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g_b A parent's love -- no matter what
A nice talk worth seeing. RegardsCrish. Subject: A parent's love -- no matter what A parent's love -- no matter what Email not displaying correctly? View it in your browser This week on TED.com June 8, 2013 Talk of the week Andrew Solomon: Love, no matter what 23:27 minutes · Filmed Apr 2013 · Posted Jun 2013 · TEDMED 2013 What is it like to raise a child who's different from you in some fundamental way (like a prodigy, or a differently abled kid, or a criminal)? In this quietly moving talk, writer Andrew Solomon shares what he learned from talking to dozens of parents -- asking them: What's the line between unconditional love and unconditional acceptance? Watch now » Playlist of the week The world of tiny things (9 TED Talks) Zoom in -- way, way in -- to look at the world from speck's-eye view. Learn about very tiny insects, the world at the nanoscale, and sculptures so small it's best to hold your breath while viewing. Watch » Total run time 2:10:13 More from TED.com For 28 years, Denise Herzing has spent five months each summer living with a pod of Atlantic spotted dolphins. It's clear they communicate with one another. Is it language? Could humans use it too? Watch » Journalist Anas Aremeyaw Anas has broken dozens of stories of corruption and organized crime all over Ghana -- without ever revealing his identity. Watch » What's a proven way to lower your energy costs? Would you believe: learning what your neighbor pays. Alex Laskey shows how a quirk of human behavior can make us all better, wiser energy users. Watch » Filmmaker Martin Villeneuve talks about Mars et Avril, the Canadian sci-fi spectacular he made with virtually no money. In a charming talk, he show how he produced his vision of the future. Watch » TEDWomen 2013 Just announced: a one-day TED event about women's issues and ideas, Dec. 5, 2013, in San Francisco. Learn more >> Quote of the Week “ The ‘fiscal cliff’ — I was told that that's too partisan a thing to say … so I just call it the ‘self-imposed, self-destructive, arbitrary deadline about resolving an inevitable problem.’" Adam Davidson Adam Davidson: What we learned from teetering on the fiscal cliff Join the Conversation Political parties should be banned in the United States of America. Started by Casey Kitchel (50 comments) Decisions? Choices? Alternatives? Too little information? Too much information? Just how do we decide? Facing a decision? Share here. Started by Juan Valdez (32 comments) “ Kiki Otth on Anas Aremeyaw Anas: How I named, shamed and jailed What an enormously courageous man! May I quote just two bits back for your perusal? "What is the essence of journalism if it doesn't benefit society?" "Evil in the society is an extreme disease. If you have extreme diseases, you need to get extreme remedies" I only wish that more journalists had learned these two lessons. You have my highest praise, respect and well-wishes, dear AAA. The world needs brave people like you - and we need to be alert and ready to listen. Thank you so much. God bless you for your will to do this work for the benefit of society." NEW SHOW: Framing The Story Stories help us make meaning of our lives. In the latest TED Radio Hour, TED speakers explore the art of storytelling. Listen on your local NPR radio station, or get the podcast. Become a Fan on Facebook Follow us @TEDNews | @TEDTalks News, speakers, Q&As and more: TEDBlog Get the TED app for iPhone, iPad, and Android You are receiving this email because you've subscribed to our mailing list. We also send out daily emails, if you can't get enough of us. We love you too. Copyright © 2013 TED, All rights reserved. You're receiving this newsletter because you subscribed to it on TED.com. Our mailing address is: TED 250 Hudson St., Room 1002New York, NY 10013 Add us to your address book unsubscribe from this list update subscription preferences view email in browser
g_b Shrimping and Snow balling mean ?
Hey there, In gay sex terminologies what does Shrimping and Snow balling mean ? If any one has a clue about the same please let me know Luv and regards.
Re: g_b Re: [gb] Have you ever asked your barber?
