Re: [AI] Urgent emotional support required
you should better to contact any nearest organisation working for low vision and blind. you can also contact all india confederation of the blind. PH: 011-27054082 They are running crisis intervention unit. you can get more and more confidence by contacting successful people. -Original Message- From: turab chimthanawala Sent: Monday, February 25, 2019 10:31 AM To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerning the disabled. Subject: Re: [AI] Urgent emotional support required Hey Alvesh, I am a low vision person suffering from LCA. Even my eyesight has reduced over the years. Happy to chat. Please call me on +91 8087813609 anyday after 8 pm. Best Turab Chimthanawala On 2/25/19, sazid shaik wrote: Good description, even It helps to overcome my struggleing On 2/24/19, Shadab Husain wrote: Hi Alvesh, We’re adaptable. I too have gone through similar situations, and am now living nicely. You too will feel better in some time. The blessing of blindness is that it decreases our choices and therefore we’re saved from so much confusion. When you have fewer choices, you feel more contentment because then you don't regret for the things that weren’t there on the option table. Second, this might appear unintelligible to you, but as per one study, people who get disabled feel more satisfied with life than others. The reason behind this? When disability meets them, they overestimate the difficulties and frustrations that they may encounter. But as they steer their life ahead, they uncover that life is far less tough than they had imagined. They enjoy simple things like navigating their way independently. Doing bank work on their own (I withdraw thousands and thousands of bucks from the bank and have to move around alone.) In the beginning newly disabled folks presume that life would be extremely sad and depressing, but they soon get adjusted to their new conditions and things begin to look cheerful. Their presumptions contrast with their new reality and they feel their little accomplishments to be bonuses. On marriage: You say that you might not get on well with your life partner because of your blindness. Maybe yes, maybe no. Sorry, but no false hopes or encouragement. The truth is that there’re many unmarried disabled people who’re living successfully. And many disabled people are enjoying their married lives. Additionally, there’s a high chance for all married folks to get separated from their life partners (disabled or otherwise.) Snoop around a bit and you’ll find. You can keep that blindness thing out of the equation. Even if you get your sight restored, you can’t guarantee that post-marriage everything will be rosy and fun. I was scared of marriage as it were a raging hurricane, but now I’m blessed with a good wife and two little children. Besides having a good job, few of your blessings are: You’re brave, optimistic, and resilient. Had it not been so, you won’t have written this email. You have desires. Had it not been so, you won’t have asked about driving and marrying etc. You’re a man of action. Had it not been so, you won’t have asked about books. (By the way, The Story of my Life by Helen Keller and How to Stop Worrying and Start Living by Dale Carnegie might prove rocket fuel for your confidence.) Fall down seven times, stand up eight. Japanese proverb I like you and will be grateful to help you climb out of your problems. Ph: +91-7379668382. Your friend, Shadab On 2/24/19, sazid shaik wrote: Dear Alvesh, Even I am a late blind, working in railway department. Married with a sighted girl, my son is studying 7th class and my daughter is studying 3rd class. Certainly even I am passing same suitvation what yu are. in. in 2010 i can ride bike but now I cannot walk. my dear friend tried to adjust with life. Giving an example is easy but becoming an example is very difficult. So adjust with the life and move on. thanks and regards, sazid On 2/23/19, sanjeev kumar wrote: Please read book jeet aap ki On Sat, 23 Feb 2019, 1:59 p.m. Simran Chawla wrote: Hey Alvesh I can understand your situation. But just think that whatever has happened or whatever is happening, is happening for a reason, for your good rather. Be positive, think positively. That will easen your situation. Being negative will only worsen it. This is the reason why we call life a roller coaster ride. There are highs and lows and you should enjoy every bit of it. And the things that you want to do, those you can still do. Going to market and enjoying with friends, you can do that, why not. Just keep smiling :) And the books if you want to read, read a book named “The Power of your Subconscious Mind”. If you don’t find the pdf, let me know I’ll share that with you Best Regards Simran Chawla Sent from my iPhone > On 23-Feb-2019, at 10:34, George Abraham wrote: > > Hi! > > I am George Abraham. Happy to talk with you and shar
Re: [AI] Urgent emotional support required
gt;>>> negative will only worsen it. >>>>> This is the reason why we call life a roller coaster ride. There are >>>>> highs >>>>> and lows and you should enjoy every bit of it. >>>>> And the things that you want to do, those you can still do. Going to >>>>> market and enjoying with friends, you can do that, why not. Just keep >>>>> smiling :) >>>>> >>>>> And the books if you want to read, read a book named “The Power of your >>>>> Subconscious Mind”. If you don’t find the pdf, let me know I’ll share >>>>> that >>>>> with you >>>>> >>>>> Best Regards >>>>> Simran Chawla >>>>> >>>>> Sent from my iPhone >>>>> >>>>> > On 23-Feb-2019, at 10:34, George Abraham wrote: >>>>> > >>>>> > Hi! >>>>> > >>>>> > I am George Abraham. Happy to talk with you and share ideas on how >>>>> > you >>>>> could deal with your life situation. Please do call me on Monday at >>>>> 9810934040. You could visit me in my office and we could try and >>>>> charter >>>>> out a plan for you to move on with life. >>>>> > >>>>> > Best, >>>>> > >>>>> > George >>>>> > George Abraham >>>>> > CEO >>>>> > Score Foundation >>>>> > 17/107 LGF >>>>> > Vikram Vihar >>>>> > Lajpat Nagar 4 >>>>> > New Delhi 110024 >>>>> > Email: geo...@eyeway.org >>>>> > Ph: +91 11 26472581/2 >>>>> > Mob: +91 9810934040 >>>>> > Website: www.scorefoundation.org.in , www.eyeway.org >>>>> > Twitter: @georgebhai >>>>> > Eyeway Helpdesk: 1800 300 20469 >>>>> > >>>>> > >>>>> > >>>>> > >>>>> > -Original Message- >>>>> > From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On >>>>> Behalf Of Alvesh Shokeen >>>>> > Sent: Thursday, February 21, 2019 9:10 PM >>>>> > To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues >>>>> concerning the disabled. >>>>> > Subject: Re: [AI] Urgent emotional support required >>>>> > >>>>> > Thanks for your support friends. But indeed this is a difficult time >>>>> > for >>>>> me. I am unable to accept this condition. I haven't married so far just >>>>> because of the reason that later in my life, what if my partner leaves >>>>> me >>>>> alone? I am unable to share my condition with my parants as wel as they >>>>> will be completely disappointed listening that I will be blind in near >>>>> future. >>>>> > I am always fantasising about driving bike, going out in the market >>>>> > with >>>>> my friends , but all of sudden I realise, I am no more in that well >>>>> condition to do these all things at my own. I will have to remain >>>>> dependent >>>>> upon others even for crossing the road, so what else can I do now? >>>>> > You are right, I should have such friends who have gone through >>>>> > similar >>>>> experiences. Let me talk to the people. If possible, suggest me a good >>>>> disability councellor to help me to change my approach. I am really in >>>>> trouble. >>>>> > >>>>> >> On 2/21/19, Amar Jain wrote: >>>>> >> While I became blind in my early childhood, but more than happy to >>>>> >> talk it through. >>>>> >> >>>>> >> Acceptance and ownership of your disability in this phase will >>>>> >> decide >>>>> >> your future. Feel free to call me on 9892622230. >>>>> >> >>>>> >> Regards, >>>>> >> Amar Jain >>>>> >> >>>>> >> Sent from my iPhone >>>>> >> >>>>> >>> On 21-Feb-2019, at 7:35 PM, Vamshi. G wrote: >>>>> >>> >>>>> >>> I am exactly like you. Could drive a bike ten years ago but can >>>>> >>> not
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Regards >>>> Simran Chawla >>>> >>>> Sent from my iPhone >>>> >>>> > On 23-Feb-2019, at 10:34, George Abraham wrote: >>>> > >>>> > Hi! >>>> > >>>> > I am George Abraham. Happy to talk with you and share ideas on how you >>>> could deal with your life situation. Please do call me on Monday at >>>> 9810934040. You could visit me in my office and we could try and charter >>>> out a plan for you to move on with life. >>>> > >>>> > Best, >>>> > >>>> > George >>>> > George Abraham >>>> > CEO >>>> > Score Foundation >>>> > 17/107 LGF >>>> > Vikram Vihar >>>> > Lajpat Nagar 4 >>>> > New Delhi 110024 >>>> > Email: geo...@eyeway.org >>>> > Ph: +91 11 26472581/2 >>>> > Mob: +91 9810934040 >>>> > Website: www.scorefoundation.org.in , www.eyeway.org >>>> > Twitter: @georgebhai >>>> > Eyeway Helpdesk: 1800 300 20469 >>>> > >>>> > >>>> > >>>> > >>>> > -Original Message- >>>> > From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On >>>> Behalf Of Alvesh Shokeen >>>> > Sent: Thursday, February 21, 2019 9:10 PM >>>> > To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues >>>> concerning the disabled. >>>> > Subject: Re: [AI] Urgent emotional support required >>>> > >>>> > Thanks for your support friends. But indeed this is a difficult time >>>> > for >>>> me. I am unable to accept this condition. I haven't married so far just >>>> because of the reason that later in my life, what if my partner leaves >>>> me >>>> alone? I am unable to share my condition with my parants as wel as they >>>> will be completely disappointed listening that I will be blind in near >>>> future. >>>> > I am always fantasising about driving bike, going out in the market >>>> > with >>>> my friends , but all of sudden I realise, I am no more in that well >>>> condition to do these all things at my own. I will have to remain >>>> dependent >>>> upon others even for crossing the road, so what else can I do now? >>>> > You are right, I should have such friends who have gone through >>>> > similar >>>> experiences. Let me talk to the people. If possible, suggest me a good >>>> disability councellor to help me to change my approach. I am really in >>>> trouble. >>>> > >>>> >> On 2/21/19, Amar Jain wrote: >>>> >> While I became blind in my early childhood, but more than happy to >>>> >> talk it through. >>>> >> >>>> >> Acceptance and ownership of your disability in this phase will decide >>>> >> your future. Feel free to call me on 9892622230. >>>> >> >>>> >> Regards, >>>> >> Amar Jain >>>> >> >>>> >> Sent from my iPhone >>>> >> >>>> >>> On 21-Feb-2019, at 7:35 PM, Vamshi. G wrote: >>>> >>> >>>> >>> I am exactly like you. Could drive a bike ten years ago but can >>>> >>> not >>>> even >>>> >>> walk on the road. Don’t read books or videos. Meet and stay >>>> >>> together >>>> >>> with people who have similar conditions like you. Peer counsel is >>>> >>> the best medicine. Will be happy to help. Call me on 9949349497 . >>>> >>> >>>> >>> Remember that you are neither the first one nor the only one to >>>> >>> undergo this phase of life. Most of us had seen it in our lives. >>>> >>> >>>> >>> >>>> >>> >>>> >>> Regards >>>> >>> Vamshi >>>> >>> >>>> >>>> On 21-Feb-2019, at 6:47 PM, harshu dubey >>>> wrote: >>>> >>>> >>>> >>>> My name is Hari Narayan and I am am low vision too. I know it's >>>> >>>> difficult to accept few facts but please don't loose hope call me >>>> &
