two years I
> did not even know anything like assisted technology exists for two years I
> was without any phone without any thing to do because I was totally unaware
> so when I can do it so can you you are so much more aware than me so good
> luck
>
> Prerna Sobti
>
>> On 21-Feb-2019, at 9:09 PM, Alvesh Shokeen 
>> wrote:
>>
>> Thanks for your support friends. But indeed this is a difficult time
>> for me. I am unable to accept this condition. I haven't married so far
>> just because of the reason that later in my life, what if my partner
>> leaves me alone? I am unable to share my condition with my parants as
>> wel as they will be completely disappointed listening that I will be
>> blind in near future.
>> I am always fantasising about driving bike, going out in the market
>> with my friends , but all of sudden I realise, I am no more in that
>> well condition to do these all things at my own. I will have to remain
>> dependent upon others even for crossing the road, so what else can I
>> do now?
>> You are right, I should have such friends who have gone through
>> similar experiences. Let me talk to the people. If possible, suggest
>> me a good disability councellor to help me  to change my approach. I
>> am really in trouble.
>>
>> On 2/21/19, Amar Jain  wrote:
>>> While I became blind in my early childhood, but more than happy to talk
>>> it
>>> through.
>>>
>>> Acceptance and ownership of your disability in this phase will decide
>>> your
>>> future. Feel free to call me on 9892622230.
>>>
>>> Regards,
>>> Amar Jain
>>>
>>> Sent from my iPhone
>>>
>>>> On 21-Feb-2019, at 7:35 PM, Vamshi. G  wrote:
>>>>
>>>> I am exactly like you.   Could drive a bike ten years ago but can not
>>>> even
>>>> walk on the road.  Don’t read books or videos.   Meet and stay together
>>>> with people who have similar conditions like you.  Peer  counsel is the
>>>> best medicine.  Will be happy to help.  Call me on 9949349497 .
>>>>
>>>> Remember that you are neither the first one nor the only one to undergo
>>>> this phase of life.  Most of us had seen it in our lives.
>>>>
>>>>
>>>>
>>>> Regards
>>>> Vamshi
>>>>
>>>>> On 21-Feb-2019, at 6:47 PM, harshu dubey 
>>>>> wrote:
>>>>>
>>>>> My name is Hari Narayan and I am am low vision too. I know it's
>>>>> difficult
>>>>> to accept few facts but please don't loose hope call me let's see if I
>>>>> could help you somewhere my number is 9821454995
>>>>>
>>>>> On Thu 21 Feb, 2019, 6:23 PM Alvesh Shokeen, 
>>>>> wrote:
>>>>>
>>>>>> Hi all, I am 32 year old, unmarried and posted on a reputed government
>>>>>> service. But I am gradually losing my sight due to RP.
>>>>>> Erlier I was able to see the world from my eyes, but now everything is
>>>>>> becoming blurred. The matter of the fact is, I am gradually losing the
>>>>>> hope to live in this world. I cry all  the time after my office hours.
>>>>>> I feel lonely. I don't enjoy anything now. As I am most of the time
>>>>>> engrossed into my previous sightful life. I feel everything is going
>>>>>> away, and I feel very hopeless.
>>>>>> Kindly suggest me any good books to regain my confidence to live in
>>>>>> this life. Also tell me any video/audio content so that I could learn
>>>>>> how to live life with disability.
>>>>>> Please understand my situation, as I have almost lost all the hopes.
>>>>>>
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Re: [AI] Urgent emotional support required

[Alvesh Shokeen]

Thanks for your support friends. But indeed this is a difficult time
for me. I am unable to accept this condition. I haven't married so far
just because of the reason that later in my life, what if my partner
leaves me alone? I am unable to share my condition with my parants as
wel as they will be completely disappointed listening that I will be
blind in near future.
I am always fantasising about driving bike, going out in the market
with my friends , but all of sudden I realise, I am no more in that
well condition to do these all things at my own. I will have to remain
dependent upon others even for crossing the road, so what else can I
do now?
You are right, I should have such friends who have gone through
similar experiences. Let me talk to the people. If possible, suggest
me a good disability councellor to help me  to change my approach. I
am really in trouble.

