Re: Pride Month Discussion has Run its Course

2019-07-07 Thread Alexander Wirt
On Sat, 06 Jul 2019, Stefano Zacchiroli wrote:

> On Sat, Jul 06, 2019 at 08:00:58PM +0200, Alexander Wirt wrote:
> > But that is my personal mindset I am coming from. If such a mindset is
> > outdated nowadays and not wanted anymore I offer to resign as a listmaster.
> 
> I think there are two separate aspects here. One is the "mindset" you're
> discussing here, which I'm positive is shared by most in the project.
> Another is explicitly pushing back against the DPL, whose constitutional
> roles include "Lead discussions amongst Developers", when he asks gently
> to please stop a discussion.
Sam wrote: 
"[listmaster copied in hopes they will agree with my assessment here]" 

That sentenced basically forced me to write a reply. Maybe, before presuming
consense, the DPL should talk to the other teams. Otherwise it may happen
that they don't agree. Without a reply everyone would expected that we agree, 
which is apparently not the case. 

> I'm sure that was not your intention, but to bystanders that gives the
> feeling that you're undermining the DPL's authority, and gets in the way
> of the DPL doing his constitutional job in this specific area. So,
> personally, I'm torn here: I agree with your open discussion mindset,
> but the main issue here was (as I understand it at least) of a different
> nature.
In fact I think the dpl is undermining the authority of the delegates when he
acts in a way like that. We have a process for such things: people complain
and we (the listmasters) act on those complaints. The DPL is still free to
overwrite our decision afterwards if we don't agree with him. 

> No need to threaten resignation about this, I'm sure your work as
> listmaster is still very much appreciated in the project (and certainly
> it is appreciated by me).
Thanks

Alex



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Re: Pride Month Discussion has Run its Course

2019-07-06 Thread Scott Kitterman



On July 6, 2019 9:10:57 PM UTC, Stefano Zacchiroli  wrote:
>On Sat, Jul 06, 2019 at 08:00:58PM +0200, Alexander Wirt wrote:
>> But that is my personal mindset I am coming from. If such a mindset
>is
>> outdated nowadays and not wanted anymore I offer to resign as a
>listmaster.
>
>I think there are two separate aspects here. One is the "mindset"
>you're
>discussing here, which I'm positive is shared by most in the project.
>Another is explicitly pushing back against the DPL, whose
>constitutional
>roles include "Lead discussions amongst Developers", when he asks
>gently
>to please stop a discussion.
>
>I'm sure that was not your intention, but to bystanders that gives the
>feeling that you're undermining the DPL's authority, and gets in the
>way
>of the DPL doing his constitutional job in this specific area. So,
>personally, I'm torn here: I agree with your open discussion mindset,
>but the main issue here was (as I understand it at least) of a
>different
>nature.

I think if you reread the rest of 5.1.9, I think the listmaster response was 
correct.  Far from undermining the DPL's constitutional role, I think it was an 
appropriate response to what was at least close to overstepping that role.

Scott K



Re: Pride Month Discussion has Run its Course

2019-07-06 Thread Mathias Behrle
* Stefano Zacchiroli: " Re: Pride Month Discussion has Run its Course" (Sat, 6
  Jul 2019 23:10:57 +0200):

> I'm sure that was not your intention, but to bystanders that gives the
> feeling that you're undermining the DPL's authority, and gets in the way
> of the DPL doing his constitutional job in this specific area. So,
> personally, I'm torn here: I agree with your open discussion mindset,
> but the main issue here was (as I understand it at least) of a different
> nature.

If you are sure it was not the listmasters intention, why then speculate about
supposed feelings of bystanders?

I just can nothing more than say, that I never had the slightest impression of
the listmaster "undermining the DPL's authority". Quite contrary to that
impression I would expect the listmaster to act completely independent from the
DPL.
 
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Re: Pride Month Discussion has Run its Course

2019-07-06 Thread Mathias Behrle
* Alexander Wirt: " Re: Pride Month Discussion has Run its Course" (Sat, 6 Jul
  2019 20:00:58 +0200):

> On Tue, 02 Jul 2019, Joerg Jaspert wrote:
> 
> > On 15451 March 1977, Alexander Wirt wrote:
> >   
>  [...]  
> > > Thats possible, but imho not a reason to kill the thread.  
> > 
> > It is a very good reason to do so, and its sad that our listmasters
> > aren't more active in shutting down threads that repeat and repeat and
> > repeat all the same things ever again, every other month.
> > It would save so much energy that could be used so much more useful.
> > 
> > Same as getting rid of the "all lists are open" thing, something that
> > was nice in the past, but has definitely lost its value long ago.  
> I can not do more than disagree. If you don't like a thread, killfile it. 
> But using censorship, banning, blocking threads you/someone don't like, just
> for the reason *you* don't find them useful is in my eyes just wrong and is
> some kind of censorship and should not be done in an open project like
> debian. 
> 
> But that is my personal mindset I am coming from. If such a mindset is
> outdated nowadays and not wanted anymore I offer to resign as a listmaster.