Ya Dude, Just like how you concluded that most would expect and enjoy !!! This is the problem with our fraternity, we wear a spectacles of our choice of color, and see everything in that color.. From: Tintin Mumbai India To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Sent: Saturday, 5 January 2013 7:49 AM Subject: Re: g_b Re: [gb] Have you ever asked your barber? And Uday How did u confirm that most of people would not enjoy or expect it? You must be referring some ORG survey? Huh? On Jan 5, 2013 12:22 AM, "uday krishnan" wrote: > >Hey there, > >The Cambridge English dictionary gives the meaning of the word perverse as " >Disapprovingly strange and not what most people would expect or enjoy" >. and so that is what I precisely meant, in the context under >discussion > > > > > > > > From: Tintin Mumbai India >To: gay_bombay >Sent: Friday, 4 January 2013 12:34 PM >Subject: Re: g_b Re: [gb] Have you ever asked your barber? > > > >Uday > > >I am sorry to say "Grow up man". >Do you go to a physician and think yourself pervert asking him that you have >rashes in groin area? > > >I am talking about checking the barber professionally. >He shaves, he do hair cut, he razes hair from underarm. Where is the rule that >he can't razes pubic hair? > > >Have you not checked with your maid, who actually do Jhaadu Pauchha inside >your flat only, if she / he can clean utensils for the day, because there is a >cut in your finger? > > >First of all, it is not act of perversion but it is just a TABOO to ask such >questions. >For me, it is as simple as asking some uncommon questions to strangers like >"Is there any massage parlor nearby?" People may think it is act of >Perversion, but I am just looking for body relax. >You are being judgmental (learnt use of this from English Vinglish). > > >Perversion would be, if I ask this question, and he agrees too, and then >during the trimming I touch him here and there. And this was not my intention, >as you can see my original mail. > > > > >--- Reuse Paper by Both Sided Printing > > >On Wed, Jan 2, 2013 at 2:13 PM, uday krishnan wrote: > > >> >>I think it is not fair to look at any profession in such a perverted sense, >>further if he feels offended and says an yes to run the razor helter-skelter >>what would you tell your doctor, your handed your dick to a "barbarian"? >> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> From: Kris Bass >>To: gaybom...@yahoogroups.com >>Cc: Gay Underscore >>Sent: Wednesday, 2 January 2013 12:07 PM >>Subject: g_b Re: [gb] Have you ever asked your barber? >> >> >> >> >>Assuming we are talking about cosmetic/esthetic purposes and not about >>preoperative preparation: The whole point of going to a barber for scalp and >>facial hair styling is because you cannot see these parts, at least without >>using a mirror. Second, these are much denser and are aspects of personal >>grooming that is part of your dressing (appearance). So, unless you have >>extensive, dense pubic hair, your sight is impaired, and/or you wear your >>pubic hair in public, I would not see any reason to go to a barber. >>For erotic purposes, I would ask my partner to groom me while we both are >>naked. >>Kris >>On Jan 2, 2013 11:46 AM, "Tintin Mumbai India" wrote: >> >> >>> >>>Hello Guys, >>> >>> >>>Often this question comes to my mind, how my regular barber (or a new one) >>>would react if I genuinely ask him if he can trim my pubic hair? >>> >>> >>>I don't want to give him any hint, I dont want to lure him for any further >>>action, it does not matter if he looks good or ugly. >>>I just want professional service and at decent well deserved price. >>> >>> >>>For Ex, I get Head Massage for 20-30mins with Navaratan Oil, at Rs50/- >>>(Mumbai, Bangalore and many other cities), so that is decent price I think >>>for someone's efforts for 30mins. >>> >>> >>>Similarly, I would not like to go to HiFi salons for trimming services and >>>pay big money there, just because of whatever reasons. >>> >>> >>> >>> >>> >>> >>> >>> >>>So, my question to the group is: >>>Has anyone ever tried asking his regular barber or a barber at totally new >>>place if he would mind trimming pubic hair? >>>If possible, I would like to know the reaction of the barber. >>> >>> >>>Abhay >>> >>> >>>--- Reuse Paper by Both Sided Printing >> >> > > >
Re: g_b Re: [gb] Have you ever asked your barber?