On 2/21/19, Amar Jain  wrote:
> While I became blind in my early childhood, but more than happy to talk it
> through.
>
> Acceptance and ownership of your disability in this phase will decide your
> future. Feel free to call me on 9892622230.
>
> Regards,
> Amar Jain
>
> Sent from my iPhone
>
>> On 21-Feb-2019, at 7:35 PM, Vamshi. G  wrote:
>>
>> I am exactly like you.   Could drive a bike ten years ago but can not even
>> walk on the road.  Don’t read books or videos.   Meet and stay together
>> with people who have similar conditions like you.  Peer  counsel is the
>> best medicine.  Will be happy to help.  Call me on 9949349497 .
>>
>> Remember that you are neither the first one nor the only one to undergo
>> this phase of life.  Most of us had seen it in our lives.
>>
>>
>>
>> Regards
>> Vamshi
>>
>>> On 21-Feb-2019, at 6:47 PM, harshu dubey  wrote:
>>>
>>> My name is Hari Narayan and I am am low vision too. I know it's difficult
>>> to accept few facts but please don't loose hope call me let's see if I
>>> could help you somewhere my number is 9821454995
>>>
>>> On Thu 21 Feb, 2019, 6:23 PM Alvesh Shokeen, 
>>> wrote:
>>>
>>>> Hi all, I am 32 year old, unmarried and posted on a reputed government
>>>> service. But I am gradually losing my sight due to RP.
>>>> Erlier I was able to see the world from my eyes, but now everything is
>>>> becoming blurred. The matter of the fact is, I am gradually losing the
>>>> hope to live in this world. I cry all  the time after my office hours.
>>>> I feel lonely. I don't enjoy anything now. As I am most of the time
>>>> engrossed into my previous sightful life. I feel everything is going
>>>> away, and I feel very hopeless.
>>>> Kindly suggest me any good books to regain my confidence to live in
>>>> this life. Also tell me any video/audio content so that I could learn
>>>> how to live life with disability.
>>>> Please understand my situation, as I have almost lost all the hopes.
>>>>
>>>>
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[AI] Urgent emotional support required

[Alvesh Shokeen]

Hi all, I am 32 year old, unmarried and posted on a reputed government
service. But I am gradually losing my sight due to RP.
Erlier I was able to see the world from my eyes, but now everything is
becoming blurred. The matter of the fact is, I am gradually losing the
hope to live in this world. I cry all  the time after my office hours.
I feel lonely. I don't enjoy anything now. As I am most of the time
engrossed into my previous sightful life. I feel everything is going
away, and I feel very hopeless.
Kindly suggest me any good books to regain my confidence to live in
this life. Also tell me any video/audio content so that I could learn
how to live life with disability.
Please understand my situation, as I have almost lost all the hopes.


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Re: [AI] AI Inability to grapple with latest PayTM update on IOS

[Alvesh Shokeen]

It was behaving the same way in android as wel, but recently it is
working just fine.

On 4/14/18, sheik mohammedali  wrote:
> just perform gentle touch at the bottom right side of the screen where
> different tabs are announced like inbox, bank etc. swipe left until you get
> bank tab and double tap on it. at the top you will be having options to pay,
> add money etc. for various recharge and bill payment options, just locate
> tab areas and keep swiping towards left until you get menu icon and double
> tap on it. navigate from the top recharge and bill payment options are
> accessible.
>
> Sent from my iPhone
>
>> On 14-Apr-2018, at 12:09 PM, turab chimthanawala 
>> wrote:
>>
>> Hello all,
>> I use PayTM on my iPhone 6. Whilst until now, the app was majorly
>> accessible, the latest update has rendered performing certain
>> transactions almost impossible. For instance, the commands for 'Pay',
>> 'add Money' and 'Passbook' are read by Voice over on a single tap. If
>> I do single finger slide (to go to the next command), it goes to '
>> Mobile Post paid or Mobile Prepaid'. If I click on 'Pay, 'Add money
>> and Passbook', I am directed to the Passbook. Hence, I can't make
>> payments.
>> Would appreciate to know of any workarounds.
>> Thanks in anticipation
>> Best
>> Turab
>>
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Re: [AI] Railway ticket booking

[Alvesh Shokeen]

Smart card is a card which can be used on IRCTC website for booking
the tickets. But the people who are in charge of making the card
smart, are not smart at all! My friend told me that they take ages to
make smart card, they are not helpful and they will tell you lods of
procedural things to comply with before you dream to have smart card
and book ticket smartly! So this whole process of becoming smart
passes through various stupid hurdles!