Others have already answered, I have the feeling I have to step in at this
point, too:
I think you are doing exactly your job as listmaster to not influence
discussions, but merely control the correct functionality with respect to
respect and list guidelines.

Thanks,
Mathias

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Re: Pride Month Discussion has Run its Course

2019-07-06 Thread Stefano Zacchiroli
On Sat, Jul 06, 2019 at 08:00:58PM +0200, Alexander Wirt wrote:
> But that is my personal mindset I am coming from. If such a mindset is
> outdated nowadays and not wanted anymore I offer to resign as a listmaster.

I think there are two separate aspects here. One is the "mindset" you're
discussing here, which I'm positive is shared by most in the project.
Another is explicitly pushing back against the DPL, whose constitutional
roles include "Lead discussions amongst Developers", when he asks gently
to please stop a discussion.

I'm sure that was not your intention, but to bystanders that gives the
feeling that you're undermining the DPL's authority, and gets in the way
of the DPL doing his constitutional job in this specific area. So,
personally, I'm torn here: I agree with your open discussion mindset,
but the main issue here was (as I understand it at least) of a different
nature.

No need to threaten resignation about this, I'm sure your work as
listmaster is still very much appreciated in the project (and certainly
it is appreciated by me).

Cheers
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Re: Pride Month Discussion has Run its Course

2019-07-06 Thread Martin Steigerwald
Alexander Wirt - 06.07.19, 20:00:
> On Tue, 02 Jul 2019, Joerg Jaspert wrote:
> > On 15451 March 1977, Alexander Wirt wrote:
> > > > The tone is absolutely civilized.
> > > > And yet, the cost to people who have to do this education again
> > > > and
> > > > again is really high.
> > > 
> > > Thats possible, but imho not a reason to kill the thread.
> > 
> > It is a very good reason to do so, and its sad that our listmasters
> > aren't more active in shutting down threads that repeat and repeat
> > and repeat all the same things ever again, every other month.
> > It would save so much energy that could be used so much more useful.
> > 
> > Same as getting rid of the "all lists are open" thing, something
> > that
> > was nice in the past, but has definitely lost its value long ago.
> 
> I can not do more than disagree. If you don't like a thread, killfile
> it. But using censorship, banning, blocking threads you/someone don't
> like, just for the reason *you* don't find them useful is in my eyes
> just wrong and is some kind of censorship and should not be done in
> an open project like debian.
> 
> But that is my personal mindset I am coming from. If such a mindset is
> outdated nowadays and not wanted anymore I offer to resign as a
> listmaster.

I certainly concur with your mindset here.

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Re: Pride Month Discussion has Run its Course

2019-07-06 Thread Adam Borowski
On Sat, Jul 06, 2019 at 06:32:10PM +, Scott Kitterman wrote:
> It seems to me that if one is open to diversity of opinion, then there's
> no need for someone to feel obligated to educate wrong thinkers.  That's
> only necessary if there's only one true answer, so anyone with a different
> opinion is in need of reeducation.

Hah :)

Especially the last sentence is worth quoting. :)

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Re: Pride Month Discussion has Run its Course

2019-07-06 Thread Alexander Wirt
On Sat, 06 Jul 2019, Alexander Wirt wrote:

> On Tue, 02 Jul 2019, Joerg Jaspert wrote:
> 
> > On 15451 March 1977, Alexander Wirt wrote:
> > 
> > > > The tone is absolutely civilized.
> > > > And yet, the cost to people who have to do this education again and
> > > > again is really high.
> > > Thats possible, but imho not a reason to kill the thread.
> > 
> > It is a very good reason to do so, and its sad that our listmasters
> > aren't more active in shutting down threads that repeat and repeat and
> > repeat all the same things ever again, every other month.
> > It would save so much energy that could be used so much more useful.
> > 
> > Same as getting rid of the "all lists are open" thing, something that
> > was nice in the past, but has definitely lost its value long ago.
> I can not do more than disagree. If you don't like a thread, killfile it. 
> But using censorship, banning, blocking threads you/someone don't like, just
> for the reason *you* don't find them useful is in my eyes just wrong and is
> some kind of censorship and should not be done in an open project like
> debian. 
> 
> But that is my personal mindset I am coming from. If such a mindset is
> outdated nowadays and not wanted anymore I offer to resign as a listmaster.
jftr, I completly support and welcome the work of the publicity and diversity
team here and I am proud the we changed our logo to show that we welcome
*everyone*. 

