Re: Opinion Disclaimers (was Re: The Other Christianity (was Re: Babble theory, and comments))

2005-04-18 Thread Warren Ockrassa
On Apr 14, 2005, at 3:58 PM, Dave Land wrote:
This thing is invalid differs from I cannot see the validity in this
thing in important respects having to do with rhetorical intent.
I don't believe I ever disputed that.
With this thing is invalid, the speaker draws a line in the sand and
throws down an implied challenge to wrong-thinking this thing is 
valid
believers.
That's correct. That could maybe be why I called the attack on Iraq 
unjustifiable, eh? Maybe to me it really, genuinely is. Maybe to me 
those who believe otherwise really are wrong-thinking. And maybe I've 
got the guts to say so, rather than pretend I don't think I'm correct 
in my views.

I cannot see the validity in this thing expresses the speaker's state
in trying to understand this thing and invites others to agree, 
disagree
or leave the speaker with his or her doubts.
I've used that language other times. As I stated before it has partly 
to do with how much I'm paying attention -- all evidence to the 
contrary aside I have other things to do than read/post here -- and 
partly with how certain I am of something. Also, I like the occasional 
shock value phrase.

You might have been the one to insert the digression, but you weren't 
the one to drag it into a quagmire, FWIW. That was the work of someone 
else.

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Re: Opinion Disclaimers (was Re: The Other Christianity (was Re: Babble theory, and comments))

2005-04-18 Thread Dave Land
Warren,
On Apr 14, 2005, at 3:58 PM, Dave Land wrote:
With this thing is invalid, the speaker draws a line in the sand and
throws down an implied challenge to wrong-thinking this thing is 
valid
believers.
That's correct. That could maybe be why I called the attack on Iraq
unjustifiable, eh? Maybe to me it really, genuinely is. Maybe to me
those who believe otherwise really are wrong-thinking. And maybe I've
got the guts to say so, rather than pretend I don't think I'm correct 
in
my views.
Is it pretense to leave open the possibility that I don't know something
completely?
I am tired of the implication that those who choose to be careful with
their language are gutless or liars or both. I heard too much of that
during the last election. I think it is the framing device that
underlies the anti-political correctness statements.
Dave
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Re: Opinion Disclaimers (was Re: The Other Christianity (was Re: Babble theory, and comments))

2005-04-18 Thread Warren Ockrassa
On Apr 18, 2005, at 11:57 AM, Dave Land wrote:
Warren,
On Apr 14, 2005, at 3:58 PM, Dave Land wrote:
With this thing is invalid, the speaker draws a line in the sand 
and
throws down an implied challenge to wrong-thinking this thing is 
valid
believers.
That's correct. That could maybe be why I called the attack on Iraq
unjustifiable, eh? Maybe to me it really, genuinely is. Maybe to me
those who believe otherwise really are wrong-thinking. And maybe I've
got the guts to say so, rather than pretend I don't think I'm correct 
in
my views.
Is it pretense to leave open the possibility that I don't know 
something completely?
Course not. However, it was *never my intention* to suggest I was 
anything less than sure of my opinions on Iraq.

Two years ago my opinion was that the case for attack had not been 
made, but I did wonder about the unconventional weapons -- after all, 
inspectors *had* been told there were some places they couldn't look. 
There was reasonable doubt but not enough, I thought, to justify an 
invasion.

Now, having seen the total lack of smoking gun style evidence, having 
seen how the US's status has fallen, having seen the outrageous 
expenses being foisted off on our citizens, having seen the death tolls 
on both sides, I've become certain.

Iraq is not justifiable. That is my point of view on the subject. That 
is what I think and I will not tone down my language on the topic 
because some have a hard time dealing with others who feel sure of some 
of their opinions.

I am tired of the implication that those who choose to be careful with
their language are gutless or liars or both. I heard too much of that
during the last election. I think it is the framing device that
underlies the anti-political correctness statements.
There's something to be said for undermining PC speech as well. PC 
statements can sometimes go too far, after all.

