g_b keep off toilets around Karnac Bunder
yet again this is that obvious story...that of loosing your money and all valuables. So i won't tell my story here but just tell you to keep away from the toilets around Karnac Bunder - especially the one on top of the bridge between crawford market and yellowgate of dockyard.The place seems very friendly and sometimes nice good mannered youngsters do visit this dirty toilet but if you are looking for some fun let me tell you there are a lot of people who know everything about what is happening over here and are ready to loot you in groups of four to five.and they are armed .The whole area around here knows exactly what is happening and not even the police will help you because it is all in the network.Even taxi drivers have lost their car stereos and all over here so beware ! nikhil Brings words and photos together (easily) with PhotoMail - it's free and works with Yahoo! Mail. Group Site: http://www.gaybombay.info == This message was posted to the gay_bombay Yahoo! Group. Responses to messages (by clicking Reply) will also be posted on the eGroup and sent to all members. If you'd like to respond privately to the author of any message then please compose and send a new email message to the author's email address. Post:- gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Subscribe:- [EMAIL PROTECTED] Digest Mode:- [EMAIL PROTECTED] No Mail Mode:- [EMAIL PROTECTED] Individual Mail Mode:- [EMAIL PROTECTED] Contact Us:- [EMAIL PROTECTED] Archives are at http://www.mail-archive.com/gay_bombay%40yahoogroups.com/maillist.html Classifieds for personal advertisements are back on www.gaybombay.info site. Please exercise restraint in the language of your personal advertisement. SPONSORED LINKS Romance relationship Gay men YAHOO! GROUPS LINKS Visit your group "gay_bombay" on the web. To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to:[EMAIL PROTECTED] Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to the Yahoo! Terms of Service.
g_b can't we make this sacrifice, to make our parents happy? No we cant.
So you think , to make yr parents happy, you have the right to ruin a womans life Ruin her parents peace of mind too?? No definitely not. Rather we should teach our parents to accept their gay progeny and find happiness in that. After all they have produced us and we are gays as ordained by nature...not by choice. So whats the fault of the poor woman. I am a married man, and know and accept that i have committed a great crime by getting married. I accept it was a great selfish act to ruin her life by trying to make myself or my parents happy. Somu === somu our of curiosity when u realised that it was a great selfish act, what did you do? what did you go through pre marriage and post marriage? you sound like a sensible guy.. so in the first place why ddi you marry? and then what made you think that you committed a crime by getting married? are you still married? you don't have to tell if you dont want to. regards moderator === coolclump [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: hi there, i've always been a silent spectator of this grp. after reading ur reaction for gays marrying straight women, i've a humble comment/doubt to put forth: won't it be selfish of us(gays) if we deny getting married? cuz, the majority of the parents of gays are conservative and it's a matter of pride for them to get their sons/daughters married. and we're here on the earth only because of them. it's our parents who've given us an identity. aren't we obliged to go by their words as in case of marriage? can't we make this sacrifice, to make our parents happy? and i'm sure gays will definitely have children after marriage. that'll also make our parents happy grandparents na..? well, this is not my principle or opinion. it's just a small doubt that has kept me in conflict for quite a long time. and i just wanna know how other gays 'll respond to this.. i understand ur point also but would u or anyone substantiate ur point of view? how'll u tackle a question as this? would u prefer saying-'yes, i'm selfish' or 'no, i'll better make my conservative parents happy...' cheers.. v --- In gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com, Sonub Jalan [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: rent you contradicting yourself? Sex is in the mind and still at heart we are gay...who are you fooling? If you have indeed attained intimacy with your wife (proving that it is possible) then why the need to be here? I dont know under what circumstances you have had to marry and I will not like to sit in judgement of your actions. But this is definitely not the advise you can give to people who are under pressure to get married to a woman. What such people (people like me) need to know is that you will then be using a woman's life to experiment. You are living in denial about what you and she needs and someday you will not be able to live the pretence any longer. For those of you who are married...you can spend the rest of your life adjusting and rubbing your wife's cheeks or acknowledge the clossal mistake you have made and go your separate ways. Acknowledge that you are not a perfect husband like heteros and a hetro is what any straight woman deserves, while you are respnsible for denying her that. And then maybe some of you married guys have been lucky in that your wife has waited long enough for you to get physical as if it means nothing to you as would between two friends. I know of women who kicked the living daylights out of their husbands for not being good enough. Lots of rounds to hospitals to cure their impotency. So dont you dare make your plight a general rule. Get real guys. While the honourable GB list jury is still out on whether true love is possible in the gay world, I believe it is better to be alone than to live a lie. I have fought really hard not to marry, being the only son in a very conservative family. It has affected my parents health and been the cause of a lot of tension in my family. But I would rather live with this than a wife with whom I need to develop intimacy and Achieving sex with one women against my instincts. abbey fifty [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Guys, I'd like to make two points: 1. I share Sumeet Mehra's experiences and having done the deed, ( marrying )the best option is to try hard to adjust. And the best policy is NOT to try getting hard - just befriend your wife, get intimate in all other ways, and then very slowly, get physical as if it means nothing to you as would between two friends -like putting hand over shoulder, a kiss on the cheek and just holding hands. The important thing is to get so used to these things that you are not conscious. After a few months, you will be mentally relaxed enough for stirrings of physical feelings to emerge. Remember sex is in the mind. So relax and let time go. I went through this phase and though not a perfect husband like heteros, we do get