Hey there, The Cambridge English dictionary gives the meaning of the word perverse as " Disapprovingly strange and not what most people would expect or enjoy" . and so that is what I precisely meant, in the context under discussion From: Tintin Mumbai India To: gay_bombay Sent: Friday, 4 January 2013 12:34 PM Subject: Re: g_b Re: [gb] Have you ever asked your barber? Uday I am sorry to say "Grow up man". Do you go to a physician and think yourself pervert asking him that you have rashes in groin area? I am talking about checking the barber professionally. He shaves, he do hair cut, he razes hair from underarm. Where is the rule that he can't razes pubic hair? Have you not checked with your maid, who actually do Jhaadu Pauchha inside your flat only, if she / he can clean utensils for the day, because there is a cut in your finger? First of all, it is not act of perversion but it is just a TABOO to ask such questions. For me, it is as simple as asking some uncommon questions to strangers like "Is there any massage parlor nearby?" People may think it is act of Perversion, but I am just looking for body relax. You are being judgmental (learnt use of this from English Vinglish). Perversion would be, if I ask this question, and he agrees too, and then during the trimming I touch him here and there. And this was not my intention, as you can see my original mail. --- Reuse Paper by Both Sided Printing On Wed, Jan 2, 2013 at 2:13 PM, uday krishnan wrote: > >I think it is not fair to look at any profession in such a perverted sense, >further if he feels offended and says an yes to run the razor helter-skelter >what would you tell your doctor, your handed your dick to a "barbarian"? > > > > > > > > From: Kris Bass >To: gaybom...@yahoogroups.com >Cc: Gay Underscore >Sent: Wednesday, 2 January 2013 12:07 PM >Subject: g_b Re: [gb] Have you ever asked your barber? > > > > >Assuming we are talking about cosmetic/esthetic purposes and not about >preoperative preparation: The whole point of going to a barber for scalp and >facial hair styling is because you cannot see these parts, at least without >using a mirror. Second, these are much denser and are aspects of personal >grooming that is part of your dressing (appearance). So, unless you have >extensive, dense pubic hair, your sight is impaired, and/or you wear your >pubic hair in public, I would not see any reason to go to a barber. >For erotic purposes, I would ask my partner to groom me while we both are >naked. >Kris >On Jan 2, 2013 11:46 AM, "Tintin Mumbai India" wrote: > > >> >>Hello Guys, >> >> >>Often this question comes to my mind, how my regular barber (or a new one) >>would react if I genuinely ask him if he can trim my pubic hair? >> >> >>I don't want to give him any hint, I dont want to lure him for any further >>action, it does not matter if he looks good or ugly. >>I just want professional service and at decent well deserved price. >> >> >>For Ex, I get Head Massage for 20-30mins with Navaratan Oil, at Rs50/- >>(Mumbai, Bangalore and many other cities), so that is decent price I think >>for someone's efforts for 30mins. >> >> >>Similarly, I would not like to go to HiFi salons for trimming services and >>pay big money there, just because of whatever reasons. >> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> >>So, my question to the group is: >>Has anyone ever tried asking his regular barber or a barber at totally new >>place if he would mind trimming pubic hair? >>If possible, I would like to know the reaction of the barber. >> >> >>Abhay >> >> >>--- Reuse Paper by Both Sided Printing > >
Re: g_b Re: [gb] Have you ever asked your barber?