You're missing *my* frustration, what *I* am tired of, which is the 
implication that I'm either arrogant or juvenile -- or both -- for 
possessing certitude in some areas. We ALL do it. We ALL carry opinions 
of which we're certain.

I am not swamped with hubris or with teenage boy macho any more than 
anyone else is who's sure of anything. I just happen to hold a view 
that some don't like, and rather than address the view, they address 
the way it's expressed. That's pointless. It is not an argument. It's 
not even a rebuttal.

I'm really put off of discussing this further. At this point I'm just 
rehashing what I've said before, which suggests to me that it's just 
not getting through and there's no point in hammering the horse any 
longer.

If you (or others) want to have a discussion about whether Iraq itself 
was justifiable, that's fine; I'll be glad to join in and maybe even 
have my opinion swayed. But I'm not going to engage in discussion of 
particulars of language, certitude of opinions or implicit disclaimers 
any longer. The topic is done to death, and I am personally done with 
it.

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Re: Opinion Disclaimers (was Re: The Other Christianity (was Re: Babble theory, and comments))

2005-04-15 Thread Ronn!Blankenship
At 06:49 PM Thursday 4/14/2005, John DeBudge wrote:
Not having been a reader of this list for long though (and having only
started contributing in the last couple of days)

Welcome!

I could very well be
missing some old arguments or personality conflicts.

None that you (or any long-time members, either) want to hear about [again] 
:-D , but none that have any bearing on the current discussion.


Leaving that
aside I did not take Dave's comments to be as aggressive as some are
taking them to be. It read a lot more like an honest attempt at
allowing a more fruitful conversation to take place.
John
P.S. There are only two kinds of people in the world, people who put
everyone into two kinds of people, and everyone else.

There are three kinds of people in the world:  those who can count, and 
those who can't.

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Re: Opinion Disclaimers (was Re: The Other Christianity (was Re: Babble theory, and comments))

2005-04-15 Thread Erik Reuter
* Ronn!Blankenship ([EMAIL PROTECTED]) wrote:

 Welcome!

Ronn's our welcome wagon for gmail trolls. Good job, Ronn.

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Re: Opinion Disclaimers (was Re: The Other Christianity (was Re: Babble theory, and comments))

2005-04-15 Thread Ronn!Blankenship
At 08:04 AM Friday 4/15/2005, Erik Reuter wrote:
* Ronn!Blankenship ([EMAIL PROTECTED]) wrote:
 Welcome!
Ronn's our welcome wagon for gmail trolls. Good job, Ronn.

Thank you!
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Opinion Disclaimers (was Re: The Other Christianity (was Re: Babble theory, and comments))

2005-04-14 Thread Dave Land
On Apr 13, 2005, at 5:23 PM, Warren Ockrassa wrote way too much on the 
topic of disclaimers:

Why add more disclaimer than point to a discussion? In my opinion, 
this
thing is invalid, but of course I could be wrong and I'm open to
discussion on the topic ... kind of wordy if we can *presume* that the
statement this thing is invalid is already an opinion and all the
other verbiage associated therewith is understood to be applicable in
all cases.
I started this drift. I never intended that anyone lard their statements
of opinion with disclaimers.
This thing is invalid differs from I cannot see the validity in this
thing in important respects having to do with rhetorical intent.
With this thing is invalid, the speaker draws a line in the sand and
throws down an implied challenge to wrong-thinking this thing is valid
believers.
I cannot see the validity in this thing expresses the speaker's state
in trying to understand this thing and invites others to agree, disagree
or leave the speaker with his or her doubts.
Dave
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Re: Opinion Disclaimers (was Re: The Other Christianity (was Re: Babble theory, and comments))

2005-04-14 Thread Ronn!Blankenship
At 05:58 PM Thursday 4/14/2005, Dave Land wrote:
On Apr 13, 2005, at 5:23 PM, Warren Ockrassa wrote way too much on the 
topic of disclaimers:

