[AsburyPark] Re: the guy who couldn't read...

2011-08-18 Thread 2fast4u
This is but ONE of the reasons that benefits set aside for
needy people and families, never reach those it's intended
for.   I thank you for sharing this but your cousin's in-law
is a thief!  There's a saying in the Black Community and in
general: What goes around, comes around!  I suffer from
Catholic Guilt.  I could never do anything like this and
expect to get away with it.  Trust me.  Either he'll be found
out and be arrested or as the old folks say; I hope nothing
bad happens to him.  Just remember, God is watching.  So let
him enjoy his ill gotten goods.  It's people like him that give
the poor and down trodden, a bad name.

I didn't know States could add stipulations to receiving
Federal Benefits.  I know that in some states, you can't vote
if you do certain crimes.  The ACLU hasn't challenged this
yet.

--- In AsburyPark@yahoogroups.com, cbrianwatkins@... wrote:

 I agree 100% Sharon
 
 I believe there are ways you can legislate behavior in some manner, and some 
 states do already
 
 In some states violent crime felons are not allowed to receive financial 
 assistance, like food stamps and such
 
 Some states drug test etc
 
 I think there are a couple states that are requiring drug tests prior to 
 getting benefits
 
 What I feel is the problem with government assistance is the loopholes and 
 the ones who purposely take advantage of the system, here's an example, 
 
 My cousins brother in law works full time completely off the books, gets 
 unemployment (been on it for 74wks), and food stamps (receiving them for 
 40wks). His off the books job pays more than mine (which is ridiculous). 
 And get this... the guy buys LOBSTER TAILS every week from Shop Rite with 
 those food stamps.
 
 So he's making more than his actual job he was laid off from. He is 
 collecting $1200 every 2 wks from unemployment (NJ Maximum) and he gets free 
 food
 
 My cousin won't allow him in his house until he stops stealing from the 
 taxpayers
 
 
 So what our elected officials really need to do is figure out how to close 
 the loop holes and stop letting people take advantage of it.I don't have 
 the answers, I wish I did though
 
 
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Re: [AsburyPark] Re: the guy who couldn't read...

2011-08-18 Thread cbrianwatkins
Sharon

That is why my cousin has cut off contact with him, and many others in the 
family have as well, he is officially the family outcast, I'd personally kick 
his butt if ever saw him

I don't think the states can stop federal assistance, but they can stop state 
assistance

I didn't collect unemployment when I got out of the Marines. You can get it, 
and many do, but I was not laid off or fired from the military, my time was up, 
I felt guilty attempting to collect unemployment, and couldn't collect, 
thankfully I found work quick



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Subject: [AsburyPark] Re: the guy who couldn't read...

This is but ONE of the reasons that benefits set aside for
needy people and families, never reach those it's intended
for.   I thank you for sharing this but your cousin's in-law
is a thief!  There's a saying in the Black Community and in
general: What goes around, comes around!  I suffer from
Catholic Guilt.  I could never do anything like this and
expect to get away with it.  Trust me.  Either he'll be found
out and be arrested or as the old folks say; I hope nothing
bad happens to him.  Just remember, God is watching.  So let
him enjoy his ill gotten goods.  It's people like him that give
the poor and down trodden, a bad name.

I didn't know States could add stipulations to receiving
Federal Benefits.  I know that in some states, you can't vote
if you do certain crimes.  The ACLU hasn't challenged this
yet.

--- In AsburyPark@yahoogroups.com, cbrianwatkins@... wrote:

 I agree 100% Sharon
 
 I believe there are ways you can legislate behavior in some manner, and some 
 states do already
 
 In some states violent crime felons are not allowed to receive financial 
 assistance, like food stamps and such
 
 Some states drug test etc
 
 I think there are a couple states that are requiring drug tests prior to 
 getting benefits
 
 What I feel is the problem with government assistance is the loopholes and 
 the ones who purposely take advantage of the system, here's an example, 
 
 My cousins brother in law works full time completely off the books, gets 
 unemployment (been on it for 74wks), and food stamps (receiving them for 
 40wks). His off the books job pays more than mine (which is ridiculous). 
 And get this... the guy buys LOBSTER TAILS every week from Shop Rite with 
 those food stamps.
 
 So he's making more than his actual job he was laid off from. He is 
 collecting $1200 every 2 wks from unemployment (NJ Maximum) and he gets free 
 food
 
 My cousin won't allow him in his house until he stops stealing from the 
 taxpayers
 
 
 So what our elected officials really need to do is figure out how to close 
 the loop holes and stop letting people take advantage of it.I don't have 
 the answers, I wish I did though
 
 
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[AsburyPark] Re: the guy who couldn't read...