I think it is not fair to look at any profession in such a perverted sense, further if he feels offended and says an yes to run the razor helter-skelter what would you tell your doctor, your handed your dick to a "barbarian"? From: Kris Bass To: gaybom...@yahoogroups.com Cc: Gay Underscore Sent: Wednesday, 2 January 2013 12:07 PM Subject: g_b Re: [gb] Have you ever asked your barber? Assuming we are talking about cosmetic/esthetic purposes and not about preoperative preparation: The whole point of going to a barber for scalp and facial hair styling is because you cannot see these parts, at least without using a mirror. Second, these are much denser and are aspects of personal grooming that is part of your dressing (appearance). So, unless you have extensive, dense pubic hair, your sight is impaired, and/or you wear your pubic hair in public, I would not see any reason to go to a barber. For erotic purposes, I would ask my partner to groom me while we both are naked. Kris On Jan 2, 2013 11:46 AM, "Tintin Mumbai India" wrote: > >Hello Guys, > > >Often this question comes to my mind, how my regular barber (or a new one) >would react if I genuinely ask him if he can trim my pubic hair? > > >I don't want to give him any hint, I dont want to lure him for any further >action, it does not matter if he looks good or ugly. >I just want professional service and at decent well deserved price. > > >For Ex, I get Head Massage for 20-30mins with Navaratan Oil, at Rs50/- >(Mumbai, Bangalore and many other cities), so that is decent price I think for >someone's efforts for 30mins. > > >Similarly, I would not like to go to HiFi salons for trimming services and pay >big money there, just because of whatever reasons. > > > > > > > > >So, my question to the group is: >Has anyone ever tried asking his regular barber or a barber at totally new >place if he would mind trimming pubic hair? >If possible, I would like to know the reaction of the barber. > > >Abhay > > >--- Reuse Paper by Both Sided Printing
Re: g_b The bad sex award goes to gay Indian men
Thanks for the correction From: Bloot Fontaine To: "gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com" Sent: Friday, 2 November 2012 6:15 PM Subject: Re: g_b The bad sex award goes to gay Indian men I think you mean "naive" not "knave"? All the Best! ____ From: uday krishnan To: "gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com" Sent: Thursday, 1 November 2012 11:43 AM Subject: Re: g_b The bad sex award goes to gay Indian men I fully advocate the views of Ashley, and find that more and more of such breed are on the net, and many of them are so commercial in their approach that they prefer to have all these services rendered to them alone and nothing in return. And it is an apathy to find that some of them have different rules with different people, of course its one's choice I do not mean to say that one should not use one's discretion, but are we so knave as a fraternity that we apply such discrimination ? From: gaybombay To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Sent: Tuesday, 30 October 2012 2:36 PM Subject: g_b The bad sex award goes to gay Indian men The bad sex award goes to gay Indian men By Ashley Tellis | Agency: DNA One of the best kept secrets about gay life in India is that almost all gay sex here is lousy. I have to report that I have never had decent sex here, and I don't think I ever will. Apart from the fact that Indians in general are lousy at sex and have all sorts of weird hang-ups about it, gay sex here has a particular set of sicknesses associated with it. So, Indian men who want to and do have gay sex also have no qualms about being disgusted by it and doing it badly. Culture legitimises that. Frequently, one comes across men online who will tell you that they don't kiss. They want to be sucked, they only want to f--- you and, increasingly, want to be rimmed too. They say this with no irony and no self-reflexivity whatsoever and actually get offended when you tell them to go find a dog or f--- a wall instead. Or when you tell them that something is wrong when they want you to lick their a--- but they won't lick your face. Or speak of how important kissing is to sex. `Tops' (by which is meant the most pathetic imitation of missionary heterosexual positions) don't suck, of course. They only want to be sucked. This is a given. Men on websites call themselves `pure tops'. They are really anxious that you come nowhere near their a--- and, of course, are not interested at all in examining that anxiety. They expect bottoms not only to be submissive and meek but have no penises, no orgasms, no needs, no sexual desires other than to fulfil the desires of the tops. Anal sex is a brutal affair and many of my gay friends have ruptured anuses, fissures, and damaged sphincters, and seem to take it as par for the course. High on alcohol, poppers, hash and other stuff, `bottoms' seem not to care about their own bodies, or indeed about sex as something pleasurable, gentle and meaningful. It is only about being stuffed and pounded and hence the need for all the external intoxicants. Tops, once they come, rush to the bathroom to wash and then rush out of the house without so much as a by-your-leave, let alone a goodbye kiss. All of a