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g_b it becomes very imporant to stick to your own values rather then changing because of others
Hi Kash! Do not be confused with other people's opinion. Look we live in a world where god has created many different types of human beings. hence it becomes very imporant to stick to your own values rather then changing because of others. See no one in this world is perfect. We keep on experimenting since we took our first step on the ground. What happened, we fell down. Did it stop us? No. We tried, tried till we suceeded, finally we ended up running. So buddy, dont be hesitant. Have faith in your values, if not today tomorrow you will fetch some good stuff out of life. But if you change your values then you will be no where. So get set go...let the whole world say gays can not have sex with females. Cheers Sumeet kash ora [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: hi, we know that cherector of malism and femalism are there in every human being at different percentage ratios. Everyonel act at times and mostly on which ism predominant in our mind. Hence instead of argueing on whether he can have sex or whether he can live like that, let all think on how best one can make use of what he/she has for a good understanding life with other, whoever it be. and such life has a meaning. Thinking on everything brings light slowly/lol kash abbey fifty [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Not a very unexpected reply. My message was for a particular case where marraige was a given fact and the question was whether, and how, it can be saved. A fair chance to save the marriage has to be given, under the circumstances. It was not meant for those not married; they should not! A --- Sonub Jalan [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Arent you contradicting yourself? Sex is in the mind and still at heart we are gay...who are you fooling? If you have indeed attained intimacy with your wife (proving that it is possible) then why the need to be here? I dont know under what circumstances you have had to marry and I will not like to sit in judgement of your actions. But this is definitely not the advise you can give to people who are under pressure to get married to a woman. What such people (people like me) need to know is that you will then be using a woman's life to experiment. You are living in denial about what you and she needs and someday you will not be able to live the pretence any longer. For those of you who are married...you can spend the rest of your life adjusting and rubbing your wife's cheeks or acknowledge the clossal mistake you have made and go your separate ways. Acknowledge that you are not a perfect husband like heteros and a hetro is what any straight woman deserves, while you are respnsible for denying her that. And then maybe some of you married guys have been lucky in that your wife has waited long enough for you to get physical as if it means nothing to you as would between two friends. I know of women who kicked the living daylights out of their husbands for not being good enough. Lots of rounds to hospitals to cure their impotency. So dont you dare make your plight a general rule. Get real guys. While the honourable GB list jury is still out on whether true love is possible in the gay world, I believe it is better to be alone than to live a lie. I have fought really hard not to marry, being the only son in a very conservative family. It has affected my parents health and been the cause of a lot of tension in my family. But I would rather live with this than a wife with whom I need to develop intimacy and Achieving sex with one women against my instincts. abbey fifty [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Guys, I'd like to make two points: 1. I share Sumeet Mehra's experiences and having done the deed, ( marrying )the best option is to try hard to adjust. And the best policy is NOT to try getting hard - just befriend your wife, get intimate in all other ways, and then very slowly, get physical as if it means nothing to you as would between two friends - like putting hand over shoulder, a kiss on the cheek and just holding hands. The important thing is to get so used to these things that you are not conscious. After a few months, you will be mentally relaxed enough for stirrings of physical feelings to emerge. Remember sex is in the mind. So relax and let time go. I went through this phase and though not a perfect husband like heteros, we do get along. 2. We are on the list because, still, at heart we are gay in that we are attracted physically by men. Achieving sex with one women means nothing much except that u get to know her so well, that one learns to get along, if you know what I mean. It happens. But the feelings stop with that one women. Emotionally, we are very much on g-side. I am sure other married men will understand this. But I know others will not, and I have no wish to cross swords with them. My purpose of writing this is to give emotional support to arsg , Summet and others like them ( and me)because I am sure there will be acidic comments to
Re: g_b can't we make this sacrifice, to make our parents happy?