On 4/11/18, sazid shaik  wrote:
> dear friend what does it means by smart card?  please tell me
>
> thanks and regards,
> sazid
>
> On 4/8/18, Aravind Aralaguppe  wrote:
>> Hi friends today I tried to book railway ticket from online using the
>> smart
>> card but I am unable to book the ticket although I entered all the
>> details
>> perfectly it is showing that unable to perform please contact customer
>> care
>> is there anyone on this list recently booked the ticket using smart card
>> please tell me the procedure thank you
>>
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Re: [AI] Disclosing or not disclosing the visual impairment

[Alvesh Shokeen]

Some time there are benefits of not disclosing the disability, and
behaving as you were a sighted guy. For example, no one can cheat us
if he is not getting the clue that I am a vision impaired guy, and
people will not ask unnecessary questions!
As I have faced some aukward situations, asking for help people asked
me uncumfirtable questions, like your eyes are looking quite ok, are
you telling lie? How much can you see, can you identify which colour
shirt I am wearing? can you see the girls coming and going? Therefore
I deliberetly avoid to disclose my disability to avoid these
unwelcomed and aukward situations. But I can say, I am losing more by
hiding my disability, as people don't get the clue what kind of help I
require? And people think I am avoiding them by not greeding them with
hi and goodmorning etc. The other embarrassing situation I face at the
time of shaking the hands meeting someone. As sometime I can not
figure out that he has raised his hand to shake?
And also I am not visually impaired for long, I have a hard time to
distinguish the people by their voice. By the way, guide me for
getting good  counseling material to learn with my disability.

On 4/6/18, Sandeep Singh <sandeepsingh...@gmail.com> wrote:
> And believe me, friend, George sir is a most respected personality
> applauded by all sections of the society despite his blindness. We
> have lots of people on our list, Ms Kanchan and Ms Priti, Mr Pranay
> and Mr Prashant, and so many veterans and youngsters who have a
> special place in the society and are loved and respected by all. You
> are a capable person, don't hide your disability, sensitize people
> instead. I recently organized a program where I asked a young lady
> doing Engineering to wear a blindfold and identify currency notes. I
> asked people to do activities pretending they were disabled of some
> kind and they understood how much we can do despite our physical
> limitations.
> So, go ahead and enjoy life, don't mind those who don't accept you,
> make merry with those who accept you and love you.
> Best regards
> Sandeep
>
> On 4/6/18, George Abraham <geo...@eyeway.org> wrote:
>> I have been through the same situation. Thought the World would reject
>> me.
>> Life was lived under great tension. But friend, the day I stopped
>> pretending, I discovered a whole new life of freedom and fun. Life is
>> determined by who you are, what you think and how you carry yourself. It
>> becomes very dangerous when you try to mould your life basis the World's
>> expectation of you. So "Stop pretending and start living."
>>
>> -Original Message-
>> From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On
>> Behalf
>> Of Alvesh Shokeen
>> Sent: Friday, April 6, 2018 11:46 AM
>> To: accessindia
>> Subject: [AI] Disclosing or not disclosing the visual impairment
>>
>> Hey list members, I am a partially blind person, I can manage most of the
>> chores at my own. People don't get easily that I am visually impaired
>> person. But this is true that I hide my disability, for instance, on the
>> dining table I pretent that I don't like sweets in order to avoid the
>> embarrassment of asking where is the sweet kept on the table. I avoid
>> social
>> functions just to make sure that no one is knowing the magnitude of my
>> vision condition. I am unable to become very social, thinking that people
>> will not like me on the account of my disability.
>> In order to hide my disability, I have to secrify a lot!  I hide my
>> disability just because of the matter of the fact that in my society
>> disabled people are looked with pity, and no one will respect me and my
>> parants after knowing that I am disabled person. Though I am central
>> government employee, still people will doubt on my ability and education,
>> they will say that he got the job under quota reserved for handicapped
>> persons. Therefore till now, I am hiding my disability wherever possible.
>> Kindly suggest me how to live a good life with the disability with full
>> confidence. . I always think that why it happened to me, while whole
>> world
>> is enjoying with their sight. When I think of future married life, I am
>> clueless that how will I manage children and all, their education and
>> then
>> their marriage etc. I feel life is useless with out sight.
>> Kindly help me  in coming out from this liquidating attitude.
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[AI] Disclosing or not disclosing the visual impairment

[Alvesh Shokeen]

Hey list members, I am a partially blind person, I can manage most of
the chores at my own. People don't get easily that I am visually
impaired person. But this is true that I hide my disability, for
instance, on the dining table I pretent that I don't like sweets in
order to avoid the embarrassment of asking where is the sweet kept on
the table. I avoid social functions just to make sure that no one is
knowing the magnitude of my  vision condition. I am unable to become
very social, thinking that people will not like me on the account of
my disability.
In order to hide my disability, I have to secrify a lot!  I hide my
disability just because of the matter of the fact that in my society
disabled people are looked with pity, and no one will respect me and
my parants after knowing that I am disabled person. Though I am
central government employee, still people will doubt on my ability and
education, they will say that he got the job under quota reserved for
handicapped persons. Therefore till now, I am hiding my disability
wherever possible.
Kindly suggest me how to live a good life with the disability with
full confidence. . I always think that why it happened to me, while
whole world is enjoying with their sight. When I think of future
married life, I am clueless that how will I manage children and all,
their education and then their marriage etc. I feel life is useless
with out sight.
Kindly help me  in coming out from this liquidating attitude.




