Re: g_b Difficult to find a Partner
thats nice discussion kahan se kahan pahuch gaya beshaq mandir masjid thodo, par pyaar bhara dil kabhi na thodo --- On Sun, 13/2/11, Sanjay Lulla wrote: From: Sanjay Lulla Subject: Re: g_b Difficult to find a Partner To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Date: Sunday, 13 February, 2011, 10:36 AM could be Tulsi or Rahim. Rahim usually wrote dohas on prem/love-Rahimna dhaga prem ka or aisi preet na kijiye jaise Khiro keen etc etc. The best I liked was about milk and water and this is the best of them all जो रहीम उत्तम प्रकृति, का कर सकत कुसंग | चन्दन विष व्यापत नहीं, लपटे रहत भुजंग || So chill Who is rich? One who is content in what he/she has. Happiness is a subjective term. At a point in life the absence of agony and misery is euf. little prince-Sanjay N Lulla From: Prem Nath To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Sent: Fri, February 11, 2011 11:18:37 PM Subject: Re: g_b Difficult to find a Partner I did not mean to say that you will never be happy, I just wanted to say be practical, know what you can and cannot have. You cannot play pool with a rope and a lame person cannot win a sprint. And by that I dont mean to say that "we are all ugly and we are all dumb, and we will never find anyone" I am no one to make such a call. You may find love at 20, 30, 40, 50 at any age. All I meant to say was be practical and know who you are and what you can and cannot get/have. When I go shopping I have a budget, there are shirts that sell for 3000 Rs and all I can afford is to spend 1000-1500 Rs. I try to find happiness with the 1000 Rs shirt and I do succeed rather than being sad that I cannot afford 3000 Rs shirt. btw I really liked it, I dont who the author is but its good: kumodini jalhari base chanda base akashi jo jahi ke bhavta so tahi ke pasi If everyone had strength and unfalling conviction in their passion then everyone in this world would be rich and happy. Life is not fair and its not a fairytale, we dont get to chose our parents, our looks, our IQ but what we can try is to make the best of what we have. Be practical - life would be easy and you would be happy. --- On Thu, 2/10/11, Tintin Mumbai India wrote: From: Tintin Mumbai India Subject: Re: g_b Difficult to find a Partner To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Date: Thursday, February 10, 2011, 5:37 AM कमल खिले पानी में, / kamal khile paani me, चाँद चढे आकाश... / chaand chadhe Akaash... जो जिसको है चाहता, / jo jisko hai chaahta, जाये उसी के पास... / jaaye usi ke paas... (Nothing, just tried to translate it in Hindi)... ;) On Thu, Feb 10, 2011 at 10:34 AM, Sanjay Lulla wrote: kumodini jalhari base chanda base akashi jo jahi ke bhavta so tahi ke pasi is there strenght and unfalling conviction in your passion? little prince-Sanjay N Lulla From: Prem Nath To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Sent: Wed, February 9, 2011 6:39:36 PM Subject: Re: g_b Difficult to find a Partner yes it is everyone's birth right to be happy and i want Hrithik Roshan and a billion dollars to be happy, and I guess that should now be a very legitimate want considering I have a birth right to be happy. btw Mr. Bean is available for someone who asked, he had been waiting for a little prince for a long long time, lets hope he gets his happiness. --- On Wed, 2/9/11, Sanjay Lulla wrote: From: Sanjay Lulla Subject: Re: g_b Difficult to find a Partner To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Date: Wednesday, February 9, 2011, 4:59 AM Yes Cuteboy it is everyones birthright to be happy little prince-Sanjay N Lulla From: cuteboy To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Sent: Tue, February 8, 2011 7:24:59 PM Subject: Re: g_b Difficult to find a Partner Darpan jhoot na bole lekin sabhi ke dil mein khush hone ki chaah hoti hain --- On Mon, 7/2/11, Sanjay Lulla wrote: From: Sanjay Lulla Subject: Re: g_b Difficult to find a Partner To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Date: Monday, 7 February, 2011, 2:11 PM oh isnt Mr. Bean available anymore?? :p little prince-Sanjay N Lulla From: Prem Nath To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Sent: Mon, February 7, 2011 7:17:29 AM Subject: Re: g_b Difficult to find a Partner we live in a world of fantasy, we all think we are elizabeth bennet and we often cry for why are we not meeting mr. darcy. even after looking at mirror a 1000 times a day, for some reason we cannot accept the fact that may be we are not elizabeth bennet but rather charlotte lucas or someone even more mundane, but thats not the sad part, the sad part is that we are not even half as wise as charlotte lucas was. let us look at ourselves first as to what we are and what are we ready to offer before complaining, if you are good looking- you would be taken (its a fact), if you are wise (again you would be taken - its a fact), but unfortunately if you are none of the above you may end up being single all yo
Re: g_b Difficult to find a Partner
could be Tulsi or Rahim. Rahim usually wrote dohas on prem/love-Rahimna dhaga prem ka or aisi preet na kijiye jaise Khiro keen etc etc. The best I liked was about milk and water and this is the best of them all जो रहीम उत्तम प्रकृति, का कर सकत कुसंग | चन्दन विष व्यापत नहीं, लपटे रहत भुजंग || So chill Who is rich? One who is content in what he/she has. Happiness is a subjective term. At a point in life the absence of agony and misery is euf. little prince-Sanjay N Lulla From: Prem Nath To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Sent: Fri, February 11, 2011 11:18:37 PM Subject: Re: g_b Difficult to find a Partner I did not mean to say that you will never be happy, I just wanted to say be practical, know what you can and cannot have. You cannot play pool with a rope and a lame person cannot win a sprint. And by that I dont mean to say that "we are all ugly and we are all dumb, and we will never find anyone" I am no one to make such a call. You may find love at 20, 30, 40, 50 at any age. All I meant to say was be practical and know who you are and what you can and cannot get/have. When I go shopping I have a budget, there are shirts that sell for 3000 Rs and all I can afford is to spend 1000-1500 Rs. I try to find happiness with the 1000 Rs shirt and I do succeed rather than being sad that I cannot afford 3000 Rs shirt. btw I really liked it, I dont who the author is but its good: kumodini jalhari base chanda base akashi jo jahi ke bhavta so tahi ke pasi If everyone had strength and unfalling conviction in their passion then everyone in this world would be rich and happy. Life is not fair and its not a fairytale, we dont get to chose our parents, our looks, our IQ but what we can try is to make the best of what we have. Be practical - life would be easy and you would be happy. --- On Thu, 2/10/11, Tintin Mumbai India wrote: >From: Tintin Mumbai India >Subject: Re: g_b Difficult to find a Partner >To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com >Date: Thursday, February 10, 2011, 5:37 AM > > > >कमल खिले पानी में, / kamal khile paani me, >चाँद चढे आकाश... / chaand chadhe Akaash... >जो जिसको है चाहता, / jo jisko hai chaahta, >जाये उसी के पास... / jaaye usi ke paas... >(Nothing, just tried to translate it in Hindi)... >;) > > > > > > > >On Thu, Feb 10, 2011 at 10:34 AM, Sanjay Lulla >wrote: > > >>kumodini jalhari base >>chanda base akashi >>jo jahi ke bhavta >>so tahi ke pasi >> >>is there strenght and unfalling conviction in your passion? >> >>little prince-Sanjay N Lulla >> >> >> >> >> ________ From: Prem Nath >>To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com >>Sent: Wed, February 9, 2011 6:39:36 PM >> >>Subject: Re: g_b Difficult to find a Partner >> >> >> >>yes it is everyone's birth right to be happy and i want Hrithik Roshan and a >>billion dollars to be happy, and I guess that should now be a very legitimate >>want considering I have a birth right to be happy. >> >>btw Mr. Bean is available for someone who asked, he had been waiting for a >>little prince for a long long time, lets hope he gets his happiness. >> >>--- On Wed, 2/9/11, Sanjay Lulla wrote: >> >> >>>From: Sanjay Lulla >>>Subject: Re: g_b Difficult to find a Partner >>>To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com >>>Date: Wednesday, February 9, 2011, 4:59 AM >>> >>> >>> >>>Yes Cuteboy it is everyones birthright to be happy >>> little prince-Sanjay N Lulla >>> >>> >>> >>> >>> ________ From: cuteboy >>>To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com >>>Sent: Tue, February 8, 2011 7:24:59 PM >>>Subject: Re: g_b Difficult to find a Partner >>> >>> >>>Darpan jhoot na bole >>>lekin sabhi ke dil mein khush hone ki chaah hoti hain >>> >>> >>> >>> >>> >>>--- On Mon, 7/2/11, Sanjay Lulla wrote: >>> >>> >>>>From: Sanjay Lulla >>>>Subject: Re: g_b Difficult to find a Partner >>>>To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com >>>>Date: Monday, 7 February, 2011, 2:11 PM >>>> >>>> >>>> >>>>oh isnt Mr. Bean available anymore?? :p >>>> little prince-Sanjay N Lulla >>>> >>>> >>>> >>>> >>>> From: Prem Nath >>>>To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com >>>>Sent: Mon, February 7, 2011 7:17:29 AM >>>>Subject: Re: g_b Difficult to find a Partner >>>> >
Re: g_b Difficult to find a Partner