Hi Coolclump! Here i wolud like to tell you just one thing Give a hear to everyone but let your mind be with you As far as asking opinion you will get many opinions, but will you be able to take any decision on that grounds? I certainly do think so and again it would be not fair enough on your part. You would marry because someone told you? or you dint marry because some one told you? You need to make your own decision. No one can make on your part nor should you allow anyone to do so. We in India live for family. Our family values is our backbone. We need to take that till our next generations. So left on you. What you want to do, you decide? All the best! Cheers Sumeet. coolclump [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: hi there, i've always been a silent spectator of this grp. after reading ur reaction for gays marrying straight women, i've a humble comment/doubt to put forth: won't it be selfish of us(gays) if we deny getting married? cuz, the majority of the parents of gays are conservative and it's a matter of pride for them to get their sons/daughters married. and we're here on the earth only because of them. it's our parents who've given us an identity. aren't we obliged to go by their words as in case of marriage? can't we make this sacrifice, to make our parents happy? and i'm sure gays will definitely have children after marriage. that'll also make our parents happy grandparents na..? well, this is not my principle or opinion. it's just a small doubt that has kept me in conflict for quite a long time. and i just wanna know how other gays 'll respond to this.. i understand ur point also but would u or anyone substantiate ur point of view? how'll u tackle a question as this? would u prefer saying-'yes, i'm selfish' or 'no, i'll better make my conservative parents happy...' cheers.. v --- In gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com, Sonub Jalan [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: rent you contradicting yourself? Sex is in the mind and still at heart we are gay...who are you fooling? If you have indeed attained intimacy with your wife (proving that it is possible) then why the need to be here? I dont know under what circumstances you have had to marry and I will not like to sit in judgement of your actions. But this is definitely not the advise you can give to people who are under pressure to get married to a woman. What such people (people like me) need to know is that you will then be using a woman's life to experiment. You are living in denial about what you and she needs and someday you will not be able to live the pretence any longer. For those of you who are married...you can spend the rest of your life adjusting and rubbing your wife's cheeks or acknowledge the clossal mistake you have made and go your separate ways. Acknowledge that you are not a perfect husband like heteros and a hetro is what any straight woman deserves, while you are respnsible for denying her that. And then maybe some of you married guys have been lucky in that your wife has waited long enough for you to get physical as if it means nothing to you as would between two friends. I know of women who kicked the living daylights out of their husbands for not being good enough. Lots of rounds to hospitals to cure their impotency. So dont you dare make your plight a general rule. Get real guys. While the honourable GB list jury is still out on whether true love is possible in the gay world, I believe it is better to be alone than to live a lie. I have fought really hard not to marry, being the only son in a very conservative family. It has affected my parents health and been the cause of a lot of tension in my family. But I would rather live with this than a wife with whom I need to develop intimacy and Achieving sex with one women against my instincts. abbey fifty [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Guys, I'd like to make two points: 1. I share Sumeet Mehra's experiences and having done the deed, ( marrying )the best option is to try hard to adjust. And the best policy is NOT to try getting hard - just befriend your wife, get intimate in all other ways, and then very slowly, get physical as if it means nothing to you as would between two friends -like putting hand over shoulder, a kiss on the cheek and just holding hands. The important thing is to get so used to these things that you are not conscious. After a few months, you will be mentally relaxed enough for stirrings of physical feelings to emerge. Remember sex is in the mind. So relax and let time go. I went through this phase and though not a perfect husband like heteros, we do get along. 2. We are on the list because, still, at heart we are gay in that we are attracted physically by men. Achieving sex with one women means nothing much except that u get to know her so well, that one learns to get along, if you know what I mean. It happens. But the feelings stop with that one women. Emotionally, we are very much on
Re: g_b can't we make this sacrifice, to make our parents happy?