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Re: [AI] android TV box regs,

[Alvesh Shokeen]

I don't know about any TV box, but I heard from one of my friends,
that VU Android TV may be used for voice assistance.

On 3/30/18, pranaya rani  wrote:
> What is this device? Can I connect this any old tv set? Pls throw some
> light
>
> -Original Message-
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> Of sampath raj rao
> Sent: Thursday, March 29, 2018 8:00 PM
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> Hi,
> Greetings of the day...
> Has anyone tried your hands with Android TV box which can be used to
> make our ordinary TV into a smart Tv?
> Apart from MI TV box I was able to found a list of such boxes
> googling, how far is it accessible for us?
>
> Is yhere anyone using Google chromecast device? if so plz provide
> feedback...
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Re: [AI] Want to know visually impaired friendly hotels in Delhi

[Alvesh Shokeen]

Is that near to metro station and disabled friendly?

On 3/28/18, Subham Arora <arorasub...@gmail.com> wrote:
> Try lemon tree hotel   Shubham 9873310073
>
> Sent from my iPhone
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>> On 28-Mar-2018, at 16:58, Alvesh Shokeen <alveshshok...@gmail.com> wrote:
>>
>> Hello members, I usually visit Delhi for official and nonofficial
>> visits. I want to know is there any visually impaired friendly hotel
>> preferably  in South and Centrel Delhi? I am looking hotels accessible
>> in terms of locating the hotel and its distance from metro station.
>> Hope you will assist me in finding a good hotel for time to time stay.
>>
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[AI] Want to know visually impaired friendly hotels in Delhi

[Alvesh Shokeen]

Hello members, I usually visit Delhi for official and nonofficial
visits. I want to know is there any visually impaired friendly hotel
preferably  in South and Centrel Delhi? I am looking hotels accessible
in terms of locating the hotel and its distance from metro station.
Hope you will assist me in finding a good hotel for time to time stay.




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Re: [AI] Serious advice needed on the issue of marriage with a sighted girl

[Alvesh Shokeen]

Preeti mam, I will call you.
Vamshi, I have consulted several retina experts, and they told me that
your RP is of slow progression, and during last 5 years hardly there
is a noticeable markdown in my eyesight. However I have clearly told
the girl that I may be completely blind in future, she is even
perfectly fine with that. As she says she loves me a lot and she is
ready to face any situation.
Harish, actually she is aware of my family tradition and choices, she
is completely with me, even she has talked to her parants several
times about me but her parants are blackmailing her emotionally. I
know I can manage everything well after the marriage if I decide to
marry her despite of several oppositions. But the thing which is
driving me crazy, is that what if her parants will be hurting me
targetting on my visual impairment? As after the marriage I will have
to attend several social functions, will have to go to my inlaws
house, then they  may make me felt embarrased by treating me not like
a physically perfect person. And always they will be undervaluing me
just because of my disability. Therefore now the question is that
should I go further or simply should I take the excuse that unless her
family accepts me, I will not marry her.
Nautial, my parants are not saying any thing here, they are nuteral,
as they know that girl has to live with me not her parants, but again
in our culture, marriage is not only between two adults but between
two families as wel.