well ... all gays are not sluts ... but some ... Rgds, -Atharva On Fri, Feb 4, 2011 at 11:58 AM, Aditya Bondyopadhyay wrote: > > > Dear Sameer, > Your disappointment may be valid because you have not found what you > wnated, namely love and commitment. But that is not reason enough for > you to take a moral high ground and "feel sorry" for others simply > because they are looking for sex and not love. > > Please understand that if somebody honestly wants just sex and not > love, then for that person that is a valid quest as long as he is not > keeping anyone under any misrepresentation or fraud. There is nothing > wrong in wanting and seeking sex and you have no right to judge them. > > If you have to "feel sorry" then please do so only for yourself and > your inability to find what you really wanted. In any event the > ethereal and anonymous medium of the internet is probably the last > place where you should be looking for love and commitment. Love and > commitment happens with real people in real life. For that you have to > go out and meet people. You have to do that by getting into places > where real gay people are, and it is not going to fall on a platter > before you because you have written 5 long mails that were more > venting and fantastical than realistic. > > So, get off your moral high horse, dirty your sandals and tread the > real world and get real in the process, and stop being judgemental. > > Best, > Aditya Bondyopadhyay > > > On 03/02/2011, Sameer Raj wrote: > > Hi everyone, > > well i am writing this not as someone who is new or fighting with the > > identity > > but as a person who has tried everything to find a correct soulmate our > > world.i > > have written many mails (subject : In search of a life partner) seeking > for > > the > > person that i would be happy to spend my life with. > > but all replies i get hovers around sex and only sex or i am married and > so > > and > > so yrs old complete secrecy assured... sometimes they are so direct > that > > it > > becomes hard for me to understand that does the gay world means just > having > > one > > night stands or a hook up ..is there nothing called love in this > > world > > > > well i believe that being gay is nothing wrong and one should be proud of > > it, i > > would like to say that the only things that matters is not a hook up or a > > night > > stand but love and commitment which would last forever because at the end > > this > > is wat we all have to live with. > > > > i would not like to write more as i am short of words about how sorry i > feel > > for > > those who think that being gay is just about having a night > stand.. > > > > > > -- > -- > ADITYA BONDYOPADHYAY > Development Sector Consultant > Advocate (Regd. No. F-218/192 of 1997, Bar Council of W.Bengal, India) > > Website: http://adityabondyopadhyay.webs.com/ > > Notice to all recipients: > Communication not intended for you but reaching you inadvertently needs to > be treated as confidential and destroyed or deleted immediately. Use of > such > communication in a manner prejudicial to the interest of Aditya > Bondyopadhyay and/or his principals, and/or his clients, and/or his agents > respectively, may attract legal proceedings which may be of a civil or > criminal nature. > > Aditya Bondyopadhyay and/or his principals, and/or his clients, and/or his > agents respectively cannot be held liable or accountable for any and every > communication reaching out through this email account that is an unaltered > forward of another communication received by this email account, or a > referred source available on the internet and accessible to the public. > >
Re: g_b Difficult to find a Partner
I did not mean to say that you will never be happy, I just wanted to say be practical, know what you can and cannot have. You cannot play pool with a rope and a lame person cannot win a sprint. And by that I dont mean to say that "we are all ugly and we are all dumb, and we will never find anyone" I am no one to make such a call. You may find love at 20, 30, 40, 50 at any age. All I meant to say was be practical and know who you are and what you can and cannot get/have. When I go shopping I have a budget, there are shirts that sell for 3000 Rs and all I can afford is to spend 1000-1500 Rs. I try to find happiness with the 1000 Rs shirt and I do succeed rather than being sad that I cannot afford 3000 Rs shirt. btw I really liked it, I dont who the author is but its good: kumodini jalhari base chanda base akashi jo jahi ke bhavta so tahi ke pasi If everyone had strength and unfalling conviction in their passion then everyone in this world would be rich and happy. Life is not fair and its not a fairytale, we dont get to chose our parents, our looks, our IQ but what we can try is to make the best of what we have. Be practical - life would be easy and you would be happy. --- On Thu, 2/10/11, Tintin Mumbai India wrote: From: Tintin Mumbai India Subject: Re: g_b Difficult to find a Partner To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Date: Thursday, February 10, 2011, 5:37 AM कमल खिले पानी में, / kamal khile paani me,चाँद चढे आकाश... / chaand chadhe Akaash...जो जिसको है चाहता, / jo jisko hai chaahta,जाये उसी के पास... / jaaye usi ke paas...(Nothing, just tried to translate it in Hindi)... ;) On Thu, Feb 10, 2011 at 10:34 AM, Sanjay Lulla wrote: kumodini jalhari base chanda base akashi jo jahi ke bhavta so tahi ke pasi is there strenght and unfalling conviction in your passion? little prince-Sanjay N Lulla From: Prem Nath To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Sent: Wed, February 9, 2011 6:39:36 PM Subject: Re: g_b Difficult to find a Partner yes it is everyone's birth right to be happy and i want Hrithik Roshan and a billion dollars to be happy, and I guess that should now be a very legitimate want considering I have a birth right to be happy. btw Mr. Bean is available for someone who asked, he had been waiting for a little prince for a long long time, lets hope he gets his happiness. --- On Wed, 2/9/11, Sanjay Lulla wrote: From: Sanjay Lulla Subject: Re: g_b Difficult to find a Partner To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Date: Wednesday, February 9, 2011, 4:59 AM Yes Cuteboy it is everyones birthright to be happy little prince-Sanjay N Lulla From: cuteboy To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Sent: Tue, February 8, 2011 7:24:59 PM Subject: Re: g_b Difficult to find a Partner Darpan jhoot na bole lekin sabhi ke dil mein khush hone ki chaah hoti hain --- On Mon, 7/2/11, Sanjay Lulla wrote: From: Sanjay Lulla Subject: Re: g_b Difficult to find a Partner To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Date: Monday, 7 February, 2011, 2:11 PM oh isnt Mr. Bean available anymore?? :p little prince-Sanjay N Lulla From: Prem Nath To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Sent: Mon, February 7, 2011 7:17:29 AM Subject: Re: g_b Difficult to find a Partner we live in a world of fantasy, we all think we are elizabeth bennet and we often cry for why are we not meeting mr. darcy. even after looking at mirror a 1000 times a day, for some reason we cannot accept the fact that may be we are not elizabeth bennet but rather charlotte lucas or someone even more mundane, but thats not the sad part, the sad part is that we are not even half as wise as charlotte lucas was. let us look at ourselves first as to what we are and what are we ready to offer before complaining, if you are good looking- you would be taken (its a fact), if you are wise (again you would be taken - its a fact), but unfortunately if you are none of the above you may end up being single all your life waiting for mr. darcy. if you are above 25 its time to face the reality --- On Sun, 2/6/11, Manoj wrote: From: Manoj Subject: Re: g_b Difficult to find a Partner To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Date: Sunday, February 6, 2011, 5:17 PM Love the last line u wrote Sanjay. on the original topic --- u say u have written emails for finding the right patner. But then can one really hope to find some one to love over a forum list by soliciting a life partner? I think the ida of meeting someone over this calls for an exceptional stroke of luck..meet ppl at social events, interact, have frnds and there is a higher probability of hitting it with the right guy...coz in absence of above its difficult fo both of u to know if u are the right guys or not. Email, forum, online advt can typically serve little here. Manoj --- On Sun, 6/2/11, Sanjay Lulla
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Hi guys, I believe just we need to think out of the box, 1st we need to be a normal guy ..normal in the sense : Psychologically correct , which makes sense in our real life..which will help us to be clear from inside what we are looking exactly towards a relationship and in your partner. Thanks,Abhishek --- On Thu, 10/2/11, Tintin Mumbai India wrote: From: Tintin Mumbai India Subject: Re: g_b Difficult to find a Partner To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Date: Thursday, 10 February, 2011, 11:07 AM कमल खिले पानी में, / kamal khile paani me,चाँद चढे आकाश... / chaand chadhe Akaash...जो जिसको है चाहता, / jo jisko hai chaahta,जाये उसी के पास... / jaaye usi ke paas...(Nothing, just tried to translate it in Hindi)... ;) On Thu, Feb 10, 2011 at 10:34 AM, Sanjay Lulla wrote: kumodini jalhari base chanda base akashi jo jahi ke bhavta so tahi ke pasi is there strenght and unfalling conviction in your passion? little prince-Sanjay N Lulla From: Prem Nath To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Sent: Wed, February 9, 2011 6:39:36 PM Subject: Re: g_b Difficult to find a Partner yes it is everyone's birth right to be happy and i want Hrithik Roshan and a billion dollars to be happy, and I guess that should now be a very legitimate want considering I have a birth right to be happy. btw Mr. Bean is available for someone who asked, he had been waiting for a little prince for a long long time, lets hope he gets his happiness. --- On Wed, 2/9/11, Sanjay Lulla wrote: From: Sanjay Lulla Subject: Re: g_b Difficult to find a Partner To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Date: Wednesday, February 9, 2011, 4:59 AM Yes Cuteboy it is everyones birthright to be happy little prince-Sanjay N Lulla From: cuteboy To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Sent: Tue, February 8, 2011 7:24:59 PM Subject: Re: g_b Difficult to find a Partner Darpan jhoot na bole lekin sabhi ke dil mein khush hone ki chaah hoti hain --- On Mon, 7/2/11, Sanjay Lulla wrote: From: Sanjay Lulla Subject: Re: g_b Difficult to find a Partner To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Date: Monday, 7 February, 2011, 2:11 PM oh isnt Mr. Bean available anymore?? :p little prince-Sanjay N Lulla From: Prem Nath To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Sent: Mon, February 7, 2011 7:17:29 AM Subject: Re: g_b Difficult to find a Partner we live in a world of fantasy, we all think we are elizabeth bennet