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shaik wrote: >>> Dear Alvesh, >>> >>> Even I am a late blind, working in railway department. Married with >>> a sighted girl, my son is studying 7th class and my daughter is >>> studying 3rd class. Certainly even I am passing same suitvation what >>> yu are. in. in 2010 i can ride bike but now I cannot walk. my dear >>> friend tried to adjust with life. >>> >>> Giving an example is easy but becoming an example is very difficult. >>> >>> So adjust with the life and move on. >>> >>> thanks and regards, >>> sazid >>> >>> >>> >>> On 2/23/19, sanjeev kumar wrote: >>>> Please read book jeet aap ki >>>> >>>> On Sat, 23 Feb 2019, 1:59 p.m. Simran Chawla >>> wrote: >>>> >>>>> Hey Alvesh >>>>> I can understand your situation. But just think that whatever has >>>>> happened >>>>> or whatever is happening, is happening for a reason, for your good >>>>> rather. >>>>> Be positive, think positively. That will easen your situation. Being >>>>> negative will only worsen it. >>>>> This is the reason why we call life a roller coaster ride. There are >>>>> highs >>>>> and lows and you should enjoy every bit of it. >>>>> And the things that you want to do, those you can still do. Going to >>>>> market and enjoying with friends, you can do that, why not. Just keep >>>>> smiling :) >>>>> >>>>> And the books if you want to read, read a book named “The Power of your >>>>> Subconscious Mind”. If you don’t find the pdf, let me know I’ll share >>>>> that >>>>> with you >>>>> >>>>> Best Regards >>>>> Simran Chawla >>>>> >>>>> Sent from my iPhone >>>>> >>>>> > On 23-Feb-2019, at 10:34, George Abraham wrote: >>>>> > >>>>> > Hi! >>>>> > >>>>> > I am George Abraham. Happy to talk with you and share ideas on how >>>>> > you >>>>> could deal with your life situation. Please do call me on Monday at >>>>> 9810934040. You could visit me in my office and we could try and >>>>> charter >>>>> out a plan for you to move on with life. >>>>> > >>>>> > Best, >>>>> > >>>>> > George >>>>> > George Abraham >>>>> > CEO >>>>> > Score Foundation >>>>> > 17/107 LGF >>>>> > Vikram Vihar >>>>> > Lajpat Nagar 4 >>>>> > New Delhi 110024 >>>>> > Email: geo...@eyeway.org >>>>> > Ph: +91 11 26472581/2 >>>>> > Mob: +91 9810934040 >>>>> > Website: www.scorefoundation.org.in , www.eyeway.org >>>>> > Twitter: @georgebhai >>>>> > Eyeway Helpdesk: 1800 300 20469 >>>>> > >>>>> > >>>>> > >>>>> > >>>>> > -Original Message- >>>>> > From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On >>>>> Behalf Of Alvesh Shokeen >>>>> > Sent: Thursday, February 21, 2019 9:10 PM >>>>> > To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues >>>>> concerning the disabled. >>>>> > Subject: Re: [AI] Urgent emotional support required >>>>> > >>>>> > Thanks for your support friends. But indeed this is a difficult time >>>>> > for >>>>> me. I am unable to accept this condition. I haven't married so far just >>>>> because of the reason that later in my life, what if my partner leaves >>>>> me >>>>> alone? I am unable to share my condition with my parants as wel as they >>>>> will be completely disappointed listening that I will be blind in near >>>>> future. >>>>> > I am always fantasising about driving bike, going out in the market >>>>> > with >>>>> my friends , but all of sudden I realise, I am no more in that well >>>>> condition to do these all things at my own. I will have to remain >>>>> dependent >>>>> upon others even for crossing the road, so what else can I do now? >>>&g
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gt;>> happened >>>> or whatever is happening, is happening for a reason, for your good >>>> rather. >>>> Be positive, think positively. That will easen your situation. Being >>>> negative will only worsen it. >>>> This is the reason why we call life a roller coaster ride. There are >>>> highs >>>> and lows and you should enjoy every bit of it. >>>> And the things that you want to do, those you can still do. Going to >>>> market and enjoying with friends, you can do that, why not. Just keep >>>> smiling :) >>>> >>>> And the books if you want to read, read a book named “The Power of your >>>> Subconscious Mind”. If you don’t find the pdf, let me know I’ll share >>>> that >>>> with you >>>> >>>> Best Regards >>>> Simran Chawla >>>> >>>> Sent from my iPhone >>>> >>>> > On 23-Feb-2019, at 10:34, George Abraham wrote: >>>> > >>>> > Hi! >>>> > >>>> > I am George Abraham. Happy to talk with you and share ideas on how you >>>> could deal with your life situation. Please do call me on Monday at >>>> 9810934040. You could visit me in my office and we could try and charter >>>> out a plan for you to move on with life. >>>> > >>>> > Best, >>>> > >>>> > George >>>> > George Abraham >>>> > CEO >>>> > Score Foundation >>>> > 17/107 LGF >>>> > Vikram Vihar >>>> > Lajpat Nagar 4 >>>> > New Delhi 110024 >>>> > Email: geo...@eyeway.org >>>> > Ph: +91 11 26472581/2 >>>> > Mob: +91 9810934040 >>>> > Website: www.scorefoundation.org.in , www.eyeway.org >>>> > Twitter: @georgebhai >>>> > Eyeway Helpdesk: 1800 300 20469 >>>> > >>>> > >>>> > >>>> > >>>> > -Original Message- >>>> > From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On >>>> Behalf Of Alvesh Shokeen >>>> > Sent: Thursday, February 21, 2019 9:10 PM >>>> > To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues >>>> concerning the disabled. >>>> > Subject: Re: [AI] Urgent emotional support required >>>> > >>>> > Thanks for your support friends. But indeed this is a difficult time >>>> > for >>>> me. I am unable to accept this condition. I haven't married so far just >>>> because of the reason that later in my life, what if my partner leaves >>>> me >>>> alone? I am unable to share my condition with my parants as wel as they >>>> will be completely disappointed listening that I will be blind in near >>>> future. >>>> > I am always fantasising about driving bike, going out in the market >>>> > with >>>> my friends , but all of sudden I realise, I am no more in that well >>>> condition to do these all things at my own. I will have to remain >>>> dependent >>>> upon others even for crossing the road, so what else can I do now? >>>> > You are right, I should have such friends who have gone through >>>> > similar >>>> experiences. Let me talk to the people. If possible, suggest me a good >>>> disability councellor to help me to change my approach. I am really in >>>> trouble. >>>> > >>>> >> On 2/21/19, Amar Jain wrote: >>>> >> While I became blind in my early childhood, but more than happy to >>>> >> talk it through. >>>> >> >>>> >> Acceptance and ownership of your disability in this phase will decide >>>> >> your future. Feel free to call me on 9892622230. >>>> >> >>>> >> Regards, >>>> >> Amar Jain >>>> >> >>>> >> Sent from my iPhone >>>> >> >>>> >>> On 21-Feb-2019, at 7:35 PM, Vamshi. G wrote: >>>> >>> >>>> >>> I am exactly like you. Could drive a bike ten years ago but can >>>> >>> not >>>> even >>>> >>> walk on the road. Don’t read books or videos. Meet and stay >>>> >>> together >>>> >>> with people who
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gt;> > CEO >>> > Score Foundation >>> > 17/107 LGF >>> > Vikram Vihar >>> > Lajpat Nagar 4 >>> > New Delhi 110024 >>> > Email: geo...@eyeway.org >>> > Ph: +91 11 26472581/2 >>> > Mob: +91 9810934040 >>> > Website: www.scorefoundation.org.in , www.eyeway.org >>> > Twitter: @georgebhai >>> > Eyeway Helpdesk: 1800 300 20469 >>> > >>> > >>> > >>> > >>> > -Original Message- >>> > From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On >>> Behalf Of Alvesh Shokeen >>> > Sent: Thursday, February 21, 2019 9:10 PM >>> > To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues >>> concerning the disabled. >>> > Subject: Re: [AI] Urgent emotional support required >>> > >>> > Thanks for your support friends. But indeed this is a difficult time >>> > for >>> me. I am unable to accept this condition. I haven't married so far just >>> because of the reason that later in my life, what if my partner leaves me >>> alone? I am unable to share my condition with my parants as wel as they >>> will be completely disappointed listening that I will be blind in near >>> future. >>> > I am always fantasising about driving bike, going out in the market >>> > with >>> my friends , but all of sudden I realise, I am no more in that well >>> condition to do these all things at my own. I will have to remain >>> dependent >>> upon others even for crossing the road, so what else can I do now? >>> > You are right, I should have such friends who have gone through similar >>> experiences. Let me talk to the people. If possible, suggest me a good >>> disability councellor to help me to change my approach. I am really in >>> trouble. >>> > >>> >> On 2/21/19, Amar Jain wrote: >>> >> While I became blind in my early childhood, but more than happy to >>> >> talk it through. >>> >> >>> >> Acceptance and ownership of your disability in this phase will decide >>> >> your future. Feel free to call me on 9892622230. >>> >> >>> >> Regards, >>> >> Amar Jain >>> >> >>> >> Sent from my iPhone >>> >> >>> >>> On 21-Feb-2019, at 7:35 PM, Vamshi. G wrote: >>> >>> >>> >>> I am exactly like you. Could drive a bike ten years ago but can not >>> even >>> >>> walk on the road. Don’t read books or videos. Meet and stay >>> >>> together >>> >>> with people who have similar conditions like you. Peer counsel is >>> >>> the best medicine. Will be happy to help. Call me on 9949349497 . >>> >>> >>> >>> Remember that you are neither the first one nor the only one to >>> >>> undergo this phase of life. Most of us had seen it in our lives. >>> >>> >>> >>> >>> >>> >>> >>> Regards >>> >>> Vamshi >>> >>> >>> >>>> On 21-Feb-2019, at 6:47 PM, harshu dubey >>> wrote: >>> >>>> >>> >>>> My name is Hari Narayan and I am am low vision too. I know it's >>> >>>> difficult to accept few facts but please don't loose hope call me >>> >>>> let's see if I could help you somewhere my number is 9821454995 >>> >>>> >>> >>>> On Thu 21 Feb, 2019, 6:23 PM Alvesh Shokeen, >>> >>>> >>> >>>> wrote: >>> >>>> >>> >>>>> Hi all, I am 32 year old, unmarried and posted on a reputed >>> >>>>> government service. But I am gradually losing my sight due to RP. >>> >>>>> Erlier I was able to see the world from my eyes, but now everything >>> >>>>> is becoming blurred. The matter of the fact is, I am gradually >>> >>>>> losing the hope to live in this world. I cry all the time after my >>> office hours. >>> >>>>> I feel lonely. I don't enjoy anything now. As I am most of the time >>> >>>>> engrossed into my previous sightful life. I feel everything is >>> >>>>> going away, and I feel very hopeless. >>> >
Re: [AI] Urgent emotional support required
Dear Alvesh, Even I am a late blind, working in railway department. Married with a sighted girl, my son is studying 7th class and my daughter is studying 3rd class. Certainly even I am passing same suitvation what yu are. in. in 2010 i can ride bike but now I cannot walk. my dear friend tried to adjust with life. Giving an example is easy but becoming an example is very difficult. So adjust with the life and move on. thanks and regards, sazid On 2/23/19, sanjeev kumar wrote: > Please read book jeet aap ki > > On Sat, 23 Feb 2019, 1:59 p.m. Simran Chawla wrote: > >> Hey Alvesh >> I can understand your situation. But just think that whatever has happened >> or whatever is happening, is happening for a reason, for your good rather. >> Be positive, think positively. That will easen your situation. Being >> negative will only worsen it. >> This is the reason why we call life a roller coaster ride. There are highs >> and lows and you should enjoy every bit of it. >> And the things that you want to do, those you can still do. Going to >> market and enjoying with friends, you can do that, why not. Just keep >> smiling :) >> >> And the books if you want to read, read a book named “The Power of your >> Subconscious Mind”. If you don’t find the pdf, let me know I’ll share that >> with you >> >> Best Regards >> Simran Chawla >> >> Sent from my iPhone >> >> > On 23-Feb-2019, at 10:34, George Abraham wrote: >> > >> > Hi! >> > >> > I am George Abraham. Happy to talk with you and share ideas on how you >> could deal with your life situation. Please do call me on Monday at >> 9810934040. You could visit me in my office and we could try and charter >> out a plan for you to move on with life. >> > >> > Best, >> > >> > George >> > George Abraham >> > CEO >> > Score Foundation >> > 17/107 LGF >> > Vikram Vihar >> > Lajpat Nagar 4 >> > New Delhi 110024 >> > Email: geo...@eyeway.org >> > Ph: +91 11 26472581/2 >> > Mob: +91 9810934040 >> > Website: www.scorefoundation.org.in , www.eyeway.org >> > Twitter: @georgebhai >> > Eyeway Helpdesk: 1800 300 20469 >> > >> > >> > >> > >> > -Original Message- >> > From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On >> Behalf Of Alvesh Shokeen >> > Sent: Thursday, February 21, 2019 9:10 PM >> > To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues >> concerning the disabled. >> > Subject: Re: [AI] Urgent emotional support required >> > >> > Thanks for your support friends. But indeed this is a difficult time for >> me. I am unable to accept this condition. I haven't married so far just >> because of the reason that later in my life, what if my partner leaves me >> alone? I am unable to share my condition with my parants as wel as they >> will be completely disappointed listening that I will be blind in near >> future. >> > I am always fantasising about driving bike, going out in the market with >> my friends , but all of sudden I realise, I am no more in that well >> condition to do these all things at my own. I will have to remain >> dependent >> upon others even for crossing the road, so what else can I do now? >> > You are right, I should have such friends who have gone through similar >> experiences. Let me talk to the people. If possible, suggest me a good >> disability councellor to help me to change my approach. I am really in >> trouble. >> > >> >> On 2/21/19, Amar Jain wrote: >> >> While I became blind in my early childhood, but more than happy to >> >> talk it through. >> >> >> >> Acceptance and ownership of your disability in this phase will decide >> >> your future. Feel free to call me on 9892622230. >> >> >> >> Regards, >> >> Amar Jain >> >> >> >> Sent from my iPhone >> >> >> >>> On 21-Feb-2019, at 7:35 PM, Vamshi. G wrote: >> >>> >> >>> I am exactly like you. Could drive a bike ten years ago but can not >> even >> >>> walk on the road. Don’t read books or videos. Meet and stay >> >>> together >> >>> with people who have similar conditions like you. Peer counsel is >> >>> the best medicine. Will be happy to help. Call me on 9949349497 . >> >>> >> >>> Remember that you are neither the