Alex


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Re: Pride Month Discussion has Run its Course

2019-07-06 Thread Scott Kitterman



On July 6, 2019 6:00:58 PM UTC, Alexander Wirt  wrote:
>On Tue, 02 Jul 2019, Joerg Jaspert wrote:
>
>> On 15451 March 1977, Alexander Wirt wrote:
>> 
>> > > The tone is absolutely civilized.
>> > > And yet, the cost to people who have to do this education again
>and
>> > > again is really high.
>> > Thats possible, but imho not a reason to kill the thread.
>> 
>> It is a very good reason to do so, and its sad that our listmasters
>> aren't more active in shutting down threads that repeat and repeat
>and
>> repeat all the same things ever again, every other month.
>> It would save so much energy that could be used so much more useful.
>> 
>> Same as getting rid of the "all lists are open" thing, something that
>> was nice in the past, but has definitely lost its value long ago.
>I can not do more than disagree. If you don't like a thread, killfile
>it. 
>But using censorship, banning, blocking threads you/someone don't like,
>just
>for the reason *you* don't find them useful is in my eyes just wrong
>and is
>some kind of censorship and should not be done in an open project like
>debian. 
>
>But that is my personal mindset I am coming from. If such a mindset is
>outdated nowadays and not wanted anymore I offer to resign as a
>listmaster.
>
>Alex - Debian Listmaster

If such a mindset as that is outdated, then I am too.  Please keep up the good 
work.

It seems to me that if one is open to diversity of opinion, then there's no 
need for someone to feel obligated to educate wrong thinkers.  That's only 
necessary if there's only one true answer, so anyone with a different opinion 
is in need of reeducation.

Scott K



Re: Pride Month Discussion has Run its Course

2019-07-06 Thread Alexander Wirt
On Tue, 02 Jul 2019, Joerg Jaspert wrote:

> On 15451 March 1977, Alexander Wirt wrote:
> 
> > > The tone is absolutely civilized.
> > > And yet, the cost to people who have to do this education again and
> > > again is really high.
> > Thats possible, but imho not a reason to kill the thread.
> 
> It is a very good reason to do so, and its sad that our listmasters
> aren't more active in shutting down threads that repeat and repeat and
> repeat all the same things ever again, every other month.
> It would save so much energy that could be used so much more useful.
> 
> Same as getting rid of the "all lists are open" thing, something that
> was nice in the past, but has definitely lost its value long ago.
I can not do more than disagree. If you don't like a thread, killfile it. 
But using censorship, banning, blocking threads you/someone don't like, just
for the reason *you* don't find them useful is in my eyes just wrong and is
some kind of censorship and should not be done in an open project like
debian. 

But that is my personal mindset I am coming from. If such a mindset is
outdated nowadays and not wanted anymore I offer to resign as a listmaster.

Alex - Debian Listmaster



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Re: Pride Month Discussion has Run its Course

2019-07-06 Thread Joerg Jaspert

On 15451 March 1977, Alexander Wirt wrote:


The tone is absolutely civilized.
And yet, the cost to people who have to do this education again and
again is really high.
Thats possible, but imho not a reason to kill the thread. 


It is a very good reason to do so, and its sad that our listmasters
aren't more active in shutting down threads that repeat and repeat and
repeat all the same things ever again, every other month.
It would save so much energy that could be used so much more useful.

Same as getting rid of the "all lists are open" thing, something that
was nice in the past, but has definitely lost its value long ago.

--
bye, Joerg



Re: Pride Month Discussion has Run its Course

2019-07-02 Thread G. Branden Robinson
At 2019-07-02T08:42:43-0400, Sam Hartman wrote:
> The tone is absolutely civilized.
>
> And yet, the cost to people who have to do this education again and
> again is really high.

Yes, and therein rests the utility of allies.

Speaking for myself I'd like to endorse the contributions to this thread
of Jonathan Carter, Russ Allbery, Ole Streicher, and Colin Watson.
They've expressed many things I have wanted to say, often more
diplomatically than I think I would have put them.

Consider this also:

We do need to engage with our membership when they feel marginalized and
invisible, even if they do not identify with a widely-recognized
minority group--the varieties that rightly get attention in the name of
social justice.

But we need to understand in explicit terms why we engage, and how we do
so.

First the why.  Over the past 30-40 years, the children of working
professionals--a class which I believe characterizes a large majority of
our contributors--have become economically squeezed and indebted to
an increasily greater degree.  Young people can work very hard, as hard
as they've ever seen people from their parents' generation work, and yet
are often stuck living with those parents, or other relatives, in
deterimental domestic relationships, or in circumstances that are
altogether precarious, deprived of independence.