and we often cry for why are we not meeting mr. darcy. even after looking at mirror a 1000 times a day, for some reason we cannot accept the fact that may be we are not elizabeth bennet but rather charlotte lucas or someone even more mundane, but thats not the sad part, the sad part is that we are not even half as wise as charlotte lucas was. let us look at ourselves first as to what we are and what are we ready to offer before complaining, if you are good looking- you would be taken (its a fact), if you are wise (again you would be taken - its a fact), but unfortunately if you are none of the above you may end up being single all your life waiting for mr. darcy. if you are above 25 its time to face the reality --- On Sun, 2/6/11, Manoj wrote: From: Manoj Subject: Re: g_b Difficult to find a Partner To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Date: Sunday, February 6, 2011, 5:17 PM Love the last line u wrote Sanjay. on the original topic --- u say u have written emails for finding the right patner. But then can one really hope to find some one to love over a forum list by soliciting a life partner? I think the ida of meeting someone over this calls for an exceptional stroke of luck..meet ppl at social events, interact, have frnds and there is a higher probability of hitting it with the right guy...coz in absence of above its difficult fo both of u to know if u are the right guys or not. Email, forum, online advt can typically serve little here. Manoj --- On Sun, 6/2/11, Sanjay Lulla wrote: From: Sanjay Lulla Subject: Re: g_b Difficult to find a Partner To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Date: Sunday, 6 February, 2011, 10:49 AM no One can not generalise and it would be branding us. Love is not gay nor hetrosexual. its just love. True dedicated honest loyal love does exist. Many times we close our eyes and are blind to its existence. Our hard set standards and parameters act like blinkers. How do you think arranged hetro marraiges survive? Are we ready to adjust accomodate. We maybe rejecting someone who truly loves us cares for us just because he is not our type or maybe hes a t/b or some such bullshit. We fail due to our own idiocrancies and inaneities. Lets not find problem in others first let us beging with ourself. last but not the least if one is married then how can one do justice to both the parties? a wife kid and a BF? Own up to
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कमल खिले पानी में, / kamal khile paani me, चाँद चढे आकाश... / chaand chadhe Akaash... जो जिसको है चाहता, / jo jisko hai chaahta, जाये उसी के पास... / jaaye usi ke paas... (Nothing, just tried to translate it in Hindi)... ;) On Thu, Feb 10, 2011 at 10:34 AM, Sanjay Lulla wrote: > > > kumodini jalhari base > chanda base akashi > jo jahi ke bhavta > so tahi ke pasi > > is there strenght and unfalling conviction in your passion? > > little prince-Sanjay N Lulla > > > -- > *From:* Prem Nath > *To:* gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com > *Sent:* Wed, February 9, 2011 6:39:36 PM > > *Subject:* Re: g_b Difficult to find a Partner > > > > yes it is everyone's birth right to be happy and i want Hrithik Roshan > and a billion dollars to be happy, and I guess that should now be a very > legitimate want considering I have a birth right to be happy. > > btw Mr. Bean is available for someone who asked, he had been waiting for a > little prince for a long long time, lets hope he gets his happiness. > > --- On *Wed, 2/9/11, Sanjay Lulla * wrote: > > > From: Sanjay Lulla > Subject: Re: g_b Difficult to find a Partner > To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com > Date: Wednesday, February 9, 2011, 4:59 AM > > > > Yes Cuteboy it is everyones birthright to be happy > > little prince-Sanjay N Lulla > > > ---------- > *From:* cuteboy > *To:* gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com > *Sent:* Tue, February 8, 2011 7:24:59 PM > *Subject:* Re: g_b Difficult to find a Partner > > > > Darpan jhoot na bole > lekin sabhi ke dil mein khush hone ki chaah hoti hain > > > > > > --- On *Mon, 7/2/11, Sanjay Lulla * wrote: > > > From: Sanjay Lulla > Subject: Re: g_b Difficult to find a Partner > To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com > Date: Monday, 7 February, 2011, 2:11 PM > > > > oh isnt Mr. Bean available anymore?? :p > > little prince-Sanjay N Lulla > > > -- > *From:* Prem Nath > *To:* gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com > *Sent:* Mon, February 7, 2011 7:17:29 AM > *Subject:* Re: g_b Difficult to find a Partner > > > > we live in a world of fantasy, we all think we are elizabeth bennet and > we often cry for why are we not meeting mr. darcy. even after looking at > mirror a 1000 times a day, for some reason we cannot accept the fact that > may be we are not elizabeth bennet but rather charlotte lucas or someone > even more mundane, but thats not the sad part, the sad part is that we are > not even half as wise as charlotte lucas was. > > let us look at ourselves first as to what we are and what are we ready to > offer before complaining, if you are good looking- you would be taken (its a > fact), if you are wise (again you would be taken - its a fact), but > unfortunately if you are none of the above you may end up being single all > your life waiting for mr. darcy. if you are above 25 its time to face the > reality > > --- On *Sun, 2/6/11, Manoj * wrote: > > > From: Manoj > Subject: Re: g_b Difficult to find a Partner > To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com > Date: Sunday, February 6, 2011, 5:17 PM > > > > > Love the last line u wrote Sanjay. > > on the original topic --- u say u have written emails for finding the right > patner. But then can one really hope to find some one to love over a forum > list by soliciting a life partner? > I think the ida of meeting someone over this calls for an exceptional > stroke of luck..meet ppl at social events, interact, have frnds and > there is a higher probability of hitting it with the right guy...coz in > absence of above its difficult fo both of u to know if u are the right guys > or not. > Email, forum, online advt can typically serve little here. > Manoj > --- On *Sun, 6/2/11, Sanjay Lulla * wrote: > > > From: Sanjay Lulla > Subject: Re: g_b Difficult to find a Partner > To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com > Date: Sunday, 6 February, 2011, 10:49 AM > > > no One can not generalise and it would be branding us. Love is not gay > nor hetrosexual. its just love. True dedicated honest loyal love does exist. > Many times we close our eyes and are blind to its existence. Our hard set > standards and parameters act like blinkers. How do you think arranged hetro > marraiges survive? Are we ready to adjust accomodate. We maybe rejecting > someone who truly loves us cares for us just because he is not our type or > maybe hes a t/b or some such bullshit. We fail due to our own idiocrancies > and inaneities. Lets not find problem in others first let us beging with > ourself. > > last but not the least if one is married then how can one do justice to
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kumodini jalhari base chanda base akashi jo jahi ke bhavta so tahi ke pasi is there strenght and unfalling conviction in your passion? little prince-Sanjay N Lulla From: Prem Nath To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Sent: Wed, February 9, 2011 6:39:36 PM Subject: Re: g_b Difficult to find a Partner yes it is everyone's birth right to be happy and i want Hrithik Roshan and a billion dollars to be happy, and I guess that should now be a very legitimate want considering I have a birth right to be happy. btw Mr. Bean is available for someone who asked, he had been waiting for a little prince for a long long time, lets hope he gets his happiness. --- On Wed, 2/9/11, Sanjay Lulla wrote: >From: Sanjay Lulla >Subject: Re: g_b Difficult to find a Partner >To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com >Date: Wednesday, February 9, 2011, 4:59 AM > > > >Yes Cuteboy it is everyones birthright to be happy > little prince-Sanjay N Lulla > > > > > From: cuteboy >To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com >Sent: Tue, February 8, 2011 7:24:59 PM >Subject: Re: g_b Difficult to find a Partner > > >Darpan jhoot na bole >lekin sabhi ke dil mein khush hone ki chaah hoti hain > > > > > >--- On Mon, 7/2/11, Sanjay Lulla wrote: > > >>From: Sanjay Lulla >>Subject: Re: g_b Difficult to find a Partner >>To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com >>Date: Monday, 7 February, 2011, 2:11 PM >> >> >> >>oh isnt Mr. Bean available anymore?? :p >> little prince-Sanjay N Lulla >> >> >> >> >> From: Prem Nath >>To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com >>Sent: Mon, February 7, 2011 7:17:29 AM >>Subject: Re: g_b Difficult to find a Partner >> >> >>we live in a world of fantasy, we all think we are elizabeth bennet and we >>often >>cry for why are we not meeting mr. darcy. even after looking at mirror a 1000 >>times a day, for some reason we cannot accept the fact that may be we are not >>elizabeth bennet but rather charlotte lucas or someone even more mundane, but >>thats not the sad part, the sad part is that we are not even half as wise as >>charlotte lucas was. >> >>let us look at ourselves first as to what we are and what are we ready to >>offer >>before complaining, if you are good looking- you would be taken (its a fact), >>if >>you are wise (again you would be taken - its a fact), but unfortunately if >>you >>are none of the above you may end up being single all your life waiting for >>mr. >>darcy. if you are above 25 its time to face the reality >> >>--- On Sun, 2/6/11, Manoj wrote: >> >> >>>From: Manoj >>>Subject: Re: g_b Difficult to find a Partner >>>To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com >>>Date: Sunday, February 6, 2011, 5:17 PM >>> >>> >>> >>> >>>Love the last line u wrote Sanjay. >>> >>>on the original topic --- u say u have written emails for finding the right >>>patner. But then can one really hope to find some one to love over a forum >>>list >>>by soliciting a life partner? >>>I think the ida of meeting someone over this calls for an exceptional stroke >>>of >>>luck..meet ppl at social events, interact, have frnds and there is a >>>higher >>>probability of hitting it with the right guy...coz in absence of above >>>its >>>difficult fo both of u to know if u are the right guys or not. >>>Email, forum, online advt can typically serve little here. >>>Manoj >>>--- On Sun, 6/2/11, Sanjay Lulla wrote: >>> >>> >>>>From: Sanjay Lulla >>>>Subject: Re: g_b Difficult to find a Partner >>>>To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com >>>>Date: Sunday, 6 February, 2011, 10:49 AM >>>> >>>> >>>> >>>>no One can not generalise and it would be branding us. Love is not gay nor >>>>hetrosexual. its just love. True dedicated honest loyal love does exist. >>>>Many >>>>times we close our eyes and are blind to its existence. Our hard set >>>>standards >>>>and parameters act like blinkers. How do you think arranged hetro marraiges >>>>survive? Are we ready to adjust accomodate. We maybe rejecting someone who >>>>truly >>>>loves us cares for us just because he is not our type or maybe hes a t/b or >>>>some >>>>such bullshit. We fail due to our own idiocrancies and inaneities. Lets