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Please read book jeet aap ki On Sat, 23 Feb 2019, 1:59 p.m. Simran Chawla Hey Alvesh > I can understand your situation. But just think that whatever has happened > or whatever is happening, is happening for a reason, for your good rather. > Be positive, think positively. That will easen your situation. Being > negative will only worsen it. > This is the reason why we call life a roller coaster ride. There are highs > and lows and you should enjoy every bit of it. > And the things that you want to do, those you can still do. Going to > market and enjoying with friends, you can do that, why not. Just keep > smiling :) > > And the books if you want to read, read a book named “The Power of your > Subconscious Mind”. If you don’t find the pdf, let me know I’ll share that > with you > > Best Regards > Simran Chawla > > Sent from my iPhone > > > On 23-Feb-2019, at 10:34, George Abraham wrote: > > > > Hi! > > > > I am George Abraham. Happy to talk with you and share ideas on how you > could deal with your life situation. Please do call me on Monday at > 9810934040. You could visit me in my office and we could try and charter > out a plan for you to move on with life. > > > > Best, > > > > George > > George Abraham > > CEO > > Score Foundation > > 17/107 LGF > > Vikram Vihar > > Lajpat Nagar 4 > > New Delhi 110024 > > Email: geo...@eyeway.org > > Ph: +91 11 26472581/2 > > Mob: +91 9810934040 > > Website: www.scorefoundation.org.in , www.eyeway.org > > Twitter: @georgebhai > > Eyeway Helpdesk: 1800 300 20469 > > > > > > > > > > -Original Message- > > From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On > Behalf Of Alvesh Shokeen > > Sent: Thursday, February 21, 2019 9:10 PM > > To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues > concerning the disabled. > > Subject: Re: [AI] Urgent emotional support required > > > > Thanks for your support friends. But indeed this is a difficult time for > me. I am unable to accept this condition. I haven't married so far just > because of the reason that later in my life, what if my partner leaves me > alone? I am unable to share my condition with my parants as wel as they > will be completely disappointed listening that I will be blind in near > future. > > I am always fantasising about driving bike, going out in the market with > my friends , but all of sudden I realise, I am no more in that well > condition to do these all things at my own. I will have to remain dependent > upon others even for crossing the road, so what else can I do now? > > You are right, I should have such friends who have gone through similar > experiences. Let me talk to the people. If possible, suggest me a good > disability councellor to help me to change my approach. I am really in > trouble. > > > >> On 2/21/19, Amar Jain wrote: > >> While I became blind in my early childhood, but more than happy to > >> talk it through. > >> > >> Acceptance and ownership of your disability in this phase will decide > >> your future. Feel free to call me on 9892622230. > >> > >> Regards, > >> Amar Jain > >> > >> Sent from my iPhone > >> > >>> On 21-Feb-2019, at 7:35 PM, Vamshi. G wrote: > >>> > >>> I am exactly like you. Could drive a bike ten years ago but can not > even > >>> walk on the road. Don’t read books or videos. Meet and stay together > >>> with people who have similar conditions like you. Peer counsel is > >>> the best medicine. Will be happy to help. Call me on 9949349497 . > >>> > >>> Remember that you are neither the first one nor the only one to > >>> undergo this phase of life. Most of us had seen it in our lives. > >>> > >>> > >>> > >>> Regards > >>> Vamshi > >>> > >>>> On 21-Feb-2019, at 6:47 PM, harshu dubey > wrote: > >>>> > >>>> My name is Hari Narayan and I am am low vision too. I know it's > >>>> difficult to accept few facts but please don't loose hope call me > >>>> let's see if I could help you somewhere my number is 9821454995 > >>>> > >>>> On Thu 21 Feb, 2019, 6:23 PM Alvesh Shokeen, > >>>> > >>>> wrote: > >>>> > >>>>> Hi all, I am 32 year old, unmarried and posted on a reputed > >>>>> government service. But I am graduall
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Hey Alvesh I can understand your situation. But just think that whatever has happened or whatever is happening, is happening for a reason, for your good rather. Be positive, think positively. That will easen your situation. Being negative will only worsen it. This is the reason why we call life a roller coaster ride. There are highs and lows and you should enjoy every bit of it. And the things that you want to do, those you can still do. Going to market and enjoying with friends, you can do that, why not. Just keep smiling :) And the books if you want to read, read a book named “The Power of your Subconscious Mind”. If you don’t find the pdf, let me know I’ll share that with you Best Regards Simran Chawla Sent from my iPhone > On 23-Feb-2019, at 10:34, George Abraham wrote: > > Hi! > > I am George Abraham. Happy to talk with you and share ideas on how you could > deal with your life situation. Please do call me on Monday at 9810934040. You > could visit me in my office and we could try and charter out a plan for you > to move on with life. > > Best, > > George > George Abraham > CEO > Score Foundation > 17/107 LGF > Vikram Vihar > Lajpat Nagar 4 > New Delhi 110024 > Email: geo...@eyeway.org > Ph: +91 11 26472581/2 > Mob: +91 9810934040 > Website: www.scorefoundation.org.in , www.eyeway.org > Twitter: @georgebhai > Eyeway Helpdesk: 1800 300 20469 > > > > > -Original Message- > From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf > Of Alvesh Shokeen > Sent: Thursday, February 21, 2019 9:10 PM > To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerning > the disabled. > Subject: Re: [AI] Urgent emotional support required > > Thanks for your support friends. But indeed this is a difficult time for me. > I am unable to accept this condition. I haven't married so far just because > of the reason that later in my life, what if my partner leaves me alone? I am > unable to share my condition with my parants as wel as they will be > completely disappointed listening that I will be blind in near future. > I am always fantasising about driving bike, going out in the market with my > friends , but all of sudden I realise, I am no more in that well condition to > do these all things at my own. I will have to remain dependent upon others > even for crossing the road, so what else can I do now? > You are right, I should have such friends who have gone through similar > experiences. Let me talk to the people. If possible, suggest me a good > disability councellor to help me to change my approach. I am really in > trouble. > >> On 2/21/19, Amar Jain wrote: >> While I became blind in my early childhood, but more than happy to >> talk it through. >> >> Acceptance and ownership of your disability in this phase will decide >> your future. Feel free to call me on 9892622230. >> >> Regards, >> Amar Jain >> >> Sent from my iPhone >> >>> On 21-Feb-2019, at 7:35 PM, Vamshi. G wrote: >>> >>> I am exactly like you. Could drive a bike ten years ago but can not even >>> walk on the road. Don’t read books or videos. Meet and stay together >>> with people who have similar conditions like you. Peer counsel is >>> the best medicine. Will be happy to help. Call me on 9949349497 . >>> >>> Remember that you are neither the first one nor the only one to >>> undergo this phase of life. Most of us had seen it in our lives. >>> >>> >>> >>> Regards >>> Vamshi >>> >>>> On 21-Feb-2019, at 6:47 PM, harshu dubey wrote: >>>> >>>> My name is Hari Narayan and I am am low vision too. I know it's >>>> difficult to accept few facts but please don't loose hope call me >>>> let's see if I could help you somewhere my number is 9821454995 >>>> >>>> On Thu 21 Feb, 2019, 6:23 PM Alvesh Shokeen, >>>> >>>> wrote: >>>> >>>>> Hi all, I am 32 year old, unmarried and posted on a reputed >>>>> government service. But I am gradually losing my sight due to RP. >>>>> Erlier I was able to see the world from my eyes, but now everything >>>>> is becoming blurred. The matter of the fact is, I am gradually >>>>> losing the hope to live in this world. I cry all the time after my >>>>> office hours. >>>>> I feel lonely. I don't enjoy anything now. As I am most of the time >>>>> engrossed into my previous sightful life. I feel everythin
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Hi! I am George Abraham. Happy to talk with you and share ideas on how you could deal with your life situation. Please do call me on Monday at 9810934040. You could visit me in my office and we could try and charter out a plan for you to move on with life. Best, George George Abraham CEO Score Foundation 17/107 LGF Vikram Vihar Lajpat Nagar 4 New Delhi 110024 Email: geo...@eyeway.org Ph: +91 11 26472581/2 Mob: +91 9810934040 Website: www.scorefoundation.org.in , www.eyeway.org Twitter: @georgebhai Eyeway Helpdesk: 1800 300 20469 -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of Alvesh Shokeen Sent: Thursday, February 21, 2019 9:10 PM To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerning the disabled. Subject: Re: [AI] Urgent emotional support required Thanks for your support friends. But indeed this is a difficult time for me. I am unable to accept this condition. I haven't married so far just because of the reason that later in my life, what if my partner leaves me alone? I am unable to share my condition with my parants as wel as they will be completely disappointed listening that I will be blind in near future. I am always fantasising about driving bike, going out in the market with my friends , but all of sudden I realise, I am no more in that well condition to do these all things at my own. I will have to remain dependent upon others even for crossing the road, so what else can I do now? You are right, I should have such friends who have gone through similar experiences. Let me talk to the people. If possible, suggest me a good disability councellor to help me to change my approach. I am really in trouble. On 2/21/19, Amar Jain wrote: > While I became blind in my early childhood, but more than happy to > talk it through. > > Acceptance and ownership of your disability in this phase will decide > your future. Feel free to call me on 9892622230. > > Regards, > Amar Jain > > Sent from my iPhone > >> On 21-Feb-2019, at 7:35 PM, Vamshi. G wrote: >> >> I am exactly like you. Could drive a bike ten years ago but can not even >> walk on the road. Don’t read books or videos. Meet and stay together >> with people who have similar conditions like you. Peer counsel is >> the best medicine. Will be happy to help. Call me on 9949349497 . >> >> Remember that you are neither the first one nor the only one to >> undergo this phase of life. Most of us had seen it in our lives. >> >> >> >> Regards >> Vamshi >> >>> On 21-Feb-2019, at 6:47 PM, harshu dubey wrote: >>> >>> My name is Hari Narayan and I am am low vision too. I know it's >>> difficult to accept few facts but please don't loose hope call me >>> let's see if I could help you somewhere my number is 9821454995 >>> >>> On Thu 21 Feb, 2019, 6:23 PM Alvesh Shokeen, >>> >>> wrote: >>> >>>> Hi all, I am 32 year old, unmarried and posted on a reputed >>>> government service. But I am gradually losing my sight due to RP. >>>> Erlier I was able to see the world from my eyes, but now everything >>>> is becoming blurred. The matter of the fact is, I am gradually >>>> losing the hope to live in this world. I cry all the time after my office >>>> hours. >>>> I feel lonely. I don't enjoy anything now. As I am most of the time >>>> engrossed into my previous sightful life. I feel everything is >>>> going away, and I feel very hopeless. >>>> Kindly suggest me any good books to regain my confidence to live in >>>> this life. Also tell me any video/audio content so that I could >>>> learn how to live life with disability. >>>> Please understand my situation, as I have almost lost all the hopes. >>>> >>>> >>>> Search for old postings at: >>>> http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ >>>> >>>> To unsubscribe send a message to >>>> accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in >>>> with the subject unsubscribe. >>>> >>>> To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other >>>> changes, please visit the list home page at >>>> http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia. >>>> org.in >>>> >>>> >>>> Disclaimer: >>>> 1. Contents of the mails, factual, or otherwise, reflect the >>>> thinking of the person sending the mail and AI in no way relates >>>> itself to its veracity; >>>> >