Why add more disclaimer than point to a discussion? In my opinion, this
thing is invalid, but of course I could be wrong and I'm open to
discussion on the topic ... kind of wordy if we can *presume* that the
statement this thing is invalid is already an opinion and all the
other verbiage associated therewith is understood to be applicable in
all cases.
I started this drift. I never intended that anyone lard their statements
of opinion with disclaimers.
This thing is invalid differs from I cannot see the validity in this
thing in important respects having to do with rhetorical intent.
With this thing is invalid, the speaker draws a line in the sand and
throws down an implied challenge to wrong-thinking this thing is valid
believers.
I cannot see the validity in this thing expresses the speaker's state
in trying to understand this thing and invites others to agree, disagree
or leave the speaker with his or her doubts.

Agreed.  One approach invites discussion which, with luck, may lead to 
discovery of the truth about the subject or to building a consensus of 
opinion, or at least leave the participants agreeing to disagree.

The other approach is an invitation to an argument or a flamewar . . .
I personally prefer the first type of discussion.  YMMV.
Though There Are Days When I Am In The Mood To Throw Gasoline On The Fire 
Maru
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Re: Opinion Disclaimers (was Re: The Other Christianity (was Re: Babble theory, and comments))

2005-04-14 Thread John DeBudge
Dave,

I also understand what you are saying and I would like to add my
agreement to it as well.

I can relate to the comments that Warren was making with respect to
ones beliefs always being right from ones own point of view. I
myself have gotten into many discussions with friends about that very
subject. Most people either think the point is trivially true, or
completely misunderstand it. So I just want to make it clear that I
also agree with those comments.

Even though I happen to feel that at any given time my current
thoughts on a subject are right I still am able to recognize that
many of my currently correct points of view differed in the past.
When presented with new information I am thus rather confident that
such views might stand the chance of changing in the future. While I
feel that some views which have not changed in a long time might never
change, I still must acknowledge the possibility (even if I only
acknowledge it internally).

However the fact that my right ideas might change in the future has
nothing at all to do with the idea that someone else might (and very
well dose) hold a differing view point on the subject. I might feel
that they are wrong, but I still should be able to acknowledge without
rancor that they do in fact equally believe in their right thoughts.

Their thoughts clearly are based on different data than my own, or
they interpret the same data differently than I do. Thus the point of
any conversation with someone who holds a vastly differing idea than
my own would be for me to learn any new data that they had, explain
new data to them, or try to understand why our interpretations of
common data differ.

If we are able to agree on all of the major data points associated
with a given subject, and also come to have similar interpretations of
this data, then our ideas should largely be in sync.

If you start out by dismissing the very possibility of someone else
having valid data or valid interpretations this type of mutual
exchange will not happen. In affect you are telling the other person
that everything they know about the subject is wrong, or they are
interpreting everything wrong, or both. You are claiming that there is
nothing they can give to you, and instead they must, if they want to
continue the conversation, start only listening to, and agreeing with
your data and interpretations.

It might not be your intention, but that is how it comes across.

Please note the difference here between having to always admit that
you are only expressing your own opinions vs trying to leave open the
possibility that the other person might be right, even if you do not
understand why yet.

This subject is important to me because I am often (always?) a strong
reductionist in any kind of argument. I always reduce complex things
to one or two discrete elements and then build up from there
(conversations are the transmission of data and interpretations of
data...;). I am well aware however that the very act of a reduction
has the chance of outright rejecting a large part of someone else's
basis for their beliefs. I try to be away of this, but I do not always
catch it. As a result I do my best to being open to correction if I do
such a thing.

Not having been a reader of this list for long though (and having only
started contributing in the last couple of days) I could very well be
missing some old arguments or personality conflicts. Leaving that
aside I did not take Dave's comments to be as aggressive as some are
taking them to be. It read a lot more like an honest attempt at
allowing a more fruitful conversation to take place.

John

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