2011-08-17 Thread dfsavgny


--- In AsburyPark@yahoogroups.com, Jenni jenni@... wrote:

 But the vast majority that are on welfare or other government programs do
 not even try to better their situations. 


I dont know if that's true. But what I do know is we have created a system that 
has created generations of folks on assistance. Granted, there has been reform.





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[AsburyPark] Re: the guy who couldn't read...

2011-08-17 Thread 2fast4u
This said it all!

The business of low income and poor is big business.

Fortunes are made off the misery of others.  You sound like
you have great kids.

--- In AsburyPark@yahoogroups.com, oakdorf oakdorf@... wrote:

 
 part of what Jim wrote...
 
 the guy who was drunk got visibly enraged.  He burst into tears, screaming, 
 ³JIM!  I¹m 26 years old and I can¹t fucking read!  I can¹t read!  How can I 
 get a job?  I can¹t fucking read!²  That is not his fault.  He was failed by 
 both his family (if one existed) and by the school system.  In that moment, 
 he felt safe to share that rage with me and it was controlled.  In another 
 situation, it might not be. 






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[AsburyPark] Re: the guy who couldn't read...

2011-08-17 Thread 2fast4u
You make a lot of assumptions on why people are on assistance.
Do you realize we're in a recession?  Police, Firemen, Teachers
and executives have lost their jobs and yes, there ARE a lot of one-parent, 
absentee fathers, drugged out mothers, teen moms, etc.
How do you legislate behavior?  Sometimes a foreclosure is the reason, too!  
What you propose is illegal and unconstitutional.
The Constitution pertains to the poor, too!  No need to change laws to suit you.

--- In AsburyPark@yahoogroups.com, Jenni jenni@... wrote:

 If they don't get decent grades (or at least passing), the family loses the
 funding.  We are paying billions of dollars in tax money for assistance
 programs for people who could care less about improving themselves, all they
 are doing is passing the same problem on to the next generation.  There are,
 of course, exceptions - people who have fallen upon hard times and are doing
 the best that they can.  That is exactly what the programs are designed for.
 But the vast majority that are on welfare or other government programs do
 not even try to better their situations.  Laws need to be changed so that if
 they want the assistance, they earn it.  If they don't want to make the
 effort, they lose the assistance and are on their own to figure it out.






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Re: [AsburyPark] Re: the guy who couldn't read...

2011-08-17 Thread cbrianwatkins
I agree 100% Sharon

I believe there are ways you can legislate behavior in some manner, and some 
states do already

In some states violent crime felons are not allowed to receive financial 
assistance, like food stamps and such

Some states drug test etc

I think there are a couple states that are requiring drug tests prior to 
getting benefits

What I feel is the problem with government assistance is the loopholes and the 
ones who purposely take advantage of the system, here's an example, 

My cousins brother in law works full time completely off the books, gets 
unemployment (been on it for 74wks), and food stamps (receiving them for 
40wks). His off the books job pays more than mine (which is ridiculous). And 
get this... the guy buys LOBSTER TAILS every week from Shop Rite with those 
food stamps.

So he's making more than his actual job he was laid off from. He is collecting 
$1200 every 2 wks from unemployment (NJ Maximum) and he gets free food

My cousin won't allow him in his house until he stops stealing from the 
taxpayers


So what our elected officials really need to do is figure out how to close the 
loop holes and stop letting people take advantage of it.I don't have the 
answers, I wish I did though


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Date: Wed, 17 Aug 2011 22:51:08 
To: AsburyPark@yahoogroups.com
Reply-To: AsburyPark@yahoogroups.com
Subject: [AsburyPark] Re: the guy who couldn't read...

You make a lot of assumptions on why people are on assistance.
Do you realize we're in a recession?  Police, Firemen, Teachers
and executives have lost their jobs and yes, there ARE a lot of one-parent, 
absentee fathers, drugged out mothers, teen moms, etc.
How do you legislate behavior?  Sometimes a foreclosure is the reason, too!  
What you propose is illegal and unconstitutional.
The Constitution pertains to the poor, too!  No need to change laws to suit you.