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First things first. Lets thank mother universe that we got a chance to see so many beautiful things full of colors. You need to feel your breath coming in going out. It will make u realize at least we are fortunate enough that we are alive we have life to make a difference. Btw its hardly been 4 years i have gone blind due to doctors mistake. I feel you you can contact me anytime. Best Regards- Abhisar > On 22-Feb-2019, at 17:52, Vedprakash Sharma > wrote: > > Firstly, sympathy makes it worse. So you need no sympathies. > Accept the circumstances as they come to you and devise the necessary > mechanism to cope with the new situations. > Be brave and develop a spirit of struggle against all odds. Ups and downs > come and go. It is not our physical power but our mental courage which > assists us overpower the unfavourable circumstances. > You say, you have become dependent and even cannot cross a road without > support. > But life is not just about crossing roads. Everybody is dependent upon others > in one or the other way. > If the richest man, with all his bodily capacities happens to drop amongst > the community, whose language is unknown to him, he cannot ask for a glass of > water without dependence on somebody who knows both the languages and can > translates for him. > There are many who are literate enough but still cannot fill in the bank > documents. They bother bank employees but do not feel that they are dependent. > When one uses public transport, he's dependent on the driver; lest the driver > should meet with an accident and the passengers suffer injuries. > How many examples can I give. > So do not feel ashamed of dependence upon others. > What else is your problem? > > -Original Message- > From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf > Of Alvesh Shokeen > Sent: Thursday, February 21, 2019 9:10 PM > To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerning > the disabled. > Subject: Re: [AI] Urgent emotional support required > > Thanks for your support friends. But indeed this is a difficult time for me. > I am unable to accept this condition. I haven't married so far just because > of the reason that later in my life, what if my partner leaves me alone? I am > unable to share my condition with my parants as wel as they will be > completely disappointed listening that I will be blind in near future. > I am always fantasising about driving bike, going out in the market with my > friends , but all of sudden I realise, I am no more in that well condition to > do these all things at my own. I will have to remain dependent upon others > even for crossing the road, so what else can I do now? > You are right, I should have such friends who have gone through similar > experiences. Let me talk to the people. If possible, suggest me a good > disability councellor to help me to change my approach. I am really in > trouble. > >> On 2/21/19, Amar Jain wrote: >> While I became blind in my early childhood, but more than happy to >> talk it through. >> >> Acceptance and ownership of your disability in this phase will decide >> your future. Feel free to call me on 9892622230. >> >> Regards, >> Amar Jain >> >> Sent from my iPhone >> >>> On 21-Feb-2019, at 7:35 PM, Vamshi. G wrote: >>> >>> I am exactly like you. Could drive a bike ten years ago but can not even >>> walk on the road. Don’t read books or videos. Meet and stay together >>> with people who have similar conditions like you. Peer counsel is >>> the best medicine. Will be happy to help. Call me on 9949349497 . >>> >>> Remember that you are neither the first one nor the only one to >>> undergo this phase of life. Most of us had seen it in our lives. >>> >>> >>> >>> Regards >>> Vamshi >>> >>>> On 21-Feb-2019, at 6:47 PM, harshu dubey wrote: >>>> >>>> My name is Hari Narayan and I am am low vision too. I know it's >>>> difficult to accept few facts but please don't loose hope call me >>>> let's see if I could help you somewhere my number is 9821454995 >>>> >>>> On Thu 21 Feb, 2019, 6:23 PM Alvesh Shokeen, >>>> >>>> wrote: >>>> >>>>> Hi all, I am 32 year old, unmarried and posted on a reputed >>>>> government service. But I am gradually losing my sight due to RP. >>>>> Erlier I was able to see the world from my eyes, but now everything >>>>> is becoming blurred. The matter of
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Dear Alvesh, I assure you that in a few months time you will be enjoying life again. And after a few years you will feel as if nothing happened. All you need to do is to meet and talk to a few persons and adjust your lifestyle a little. You may call me and visit our centre as well. My number is 9811686966. Prashant Ranjan Verma General Secretary National Association for the Blind, Delhi. Accessibility Specialist Creating the Best Way to Read and Publish - www.daisy.org -Original Message- From: AccessIndia On Behalf Of Alvesh Shokeen Sent: 22 February 2019 09:42 To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerning the disabled. Subject: Re: [AI] Urgent emotional support required Thank you friends for your emotional support. I will be calling you for seeking an assistance. Hope I am recovering soon from this emotional breakdown. I am also in Delhi. On 2/21/19, Prerna Sobti wrote: > And one more thing I was a corporate trainer nationally and have even > trained internationally I was literally living out of a suitcase used > to travel everywhere one day in Jaipur next day in Chandigarh morning > in Bhopal evening in Delhi and next in Calcutta that was the life and > for two years I did not even know anything like assisted technology > exists for two years I was without any phone without any thing to do > because I was totally unaware so when I can do it so can you you are > so much more aware than me so good luck > > Prerna Sobti > >> On 21-Feb-2019, at 9:09 PM, Alvesh Shokeen >> wrote: >> >> Thanks for your support friends. But indeed this is a difficult time >> for me. I am unable to accept this condition. I haven't married so >> far just because of the reason that later in my life, what if my >> partner leaves me alone? I am unable to share my condition with my >> parants as wel as they will be completely disappointed listening that >> I will be blind in near future. >> I am always fantasising about driving bike, going out in the market >> with my friends , but all of sudden I realise, I am no more in that >> well condition to do these all things at my own. I will have to >> remain dependent upon others even for crossing the road, so what else >> can I do now? >> You are right, I should have such friends who have gone through >> similar experiences. Let me talk to the people. If possible, suggest >> me a good disability councellor to help me to change my approach. I >> am really in trouble. >> >> On 2/21/19, Amar Jain wrote: >>> While I became blind in my early childhood, but more than happy to >>> talk it through. >>> >>> Acceptance and ownership of your disability in this phase will >>> decide your future. Feel free to call me on 9892622230. >>> >>> Regards, >>> Amar Jain >>> >>> Sent from my iPhone >>> >>>> On 21-Feb-2019, at 7:35 PM, Vamshi. G wrote: >>>> >>>> I am exactly like you. Could drive a bike ten years ago but can not >>>> even >>>> walk on the road. Don’t read books or videos. Meet and stay together >>>> with people who have similar conditions like you. Peer counsel is >>>> the best medicine. Will be happy to help. Call me on 9949349497 . >>>> >>>> Remember that you are neither the first one nor the only one to >>>> undergo this phase of life. Most of us had seen it in our lives. >>>> >>>> >>>> >>>> Regards >>>> Vamshi >>>> >>>>> On 21-Feb-2019, at 6:47 PM, harshu dubey >>>>> wrote: >>>>> >>>>> My name is Hari Narayan and I am am low vision too. I know it's >>>>> difficult to accept few facts but please don't loose hope call me >>>>> let's see if I could help you somewhere my number is 9821454995 >>>>> >>>>> On Thu 21 Feb, 2019, 6:23 PM Alvesh Shokeen, >>>>> >>>>> wrote: >>>>> >>>>>> Hi all, I am 32 year old, unmarried and posted on a reputed >>>>>> government service. But I am gradually losing my sight due to RP. >>>>>> Erlier I was able to see the world from my eyes, but now >>>>>> everything is becoming blurred. The matter of the fact is, I am >>>>>> gradually losing the hope to live in this world. I cry all the time >>>>>> after my office hours. >>>>>> I feel lonely. I don't enjoy anything now. As I am most of the >>>>&
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Hi Alvesh I too is a late blind person. I had virtually lost my vision about four years back. Currently I have one Lee alight perception. I was working as a professor in a private university the Department of chemical engineering and had to leave the job owing to this as one of the reason. In case you require any more emotional support or anything, kindly do reach out to me and I would be very eager to assist you, both professionally and personally on how to tackle your current situation. I had undergone similar situation in my past 55 years of age. Kindly do get in touch with me and my mobile number is given in the signature panel below. Also if you feel right, you may forward your mobile number to me and I will reach out to you. Nothing is impossible in this world. Keep one thing in your mind, and that is, not to lose your self confidence. Regards, Prof. B. S. M. Kumar, MSc., MTech., PhD, Cell: +91 9840139849 Sent from my iPhone > On 21-Feb-2019, at 18:22, Alvesh Shokeen wrote: > > Hi all, I am 32 year old, unmarried and posted on a reputed government > service. But I am gradually losing my sight due to RP. > Erlier I was able to see the world from my eyes, but now everything is > becoming blurred. The matter of the fact is, I am gradually losing the > hope to live in this world. I cry all the time after my office hours. > I feel lonely. I don't enjoy anything now. As I am most of the time > engrossed into my previous sightful life. I feel everything is going > away, and I feel very hopeless. > Kindly suggest me any good books to regain my confidence to live in > this life. Also tell me any video/audio content so that I could learn > how to live life with disability. > Please understand my situation, as I have almost lost all the hopes. > > > Search for old postings at: > http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ > > To unsubscribe send a message to > accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in > with the subject unsubscribe. > > To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, please > visit the list home page at > http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in > > > Disclaimer: > 1. Contents of the mails, factual, or otherwise, reflect the thinking of the > person sending the mail and AI in no way relates itself to its veracity; > > 2. AI cannot be held liable for any commission/omission based on the mails > sent through this mailing list.. > Search for old postings at: http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ To unsubscribe send a message to accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in with the subject unsubscribe. To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, please visit the list home page at http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in Disclaimer: 1. Contents of the mails, factual, or otherwise, reflect the thinking of the person sending the mail and AI in no way relates itself to its veracity; 2. AI cannot be held liable for any commission/omission based on the mails sent through this mailing list..