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yes it is everyone's birth right to be happy and i want Hrithik Roshan and a billion dollars to be happy, and I guess that should now be a very legitimate want considering I have a birth right to be happy. btw Mr. Bean is available for someone who asked, he had been waiting for a little prince for a long long time, lets hope he gets his happiness. --- On Wed, 2/9/11, Sanjay Lulla wrote: From: Sanjay Lulla Subject: Re: g_b Difficult to find a Partner To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Date: Wednesday, February 9, 2011, 4:59 AM Yes Cuteboy it is everyones birthright to be happy little prince-Sanjay N Lulla From: cuteboy To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Sent: Tue, February 8, 2011 7:24:59 PM Subject: Re: g_b Difficult to find a Partner Darpan jhoot na bole lekin sabhi ke dil mein khush hone ki chaah hoti hain --- On Mon, 7/2/11, Sanjay Lulla wrote: From: Sanjay Lulla Subject: Re: g_b Difficult to find a Partner To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Date: Monday, 7 February, 2011, 2:11 PM oh isnt Mr. Bean available anymore?? :p little prince-Sanjay N Lulla From: Prem Nath To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Sent: Mon, February 7, 2011 7:17:29 AM Subject: Re: g_b Difficult to find a Partner we live in a world of fantasy, we all think we are elizabeth bennet and we often cry for why are we not meeting mr. darcy. even after looking at mirror a 1000 times a day, for some reason we cannot accept the fact that may be we are not elizabeth bennet but rather charlotte lucas or someone even more mundane, but thats not the sad part, the sad part is that we are not even half as wise as charlotte lucas was. let us look at ourselves first as to what we are and what are we ready to offer before complaining, if you are good looking- you would be taken (its a fact), if you are wise (again you would be taken - its a fact), but unfortunately if you are none of the above you may end up being single all your life waiting for mr. darcy. if you are above 25 its time to face the reality --- On Sun, 2/6/11, Manoj wrote: From: Manoj Subject: Re: g_b Difficult to find a Partner To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Date: Sunday, February 6, 2011, 5:17 PM Love the last line u wrote Sanjay. on the original topic --- u say u have written emails for finding the right patner. But then can one really hope to find some one to love over a forum list by soliciting a life partner? I think the ida of meeting someone over this calls for an exceptional stroke of luck..meet ppl at social events, interact, have frnds and there is a higher probability of hitting it with the right guy...coz in absence of above its difficult fo both of u to know if u are the right guys or not. Email, forum, online advt can typically serve little here. Manoj --- On Sun, 6/2/11, Sanjay Lulla wrote: From: Sanjay Lulla Subject: Re: g_b Difficult to find a Partner To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Date: Sunday, 6 February, 2011, 10:49 AM no One can not generalise and it would be branding us. Love is not gay nor hetrosexual. its just love. True dedicated honest loyal love does exist. Many times we close our eyes and are blind to its existence. Our hard set standards and parameters act like blinkers. How do you think arranged hetro marraiges survive? Are we ready to adjust accomodate. We maybe rejecting someone who truly loves us cares for us just because he is not our type or maybe hes a t/b or some such bullshit. We fail due to our own idiocrancies and inaneities. Lets not find problem in others first let us beging with ourself. last but not the least if one is married then how can one do justice to both the parties? a wife kid and a BF? Own up to what ever decision you have taken and stick to it. Love is not a venture of the weak it is the privilige of the courageous. little prince-Sanjay N Lulla From: Adrian To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Sent: Sat, February 5, 2011 1:01:52 PM Subject: RE: g_b Difficult to find a Partner The sooner you accept this, the better it will be for you. From: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com [mailto:gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com] On Behalf Of Sameer Raj Sent: Thursday, February 03, 2011 8:00 PM To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Subject: g_b Difficult to find a Partner Hi everyone, well i am writing this not as someone who is new or fighting with the identity but as a person who has tried everything to find a correct soulmate our world.i have written many mails (subject : In search of a life partner) seeking for the person that i would be happy to spend my life with. but all replies i get hovers around sex and only sex or i am married and so and so yrs old complete secrecy assured... sometimes they are so direct that it becomes hard for me to understand that does the gay world means just having one night stands or a hook up ..is there nothing called love in
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absolutely! i met mine after the age of 30. i know of may others who got into a much more stable relation post that age and continue to be so after several years (with the same one). if you are looking for a quick attention or a hookup, the early 20s are no doubt the age to be in.if u r looking for more, the way you interact and mix has a great deal more weightage than the age in terms of getting a bf i would atleast believe so .. (and ofcourse having a realistic expectation, instead of hankering after brad pitt looks) --- On Mon, 7/2/11, nirb...@aol.com wrote: From: nirb...@aol.com Subject: Re: g_b Difficult to find a Partner To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Date: Monday, 7 February, 2011, 10:15 PM I do object to your callous statement, that if you are "above 25" then you will never find a lifetime companion, a significant other, or a husband. Be of good cheer: love comes at all ages. Gordon In a message dated 2/7/2011 3:13:38 A.M. Eastern Standard Time, p.nat...@yahoo.com writes: we live in a world of fantasy, we all think we are elizabeth bennet and we often cry for why are we not meeting mr. darcy. even after looking at mirror a 1000 times a day, for some reason we cannot accept the fact that may be we are not elizabeth bennet but rather charlotte lucas or someone even more mundane, but thats not the sad part, the sad part is that we are not even half as wise as charlotte lucas was. let us look at ourselves first as to what we are and what are we ready to offer before complaining, if you are good looking- you would be taken (its a fact), if you are wise (again you would be taken - its a fact), but unfortunately if you are none of the above you may end up being single all your life waiting for mr. darcy. if you are above 25 its time to face the reality --- On Sun, 2/6/11, Manoj wrote: From: Manoj Subject: Re: g_b Difficult to find a Partner To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Date: Sunday, February 6, 2011, 5:17 PM Love the last line u wrote Sanjay. on the original topic --- u say u have written emails for finding the right patner. But then can one really hope to find some one to love over a forum list by soliciting a life partner? I think the ida of meeting someone over this calls for an exceptional stroke of luck..meet ppl at social events, interact, have frnds and there is a higher probability of hitting it with the right guy...coz in absence of above its difficult fo both of u to know if u are the right guys or not. Email, forum, online advt can typically serve little here. Manoj --- On Sun, 6/2/11, Sanjay Lulla wrote: From: Sanjay Lulla Subject: Re: g_b Difficult to find a Partner To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Date: Sunday, 6 February, 2011, 10:49 AM no One can not generalise and it would be branding us. Love is not gay nor hetrosexual. its just love. True dedicated honest loyal love does exist. Many times we close our eyes and are blind to its existence. Our hard set standards and parameters act like blinkers. How do you think arranged hetro marraiges survive? Are we ready to adjust accomodate. We maybe rejecting someone who truly loves us cares for us just because he is not our type or maybe hes a t/b or some such bullshit. We fail due to our own idiocrancies and inaneities. Lets not find problem in others first let us beging with ourself. last but not the least if one is married then how can one do justice to both the parties? a wife kid and a BF? Own up to what ever decision you have taken and stick to it. Love is not a venture of the weak it is the privilige of the courageous. little prince-Sanjay N Lulla From: Adrian To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Sent: Sat, February 5, 2011 1:01:52 PM Subject: RE: g_b Difficult to find a Partner The sooner you accept this, the better it will be for you. From: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com [mailto:gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com] On Behalf Of Sameer Raj Sent: Thursday, February 03, 2011 8:00 PM To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Subject: g_b Difficult to find a Partner Hi everyone, well i am writing this not as someone who is new or fighting with the identity but as a person who has tried everything to find a correct soulmate our world.i have written many mails (subject : In search of a life partner) seeking for the person that i would be happy to spend my life with. but all replies i get hovers around sex and only sex or i am married and so and so yrs old complete secrecy assured... sometimes they are so direct that it becomes hard for me to understand that does the gay world means just having one night stands or a hook up ..is there nothing called love in this world well i believe that being gay is nothing wrong and one should be proud of it, i would like to say that the only things that matters is not a hook up or a night stand but love and commitment which would last forev