--- In AsburyPark@yahoogroups.com, Jenni jenni@... wrote:

 If they don't get decent grades (or at least passing), the family loses the
 funding.  We are paying billions of dollars in tax money for assistance
 programs for people who could care less about improving themselves, all they
 are doing is passing the same problem on to the next generation.  There are,
 of course, exceptions - people who have fallen upon hard times and are doing
 the best that they can.  That is exactly what the programs are designed for.
 But the vast majority that are on welfare or other government programs do
 not even try to better their situations.  Laws need to be changed so that if
 they want the assistance, they earn it.  If they don't want to make the
 effort, they lose the assistance and are on their own to figure it out.





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[AsburyPark] Re: the guy who couldn't read...

2011-08-17 Thread oakdorf


--- In AsburyPark@yahoogroups.com, cbrianwatkins@... wrote:
 
 What I feel is the problem with government assistance is the loopholes and 
 the ones who purposely take advantage of the system, here's an example, 
 


I used to work with a woman who we had as a secretary. she lives with the 
father of 14 year old kid, but never married. Why? Didn't pay. She knew enough 
that if you make under whatever the number is $34,000??. she gets more benefits 
- single with kid.

We cut back her hours - really it was a gift we had her. Tough time answering 
the phone, could not type or use word, despite my efforts to teach her. We even 
let her take a full day to write one paragraph.

I bought her books. She was more interested in watching reruns of price is 
right and still not getting it right.

She had a part time job at pep boys. When we let her go, she was offered to go 
full time. But the person who couldn't add up two numbers for me, was sure as 
hell able to calculate the cost of going full time at PEP Boys at $13 per hour

Her unemployment and working part-time was worth more to her then working full 
time. Then don't forget Mr. Obama's stimulus plan - that extra what - $50 per 
week for the unemployed. That was real motivation. She put that towards a 
bankruptcy filing to wipe out $48,000 in charge cards her and boyfriend 
(unofficial husband racked up). She asked me if it was worth it to spend $2500 
to file. I tried to explain to her that that was one great investment. Spend 
$2500 to make $48,000. Her beer drinking not real spouse was sure to get a 5 ft 
flat screen tv. And of course she had also got suckered into a refi at 11% 
along the way. I spent some time with her to heelp her out of that. I really 
didn't want to.

Unmployment was nice to her as well. She made sure to make her first trip to 
DisneyWorld while unemployed. 

She had the heart of gold, but had no office skills.

I guess sometimes the monmouth county food bank has lobsters as well  - maybe 
Thursdays.

And to be clear, she was a white woman. People here seem to think everything is 
directed at group.

So when we (or I get going) - it get's kind of hard when I who busted my ass 
since my first lemonade stand in 2nd grade to today,
had gotten stuck with four non-paying tenants (you don't go to jail for not 
paying rent in america) - I had no one to turn to. Banks were shut down, 
despite having a ton of equity, the IRS could less (they don't don't reduce 
what you owe - if you have assets). If you don't pay your taxes, work off the 
books and hide it all, they you might be able to scam them. 

So yep, be ready. The system is out of whack.

I think we are all for helping our neighbors. 

Maybe a thank you here and there would be nice.


  





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[AsburyPark] Re: the guy who couldn't read...

2011-08-16 Thread dfsavgny


--- In AsburyPark@yahoogroups.com, oakdorf oakdorf@... wrote:

 
 Mucho dinero.
 
 The business of low income and poor is big business.
 
 I just said that the other day to someone looking to rent a building in AP 
 for a program. We have people... but we need to be in the AP/Neptune area...
 
 the more people, the more they make. you get so many bodies per sq ft, per 
 day. 
 
 It's a good business to be in I hear...
 
 No, no not really



How about aid/assistance for performance. Attending school, grades, attending 
parents teacher meetings, seeking employment, etc.






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[AsburyPark] Re: the guy who couldn't read...

2011-08-16 Thread oakdorf

--- In AsburyPark@yahoogroups.com, dfsavgny dfsavgny@... wrote:


 How about aid/assistance for performance. Attending school, grades, attending 
 parents teacher meetings, seeking employment, etc.


because that's not fair.

some notes:

NJ Department of Human Services Division of Family Development offers parents 
financial assistance to pay for some of the costs of child care. Parents must 
be income eligible and involved in a work, training or school related activity.
-
ecipients of Temporary Assistance to Needy Families may be able to receive 
assistance with child care expenses while participating in an approved work 
activity and also may be eligible for Transitional Child Care for up to 24 
months after discontinuing TANF.
HEAD START

The Head Start Program in Monmouth County is administered by Acelero Learning. 
Acelero Learning Monmouth County Head Start provides child care  for eligible 
children at several locations in Monmouth County. The program includes 
education, health screenings and nutritious meals. Home based services and a 
summer program are also available. Head Start also provides extended hours for 
working families. Families receiving TANF are automatically eligible for Head 
Start programs. 