sweetheart...i love my parents. they are the most important people in my life and their happiness means the whole world to me. but that does not give me the right to trap a girl into a "marriage" i am completetly disinterested in. it would mean either living my whole life against my instints devoid of passion and true love or cheating on her. i would rather go through this period of pain for my parents and me, be there for them, wait for them to come to terms with my true nature and take it from there on. the two options you have concluded your mail with arent really the only two options available to gay men. your outlook only belies your lack of courage to face the challenges you are up against. and by no means am i saying the challenges you and i have to face as gay men are trivial. but they are our challenges that we have to face...call it karma...call it a blessing...call it a curse. those of us who come out of it with are wits about us will live. the other wimps will be advising hapless youngsters on how to get a hard on with women so that they may fulfill their parents desperate superficial dreams...against their true nature and leading everyone involved into perpetual despair.coolclump [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: hi there,i've always been a silent spectator of this grp. after reading ur reaction for gays marrying straight women, i've a humble comment/doubt to put forth:won't it be selfish of us(gays) if we deny getting married? cuz, the majority of the parents of gays are conservative and it's a matter of pride for them to get their sons/daughters married.and we're here on the earth only because of them. it's our parents who've given us an identity. aren't we obliged to go by their words as in case of marriage?can't we make this sacrifice, to make our parents happy? and i'm sure gays will definitely have children after marriage. that'll also make our parents happy grandparents na..?well, this is not my principle or opinion. it's just a small doubt that has kept me in conflict for quite a long time. and i just wanna know how other gays 'll respond to this..i understand ur point also but would u or anyone substantiate ur point of view?how'll u tackle a question as this? would u prefer saying-'yes, i'm selfish' or 'no, i'll better make my conservative parents happy...'cheers..v--- In gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com, Sonub Jalan [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:rent you contradicting yourself? "Sex is in the mind" and "still at heart we are gay"...who are you fooling? If you have indeed attained intimacy with your wife (proving that it is possible) then why the need to be here?I dont know under what circumstances you have had to marry and I will not like to sit in judgement of your actions. But this is definitely not the advise you can give to people who are under pressure to get married to a woman. What such people (people like me) need to know is that you will then be using a woman's life to experiment. You are living in denial about what you and she needs and someday you will not be able to live the pretence any longer.For those of you who are married...you can spend the rest of your life "adjusting" and "rubbing your wife's cheeks" or acknowledge the clossal mistake you have made and go your separate ways. Acknowledge that you are "not a perfect husband like heteros" and a hetro is what any straight woman deserves, while you are respnsible for denying her that.And then maybe some of you married guys have been lucky in that your wife has waited long enough for you to "get physical as if it means nothing to you as would between two friends". I know of women who kicked the living daylights out of their husbands for not being good enough. Lots of rounds to hospitals to cure their impotency. So dont you dare make your plight a general rule.Get real guys. While the honourable GB list jury is still out on whether true love is possible in the gay world, I believe it is better to be alone than to live a lie.I have fought really hard not to marry, being the only son in a very conservative family. It has affected my parents health and been the cause of a lot of tension in my family. But I would rather live with this than a wife with whom I need to develop intimacy and "Achieving sex with one women" against my instincts.abbey fifty [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Guys, I'd like to make two points:1. I share Sumeet Mehra's experiences and having done the deed, ( marrying )the best option is to try hard to adjust. And the best policy is NOT to try getting hard - just befriend your wife, get intimate in all other ways, and then very slowly, get physical as if it means nothing to you as would between two friends -like putting hand over shoulder, a kiss on the cheek and just holding hands. The important thing is to get so used to these things that you are not conscious. After a few months, you will be mentally relaxed enough for stirrings of physical feelings to emerge. Remember sex is in the mind. So relax and let time go. I
Re: g_b can't we make this sacrifice, to make our parents happy?