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Yes Cuteboy it is everyones birthright to be happy little prince-Sanjay N Lulla From: cuteboy To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Sent: Tue, February 8, 2011 7:24:59 PM Subject: Re: g_b Difficult to find a Partner Darpan jhoot na bole lekin sabhi ke dil mein khush hone ki chaah hoti hain --- On Mon, 7/2/11, Sanjay Lulla wrote: >From: Sanjay Lulla >Subject: Re: g_b Difficult to find a Partner >To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com >Date: Monday, 7 February, 2011, 2:11 PM > > > >oh isnt Mr. Bean available anymore?? :p > little prince-Sanjay N Lulla > > > > > From: Prem Nath >To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com >Sent: Mon, February 7, 2011 7:17:29 AM >Subject: Re: g_b Difficult to find a Partner > > >we live in a world of fantasy, we all think we are elizabeth bennet and we >often >cry for why are we not meeting mr. darcy. even after looking at mirror a 1000 >times a day, for some reason we cannot accept the fact that may be we are not >elizabeth bennet but rather charlotte lucas or someone even more mundane, but >thats not the sad part, the sad part is that we are not even half as wise as >charlotte lucas was. > >let us look at ourselves first as to what we are and what are we ready to >offer >before complaining, if you are good looking- you would be taken (its a fact), >if >you are wise (again you would be taken - its a fact), but unfortunately if you >are none of the above you may end up being single all your life waiting for >mr. >darcy. if you are above 25 its time to face the reality > >--- On Sun, 2/6/11, Manoj wrote: > > >>From: Manoj >>Subject: Re: g_b Difficult to find a Partner >>To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com >>Date: Sunday, February 6, 2011, 5:17 PM >> >> >> >> >>Love the last line u wrote Sanjay. >> >>on the original topic --- u say u have written emails for finding the right >>patner. But then can one really hope to find some one to love over a forum >>list >>by soliciting a life partner? >>I think the ida of meeting someone over this calls for an exceptional stroke >>of >>luck..meet ppl at social events, interact, have frnds and there is a >>higher >>probability of hitting it with the right guy...coz in absence of above >>its >>difficult fo both of u to know if u are the right guys or not. >>Email, forum, online advt can typically serve little here. >>Manoj >>--- On Sun, 6/2/11, Sanjay Lulla wrote: >> >> >>>From: Sanjay Lulla >>>Subject: Re: g_b Difficult to find a Partner >>>To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com >>>Date: Sunday, 6 February, 2011, 10:49 AM >>> >>> >>> >>>no One can not generalise and it would be branding us. Love is not gay nor >>>hetrosexual. its just love. True dedicated honest loyal love does exist. >>>Many >>>times we close our eyes and are blind to its existence. Our hard set >>>standards >>>and parameters act like blinkers. How do you think arranged hetro marraiges >>>survive? Are we ready to adjust accomodate. We maybe rejecting someone who >>>truly >>>loves us cares for us just because he is not our type or maybe hes a t/b or >>>some >>>such bullshit. We fail due to our own idiocrancies and inaneities. Lets not >>>find >>>problem in others first let us beging with ourself. >>> >>>last but not the least if one is married then how can one do justice to both >>>the >>>parties? a wife kid and a BF? Own up to what ever decision you have taken >>>and >>>stick to it. >>> >>> >>>Love is not a venture of the weak it is the privilige of the courageous. >>> little prince-Sanjay N Lulla >>> >>> >>> >>> >>> From: Adrian >>>To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com >>>Sent: Sat, February 5, 2011 1:01:52 PM >>>Subject: RE: g_b Difficult to find a Partner >>> >>> >>>The sooner you accept this, the better it will be for you. >>> >>>From:gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com [mailto:gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com] On >>>Behalf Of >>>Sameer Raj >>>Sent: Thursday, February 03, 2011 8:00 PM >>>To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com >>>Subject: g_b Difficult to find a Partner >>> >>> >>>Hi everyone, >>>well i am writing this not as someone who is new or fighting with the >>>identity >>>but as a person who has
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Darpan jhoot na bole lekin sabhi ke dil mein khush hone ki chaah hoti hain --- On Mon, 7/2/11, Sanjay Lulla wrote: From: Sanjay Lulla Subject: Re: g_b Difficult to find a Partner To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Date: Monday, 7 February, 2011, 2:11 PM oh isnt Mr. Bean available anymore?? :p little prince-Sanjay N Lulla From: Prem Nath To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Sent: Mon, February 7, 2011 7:17:29 AM Subject: Re: g_b Difficult to find a Partner we live in a world of fantasy, we all think we are elizabeth bennet and we often cry for why are we not meeting mr. darcy. even after looking at mirror a 1000 times a day, for some reason we cannot accept the fact that may be we are not elizabeth bennet but rather charlotte lucas or someone even more mundane, but thats not the sad part, the sad part is that we are not even half as wise as charlotte lucas was. let us look at ourselves first as to what we are and what are we ready to offer before complaining, if you are good looking- you would be taken (its a fact), if you are wise (again you would be taken - its a fact), but unfortunately if you are none of the above you may end up being single all your life waiting for mr. darcy. if you are above 25 its time to face the reality --- On Sun, 2/6/11, Manoj wrote: From: Manoj Subject: Re: g_b Difficult to find a Partner To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Date: Sunday, February 6, 2011, 5:17 PM Love the last line u wrote Sanjay. on the original topic --- u say u have written emails for finding the right patner. But then can one really hope to find some one to love over a forum list by soliciting a life partner? I think the ida of meeting someone over this calls for an exceptional stroke of luck..meet ppl at social events, interact, have frnds and there is a higher probability of hitting it with the right guy...coz in absence of above its difficult fo both of u to know if u are the right guys or not. Email, forum, online advt can typically serve little here. Manoj --- On Sun, 6/2/11, Sanjay Lulla wrote: From: Sanjay Lulla Subject: Re: g_b Difficult to find a Partner To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Date: Sunday, 6 February, 2011, 10:49 AM no One can not generalise and it would be branding us. Love is not gay nor hetrosexual. its just love. True dedicated honest loyal love does exist. Many times we close our eyes and are blind to its existence. Our hard set standards and parameters act like blinkers. How do you think arranged hetro marraiges survive? Are we ready to adjust accomodate. We maybe rejecting someone who truly loves us cares for us just because he is not our type or maybe hes a t/b or some such bullshit. We fail due to our own idiocrancies and inaneities. Lets not find problem in others first let us beging with ourself. last but not the least if one is married then how can one do justice to both the parties? a wife kid and a BF? Own up to what ever decision you have taken and stick to it. Love is not a venture of the weak it is the privilige of the courageous. little prince-Sanjay N Lulla From: Adrian To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Sent: Sat, February 5, 2011 1:01:52 PM Subject: RE: g_b Difficult to find a Partner The sooner you accept this, the better it will be for you. From: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com [mailto:gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com] On Behalf Of Sameer Raj Sent: Thursday, February 03, 2011 8:00 PM To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Subject: g_b Difficult to find a Partner Hi everyone, well i am writing this not as someone who is new or fighting with the identity but as a person who has tried everything to find a correct soulmate our world.i have written many mails (subject : In search of a life partner) seeking for the person that i would be happy to spend my life with. but all replies i get hovers around sex and only sex or i am married and so and so yrs old complete secrecy assured... sometimes they are so direct that it becomes hard for me to understand that does the gay world means just having one night stands or a hook up ..is there nothing called love in this world well i believe that being gay is nothing wrong and one should be proud of it, i would like to say that the only things that matters is not a hook up or a night stand but love and commitment which would last forever because at the end this is wat we all have to live with. i would not like to write more as i am short of words about how sorry i feel for those who think that being gay is just about having a night stand..