They feel that opportunities which older generations enjoyed have been
denied them through no fault of their own.  This feeling is usually
vague and accompanied with a great deal of emotional frustration.  What
is most often missing is a sense of autonomy, a sense of control (or at
least meaningful influence) over one's future.

There is no shortage of diagnoses for this feeling, and not all of them
exclude the others.  I will avoid listing them here because they are
familiar to anyone who has studied the topic in any depth.

The Debian Project offers an environment where people can embrace
responsibility, enjoy community, and build professional skills to a
point where they are competitive with university graduates for
remunerative labor that pays well enough for one to live independently.
I do not conjecture; this was my story starting in 1998 after a
university experience I'd prefer to forget in some ways.

Some people will come to the Project with a lack of social polish or
attitudes that don't mesh well with the community.  This could be due to
psychological issues, bad life experiences, immature political views,
the socioecomic frustration I mentioned above, and/or an eccentric sense
of humor.  The younger the cohort we draw new members from, the more of
these we're likely to see.

That's part of the price of appealing to the young.  I trust that the
hazard of not appealing to the young at all is obvious.

The good news is that young people grow up--much more reliably than old
people do.  We can engage them, shape them, help them learn, and also
learn _from_ them, often about technological innovations but in other
ways too.

Note the word "engage" in the foregoing.  Some of the most difficult but
most enduring learning takes place through discourse.

That's the "why".  The "how" is tougher, because not everyone shows up
with attitudes that promote a healthy society, even a microcosmic one
like the Debian Project.  This happens, I think, when people feel
themselves to not truly be part of the project.  They feel they have
little stake in the well-being of the people involved in it.

I can concede that there are people who sincerely have no idea:
* why we don't observe a "WASP" history month;
* why Nazis seem to be so prominent at white pride rallies;
* why anarcho-capitalists are frequent allies of white supremacists;
* why gender pay inequity is a problem;
* that gender identity and sexual orientation aren't perfectly fluid;
* and why it is not obvious that people should choose to be straight and
  identify with the gender identity of their chromosomes even if gender
  identity and sexual orientation were perfectly fluid.

...but much of the time, I suspect, people come to us with supposedly
critical questions about the above not out of a spirit of inquiry but
because they have been conditioned to practice disruption by troll
culture (incels/MRAs/4chan/etc.).  Somehow, they imagine, they are
frustrating the designs of some conspiratorial force that wants to
alter their way of life (even if they find the way of life they're
actually experiencing to be a miserable one).

It's important to recognize when engagement has a component of sincerity
(expecting purity here is too optimistic) and when it is just someone
trying to poke our anthill with a stick.  Meeting fellow Debian
contributors in person helps us not only gauge their sincerity, but
tends to establish or remind us of the humanity behind the names.

As a rule, the more we socialize, the more we will become socialized.
That's facilitation.  That's community-organizing.  If you're helping
make opportunities for that happen, 

Re: Pride Month Discussion has Run its Course

2019-07-02 Thread Gerardo Ballabio
I'm sorry Sam. I sent my last message before reading yours.
I will now abstain from further posting.

Gerardo



Re: Pride Month Discussion has Run its Course

2019-07-02 Thread Alexander Wirt
On Tue, 02 Jul 2019, Sam Hartman wrote:

> > "Alexander" == Alexander Wirt  writes:
> 
> Alexander> On Tue, 02 Jul 2019, Sam Hartman wrote:
> >> 
> >> 
> >> 
> >> [listmaster copied in hopes they will agree with my assessment
> >> here]
> Alexander> I don't agree, I think that discussion is important and
> Alexander> the tone is still civilized.
> 
> The tone is absolutely civilized.
> And yet, the cost to people who have to do this education again and
> again is really high.
Thats possible, but imho not a reason to kill the thread. 

Alex



Re: Pride Month Discussion has Run its Course

2019-07-02 Thread Sam Hartman
> "Alexander" == Alexander Wirt  writes:

Alexander> On Tue, 02 Jul 2019, Sam Hartman wrote:
>> 
>> 
>> 
>> [listmaster copied in hopes they will agree with my assessment
>> here]
Alexander> I don't agree, I think that discussion is important and
Alexander> the tone is still civilized.

The tone is absolutely civilized.
And yet, the cost to people who have to do this education again and
again is really high.



Re: Pride Month Discussion has Run its Course

2019-07-02 Thread Alexander Wirt
On Tue, 02 Jul 2019, Sam Hartman wrote:

> 
> 
> 
> [listmaster copied in hopes they will agree with my assessment here]
I don't agree, I think that discussion is important and the tone is still
civilized.

Alex - Listmaster - but mainly speaking for myself