sudden they are disgusted by what they have done and want the hell out. It is just a matter of "release", like they have pissed and now need to leave the pissoir. I have recently begun seeing a man who calls himself gay, claims to be interested in an emotional relationship with a man, and is looking for a monogamous partner. This is the e-mail I had to send him after our first attempt at sex: Dear middle-class Indian man, Before we take our relationship further (if you want to), I want to state that you have to change as a lover and become more responsive and more attentive to the person you are in bed with and might be in a relationship with. Here's an indication of how selfish you were in bed: You came thrice and did not bother to ask me if I came even once. You did not ask me what I like or what I find pleasurable. You did not rim me but wanted to f--- me (which any lover attentive to his lover's needs would do). You did not suck my c--- or even offer to masturbate me if you are not used to sucking. You did not kiss me enough, did not let me put my fingers in your mouth while I was sucking you. You were only directed at your own needs — the need to get your c--- sucked, the need to f--- my a---. Despite telling you that I am an anal virgin and you have to be slow and gentle, you were impatient, rough, thrusting and insensitive. This is not the way to treat another human being in bed with you. The other person also has needs, desires, pleasures. You have to make an attempt to share bodies, and not just selfishly have your wa
Re: g_b The bad sex award goes to gay Indian men
I fully advocate the views of Ashley, and find that more and more of such breed are on the net, and many of them are so commercial in their approach that they prefer to have all these services rendered to them alone and nothing in return. And it is an apathy to find that some of them have different rules with different people, of course its one's choice I do not mean to say that one should not use one's discretion, but are we so knave as a fraternity that we apply such discrimination ? From: gaybombay To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Sent: Tuesday, 30 October 2012 2:36 PM Subject: g_b The bad sex award goes to gay Indian men The bad sex award goes to gay Indian men By Ashley Tellis | Agency: DNA One of the best kept secrets about gay life in India is that almost all gay sex here is lousy. I have to report that I have never had decent sex here, and I don't think I ever will. Apart from the fact that Indians in general are lousy at sex and have all sorts of weird hang-ups about it, gay sex here has a particular set of sicknesses associated with it. So, Indian men who want to and do have gay sex also have no qualms about being disgusted by it and doing it badly. Culture legitimises that. Frequently, one comes across men online who will tell you that they don't kiss. They want to be sucked, they only want to f--- you and, increasingly, want to be rimmed too. They say this with no irony and no self-reflexivity whatsoever and actually get offended when you tell them to go find a dog or f--- a wall instead. Or when you tell them that something is wrong when they want you to lick their a--- but they won't lick your face. Or speak of how important kissing is to sex. `Tops' (by which is meant the most pathetic imitation of missionary heterosexual positions) don't suck, of course. They only want to be sucked. This is a given. Men on websites call themselves `pure tops'. They are really anxious that you come nowhere near their a--- and, of course, are not interested at all in examining that anxiety. They expect bottoms not only to be submissive and meek but have no penises, no orgasms, no needs, no sexual desires other than to fulfil the desires of the tops. Anal sex is a brutal affair and many of my gay friends have ruptured anuses, fissures, and damaged sphincters, and seem to take it as par for the course. High on alcohol, poppers, hash and other stuff, `bottoms' seem not to care about their own bodies, or indeed about sex as something pleasurable, gentle and meaningful. It is only about being stuffed and pounded and hence the need for all the external intoxicants. Tops, once they come, rush to the bathroom to wash and then rush out of the house without so much as a by-your-leave, let alone a goodbye kiss. All of a sudden they are disgusted by what they have done and want the hell out. It is just a matter of "release", like they have pissed and now need to leave the pissoir. I have recently begun seeing a man who calls himself gay, claims to be interested in an emotional relationship with a man, and is looking for a monogamous partner. This is the e-mail I had to send him after our first attempt at sex: Dear middle-class Indian man, Before we take our relationship further (if you want to), I want to state that you have to change as a lover and become more responsive and more attentive to the person you are in bed with and might be in a relationship with. Here's an indication of how selfish you were in bed: You came thrice and did not bother to ask me if I came even once. You did not ask me what I like or what I find pleasurable. You did not rim me but wanted to f--- me (which any lover attentive to his lover's