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Firstly, sympathy makes it worse. So you need no sympathies. Accept the circumstances as they come to you and devise the necessary mechanism to cope with the new situations. Be brave and develop a spirit of struggle against all odds. Ups and downs come and go. It is not our physical power but our mental courage which assists us overpower the unfavourable circumstances. You say, you have become dependent and even cannot cross a road without support. But life is not just about crossing roads. Everybody is dependent upon others in one or the other way. If the richest man, with all his bodily capacities happens to drop amongst the community, whose language is unknown to him, he cannot ask for a glass of water without dependence on somebody who knows both the languages and can translates for him. There are many who are literate enough but still cannot fill in the bank documents. They bother bank employees but do not feel that they are dependent. When one uses public transport, he's dependent on the driver; lest the driver should meet with an accident and the passengers suffer injuries. How many examples can I give. So do not feel ashamed of dependence upon others. What else is your problem? -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of Alvesh Shokeen Sent: Thursday, February 21, 2019 9:10 PM To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerning the disabled. Subject: Re: [AI] Urgent emotional support required Thanks for your support friends. But indeed this is a difficult time for me. I am unable to accept this condition. I haven't married so far just because of the reason that later in my life, what if my partner leaves me alone? I am unable to share my condition with my parants as wel as they will be completely disappointed listening that I will be blind in near future. I am always fantasising about driving bike, going out in the market with my friends , but all of sudden I realise, I am no more in that well condition to do these all things at my own. I will have to remain dependent upon others even for crossing the road, so what else can I do now? You are right, I should have such friends who have gone through similar experiences. Let me talk to the people. If possible, suggest me a good disability councellor to help me to change my approach. I am really in trouble. On 2/21/19, Amar Jain wrote: > While I became blind in my early childhood, but more than happy to > talk it through. > > Acceptance and ownership of your disability in this phase will decide > your future. Feel free to call me on 9892622230. > > Regards, > Amar Jain > > Sent from my iPhone > >> On 21-Feb-2019, at 7:35 PM, Vamshi. G wrote: >> >> I am exactly like you. Could drive a bike ten years ago but can not even >> walk on the road. Don’t read books or videos. Meet and stay together >> with people who have similar conditions like you. Peer counsel is >> the best medicine. Will be happy to help. Call me on 9949349497 . >> >> Remember that you are neither the first one nor the only one to >> undergo this phase of life. Most of us had seen it in our lives. >> >> >> >> Regards >> Vamshi >> >>> On 21-Feb-2019, at 6:47 PM, harshu dubey wrote: >>> >>> My name is Hari Narayan and I am am low vision too. I know it's >>> difficult to accept few facts but please don't loose hope call me >>> let's see if I could help you somewhere my number is 9821454995 >>> >>> On Thu 21 Feb, 2019, 6:23 PM Alvesh Shokeen, >>> >>> wrote: >>> >>>> Hi all, I am 32 year old, unmarried and posted on a reputed >>>> government service. But I am gradually losing my sight due to RP. >>>> Erlier I was able to see the world from my eyes, but now everything >>>> is becoming blurred. The matter of the fact is, I am gradually >>>> losing the hope to live in this world. I cry all the time after my office >>>> hours. >>>> I feel lonely. I don't enjoy anything now. As I am most of the time >>>> engrossed into my previous sightful life. I feel everything is >>>> going away, and I feel very hopeless. >>>> Kindly suggest me any good books to regain my confidence to live in >>>> this life. Also tell me any video/audio content so that I could >>>> learn how to live life with disability. >>>> Please understand my situation, as I have almost lost all the hopes. >>>> >>>> >>>> Search for old postings at: >>>> http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ >>>> >>>> To unsubscr
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Hi Friend, I am also late blind person . I understand your problem very well.If you want to talk to me then, I am also available for assisting you. Thanks and All the best. On 22/02/2019 11:01 am, Satguru Rathi wrote: Hi, As said by many learned and experienced members here, acceptance is the first key towards a successful and better life and always remember that you are not alone with such condition and there are several ways of doing the same thing. In my life, I have met several people who were in the same condition and are now living a happy and peaceful life after they realized that crying is not the solution and they can still do the same things which they used to do with their vision. Driving bike may not be possible as of now on the Indian roads with vision loss, but this is also not impossible as there are people with blindness who are doing this too outside of India. Further, not able to do one thing is not regrettable if you can do many other better things. in my experience of working on a helpline for people with blindness to guide them about living life with blindness, I've talked to many such people who felt the same way and after they realized about the various options available for them to lead a better life, have moved out of their shells and are now accomplishing their goals. Feel free to talk to me on 9315516985 any time and I will be happy to assist you in any possible manner. Best, Satguru. On 22-02-2019 09:41 AM, Alvesh Shokeen wrote: Thank you friends for your emotional support. I will be calling you for seeking an assistance. Hope I am recovering soon from this emotional breakdown. I am also in Delhi. On 2/21/19, Prerna Sobti wrote: And one more thing I was a corporate trainer nationally and have even trained internationally I was literally living out of a suitcase used to travel everywhere one day in Jaipur next day in Chandigarh morning in Bhopal evening in Delhi and next in Calcutta that was the life and for two years I did not even know anything like assisted technology exists for two years I was without any phone without any thing to do because I was totally unaware so when I can do it so can you you are so much more aware than me so good luck Prerna Sobti On 21-Feb-2019, at 9:09 PM, Alvesh Shokeen wrote: Thanks for your support friends. But indeed this is a difficult time for me. I am unable to accept this condition. I haven't married so far just because of the reason that later in my life, what if my partner leaves me alone? I am unable to share my condition with my parants as wel as they will be completely disappointed listening that I will be blind in near future. I am always fantasising about driving bike, going out in the market with my friends , but all of sudden I realise, I am no more in that well condition to do these all things at my own. I will have to remain dependent upon others even for crossing the road, so what else can I do now? You are right, I should have such friends who have gone through similar experiences. Let me talk to the people. If possible, suggest me a good disability councellor to help me to change my approach. I am really in trouble. On 2/21/19, Amar Jain wrote: While I became blind in my early childhood, but more than happy to talk it through. Acceptance and ownership of your disability in this phase will decide your future. Feel free to call me on 9892622230. Regards, Amar Jain Sent from my iPhone On 21-Feb-2019, at 7:35 PM, Vamshi. G wrote: I am exactly like you. Could drive a bike ten years ago but can not even walk on the road. Don’t read books or videos. Meet and stay together with people who have similar conditions like you. Peer counsel is the best medicine. Will be happy to help. Call me on 9949349497 . Remember that you are neither the first one nor the only one to undergo this phase of life. Most of us had seen it in our lives. Regards Vamshi On 21-Feb-2019, at 6:47 PM, harshu dubey wrote: My name is Hari Narayan and I am am low vision too. I know it's difficult to accept few facts but please don't loose hope call me let's see if I could help you somewhere my number is 9821454995 On Thu 21 Feb, 2019, 6:23 PM Alvesh Shokeen, wrote: Hi all, I am 32 year old, unmarried and posted on a reputed government service. But I am gradually losing my sight due to RP. Erlier I was able to see the world from my eyes, but now everything is becoming blurred. The matter of the fact is, I am gradually losing the hope to live in this world. I cry all the time after my office hours. I feel lonely. I don't enjoy anything now. As I am most of the time engrossed into my previous sightful life. I feel everything is going away, and I feel very hopeless. Kindly suggest me any good books to regain my confidence to live in this life. Also tell me any video/audio content so that I could learn how to live life with disability. Please understand my situation, as I
Re: [AI] Urgent emotional support required
Hi, As said by many learned and experienced members here, acceptance is the first key towards a successful and better life and always remember that you are not alone with such condition and there are several ways of doing the same thing. In my life, I have met several people who were in the same condition and are now living a happy and peaceful life after they realized that crying is not the solution and they can still do the same things which they used to do with their vision. Driving bike may not be possible as of now on the Indian roads with vision loss, but this is also not impossible as there are people with blindness who are doing this too outside of India. Further, not able to do one thing is not regrettable if you can do many other better things. in my experience of working on a helpline for people with blindness to guide them about living life with blindness, I've talked to many such people who felt the same way and after they realized about the various options available for them to lead a better life, have moved out of their shells and are now accomplishing their goals. Feel free to talk to me on 9315516985 any time and I will be happy to assist you in any possible manner. Best, Satguru. On 22-02-2019 09:41 AM, Alvesh Shokeen wrote: Thank you friends for your emotional support. I will be calling you for seeking an assistance. Hope I am recovering soon from this emotional breakdown. I am also in Delhi. On 2/21/19, Prerna Sobti wrote: And one more thing I was a corporate trainer nationally and have even trained internationally I was literally living out of a suitcase used to travel everywhere one day in Jaipur next day in Chandigarh morning in Bhopal evening in Delhi and next in Calcutta that was the life and for two years I did not even know anything like assisted technology exists for two years I was without any phone without any thing to do because I was totally unaware so when I can do it so can you you are so much more aware than me so good luck Prerna Sobti On 21-Feb-2019, at 9:09 PM, Alvesh Shokeen wrote: Thanks for your support friends. But indeed this is a difficult time for me. I am unable to accept this condition. I haven't married so far just because of the reason that later in my life, what if my partner leaves me alone? I am unable to share my condition with my parants as wel as they will be completely disappointed listening that I will be blind in near future. I am always fantasising about driving bike, going out in the market with my friends , but all of sudden I realise, I am no more in that well condition to do these all things at my own. I will have to remain dependent upon others even for crossing the road, so what else can I do now? You are right, I should have such friends who have gone through similar experiences. Let me talk to the people. If possible, suggest me a good disability councellor to help me to change my approach. I am really in trouble. On 2/21/19, Amar Jain wrote: While I became blind in my early childhood, but more than happy to talk it through. Acceptance and ownership of your disability in this phase will decide your future. Feel free to call me on 9892622230. Regards, Amar Jain Sent from my iPhone On 21-Feb-2019, at 7:35 PM, Vamshi. G wrote: I am exactly like you. Could drive a bike ten years ago but can not even walk on the road. Don’t read books or videos. Meet and stay together with people who have similar conditions like you. Peer counsel is the best medicine. Will be happy to help. Call me on 9949349497 . Remember that you are neither the first one nor the only one to undergo this phase of life. Most of us had seen it in our lives. Regards Vamshi On 21-Feb-2019, at 6:47 PM, harshu dubey wrote: My name is Hari Narayan and I am am low vision too. I know it's difficult to accept few facts but please don't loose hope call me let's see if I could help you somewhere my number is 9821454995 On Thu 21 Feb, 2019, 6:23 PM Alvesh Shokeen, wrote: Hi all, I am 32 year old, unmarried and posted on a reputed government service. But I am gradually losing my sight due to RP. Erlier I was able to see the world from my eyes, but now everything is becoming blurred. The matter of the fact is, I am gradually losing the hope to live in this world. I cry all the time after my office hours. I feel lonely. I don't enjoy anything now. As I am most of the time engrossed into my previous sightful life. I feel everything is going away, and I feel very hopeless. Kindly suggest me any good books to regain my confidence to live in this life. Also tell me any video/audio content so that I could learn how to live life with disability. Please understand my situation, as I have almost lost all the hopes. Search for old postings at: http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ To unsubscribe send a message to accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in with the subject unsubscribe. To change your subscription