yes our parents brought us to this earth and we are here because of them, but we have our own lives as well even ifi marry a girl i wont be able to satisfy her sexually very much and this would be an injustice to her, and marriage is an important institution like you are responsible to your parents, you are equally responsible to your wife, so in any case if you marry its injustice to your wife and if you dont it is to your parents, i would suggest that you work hard and become financially independent and then you tell your parents that you are gay and that you cant marry a girl if possible take your parents to a psychologist who can explain them things better. thats all i can say. and now since nothing can be done about us being gay we have no option but to act discreet and prudent. well i know i havent solved your problem but that all i could docoolclump [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: hi there,i've always been a silent spectator of this grp. after reading ur reaction for gays marrying straight women, i've a humble comment/doubt to put forth:won't it be selfish of us(gays) if we deny getting married? cuz, the majority of the parents of gays are conservative and it's a matter of pride for them to get their sons/daughters married.and we're here on the earth only because of them. it's our parents who've given us an identity. aren't we obliged to go by their words as in case of marriage?can't we make this sacrifice, to make our parents happy? and i'm sure gays will definitely have children after marriage. that'll also make our parents happy grandparents na..?well, this is not my principle or opinion. it's just a small doubt that has kept me in conflict for quite a long time. and i just wanna know how other gays 'll respond to this..i understand ur point also but would u or anyone substantiate ur point of view?how'll u tackle a question as this? would u prefer saying-'yes, i'm selfish' or 'no, i'll better make my conservative parents happy...'cheers..v--- In gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com, Sonub Jalan [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:rent you contradicting yourself? "Sex is in the mind" and "still at heart we are gay"...who are you fooling? If you have indeed attained intimacy with your wife (proving that it is possible) then why the need to be here?I dont know under what circumstances you have had to marry and I will not like to sit in judgement of your actions. But this is definitely not the advise you can give to people who are under pressure to get married to a woman. What such people (people like me) need to know is that you will then be using a woman's life to experiment. You are living in denial about what you and she needs and someday you will not be able to live the pretence any longer.For those of you who are married...you can spend the rest of your life "adjusting" and "rubbing your wife's cheeks" or acknowledge the clossal mistake you have made and go your separate ways. Acknowledge that you are "not a perfect husband like heteros" and a hetro is what any straight woman deserves, while you are respnsible for denying her that.And then maybe some of you married guys have been lucky in that your wife has waited long enough for you to "get physical as if it means nothing to you as would between two friends". I know of women who kicked the living daylights out of their husbands for not being good enough. Lots of rounds to hospitals to cure their impotency. So dont you dare make your plight a general rule.Get real guys. While the honourable GB list jury is still out on whether true love is possible in the gay world, I believe it is better to be alone than to live a lie.I have fought really hard not to marry, being the only son in a very conservative family. It has affected my parents health and been the cause of a lot of tension in my family. But I would rather live with this than a wife with whom I need to develop intimacy and "Achieving sex with one women" against my instincts.abbey fifty [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Guys, I'd like to make two points:1. I share Sumeet Mehra's experiences and having done the deed, ( marrying )the best option is to try hard to adjust. And the best policy is NOT to try getting hard - just befriend your wife, get intimate in all other ways, and then very slowly, get physical as if it means nothing to you as would between two friends -like putting hand over shoulder, a kiss on the cheek and just holding hands. The important thing is to get so used to these things that you are not conscious. After a few months, you will be mentally relaxed enough for stirrings of physical feelings to emerge. Remember sex is in the mind. So relax and let time go. I went through this phase and though not a perfect husband like heteros, we do get along.2. We are on the list because, still, at heart we are gay in that we are attracted physically by men. Achieving sex with one women means nothing much except that u get to know her so well, that one learns to get along, if you know what I mean. It
Re: g_b Blessing in Disguise ? :-)
'cuz i didn't know whether that was a nick or a proper name :-/ Apologies for that. Purely unintentional the result of a confused (w.r.t. names) mind. However, the thanks still remains :-) Hv a fab. weekend !! Cheers, Amadeus :-) --- asfan [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Pray, why is my name in quotation marks?? Asfan amadeus909 [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Good morning everyoneand a very happy Thursday to everyone !!! Thanks also to Jake, Abhay, Shailen, R. Pereira, Deb, Albert Asfan for their sympathetic words :-) - Relax. Yahoo! Mail virus scanning helps detect nasty viruses! __ Do You Yahoo!? Tired of spam? Yahoo! Mail has the best spam protection around http://mail.yahoo.com Group Site: http://www.gaybombay.info == This message was posted to the gay_bombay Yahoo! Group. Responses to messages (by clicking Reply) will also be posted on the eGroup and sent to all members. If you'd like to respond privately to the author of any message then please compose and send a new email message to the author's email address. Post:- gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Subscribe:- [EMAIL PROTECTED] Digest Mode:- [EMAIL PROTECTED] No Mail Mode:- [EMAIL PROTECTED] Individual Mail Mode:- [EMAIL PROTECTED] Contact Us:- [EMAIL PROTECTED] Archives are at http://www.mail-archive.com/gay_bombay%40yahoogroups.com/maillist.html Classifieds for personal advertisements are back on www.gaybombay.info site. Please exercise restraint in the language of your personal advertisement. Yahoo! Groups Links * To visit your group on the web, go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/gay_bombay/ * To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to: [EMAIL PROTECTED] * Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to: http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/
g_b Please Wish Me Good Luck!!