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I do object to your callous statement, that if you are "above 25" then you will never find a lifetime companion, a significant other, or a husband. Be of good cheer: love comes at all ages. Gordon In a message dated 2/7/2011 3:13:38 A.M. Eastern Standard Time, p.nat...@yahoo.com writes: we live in a world of fantasy, we all think we are elizabeth bennet and we often cry for why are we not meeting mr. darcy. even after looking at mirror a 1000 times a day, for some reason we cannot accept the fact that may be we are not elizabeth bennet but rather charlotte lucas or someone even more mundane, but thats not the sad part, the sad part is that we are not even half as wise as charlotte lucas was. let us look at ourselves first as to what we are and what are we ready to offer before complaining, if you are good looking- you would be taken (its a fact), if you are wise (again you would be taken - its a fact), but unfortunately if you are none of the above you may end up being single all your life waiting for mr. darcy. if you are above 25 its time to face the reality --- On Sun, 2/6/11, Manoj wrote: From: Manoj Subject: Re: g_b Difficult to find a Partner To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Date: Sunday, February 6, 2011, 5:17 PM Love the last line u wrote Sanjay. on the original topic --- u say u have written emails for finding the right patner. But then can one really hope to find some one to love over a forum list by soliciting a life partner? I think the ida of meeting someone over this calls for an exceptional stroke of luck..meet ppl at social events, interact, have frnds and there is a higher probability of hitting it with the right guy...coz in absence of above its difficult fo both of u to know if u are the right guys or not. Email, forum, online advt can typically serve little here. Manoj --- On Sun, 6/2/11, Sanjay Lulla wrote: From: Sanjay Lulla Subject: Re: g_b Difficult to find a Partner To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Date: Sunday, 6 February, 2011, 10:49 AM no One can not generalise and it would be branding us. Love is not gay nor hetrosexual. its just love. True dedicated honest loyal love does exist. Many times we close our eyes and are blind to its existence. Our hard set standards and parameters act like blinkers. How do you think arranged hetro marraiges survive? Are we ready to adjust accomodate. We maybe rejecting someone who truly loves us cares for us just because he is not our type or maybe hes a t/b or some such bullshit. We fail due to our own idiocrancies and inaneities. Lets not find problem in others first let us beging with ourself. last but not the least if one is married then how can one do justice to both the parties? a wife kid and a BF? Own up to what ever decision you have taken and stick to it. Love is not a venture of the weak it is the privilige of the courageous. little prince-Sanjay N Lulla From: Adrian To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Sent: Sat, February 5, 2011 1:01:52 PM Subject: RE: g_b Difficult to find a Partner The sooner you accept this, the better it will be for you. From: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com [mailto:gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com] On Behalf Of Sameer Raj Sent: Thursday, February 03, 2011 8:00 PM To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Subject: g_b Difficult to find a Partner Hi everyone, well i am writing this not as someone who is new or fighting with the identity but as a person who has tried everything to find a correct soulmate our world.i have written many mails (subject : In search of a life partner) seeking for the person that i would be happy to spend my life with. but all replies i get hovers around sex and only sex or i am married and so and so yrs old complete secrecy assured... sometimes they are so direct that it becomes hard for me to understand that does the gay world means just having one night stands or a hook up ..is there nothing called love in this world well i believe that being gay is nothing wrong and one should be proud of it, i would like to say that the only things that matters is not a hook up or a night stand but love and commitment which would last forever because at the end this is wat we all have to live with. i would not like to write more as i am short of words about how sorry i feel for those who think that being gay is just about having a night stand..
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oh isnt Mr. Bean available anymore?? :p little prince-Sanjay N Lulla From: Prem Nath To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Sent: Mon, February 7, 2011 7:17:29 AM Subject: Re: g_b Difficult to find a Partner we live in a world of fantasy, we all think we are elizabeth bennet and we often cry for why are we not meeting mr. darcy. even after looking at mirror a 1000 times a day, for some reason we cannot accept the fact that may be we are not elizabeth bennet but rather charlotte lucas or someone even more mundane, but thats not the sad part, the sad part is that we are not even half as wise as charlotte lucas was. let us look at ourselves first as to what we are and what are we ready to offer before complaining, if you are good looking- you would be taken (its a fact), if you are wise (again you would be taken - its a fact), but unfortunately if you are none of the above you may end up being single all your life waiting for mr. darcy. if you are above 25 its time to face the reality --- On Sun, 2/6/11, Manoj wrote: >From: Manoj >Subject: Re: g_b Difficult to find a Partner >To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com >Date: Sunday, February 6, 2011, 5:17 PM > > > > >Love the last line u wrote Sanjay. > >on the original topic --- u say u have written emails for finding the right >patner. But then can one really hope to find some one to love over a forum >list >by soliciting a life partner? >I think the ida of meeting someone over this calls for an exceptional stroke >of >luck..meet ppl at social events, interact, have frnds and there is a >higher >probability of hitting it with the right guy...coz in absence of above its >difficult fo both of u to know if u are the right guys or not. >Email, forum, online advt can typically serve little here. >Manoj >--- On Sun, 6/2/11, Sanjay Lulla wrote: > > >>From: Sanjay Lulla >>Subject: Re: g_b Difficult to find a Partner >>To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com >>Date: Sunday, 6 February, 2011, 10:49 AM >> >> >> >>no One can not generalise and it would be branding us. Love is not gay nor >>hetrosexual. its just love. True dedicated honest loyal love does exist. Many >>times we close our eyes and are blind to its existence. Our hard set >>standards >>and parameters act like blinkers. How do you think arranged hetro marraiges >>survive? Are we ready to adjust accomodate. We maybe rejecting someone who >>truly >>loves us cares for us just because he is not our type or maybe hes a t/b or >>some >>such bullshit. We fail due to our own idiocrancies and inaneities. Lets not >>find >>problem in others first let us beging with ourself. >> >>last but not the least if one is married then how can one do justice to both >>the >>parties? a wife kid and a BF? Own up to what ever decision you have taken and >>stick to it. >> >> >>Love is not a venture of the weak it is the privilige of the courageous. >> little prince-Sanjay N Lulla >> >> >> >> >> From: Adrian >>To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com >>Sent: Sat, February 5, 2011 1:01:52 PM >>Subject: RE: g_b Difficult to find a Partner >> >> >>The sooner you accept this, the better it will be for you. >> >>From:gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com [mailto:gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com] On Behalf >>Of >>Sameer Raj >>Sent: Thursday, February 03, 2011 8:00 PM >>To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com >>Subject: g_b Difficult to find a Partner >> >> >>Hi everyone, >>well i am writing this not as someone who is new or fighting with the >>identity >>but as a person who has tried everything to find a correct soulmate our >>world.i >>have written many mails (subject : In search of a life partner) seeking for >>the >>person that i would be happy to spend my life with. >>but all replies i get hovers around sex and only sex or i am married and so >>and >>so yrs old complete secrecy assured... sometimes they are so direct that >>it >>becomes hard for me to understand that does the gay world means just having >>one >>night stands or a hook up ..is there nothing called love in this >>world >> >>well i believe that being gay is nothing wrong and one should be proud of it, >>i >>would like to say that the only things that matters is not a hook up or a >>night >>stand but love and commitment which would last forever because at the end >>this >>is wat we all have to live with. >> >>i would not like to write more as i am short of words about how sorry i feel >>for >>those who think that being gay is just about having a night stand.. >> >> >> >> >> >
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we live in a world of fantasy, we all think we are elizabeth bennet and we often cry for why are we not meeting mr. darcy. even after looking at mirror a 1000 times a day, for some reason we cannot accept the fact that may be we are not elizabeth bennet but rather charlotte lucas or someone even more mundane, but thats not the sad part, the sad part is that we are not even half as wise as charlotte lucas was. let us look at ourselves first as to what we are and what are we ready to offer before complaining, if you are good looking- you would be taken (its a fact), if you are wise (again you would be taken - its a fact), but unfortunately if you are none of the above you may end up being single all your life waiting for mr. darcy. if you are above 25 its time to face the reality --- On Sun, 2/6/11, Manoj wrote: From: Manoj Subject: Re: g_b Difficult to find a Partner To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Date: Sunday, February 6, 2011, 5:17 PM Love the last line u wrote Sanjay. on the original topic --- u say u have written emails for finding the right patner. But then can one really hope to find some one to love over a forum list by soliciting a life partner? I think the ida of meeting someone over this calls for an exceptional stroke of luck..meet ppl at social events, interact, have frnds and there is a higher probability of hitting it with the right guy...coz in absence of above its difficult fo both of u to know if u are the right guys or not. Email, forum, online advt can typically serve little here. Manoj --- On Sun, 6/2/11, Sanjay Lulla wrote: From: Sanjay Lulla Subject: Re: g_b Difficult to find a Partner To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Date: Sunday, 6 February, 2011, 10:49 AM no One can not generalise and it would be branding us. Love is not gay nor hetrosexual. its just love. True dedicated honest loyal love does exist. Many times we close our eyes and are blind to its existence. Our hard set standards and parameters act like blinkers. How do you think arranged hetro marraiges survive? Are we ready to adjust accomodate. We maybe rejecting someone who