needs would do). You did not suck my c--- or even offer to masturbate me if you are not used to sucking. You did not kiss me enough, did not let me put my fingers in your mouth while I was sucking you. You were only directed at your own needs — the need to get your c--- sucked, the need to f--- my a---. Despite telling you that I am an anal virgin and you have to be slow and gentle, you were impatient, rough, thrusting and insensitive. This is not the way to treat another human being in bed with you. The other person also has needs, desires, pleasures. You have to make an attempt to share bodies, and not just selfishly have your way. You are a typical, selfish and insensitive Indian man and that does not allow for a healthy, mutually respectful relationship. Please reflect on all this if we have to have a future. Best, This is why I don't have sex for years sometimes and I'm still an anal virgin in my forties. I hope lesbians and trannies are having better sex, but somehow I doubt it. Homophobia and "Indian culture" (let's not blame the Brits for our sickening conceptions of sex as dirty) have ruined our sex lives. That is where the revolution should start. When we refuse bad sex and fight for the ri
Re: g_b Rishi Kapoor (sort of) admits to the sexuality of his SOTY role
To add to what has been said if one had watched the recent KBC in which Karan was a guest, his gestures and actions were so much effeminate and the body language was so obvious that one could come to certain reasonable conclusions, which definitely isn't rocket science at all. From: Vikram D To: "gaybom...@yahoogroups.com" Cc: "gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com" ; "khush-l...@yahoogroups.com" ; "movenp...@yahoogroups.com" Sent: Tuesday, 16 October 2012 6:23 PM Subject: g_b Rishi Kapoor (sort of) admits to the sexuality of his SOTY role With Student of the Year FINALLY about to hit the screens, Karan Johar take on sexuality - including his own sexuality - comes up again in this interview with Rishi Kapoor who, its been widely reported, plays the principal of the school who has feelings for the male PT instructor. Read the first two Q&As from today's Bombay Times: -- http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/entertainment/bollywood/news-interviews/I-told-Karan-he-cannot-call-me-Chintu-uncle-Rishi-Kapoor/articleshow/16822402.cms Q] A lot has been said about you playing a gay principal in SOTY. A] I wouldn't say he's gay... not the correct gender orientation. He's not married, is soft on the PT coach. It's a different take of what we have done. It is a very senstive approach with Karan's and my sensibilities and aesthetics. I don't want to sound like a crusader. While working in the film, I'd tell Karan, 'tum karke dikhao and I'll copy you'. So, in a way, I'm a copycat actor (laughs). Karan has helped me a lot and I enjoyed playing the part. It was a laugh riot on the sets. All of us would be in splits whenever we shot. Q] Other films that featured gay characters saw them become caricatures. After SOTY, do you think gays would be treated differently in films henceforth? A] Yes, the role is not a caricature in our film. Film characters depend on directors. In SOTY, it was a personal take by Karan, the director and Rishi, the actor. There's a hint of a feminine streak in the character and it's very subtle, not over the top. If it were over the top, I wouldn't have played the role. It's not an effeminate character. When you see the movie, you'll understand what I mean. -- Back to me. What do people make of this? Its both there and not there: "I wouldn't say he's gay..." but then pretty much goes on to confirm it, and in the second answer essentially admits it by saying the role is not a caricature. And then there is the teasing reference to Karan who has been equally there and not there about admitting his sexuality - never saying he is, but never denying it and, in fact, pretty much allowing his friends and associates to say it. Remember all those jokes his guests would make on Koffee With Karan? And here's Rishi Kapoor saying that his 'gay' character was based on Karan! It is easy to get irritated by all this coyness. Why doesn't Karan just come out and say it, when everyone obviously knows it? And why can't the principal be clearly identified as gay? Karan's earlier films might have come before the 377 verdict, so maybe coyness was to be expected, but now its after (thought still in the Supreme Court) and there's more openness and acceptance, particularly in anything to do with Bollywood. Sridevi's speech in support of the gay teacher in English Vinglish pretty much laid out what the mainstream Bollywood position on homosexuality is now. Karan could help even more by being open, and what does he have to lose, so why not just do it? But against this is what Kapoor says, and again I think he's speaking for Karan here: "I don't want to sound like a crusader." Because that isn't his job. Making feel good Bollywood blockbusters is his job and whatever one might feel about such films, they are a substantial reason why Bollywood exists (meaning such films in general, not just Karan's films). And coming out in a dramatic way and giving a gay rights speech does make him seem more like a crusader and it is just not a role he is comfortable with, so why should he do it. But what he can do is include gay characters in ways that show they are accepted quite readily by the Bollywood film world they are in and they are quite open, just short of actually using the gay label (and in Dostana they did, even if they weren't actually gay!) I think that's a fairly powerful thing to do, especially given that his films aren't small budget, limited viewing ones, but among the biggest and most hyped films of the year. Lakhs of people are going to see Rishi Kapoor do his 'gay' role from this Friday and will probably be left under no illusions about what he is and how the film has no problem with it. So I'm an unabashed supporter for what Karan does and I'm lookin