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Thank you friends for your emotional support. I will be calling you for seeking an assistance. Hope I am recovering soon from this emotional breakdown. I am also in Delhi. On 2/21/19, Prerna Sobti wrote: > And one more thing I was a corporate trainer nationally and have even > trained internationally I was literally living out of a suitcase used to > travel everywhere one day in Jaipur next day in Chandigarh morning in Bhopal > evening in Delhi and next in Calcutta that was the life and for two years I > did not even know anything like assisted technology exists for two years I > was without any phone without any thing to do because I was totally unaware > so when I can do it so can you you are so much more aware than me so good > luck > > Prerna Sobti > >> On 21-Feb-2019, at 9:09 PM, Alvesh Shokeen >> wrote: >> >> Thanks for your support friends. But indeed this is a difficult time >> for me. I am unable to accept this condition. I haven't married so far >> just because of the reason that later in my life, what if my partner >> leaves me alone? I am unable to share my condition with my parants as >> wel as they will be completely disappointed listening that I will be >> blind in near future. >> I am always fantasising about driving bike, going out in the market >> with my friends , but all of sudden I realise, I am no more in that >> well condition to do these all things at my own. I will have to remain >> dependent upon others even for crossing the road, so what else can I >> do now? >> You are right, I should have such friends who have gone through >> similar experiences. Let me talk to the people. If possible, suggest >> me a good disability councellor to help me to change my approach. I >> am really in trouble. >> >> On 2/21/19, Amar Jain wrote: >>> While I became blind in my early childhood, but more than happy to talk >>> it >>> through. >>> >>> Acceptance and ownership of your disability in this phase will decide >>> your >>> future. Feel free to call me on 9892622230. >>> >>> Regards, >>> Amar Jain >>> >>> Sent from my iPhone >>> On 21-Feb-2019, at 7:35 PM, Vamshi. G wrote: I am exactly like you. Could drive a bike ten years ago but can not even walk on the road. Don’t read books or videos. Meet and stay together with people who have similar conditions like you. Peer counsel is the best medicine. Will be happy to help. Call me on 9949349497 . Remember that you are neither the first one nor the only one to undergo this phase of life. Most of us had seen it in our lives. Regards Vamshi > On 21-Feb-2019, at 6:47 PM, harshu dubey > wrote: > > My name is Hari Narayan and I am am low vision too. I know it's > difficult > to accept few facts but please don't loose hope call me let's see if I > could help you somewhere my number is 9821454995 > > On Thu 21 Feb, 2019, 6:23 PM Alvesh Shokeen, > wrote: > >> Hi all, I am 32 year old, unmarried and posted on a reputed government >> service. But I am gradually losing my sight due to RP. >> Erlier I was able to see the world from my eyes, but now everything is >> becoming blurred. The matter of the fact is, I am gradually losing the >> hope to live in this world. I cry all the time after my office hours. >> I feel lonely. I don't enjoy anything now. As I am most of the time >> engrossed into my previous sightful life. I feel everything is going >> away, and I feel very hopeless. >> Kindly suggest me any good books to regain my confidence to live in >> this life. Also tell me any video/audio content so that I could learn >> how to live life with disability. >> Please understand my situation, as I have almost lost all the hopes. >> >> >> Search for old postings at: >> http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ >> >> To unsubscribe send a message to >> accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in >> with the subject unsubscribe. >> >> To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, >> please visit the list home page at >> http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in >> >> >> Disclaimer: >> 1. Contents of the mails, factual, or otherwise, reflect the thinking >> of >> the person sending the mail and AI in no way relates itself to its >> veracity; >> >> 2. AI cannot be held liable for any commission/omission based on the >> mails >> sent through this mailing list.. >> >> > > Search for old postings at: > http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ > > To unsubscribe send a message to > accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in > with the subject unsubscribe. > > To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, > please visit the list home page at >
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And one more thing I was a corporate trainer nationally and have even trained internationally I was literally living out of a suitcase used to travel everywhere one day in Jaipur next day in Chandigarh morning in Bhopal evening in Delhi and next in Calcutta that was the life and for two years I did not even know anything like assisted technology exists for two years I was without any phone without any thing to do because I was totally unaware so when I can do it so can you you are so much more aware than me so good luck Prerna Sobti > On 21-Feb-2019, at 9:09 PM, Alvesh Shokeen wrote: > > Thanks for your support friends. But indeed this is a difficult time > for me. I am unable to accept this condition. I haven't married so far > just because of the reason that later in my life, what if my partner > leaves me alone? I am unable to share my condition with my parants as > wel as they will be completely disappointed listening that I will be > blind in near future. > I am always fantasising about driving bike, going out in the market > with my friends , but all of sudden I realise, I am no more in that > well condition to do these all things at my own. I will have to remain > dependent upon others even for crossing the road, so what else can I > do now? > You are right, I should have such friends who have gone through > similar experiences. Let me talk to the people. If possible, suggest > me a good disability councellor to help me to change my approach. I > am really in trouble. > > On 2/21/19, Amar Jain wrote: >> While I became blind in my early childhood, but more than happy to talk it >> through. >> >> Acceptance and ownership of your disability in this phase will decide your >> future. Feel free to call me on 9892622230. >> >> Regards, >> Amar Jain >> >> Sent from my iPhone >> >>> On 21-Feb-2019, at 7:35 PM, Vamshi. G wrote: >>> >>> I am exactly like you. Could drive a bike ten years ago but can not even >>> walk on the road. Don’t read books or videos. Meet and stay together >>> with people who have similar conditions like you. Peer counsel is the >>> best medicine. Will be happy to help. Call me on 9949349497 . >>> >>> Remember that you are neither the first one nor the only one to undergo >>> this phase of life. Most of us had seen it in our lives. >>> >>> >>> >>> Regards >>> Vamshi >>> On 21-Feb-2019, at 6:47 PM, harshu dubey wrote: My name is Hari Narayan and I am am low vision too. I know it's difficult to accept few facts but please don't loose hope call me let's see if I could help you somewhere my number is 9821454995 On Thu 21 Feb, 2019, 6:23 PM Alvesh Shokeen, wrote: > Hi all, I am 32 year old, unmarried and posted on a reputed government > service. But I am gradually losing my sight due to RP. > Erlier I was able to see the world from my eyes, but now everything is > becoming blurred. The matter of the fact is, I am gradually losing the > hope to live in this world. I cry all the time after my office hours. > I feel lonely. I don't enjoy anything now. As I am most of the time > engrossed into my previous sightful life. I feel everything is going > away, and I feel very hopeless. > Kindly suggest me any good books to regain my confidence to live in > this life. Also tell me any video/audio content so that I could learn > how to live life with disability. > Please understand my situation, as I have almost lost all the hopes. > > > Search for old postings at: > http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ > > To unsubscribe send a message to > accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in > with the subject unsubscribe. > > To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, > please visit the list home page at > http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in > > > Disclaimer: > 1. Contents of the mails, factual, or otherwise, reflect the thinking of > the person sending the mail and AI in no way relates itself to its > veracity; > > 2. AI cannot be held liable for any commission/omission based on the > mails > sent through this mailing list.. > > Search for old postings at: http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ To unsubscribe send a message to accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in with the subject unsubscribe. To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, please visit the list home page at http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in Disclaimer: 1. Contents of the mails, factual, or otherwise, reflect the thinking of the person sending the mail and AI in no way relates itself to its veracity; 2. AI cannot be held liable for any commissi
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Hi all I guess this mail is going to be very long so apologies for taking a lot of your time! And if I am breaking any rules kindly excuse me because I’m not aware of many and I’m new to this list! This is an amazing group which I have realised after reading the responses to our friend who is an emotional low phase of his life. Friend we are all there with you I would like to share my story over here with you and also share the link of my YouTube channel which is a motivational channel and a significant yet small part of my life was shared in this with you that’s why am sharing the specific link over here at the end of the email. I lost my eyesight in 2013 due to an autoimmune disorder which is c not curable in allopathy! A friend of mine died after fighting with the same disorder for five years and another friend committed suicide who was also going through the same disorder! I was diagnosed with the same disorder in 2016 and doctors had said I will not see the light of 2017 but here I am among you all happily enjoying 2019. I was part of this group I guess in 2017 and from this group I made a lot of friends who really helped me and are still helping me to deal with the situation so dear friend please don’t lose hope! I don’t know how many of you believe in alternate therapies but I am a living example of the success rate of positivity of determination because I am not going to lose this battle and I am confident that my eyes dilate will be restored completely the process is already on and I daily which relies that I am living an independent life again with fully restored eyesight! My suggestion is first of all stop thinking that you have already lost your eyesight second IRB does have your in alternate therapies like Ayurveda and homoeopathy if need be I can share the details of the doctors but they’re all in Delhi In 2012 the famous Dr Shroff who is president of India’s doctor had asked me to remove my right eye and get a glass I fixed but I was determined that I am going to get my eyesight back and by the grace of God my determination everybody’s prayers my right eye is just like any other normal life and has started recovering and is showing the signs of return of eyesight Just remember Medical is the word there in the dictionary because miracles do happen if I am alive and recovering you are way way way too early in your disease to recover quicker Healing modalities like Brannick healing , Law of attraction, power of positivity, Ricky have shown results in such ailments And most important please go and talk to your parents it is just the fear in our mind that the situation is so aggravated they will be disheartened they will crack down et cetera et cetera but the truth is you will be so much relieved after talking to them trust me it is not worth all the tensions feel that you have been taking ever since you came to know about it I am saying all this with experience Ask the universe and trust me you will get all the love support medical treatments connections contacts love once you are open minded enough to receive it I say it again repeatedly I am a living example of this Brother I tried to commit suicide seven times in my mind I had already decided the date time and how I’m going to do it LOL now it is a real funny memory There are so many success stories around us we just need to see and seek them Yes you need to have a good homeopathy doctor and a good Ayurvedic doctor I know them but as I said a earlier they are both in Delhi! You can send me an email personally if you wish to seek any more information may God be with you and all the fears vanish in divinity > On 21-Feb-2019, at 6:22 PM, Alvesh Shokeen wrote: > > Hi all, I am 32 year old, unmarried and posted on a reputed government > service. But I am gradually losing my sight due to RP. > Erlier I was able to see the world from my eyes, but now everything is > becoming blurred. The matter of the fact is, I am gradually losing the > hope to live in this world. I cry all the time after my office hours. > I feel lonely. I don't enjoy anything now. As I am most of the time > engrossed into my previous sightful life. I feel everything is going > away, and I feel very hopeless. > Kindly suggest me any good books to regain my confidence to live in > this life. Also tell me any video/audio content so that I could learn > how to live life with disability. > Please understand my situation, as I have almost lost all the hopes. > > > Search for old postings at: > http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ > > To unsubscribe send a message to > accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in > with the subject unsubscribe. > > To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, please > visit the list home page at > http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in > > > Disclaimer: > 1. Contents of the mails, factual, or otherwise, reflect the thinking of t