truly loves us cares for us just because he is not our type or maybe hes a t/b or some such bullshit. We fail due to our own idiocrancies and inaneities. Lets not find problem in others first let us beging with ourself. last but not the least if one is married then how can one do justice to both the parties? a wife kid and a BF? Own up to what ever decision you have taken and stick to it. Love is not a venture of the weak it is the privilige of the courageous. little prince-Sanjay N Lulla From: Adrian To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Sent: Sat, February 5, 2011 1:01:52 PM Subject: RE: g_b Difficult to find a Partner The sooner you accept this, the better it will be for you. From: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com [mailto:gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com] On Behalf Of Sameer Raj Sent: Thursday, February 03, 2011 8:00 PM To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Subject: g_b Difficult to find a Partner Hi everyone, well i am writing this not as someone who is new or fighting with the identity but as a person who has tried everything to find a correct soulmate our world.i have written many mails (subject : In search of a life partner) seeking for the person that i would be happy to spend my life with. but all replies i get hovers around sex and only sex or i am married and so and so yrs old complete secrecy assured... sometimes they are so direct that it becomes hard for me to understand that does the gay world means just having one night stands or a hook up ..is there nothing called love in this world well i believe that being gay is nothing wrong and one should be proud of it, i would like to say that the only things that matters is not a hook up or a night stand but love and commitment which would last forever because at the end this is wat we all have to live with. i would not like to write more as i am short of words about how sorry i feel for those who think that being gay is just about having a night stand..
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thanks Sanjay sir, Good morning! absolutely true and worth it . thanks rgs ran From: Sanjay Lulla To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Sent: Sun, February 6, 2011 9:19:08 AM Subject: Re: g_b Difficult to find a Partner no One can not generalise and it would be branding us. Love is not gay nor hetrosexual. its just love. True dedicated honest loyal love does exist. Many times we close our eyes and are blind to its existence. Our hard set standards and parameters act like blinkers. How do you think arranged hetro marraiges survive? Are we ready to adjust accomodate. We maybe rejecting someone who truly loves us cares for us just because he is not our type or maybe hes a t/b or some such bullshit. We fail due to our own idiocrancies and inaneities. Lets not find problem in others first let us beging with ourself. last but not the least if one is married then how can one do justice to both the parties? a wife kid and a BF? Own up to what ever decision you have taken and stick to it. Love is not a venture of the weak it is the privilige of the courageous. little prince-Sanjay N Lulla From: Adrian To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Sent: Sat, February 5, 2011 1:01:52 PM Subject: RE: g_b Difficult to find a Partner The sooner you accept this, the better it will be for you. From:gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com [mailto:gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com] On Behalf Of Sameer Raj Sent: Thursday, February 03, 2011 8:00 PM To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Subject: g_b Difficult to find a Partner Hi everyone, well i am writing this not as someone who is new or fighting with the identity but as a person who has tried everything to find a correct soulmate our world.i have written many mails (subject : In search of a life partner) seeking for the person that i would be happy to spend my life with. but all replies i get hovers around sex and only sex or i am married and so and so yrs old complete secrecy assured... sometimes they are so direct that it becomes hard for me to understand that does the gay world means just having one night stands or a hook up ..is there nothing called love in this world well i believe that being gay is nothing wrong and one should be proud of it, i would like to say that the only things that matters is not a hook up or a night stand but love and commitment which would last forever because at the end this is wat we all have to live with. i would not like to write more as i am short of words about how sorry i feel for those who think that being gay is just about having a night stand..
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Love the last line u wrote Sanjay. on the original topic --- u say u have written emails for finding the right patner. But then can one really hope to find some one to love over a forum list by soliciting a life partner? I think the ida of meeting someone over this calls for an exceptional stroke of luck..meet ppl at social events, interact, have frnds and there is a higher probability of hitting it with the right guy...coz in absence of above its difficult fo both of u to know if u are the right guys or not. Email, forum, online advt can typically serve little here. Manoj --- On Sun, 6/2/11, Sanjay Lulla wrote: From: Sanjay Lulla Subject: Re: g_b Difficult to find a Partner To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Date: Sunday, 6 February, 2011, 10:49 AM no One can not generalise and it would be branding us. Love is not gay nor hetrosexual. its just love. True dedicated honest loyal love does exist. Many times we close our eyes and are blind to its existence. Our hard set standards and parameters act like blinkers. How do you think arranged hetro marraiges survive? Are we ready to adjust accomodate. We maybe rejecting someone who truly loves us cares for us just because he is not our type or maybe hes a t/b or some such bullshit. We fail due to our own idiocrancies and inaneities. Lets not find problem in others first let us beging with ourself. last but not the least if one is married then how can one do justice to both the parties? a wife kid and a BF? Own up to what ever decision you have taken and stick to it. Love is not a venture of the weak it is the privilige of the courageous. little prince-Sanjay N Lulla From: Adrian To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Sent: Sat, February 5, 2011 1:01:52 PM Subject: RE: g_b Difficult to find a Partner The sooner you accept this, the better it will be for you. From: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com [mailto:gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com] On Behalf Of Sameer Raj Sent: Thursday, February 03, 2011 8:00 PM To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Subject: g_b Difficult to find a Partner Hi everyone, well i am writing this not as someone who is new or fighting with the identity but as a person who has tried everything to find a correct soulmate our world.i have written many mails (subject : In search of a life partner) seeking for the person that i would be happy to spend my life with. but all replies i get hovers around sex and only sex or i am married and so and so yrs old complete secrecy assured... sometimes they are so direct that it becomes hard for me to understand that does the gay world means just having one night stands or a hook up ..is there nothing called love in this world well i believe that being gay is nothing wrong and one should be proud of it, i would like to say that the only things that matters is not a hook up or a night stand but love and commitment which would last forever because at the end this is wat we all have to live with. i would not like to write more as i am short of words about how sorry i feel for those who think that being gay is just about having a night stand..
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That's so beautiful to hear. Excellent. So happy for ya. J)) From: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com [mailto:gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com] On Behalf Of nirb...@aol.com Sent: Sunday, February 06, 2011 7:34 AM To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Subject: RE: g_b Difficult to find a Partner (reply) Be of good cheer. Someone waits for you. In 1958, I was a student at Yale, and met my lover, Jay Kobrin, at a Drama School Event. We have been together ever since. On our fiftieth anniversary, we flew to Toronto and were married in a Civil and religious ceremony. Our marriage was announced, with a photograph accompanying it, in The New York Times. We have received good wishes from relatives, friends, and strangers. So, be of good cheer. Someone waits for you. Gordon Micunis New York City , NY, and Santa Fe, NM
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no One can not generalise and it would be branding us. Love is not gay nor hetrosexual. its just love. True dedicated honest loyal love does exist. Many times we close our eyes and are blind to its existence. Our hard set standards and parameters act like blinkers. How do you think arranged hetro marraiges survive? Are we ready to adjust accomodate. We maybe rejecting someone who truly loves us cares for us just because he is not our type or maybe hes a t/b or some such bullshit. We fail due to our own idiocrancies and inaneities. Lets not find problem in others first let us beging with ourself. last but not the least if one is married then how can one do justice to both the parties? a wife kid and a BF? Own up to what ever decision you have taken and stick to it. Love is not a venture of the weak it is the privilige of the courageous. little prince-Sanjay N Lulla From: Adrian To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Sent: Sat, February 5, 2011 1:01:52 PM Subject: RE: g_b Difficult to find a Partner The sooner you accept this, the better it will be for you. From:gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com [mailto:gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com] On Behalf Of Sameer Raj Sent: Thursday, February 03, 2011 8:00 PM To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Subject: g_b Difficult to find a Partner Hi everyone, well i am writing this not as someone who is new or fighting with the identity but as a person who has tried everything to find a correct soulmate our world.i have written many mails (subject : In search of a life partner) seeking for the person that i would be happy to spend my life with. but all replies i get hovers around sex and only sex or i am married and so and so yrs old complete secrecy assured... sometimes they are so direct that it becomes hard for me to understand that does the gay world means just having one night stands or a hook up ..is there nothing called love in this world well i believe that being gay is nothing wrong and one should be proud of it, i would like to say that the only things that matters is not a hook up or a night stand but love and commitment which would last forever because at the end this is wat we all have to live with. i would not like to write more as i am short of words about how sorry i feel for those who think that being gay is just about having a night stand..