On 3/19/18, B. R. Nautial <brnaut...@gmail.com> wrote:
> First of all, take your parrents in confidence and go forward according
> their advice only.
> Don't take any decision in hurry at all because one wrong decision may
> change your life.
> As our moderator made it clear that vision is not the only criteria for
> choosing of a life partner. I am sure! you'll get so many good advise from
> many of our talented & experienced members. Best of luck!  - Original
> Message -
> From: "Alvesh Shokeen" <alveshshok...@gmail.com>
> To: "accessindia" <accessindia@accessindia.org.in>
> Sent: Monday, March 19, 2018 03:08 PM
> Subject: [AI] Serious advice needed on the issue of marriage with a sighted
>
> girl
>
>
>> Hi friends and seniors, I am 30 years old, well educated and central
>> government employee. I have some serious issue with my eyesight, as
>> the doctors say that I have Retinitis Pigmentosa, which is stable and
>> I have fair eyesight to manage my all day to day chores except reading
>> writing and driving. People generally don't recognize me easily that I
>> am having problem of eyesight.
>> Before few months I was introduced to a girls family with a view of
>> marriage, the girl was also there. The girls family liked me looking
>> my job and higher education, as I am well settled in my life.
>> Thereafter I started chatting with that girl, she also started liking
>> me and we started talking on phone for longer hours. I clearly told
>> that girl that I have serious issue with my eyesight, and I can see
>> little, and I prefer to take someone with me if I go out to unknown
>> places or while traveling. She looked perfectly fine with that, she
>> told me that she will be with me in any  case. Then second time her
>> family came to meet me formally and I told her father about my
>> eyesight issue, he also looked quite normal with that, and he said
>> that physical problem may hit anyone so we are ok with it. Thereafter
>> we met in a function again. Everything was going normal. But nothing
>> sort of engagement etc was done as  my family was not ready to fix the
>> marriage so erly.
>> In between few of my relatives told the mother of the girl that this
>> boy has very serious issue with his eyesight, as he can not go outside
>> alone, and he can not walk in sunlight and he can not do his work
>> independently. After listening this all (which is not true) her mother
>> created lots of drama, and convinced the father of girl that they will
>> not marry their daughter to me.
>> Now present situation is that the girl is in full favour of me, she is
>> trying her best to convince her parants that she has no issue with
>> eyesight problem of the boy. But her mother is torturing her and
>> blackmailing her emotionally saying that you will always be in pain if
>> you will not be obedient to your mother.
>> So dear friends, kindly suggest me what should I do here, should I
>> talk to her parants and try to remove their doubts about the situation
>> which they have visualized in their minds on the account of my poor
>> eyesight? Because they are saying only thing that how will he manage
>> if he has poor eyesight. Should I try to save my relat

[AI] Serious advice needed on the issue of marriage with a sighted girl

[Alvesh Shokeen]

Hi friends and seniors, I am 30 years old, well educated and central
government employee. I have some serious issue with my eyesight, as
the doctors say that I have Retinitis Pigmentosa, which is stable and
I have fair eyesight to manage my all day to day chores except reading
writing and driving. People generally don't recognize me easily that I
am having problem of eyesight.
Before few months I was introduced to a girls family with a view of
marriage, the girl was also there. The girls family liked me looking
my job and higher education, as I am well settled in my life.
Thereafter I started chatting with that girl, she also started liking
me and we started talking on phone for longer hours. I clearly told
that girl that I have serious issue with my eyesight, and I can see
little, and I prefer to take someone with me if I go out to unknown
places or while traveling. She looked perfectly fine with that, she
told me that she will be with me in any  case. Then second time her
family came to meet me formally and I told her father about my
eyesight issue, he also looked quite normal with that, and he said
that physical problem may hit anyone so we are ok with it. Thereafter
we met in a function again. Everything was going normal. But nothing
sort of engagement etc was done as  my family was not ready to fix the
marriage so erly.
In between few of my relatives told the mother of the girl that this
boy has very serious issue with his eyesight, as he can not go outside
alone, and he can not walk in sunlight and he can not do his work
independently. After listening this all (which is not true) her mother
created lots of drama, and convinced the father of girl that they will
not marry their daughter to me.
Now present situation is that the girl is in full favour of me, she is
trying her best to convince her parants that she has no issue with
eyesight problem of the boy. But her mother is torturing her and
blackmailing her emotionally saying that you will always be in pain if
you will not be obedient to your mother.
So dear friends, kindly suggest me what should I do here, should I
talk to her parants and try to remove their doubts about the situation
which they have visualized in their minds on the account of my poor
eyesight? Because they are saying only thing that how will he manage
if he has poor eyesight. Should I try to save my relationship with
that girl who is supporting me despite of my visual impairment? Will I
be losing an understanding and supporting life partner if I let this
relationship go? Or will it emotionally hurt me back as the family of
the girl will target me after the marriage due to my eyes problem..
Please suggest me what should I do, as I am in difficult situation.




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[AI] Unable to find my place in city bank credit card application form

[Alvesh Shokeen]

Hi listers, I am wanting to apply city bank credit card through their
website. Filling all detail when I am coming to my residencial address
and office address, I can only see few big cities in drop down menues,
and I am unable to find my current city there. Even there is no other
option where I could write my place manually. Does it mean city bank
credit card is available only in few cities?
Presently I am residing in Agra.




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