Re: [AI] Urgent emotional support required
This is a very normal situation with the most of the partially sited person in the mid age of life, so no need to think much and except the things. I can understand your situation but what to do? you have to move forward with the positive atitude. Don't put pressure on your eyes and also avoid to use your site to see small things. - Original Message - From: "harshu dubey" To: "AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerning the disabled." Sent: Thursday, February 21, 2019 9:15 PM Subject: Re: [AI] Urgent emotional support required. Please share your number if you don't want to share here share that on my number it's 9821454995 On Thu 21 Feb, 2019, 9:10 PM Alvesh Shokeen, wrote: Thanks for your support friends. But indeed this is a difficult time for me. I am unable to accept this condition. I haven't married so far just because of the reason that later in my life, what if my partner leaves me alone? I am unable to share my condition with my parants as wel as they will be completely disappointed listening that I will be blind in near future. I am always fantasising about driving bike, going out in the market with my friends , but all of sudden I realise, I am no more in that well condition to do these all things at my own. I will have to remain dependent upon others even for crossing the road, so what else can I do now? You are right, I should have such friends who have gone through similar experiences. Let me talk to the people. If possible, suggest me a good disability councellor to help me to change my approach. I am really in trouble. On 2/21/19, Amar Jain wrote: > While I became blind in my early childhood, but more than happy to talk it > through. > > Acceptance and ownership of your disability in this phase will decide your > future. Feel free to call me on 9892622230. > > Regards, > Amar Jain > > Sent from my iPhone > >> On 21-Feb-2019, at 7:35 PM, Vamshi. G wrote: >> >> I am exactly like you. Could drive a bike ten years ago but can not even >> walk on the road. Don’t read books or videos. Meet and stay >> together >> with people who have similar conditions like you. Peer counsel is >> the >> best medicine. Will be happy to help. Call me on 9949349497 . >> >> Remember that you are neither the first one nor the only one to >> undergo >> this phase of life. Most of us had seen it in our lives. >> >> >> >> Regards >> Vamshi >> >>> On 21-Feb-2019, at 6:47 PM, harshu dubey wrote: >>> >>> My name is Hari Narayan and I am am low vision too. I know it's difficult >>> to accept few facts but please don't loose hope call me let's see if >>> I >>> could help you somewhere my number is 9821454995 >>> >>> On Thu 21 Feb, 2019, 6:23 PM Alvesh Shokeen, >>> >>> wrote: >>> >>>> Hi all, I am 32 year old, unmarried and posted on a reputed >>>> government >>>> service. But I am gradually losing my sight due to RP. >>>> Erlier I was able to see the world from my eyes, but now everything >>>> is >>>> becoming blurred. The matter of the fact is, I am gradually losing >>>> the >>>> hope to live in this world. I cry all the time after my office >>>> hours. >>>> I feel lonely. I don't enjoy anything now. As I am most of the time >>>> engrossed into my previous sightful life. I feel everything is going >>>> away, and I feel very hopeless. >>>> Kindly suggest me any good books to regain my confidence to live in >>>> this life. Also tell me any video/audio content so that I could >>>> learn >>>> how to live life with disability. >>>> Please understand my situation, as I have almost lost all the hopes. >>>> >>>> >>>> Search for old postings at: >>>> http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ >>>> >>>> To unsubscribe send a message to >>>> accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in >>>> with the subject unsubscribe. >>>> >>>> To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other >>>> changes, >>>> please visit the list home page at >>>> http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in >>>> >>>> >>>> Disclaimer: >>>> 1. Contents of the mails, factual, or otherwise, reflect the >>>> thinking of >>>> the person sending the mail and AI in no way relates itself to its >>>> v
Re: [AI] Urgent emotional support required
Please share your number if you don't want to share here share that on my number it's 9821454995 On Thu 21 Feb, 2019, 9:10 PM Alvesh Shokeen, wrote: > Thanks for your support friends. But indeed this is a difficult time > for me. I am unable to accept this condition. I haven't married so far > just because of the reason that later in my life, what if my partner > leaves me alone? I am unable to share my condition with my parants as > wel as they will be completely disappointed listening that I will be > blind in near future. > I am always fantasising about driving bike, going out in the market > with my friends , but all of sudden I realise, I am no more in that > well condition to do these all things at my own. I will have to remain > dependent upon others even for crossing the road, so what else can I > do now? > You are right, I should have such friends who have gone through > similar experiences. Let me talk to the people. If possible, suggest > me a good disability councellor to help me to change my approach. I > am really in trouble. > > On 2/21/19, Amar Jain wrote: > > While I became blind in my early childhood, but more than happy to talk > it > > through. > > > > Acceptance and ownership of your disability in this phase will decide > your > > future. Feel free to call me on 9892622230. > > > > Regards, > > Amar Jain > > > > Sent from my iPhone > > > >> On 21-Feb-2019, at 7:35 PM, Vamshi. G wrote: > >> > >> I am exactly like you. Could drive a bike ten years ago but can not > even > >> walk on the road. Don’t read books or videos. Meet and stay together > >> with people who have similar conditions like you. Peer counsel is the > >> best medicine. Will be happy to help. Call me on 9949349497 . > >> > >> Remember that you are neither the first one nor the only one to undergo > >> this phase of life. Most of us had seen it in our lives. > >> > >> > >> > >> Regards > >> Vamshi > >> > >>> On 21-Feb-2019, at 6:47 PM, harshu dubey > wrote: > >>> > >>> My name is Hari Narayan and I am am low vision too. I know it's > difficult > >>> to accept few facts but please don't loose hope call me let's see if I > >>> could help you somewhere my number is 9821454995 > >>> > >>> On Thu 21 Feb, 2019, 6:23 PM Alvesh Shokeen, > >>> wrote: > >>> > Hi all, I am 32 year old, unmarried and posted on a reputed government > service. But I am gradually losing my sight due to RP. > Erlier I was able to see the world from my eyes, but now everything is > becoming blurred. The matter of the fact is, I am gradually losing the > hope to live in this world. I cry all the time after my office hours. > I feel lonely. I don't enjoy anything now. As I am most of the time > engrossed into my previous sightful life. I feel everything is going > away, and I feel very hopeless. > Kindly suggest me any good books to regain my confidence to live in > this life. Also tell me any video/audio content so that I could learn > how to live life with disability. > Please understand my situation, as I have almost lost all the hopes. > > > Search for old postings at: > http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ > > To unsubscribe send a message to > accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in > with the subject unsubscribe. > > To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, > please visit the list home page at > > http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in > > > Disclaimer: > 1. Contents of the mails, factual, or otherwise, reflect the thinking > of > the person sending the mail and AI in no way relates itself to its > veracity; > > 2. AI cannot be held liable for any commission/omission based on the > mails > sent through this mailing list.. > > > >>> > >>> Search for old postings at: > >>> http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ > >>> > >>> To unsubscribe send a message to > >>> accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in > >>> with the subject unsubscribe. > >>> > >>> To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, > >>> please visit the list home page at > >>> > http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in > >>> > >>> > >>> Disclaimer: > >>> 1. Contents of the mails, factual, or otherwise, reflect the thinking > of > >>> the person sending the mail and AI in no way relates itself to its > >>> veracity; > >>> > >>> 2. AI cannot be held liable for any commission/omission based on the > >>> mails sent through this mailing list.. > >>> > >> > >> > >> Search for old postings at: > >> http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ > >> > >> To unsubscribe send a message to > >> accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in > >> with the subject unsubscribe. > >> > >> To change your subscription to digest mode or make any ot
Re: [AI] Urgent emotional support required
Thanks for your support friends. But indeed this is a difficult time for me. I am unable to accept this condition. I haven't married so far just because of the reason that later in my life, what if my partner leaves me alone? I am unable to share my condition with my parants as wel as they will be completely disappointed listening that I will be blind in near future. I am always fantasising about driving bike, going out in the market with my friends , but all of sudden I realise, I am no more in that well condition to do these all things at my own. I will have to remain dependent upon others even for crossing the road, so what else can I do now? You are right, I should have such friends who have gone through similar experiences. Let me talk to the people. If possible, suggest me a good disability councellor to help me to change my approach. I am really in trouble. On 2/21/19, Amar Jain wrote: > While I became blind in my early childhood, but more than happy to talk it > through. > > Acceptance and ownership of your disability in this phase will decide your > future. Feel free to call me on 9892622230. > > Regards, > Amar Jain > > Sent from my iPhone > >> On 21-Feb-2019, at 7:35 PM, Vamshi. G wrote: >> >> I am exactly like you. Could drive a bike ten years ago but can not even >> walk on the road. Don’t read books or videos. Meet and stay together >> with people who have similar conditions like you. Peer counsel is the >> best medicine. Will be happy to help. Call me on 9949349497 . >> >> Remember that you are neither the first one nor the only one to undergo >> this phase of life. Most of us had seen it in our lives. >> >> >> >> Regards >> Vamshi >> >>> On 21-Feb-2019, at 6:47 PM, harshu dubey wrote: >>> >>> My name is Hari Narayan and I am am low vision too. I know it's difficult >>> to accept few facts but please don't loose hope call me let's see if I >>> could help you somewhere my number is 9821454995 >>> >>> On Thu 21 Feb, 2019, 6:23 PM Alvesh Shokeen, >>> wrote: >>> Hi all, I am 32 year old, unmarried and posted on a reputed government service. But I am gradually losing my sight due to RP. Erlier I was able to see the world from my eyes, but now everything is becoming blurred. The matter of the fact is, I am gradually losing the hope to live in this world. I cry all the time after my office hours. I feel lonely. I don't enjoy anything now. As I am most of the time engrossed into my previous sightful life. I feel everything is going away, and I feel very hopeless. Kindly suggest me any good books to regain my confidence to live in this life. Also tell me any video/audio content so that I could learn how to live life with disability. Please understand my situation, as I have almost lost all the hopes. Search for old postings at: http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ To unsubscribe send a message to accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in with the subject unsubscribe. To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, please visit the list home page at http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in Disclaimer: 1. Contents of the mails, factual, or otherwise, reflect the thinking of the person sending the mail and AI in no way relates itself to its veracity; 2. AI cannot be held liable for any commission/omission based on the mails sent through this mailing list.. >>> >>> Search for old postings at: >>> http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ >>> >>> To unsubscribe send a message to >>> accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in >>> with the subject unsubscribe. >>> >>> To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, >>> please visit the list home page at >>> http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in >>> >>> >>> Disclaimer: >>> 1. Contents of the mails, factual, or otherwise, reflect the thinking of >>> the person sending the mail and AI in no way relates itself to its >>> veracity; >>> >>> 2. AI cannot be held liable for any commission/omission based on the >>> mails sent through this mailing list.. >>> >> >> >> Search for old postings at: >> http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ >> >> To unsubscribe send a message to >> accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in >> with the subject unsubscribe. >> >> To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, >> please visit the list home page at >> http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in >> >> >> Disclaimer: >> 1. Contents of the mails, factual, or otherwise, reflect the thinking of >> the person sending the mail and AI in no way relates itself to its >> veracity; >> >> 2. AI cannot be held liable for any commission/omission based on the mails >> sent through th