RE: g_b Difficult to find a Partner (reply)
Be of good cheer. Someone waits for you. In 1958, I was a student at Yale, and met my lover, Jay Kobrin, at a Drama School Event. We have been together ever since. On our fiftieth anniversary, we flew to Toronto and were married in a Civil and religious ceremony. Our marriage was announced, with a photograph accompanying it, in The New York Times. We have received good wishes from relatives, friends, and strangers. So, be of good cheer. Someone waits for you. Gordon Micunis New York City , NY, and Santa Fe, NM
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The sooner you accept this, the better it will be for you. From: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com [mailto:gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com] On Behalf Of Sameer Raj Sent: Thursday, February 03, 2011 8:00 PM To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Subject: g_b Difficult to find a Partner Hi everyone, well i am writing this not as someone who is new or fighting with the identity but as a person who has tried everything to find a correct soulmate our world.i have written many mails (subject : In search of a life partner) seeking for the person that i would be happy to spend my life with. but all replies i get hovers around sex and only sex or i am married and so and so yrs old complete secrecy assured... sometimes they are so direct that it becomes hard for me to understand that does the gay world means just having one night stands or a hook up ..is there nothing called love in this world well i believe that being gay is nothing wrong and one should be proud of it, i would like to say that the only things that matters is not a hook up or a night stand but love and commitment which would last forever because at the end this is wat we all have to live with. i would not like to write more as i am short of words about how sorry i feel for those who think that being gay is just about having a night stand..
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i love that to read it! it sound great peom of love! --- On Thu, 2/3/11, Sameer Raj wrote: From: Sameer Raj Subject: g_b Difficult to find a Partner To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Date: Thursday, February 3, 2011, 1:00 AM Hi everyone,well i am writing this not as someone who is new or fighting with the identity but as a person who has tried everything to find a correct soulmate our world.i have written many mails (subject : In search of a life partner) seeking for the person that i would be happy to spend my life with.but all replies i get hovers around sex and only sex or i am married and so and so yrs old complete secrecy assured... sometimes they are so direct that it becomes hard for me to understand that does the gay world means just having one night stands or a hook up ..is there nothing called love in this world well i believe that being gay is nothing wrong and one should be proud of it, i would like to say that the only things that matters is not a hook up or a night stand but love and commitment which would last forever because at the end this is wat we all have to live with. i would not like to write more as i am short of words about how sorry i feel for those who think that being gay is just about having a night stand..
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Dear Sameer ur mail made me confused that whether u r frustrated because of not finding the right person for u or because all those whom u met needed a night's stand i always feel that everyone have their own view towards life many people wanna just so they act like gay and after marriage bye bye.. some need more fun still after getting married and finally there are people like us who truely need someone to be with and finding the right needs right time and right place so just wait for it you will definately find him Tanu --- On Thu, 3/2/11, Sameer Raj wrote: From: Sameer Raj Subject: g_b Difficult to find a Partner To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Date: Thursday, 3 February, 2011, 9:00 AM Hi everyone, well i am writing this not as someone who is new or fighting with the identity but as a person who has tried everything to find a correct soulmate our world.i have written many mails (subject : In search of a life partner) seeking for the person that i would be happy to spend my life with. but all replies i get hovers around sex and only sex or i am married and so and so yrs old complete secrecy assured... sometimes they are so direct that it becomes hard for me to understand that does the gay world means just having one night stands or a hook up ..is there nothing called love in this world well i believe that being gay is nothing wrong and one should be proud of it, i would like to say that the only things that matters is not a hook up or a night stand but love and commitment which would last forever because at the end this is wat we all have to live with. i would not like to write more as i am short of words about how sorry i feel for those who think that being gay is just about having a night stand..
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Dear Sameer, Your disappointment may be valid because you have not found what you wnated, namely love and commitment. But that is not reason enough for you to take a moral high ground and "feel sorry" for others simply because they are looking for sex and not love. Please understand that if somebody honestly wants just sex and not love, then for that person that is a valid quest as long as he is not keeping anyone under any misrepresentation or fraud. There is nothing wrong in wanting and seeking sex and you have no right to judge them. If you have to "feel sorry" then please do so only for yourself and your inability to find what you really wanted. In any event the ethereal and anonymous medium of the internet is probably the last place where you should be looking for love and commitment. Love and commitment happens with real people in real life. For that you have to go out and meet people. You have to do that by getting into places where real gay people are, and it is not going to fall on a platter before you because you have written 5 long mails that were more venting and fantastical than realistic. So, get off your moral high horse, dirty your sandals and tread the real world and get real in the process, and stop being judgemental. Best, Aditya Bondyopadhyay On 03/02/2011, Sameer Raj wrote: > Hi everyone, > well i am writing this not as someone who is new or fighting with the > identity > but as a person who has tried everything to find a correct soulmate our > world.i > have written many mails (subject : In search of a life partner) seeking for > the > person that i would be happy to spend my life with. > but all replies i get hovers around sex and only sex or i am married and so > and > so yrs old complete secrecy assured... sometimes they are so direct that > it > becomes hard for me to understand that does the gay world means just having > one > night stands or a hook up ..is there nothing called love in this > world > > well i believe that being gay is nothing wrong and one should be proud of > it, i > would like to say that the only things that matters is not a hook up or a > night > stand but love and commitment which would last forever because at the end > this > is wat we all have to live with. > > i would not like to write more as i am short of words about how sorry i feel > for > those who think that being gay is just about having a night stand.. > > -- -- ADITYA BONDYOPADHYAY Development Sector Consultant Advocate (Regd. No. F-218/192 of 1997, Bar Council of W.Bengal, India) Website: http://adityabondyopadhyay.webs.com/ Notice to all recipients: Communication not intended for you but reaching you inadvertently needs to be treated as confidential and destroyed or deleted immediately. Use of such communication in a manner prejudicial to the interest of Aditya Bondyopadhyay and/or his principals, and/or his clients, and/or his agents respectively, may attract legal proceedings which may be of a civil or criminal nature. Aditya Bondyopadhyay and/or his principals, and/or his clients, and/or his agents respectively cannot be held liable or accountable for any and every communication reaching out through this email account that is an unaltered forward of another communication received by this email account, or a referred source available on the internet and accessible to the public.
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I think you should try and attend the relationships meet on Sunday. Maybe you'll find answers! Sent via BlackBerry® -Original Message- From: Sameer Raj Sender: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Date: Thu, 3 Feb 2011 14:30:18 To: Reply-To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Subject: g_b Difficult to find a Partner Hi everyone, well i am writing this not as someone who is new or fighting with the identity but as a person who has tried everything to find a correct soulmate our world.i have written many mails (subject : In search of a life partner) seeking for the person that i would be happy to spend my life with. but all replies i get hovers around sex and only sex or i am married and so and so yrs old complete secrecy assured... sometimes they are so direct that it becomes hard for me to understand that does the gay world means just having one night stands or a hook up ..is there nothing called love in this world well i believe that being gay is nothing wrong and one should be proud of it, i would like to say that the only things that matters is not a hook up or a night stand but love and commitment which would last forever because at the end this is wat we all have to live with. i would not like to write more as i am short of words about how sorry i feel for those who think that being gay is just about having a night stand..
g_b Difficult to find a Partner
Hi everyone, well i am writing this not as someone who is new or fighting with the identity but as a person who has tried everything to find a correct soulmate our world.i have written many mails (subject : In search of a life partner) seeking for the person that i would be happy to spend my life with. but all replies i get hovers around sex and only sex or i am married and so and so yrs old complete secrecy assured... sometimes they are so direct that it becomes hard for me to understand that does the gay world means just having one night stands or a hook up ..is there nothing called love in this world well i believe that being gay is nothing wrong and one should be proud of it, i would like to say that the only things that matters is not a hook up or a night stand but love and commitment which would last forever because at the end this is wat we all have to live with. i would not like to write more as i am short of words about how sorry i feel for those who think that being gay is just about having a night stand..