Re: g_b Gay Labels: "Top-Bottom & Masculine-Feminine' - Prayatna Pune Meet
Dear Moderator, The issues you are discussing are so relevant and have been a query among the gay fraternity in India, would love if the outcome of the meeting be shared with the members of this forum luv and regards... Krish. From: Moderator Prayatna To: GB ; G_B ; Prayatna Sent: Thursday, 6 September 2012 12:29 AM Subject: g_b Gay Labels: "Top-Bottom & Masculine-Feminine' - Prayatna Pune Meet Hello All We gays are often asked the question, "So who's the male & who's the female?" or "Are you top or bottom?" This meet, we try to share our views & perceptions about this theme. Are the tags top & bottom only sexual expressions or do they apply to other behavior too? How important are these labels? Do you believe in labeling? Do these labels change with time? Do bottoms have to be sissy? Or do tops have to be macho or manly? Are there more bottoms than tops? Are only bottoms looking for relationships & tops wanting one night stands? Is being top masculine & superior, or being bottom feminine & inferior? Why are some gays more effeminate than others? Why do few gays like to refer to self & others in the feminine pronoun & call each other sisters? Why do they desire to have a mangalagaur or a haldi kunku ceremony? Is this biological, psychological, both or neither ? So many interesting questions …. we will try to understand them together. Look forward to your presence at this Prayatna meet. See you at the venue below on Sunday Sept 16, 2012, from 4.30 to 8 pm. Team Prayatna Venue - Open Space, B-301, Kanchanjunga building, Kanchan lane, off Law College road, Pune 411004 [Kanchan lane is the lane between Barista & Krishna Dining Hall on law college road. Kanchanjunga bldg is almost at the end of the lane ( 3rd last building) on your left.] Do's: 1) Get your friends. 2) Dress sensibly to suit the taste of everyone, considering we may have newbies. 3) Please arrive on time, preferably earlier, so as to not disturb others while opening the door. 4) Please check the parking dates. Kanchan lane has P1\P2 parking. 5) During the informal discussion over coffee, feel free to share your feelings or ask questions related to the film. 6) You are requested to express your opinions decently & without getting into arguments. 7) Keep your cellphones in the silent mode during the meet. Don'ts: 1) Stand too long at the entrance door of Open Space or giggle & talk too loud. Remember it is in a residential building & zone and a holiday (Sun), hence please lets not inconvenience the neighborhood. Thanks.
Re: g_b Laxmi's crush on Pooja Bedi ? Laxmi's ready to change her sexuality for Pooja Be
I really do not understand why Big Boss which is like any other reality show being promoted so much on this forum. Krish. From: Sayaman To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Sent: Saturday, 3 December 2011 9:12 AM Subject: g_b Laxmi's crush on Pooja Bedi ? Laxmi's ready to change her sexuality for Pooja Be Laxmi's crush on Pooja Bedi ? Laxmi's ready to change her sexuality for Pooja Bedi ? Actress Pooja Bedi, who has been evicted from the Bigg Boss season 5 house this weekend, has revealed that her housemate Laxmi Narayan Tripathi, who is a transgender, had developed a secret crush on her. Laxmi even wanted to change her sexuality for the Bollywood star. In an interview to the Times of India,Pooja Bedi spoke about her close bonding with Laxmi Narayan Tripathi, who was physically attracted towards her. "Interestingly, Laxmi Narayan Tripathi, who is a transgender, was really close to me. She used to tell me that she was ready to change her sexuality for me,"the TOI quotes Pooja as saying. http://entertainment.oneindia.in/television/news/2011/bigg-boss-5-pooja-bedi-laxmi-narayan-crush-30.html#cmntFormPooja Bedi added, "In fact, she would touch me and hug me like a man. Her voice would change when she spoke to me and called me darling and it became rather macho. I think it was really cute and lots of fun. These bonds with Laxmi, Sky, Juhi and Sunny will remain forever!" However, Pooja Bedi had a nice time for eight weeks inside the Bigg Boss 5 house. Earlier, she said that there was 80% fun and only 20% negativity inside the house, but she was happy to be evicted as the negativity was building up more in recent days in the house. She added that it was right time for her to walk out of the house. User Comments kainit5 Then when will you get married with Laxmi..i eagar to know...ha ha ha ha ha.