I think they get around $6 million,





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[AsburyPark] Re: the guy who couldn't read...

2011-08-16 Thread fancypaaantz

Oak, a lot of these programs are only available in the poorest areas, so again 
you are still talking about the concentration of poverty/segregation. Here is 
the head start for Bergen County, it is in a couple of spots, none in the 
Northern part of the county and it runs from 845-345. That does not cover a lot 
of time for employment. 



http://www.bergencap.org/headstart.html


 
 --- In AsburyPark@yahoogroups.com, dfsavgny dfsavgny@ wrote:
 
 
  How about aid/assistance for performance. Attending school, grades, 
  attending parents teacher meetings, seeking employment, etc.
 
 
 because that's not fair.
 
 some notes:
 
 NJ Department of Human Services Division of Family Development offers parents 
 financial assistance to pay for some of the costs of child care. Parents must 
 be income eligible and involved in a work, training or school related 
 activity.
 -
 ecipients of Temporary Assistance to Needy Families may be able to 
 receive assistance with child care expenses while participating in an 
 approved work activity and also may be eligible for Transitional Child Care 
 for up to 24 months after discontinuing TANF.
 HEAD START
 
 The Head Start Program in Monmouth County is administered by Acelero 
 Learning. Acelero Learning Monmouth County Head Start provides child care  
 for eligible children at several locations in Monmouth County. The program 
 includes education, health screenings and nutritious meals. Home based 
 services and a summer program are also available. Head Start also provides 
 extended hours for working families. Families receiving TANF are 
 automatically eligible for Head Start programs. 
 
 I think they get around $6 million,







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[AsburyPark] Re: the guy who couldn't read...

2011-08-16 Thread oakdorf


--- In AsburyPark@yahoogroups.com, fancypaaantz fancypaaantz@... wrote:

 
 Oak, a lot of these programs are only available in the poorest areas, 

Don't blame me. Blame the directors. Apparently, no one has the common sense to 
see that they have a problem with hours.


The real problem is, there are s many programs running against each other, 
competing for the same grants or getting dupe grant monies for the same stuff. 

Everybody wants a program. But in many cases, you need to have money to get 
money. Or need the space to begin with to get the money to get a program. you 
have homeless and homeless charities. And then there are the professional 
charities and programs. All out body hunting.

Great article the other day. A judge was convicted along with 30 others for 
kids for cash -steering kids into programs run by his buddies - for kickbacks.

Like the schools, you need bodies to keep the schools open. 

I can't tell you how many different groups I spoke to that want a charter 
school or similar program. I think the last program was for around $2m per 
school (maybe more)- first you need a building - that is school ready. Then you 
need one teacher within a district where the school is to be - to be part of 
the program. Out of that money, they need to have budget, plan etc...

You can apply by whatever date is was, get denied, then apply again, hoping to 
get approved.

Having a license to operate certain day programs in NJ is gold. They are 
valuable.

I've had this what could be a great building in AP for sale for a client. NOw 
he's down to around $685,000. Big. 12,000 sq ft.

Be a great building for city services  - after school programs, special 
programs etc. Just needs some tlc.







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Re: [AsburyPark] Re: the guy who couldn't read...

2011-08-16 Thread cbrianwatkins
That building would be great for youth programs considering the location to the 
HS


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--- In AsburyPark@yahoogroups.com, fancypaaantz fancypaaantz@... wrote:

 
 Oak, a lot of these programs are only available in the poorest areas, 

Don't blame me. Blame the directors. Apparently, no one has the common sense to 
see that they have a problem with hours.


The real problem is, there are s many programs running against each other, 
competing for the same grants or getting dupe grant monies for the same stuff. 

Everybody wants a program. But in many cases, you need to have money to get 
money. Or need the space to begin with to get the money to get a program. you 
have homeless and homeless charities. And then there are the professional 
charities and programs. All out body hunting.

Great article the other day. A judge was convicted along with 30 others for 
kids for cash -steering kids into programs run by his buddies - for kickbacks.

Like the schools, you need bodies to keep the schools open. 

I can't tell you how many different groups I spoke to that want a charter 
school or similar program. I think the last program was for around $2m per 
school (maybe more)- first you need a building - that is school ready. Then you 
need one teacher within a district where the school is to be - to be part of 
the program. Out of that money, they need to have budget, plan etc...