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Re: RE: g_b Support us - resident doctors of Maharashtra state
Somu, I am afraid that we are already like a call-cetre Hire/Fire since decades in the unorganised, small scale and farm sectors. Nobody ever talks about them in the media and they are not in the news. The well heeled are the only ones talked about, supported by the politicians for their ability to hold society at ransom and given coverage by the media.This group once hired can never be fired whether they work or not for their salaries. So the hire and fire is not applicable to this group. Once hired no one can fire. In my opinion this group requires remedy badly. And therein lies the inequality. Get your own 800 number Voicemail, fax, email, and a lot more http://www.ureach.com/reg/tag On Fri, 10 Mar 2006, maiaurmerasaya ([EMAIL PROTECTED]) wrote: Yes Mr Mehta, I know what you talkin' about. But then who am I to judge who is to be allowd and who's not? If there is a right, its got to be same for everyone...well-heeled or not so well-heeled. But the bottomline is that it will be a VERY sad day for all of us if and when our country starts functioning like call centres...with a corporate autocracy...WE will hire you and fire you anytime that WE like and you will never have a say?? Karna Mehta [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Somu saysAnd so let there be more protests#8230;more taking to the streets#8230;.more voices to say #8220;I don#8217;t agree#8221; or in better words #8220;Civil Disobedience#8221;? As that#8217;s the only way to change. What you say is frightening The protests and taking to the streets will be done by the really well heeled Indiansgovt. employees, railway employees, nationalised bank employees, state electricity boards employees, the muncipal employees .etc. We are well aware of these groups. It is rarely that we come across a genuine protest that deserves taking to the streets.so I would be careful of an across the board advise on protests. The wrong ones will heed the advice and society at large will suffer. Get your own 800 number Voicemail, fax, email, and a lot more http://www.ureach.com/reg/tag On Wed, 8 Mar 2006, maiaurmerasaya ([EMAIL PROTECTED]) wrote: Ah Ha! Looks like Sweet Angel will make a GREAT ceo of a multinational or may be a Poster Boy of our fascist government. But remember... PROTESTS are the only tools that you have as a citizen of a so called democratic (read replacements of tissues for the American govt) country for any change. I am sure it doesnt matter much for the educated urban lot, because this goverment does cater only to this crowd (or does it?). But it might make sense for you to just go to a village...feel a bit of rural India (which is what most of India is)and you will know what#8217;s happening there. It#8217;s all crumpling up under the shrink-wrapped urban India of shopping malls and multiplexes. And that#8217;s exactly where Protests come in#8230;.because someone has to stand up and say #8220;this is not acceptable to me#8221; I mean you cant take any shit that come your way#8230;can you?? And come on#8230;you are loosing every bit of your freedom day by day#8230;don#8217;t ever say it again. Because once it#8217;s taken away from you, you will have a hard time getting it back. And so let there be more protests#8230;more taking to the streets#8230;.more voices to say #8220;I don#8217;t agree#8221; or in better words #8220;Civil Disobedience#8221;? As that#8217;s the only way to change. Somu Sweet Angel [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: I can understand the hardships you must have had to face. (Frankly I dont understand them at all, as I know not what hardships u face). But lets come to the point. Its high time the govt kept a blanket ban on all sorts of strikes across the country. Not just for doctors, but all essential services like the airport unions, BEST, railway workers, bank workers etc. Not that people dont support you, but that these strikes cause untold hardship to the common man not to say a great economic loss to the country. I hope you find a PG accomadation soon. As for another job (I have heard the Govt is getting replacements for all the doctors), I would advise you to join a call centre. I hear they need medical people for medical transcriptions etc. By the way, you wont get any media write up if you decide to hold a strike in a call centre. The only write up you would get is your resignation letter. Good Luck and hope you take your next job a little more seriously. - From: Kris Bass [EMAIL PROTECTED] Reply-To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Fri, 03 Mar 2006 22:15:18 -0800 (PST) Received: by 10.64.208.20 with HTTP; Fri, 3 Mar 2006