g_b In cochin for a couple of days....
Dear Friends, I am going to Cochin for this week end, an if anybody is interested do mail me dear your mobile number will be in touch with you, I would be staying on MG road near the Marine Drive.luv and rgrds.
g_b Hey Anyone Out there in the city called Coimbatore?
Hey friends, This is Crish from a city called Coimbatore, a simple, clean and straight acting guy, in mid-40s wanting to have some passionate time. Anybody coming here or people who are available locally do get in touch, to take the thread forward.luv and regards.Crish.
g_b Trichur Pooram
Dear Friends, I do not know how many of you are aware of this Colorful Festive Extravaganza that happens every year during the month of April/May at Trichur, the cultural head quarters of God's Own Country - Kerala. It is an international tourist attraction, and gets a wide range of media coverage. It is also a great time for the gay community when in the evening hours say from around 7pm, the grounds gets men from far and near, especially the national and the international crowd and then the cruising begins and there is a real great time for the gay men, who find, pick and enjoy a wide range of choices. The spirit continues for almost four days as long the festive days remain, the preparation for this fire work extravaganza is almost through out the year, and it all culminates on these 3/4 days with lot of fun and frolic. It is a kind of competition between two temples to show who is more powerful and wealthier with all the rich and tradition customs, the elephants running to hundreds are well decorated and colorful umbrellas are rolled and rotated running to thousand and more different varieties But the fun that the gay community gets here is amazing, you can find men from all parts and there are also lot of joints where they can have a quickie with no inhibitions, as it happens all around. The rooms in the hotels are booked almost a year ahead, and men from the gay community wait and look forward for this even. Come and join the fun and get the taste of the hairy, thick mooshed and charming mallu men whose below the belt statistics need not be talked about and more from across the country and world..
g_b Any one in Coimbatore ???
Hey guys ??? I am going to get relocated to Coimbatore, or in its vicinity, would like to know if there are any friends out there on this radar
Re: g_b friend looted in dadar
Hey there, A friend of mine had a same problem at a small lodge very close to Calicut beach, in fact after having taken the full contents of the purse this guy went to black mail him and asked him to give the golden ring and chain he was wearing, he gave the ring but was very sentimental about the chain and refused, but when the guy started to put undue pressure, he retaliated, he picked the grit to throw out of the window the dress of the guy snatched back his belongings, and having done that he left the room, leaving the guy high and dry. Sometimes we need to be street smart with such guys, and show them that on those issues also we can out perform them.regards...Krish. --- On Tue, 12/4/11, mad cow wrote: From: mad cow Subject: g_b friend looted in dadar To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Date: Tuesday, 12 April, 2011, 12:37 AM Hi to everyone, latly one of my friend met 2 gay young prostitutes they were very good in talking it seem, one was lady boy when they went to have sex in dadar in one of the hotel, they started having sex but middle of sex they started checking his purse and they took all his money kiked him bashed him and they tie his hand and put tape on his mouth and they left door open, later another 2 guys and started asking money for room wich they have arranged i dont want to disclose the place, any how he was lucky to get away from that place one of his cousin brother brought money and cleard the room rent thye totaly denied who were those boys, so how to deal such kind of theese young male gay prostitues?
g_b Hey there
Dear Moderator, Thanks for accepting me as a member, I am one who travels to Mumbai pretty often. I would like to know how I could get in touch with active members for some fun, and well as intellectual conversation. I would also like to know how to get in touch with people who travel to south sometimesluv and regards.Krish.