Re: [AI] Urgent emotional support required
While I became blind in my early childhood, but more than happy to talk it through. Acceptance and ownership of your disability in this phase will decide your future. Feel free to call me on 9892622230. Regards, Amar Jain Sent from my iPhone > On 21-Feb-2019, at 7:35 PM, Vamshi. G wrote: > > I am exactly like you. Could drive a bike ten years ago but can not even > walk on the road. Don’t read books or videos. Meet and stay together with > people who have similar conditions like you. Peer counsel is the best > medicine. Will be happy to help. Call me on 9949349497 . > > Remember that you are neither the first one nor the only one to undergo this > phase of life. Most of us had seen it in our lives. > > > > Regards > Vamshi > >> On 21-Feb-2019, at 6:47 PM, harshu dubey wrote: >> >> My name is Hari Narayan and I am am low vision too. I know it's difficult >> to accept few facts but please don't loose hope call me let's see if I >> could help you somewhere my number is 9821454995 >> >> On Thu 21 Feb, 2019, 6:23 PM Alvesh Shokeen, >> wrote: >> >>> Hi all, I am 32 year old, unmarried and posted on a reputed government >>> service. But I am gradually losing my sight due to RP. >>> Erlier I was able to see the world from my eyes, but now everything is >>> becoming blurred. The matter of the fact is, I am gradually losing the >>> hope to live in this world. I cry all the time after my office hours. >>> I feel lonely. I don't enjoy anything now. As I am most of the time >>> engrossed into my previous sightful life. I feel everything is going >>> away, and I feel very hopeless. >>> Kindly suggest me any good books to regain my confidence to live in >>> this life. Also tell me any video/audio content so that I could learn >>> how to live life with disability. >>> Please understand my situation, as I have almost lost all the hopes. >>> >>> >>> Search for old postings at: >>> http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ >>> >>> To unsubscribe send a message to >>> accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in >>> with the subject unsubscribe. >>> >>> To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, >>> please visit the list home page at >>> http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in >>> >>> >>> Disclaimer: >>> 1. Contents of the mails, factual, or otherwise, reflect the thinking of >>> the person sending the mail and AI in no way relates itself to its veracity; >>> >>> 2. AI cannot be held liable for any commission/omission based on the mails >>> sent through this mailing list.. >>> >>> >> >> Search for old postings at: >> http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ >> >> To unsubscribe send a message to >> accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in >> with the subject unsubscribe. >> >> To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, please >> visit the list home page at >> http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in >> >> >> Disclaimer: >> 1. Contents of the mails, factual, or otherwise, reflect the thinking of the >> person sending the mail and AI in no way relates itself to its veracity; >> >> 2. AI cannot be held liable for any commission/omission based on the mails >> sent through this mailing list.. >> > > > Search for old postings at: > http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ > > To unsubscribe send a message to > accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in > with the subject unsubscribe. > > To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, please > visit the list home page at > http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in > > > Disclaimer: > 1. Contents of the mails, factual, or otherwise, reflect the thinking of the > person sending the mail and AI in no way relates itself to its veracity; > > 2. AI cannot be held liable for any commission/omission based on the mails > sent through this mailing list.. > Search for old postings at: http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ To unsubscribe send a message to accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in with the subject unsubscribe. To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, please visit the list home page at http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in Disclaimer: 1. Contents of the mails, factual, or otherwise, reflect the thinking of the person sending the mail and AI in no way relates itself to its veracity; 2. AI cannot be held liable for any commission/omission based on the mails sent through this mailing list..
Re: [AI] Urgent emotional support required
I am exactly like you. Could drive a bike ten years ago but can not even walk on the road. Don’t read books or videos. Meet and stay together with people who have similar conditions like you. Peer counsel is the best medicine. Will be happy to help. Call me on 9949349497 . Remember that you are neither the first one nor the only one to undergo this phase of life. Most of us had seen it in our lives. Regards Vamshi > On 21-Feb-2019, at 6:47 PM, harshu dubey wrote: > > My name is Hari Narayan and I am am low vision too. I know it's difficult > to accept few facts but please don't loose hope call me let's see if I > could help you somewhere my number is 9821454995 > > On Thu 21 Feb, 2019, 6:23 PM Alvesh Shokeen, > wrote: > >> Hi all, I am 32 year old, unmarried and posted on a reputed government >> service. But I am gradually losing my sight due to RP. >> Erlier I was able to see the world from my eyes, but now everything is >> becoming blurred. The matter of the fact is, I am gradually losing the >> hope to live in this world. I cry all the time after my office hours. >> I feel lonely. I don't enjoy anything now. As I am most of the time >> engrossed into my previous sightful life. I feel everything is going >> away, and I feel very hopeless. >> Kindly suggest me any good books to regain my confidence to live in >> this life. Also tell me any video/audio content so that I could learn >> how to live life with disability. >> Please understand my situation, as I have almost lost all the hopes. >> >> >> Search for old postings at: >> http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ >> >> To unsubscribe send a message to >> accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in >> with the subject unsubscribe. >> >> To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, >> please visit the list home page at >> http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in >> >> >> Disclaimer: >> 1. Contents of the mails, factual, or otherwise, reflect the thinking of >> the person sending the mail and AI in no way relates itself to its veracity; >> >> 2. AI cannot be held liable for any commission/omission based on the mails >> sent through this mailing list.. >> >> > > Search for old postings at: > http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ > > To unsubscribe send a message to > accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in > with the subject unsubscribe. > > To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, please > visit the list home page at > http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in > > > Disclaimer: > 1. Contents of the mails, factual, or otherwise, reflect the thinking of the > person sending the mail and AI in no way relates itself to its veracity; > > 2. AI cannot be held liable for any commission/omission based on the mails > sent through this mailing list.. > Search for old postings at: http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ To unsubscribe send a message to accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in with the subject unsubscribe. To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, please visit the list home page at http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in Disclaimer: 1. Contents of the mails, factual, or otherwise, reflect the thinking of the person sending the mail and AI in no way relates itself to its veracity; 2. AI cannot be held liable for any commission/omission based on the mails sent through this mailing list..
Re: [AI] Urgent emotional support required
My name is Hari Narayan and I am am low vision too. I know it's difficult to accept few facts but please don't loose hope call me let's see if I could help you somewhere my number is 9821454995 On Thu 21 Feb, 2019, 6:23 PM Alvesh Shokeen, wrote: > Hi all, I am 32 year old, unmarried and posted on a reputed government > service. But I am gradually losing my sight due to RP. > Erlier I was able to see the world from my eyes, but now everything is > becoming blurred. The matter of the fact is, I am gradually losing the > hope to live in this world. I cry all the time after my office hours. > I feel lonely. I don't enjoy anything now. As I am most of the time > engrossed into my previous sightful life. I feel everything is going > away, and I feel very hopeless. > Kindly suggest me any good books to regain my confidence to live in > this life. Also tell me any video/audio content so that I could learn > how to live life with disability. > Please understand my situation, as I have almost lost all the hopes. > > > Search for old postings at: > http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ > > To unsubscribe send a message to > accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in > with the subject unsubscribe. > > To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, > please visit the list home page at > http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in > > > Disclaimer: > 1. Contents of the mails, factual, or otherwise, reflect the thinking of > the person sending the mail and AI in no way relates itself to its veracity; > > 2. AI cannot be held liable for any commission/omission based on the mails > sent through this mailing list.. > > Search for old postings at: http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ To unsubscribe send a message to accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in with the subject unsubscribe. To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, please visit the list home page at http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in Disclaimer: 1. Contents of the mails, factual, or otherwise, reflect the thinking of the person sending the mail and AI in no way relates itself to its veracity; 2. AI cannot be held liable for any commission/omission based on the mails sent through this mailing list..
[AI] Urgent emotional support required
Hi all, I am 32 year old, unmarried and posted on a reputed government service. But I am gradually losing my sight due to RP. Erlier I was able to see the world from my eyes, but now everything is becoming blurred. The matter of the fact is, I am gradually losing the hope to live in this world. I cry all the time after my office hours. I feel lonely. I don't enjoy anything now. As I am most of the time engrossed into my previous sightful life. I feel everything is going away, and I feel very hopeless. Kindly suggest me any good books to regain my confidence to live in this life. Also tell me any video/audio content so that I could learn how to live life with disability. Please understand my situation, as I have almost lost all the hopes. Search for old postings at: http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ To unsubscribe send a message to accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in with the subject unsubscribe. To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, please visit the list home page at http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in Disclaimer: 1. Contents of the mails, factual, or otherwise, reflect the thinking of the person sending the mail and AI in no way relates itself to its veracity; 2. AI cannot be held liable for any commission/omission based on the mails sent through this mailing list..