You can apply by whatever date is was, get denied, then apply again, hoping to 
get approved.

Having a license to operate certain day programs in NJ is gold. They are 
valuable.

I've had this what could be a great building in AP for sale for a client. NOw 
he's down to around $685,000. Big. 12,000 sq ft.

Be a great building for city services  - after school programs, special 
programs etc. Just needs some tlc.






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[AsburyPark] Re: the guy who couldn't read...

2011-08-16 Thread oakdorf


--- In AsburyPark@yahoogroups.com, cbrianwatkins@... wrote:

 That building would be great for youth programs considering the location to 
 the HS
 


You and I might think that. 

But I contacted Interfaith Neighbors, sent letters to the city, chamber, school 
board (thanks to garret responded) ,  Habitat (they did come look) when I had 
it listed higher, Salvation Army (they really want to be on a highway), a 
couple church groups that have all the heart in the world and no money, someone 
that thought it make a cool house, someone considering a brewery, a gallery a 
few guys that needed warehouse space and someone that wanted to be closer to 
cookman.


It historic if that means anything to anyone.






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RE: [AsburyPark] Re: the guy who couldn't read...

2011-08-16 Thread Jenni
I still like the idea someone had on here awhile back.  Make the assistance
- section 8, welfare, food stamps, etc, contingent on the kids having
acceptable grades.  Also make it contingent upon the parents attempting to
get work or better their lives in some way.  If the pattern is broken, the
problem will gradually be reduced, if not eliminated.  The trouble is that
it's passed down from one generation to the next, in rapid succession since
a generation in this area is often 14-16 yrs.  Stop rewarding teens for
having babies, too.  

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Oak, a lot of these programs are only available in the poorest areas, so
again you are still talking about the concentration of poverty/segregation.
Here is the head start for Bergen County, it is in a couple of spots, none
in the Northern part of the county and it runs from 845-345. That does not
cover a lot of time for employment. 



http://www.bergencap.org/headstart.html


 
 --- In AsburyPark@yahoogroups.com, dfsavgny dfsavgny@ wrote:
 
 
  How about aid/assistance for performance. Attending school, grades,
attending parents teacher meetings, seeking employment, etc.
 
 
 because that's not fair.
 
 some notes:
 
 NJ Department of Human Services Division of Family Development offers
parents financial assistance to pay for some of the costs of child care.
Parents must be income eligible and involved in a work, training or school
related activity.
 -
 ecipients of Temporary Assistance to Needy Families may be able to
receive assistance with child care expenses while participating in an
approved work activity and also may be eligible for Transitional Child Care
for up to 24 months after discontinuing TANF.
 HEAD START
 
 The Head Start Program in Monmouth County is administered by Acelero
Learning. Acelero Learning Monmouth County Head Start provides child care
for eligible children at several locations in Monmouth County. The program
includes education, health screenings and nutritious meals. Home based
services and a summer program are also available. Head Start also provides
extended hours for working families. Families receiving TANF are
automatically eligible for Head Start programs. 
 
 I think they get around $6 million,







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[AsburyPark] Re: the guy who couldn't read...

2011-08-16 Thread oakdorf
then if the kids don't get good grades - then what?







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[AsburyPark] Re: the guy who couldn't read...

2011-08-16 Thread dfsavgny
dont have to be good grades but improvement and trying. when there is an 
incentive perhaps parents will make be involved and that is what is missing. A 
vicious cycle. As a liberal I acknowledge some of the failures of the Great 
Society and the welfare system.



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 then if the kids don't get good grades - then what?







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RE: [AsburyPark] Re: the guy who couldn't read...

2011-08-16 Thread Jenni
If they don't get decent grades (or at least passing), the family loses the
funding.  We are paying billions of dollars in tax money for assistance
programs for people who could care less about improving themselves, all they
are doing is passing the same problem on to the next generation.  There are,
of course, exceptions - people who have fallen upon hard times and are doing
the best that they can.  That is exactly what the programs are designed for.
But the vast majority that are on welfare or other government programs do
not even try to better their situations.  Laws need to be changed so that if
they want the assistance, they earn it.  If they don't want to make the
effort, they lose the assistance and are on their own to figure it out.



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dont have to be good grades but improvement and trying. when there is an
incentive perhaps parents will make be involved and that is what is missing.
A vicious cycle. As a liberal I acknowledge some of the failures of the
Great Society and the welfare system.



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 then if the kids don't get good grades - then what?







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