g_b Need advice

2005-11-05 Thread Indraneel Sengupta




Dear Friends,
    I am a 23 year old Pg student,coming to terms with my sexuality. Well, first of all a big thanx to the moderator for providing a platform where we gay people can speak our minds and exchange our views. Well I am quite a good looking straight acting fellow. I have a good sense of humour which many girls find quite attractive. But lately my life has come to a point where I am finiding it difficult to put on this charade any longer. I am tired of acting like a straight man, and at the same time , am not that brave enough that I will come out of the closet just yet. I am a very social animal and I cant stand being stigmatised by the society. I am in great pain lately, as I have fallen in love with this guy, who thinks of me as his closest buddy. Even his girl friend like me a lot and I cant imagine what will happen if he ever finds out my feelings for him.  You know the most difficult thing to do in life , is to see some one you love,
 love somebody else. I am very depressed by this and life seems to have come to a point where I dont know what to do next. The only thing that I am findig solace is my work and studies.In order to forget him I have tried dating sevaral guys out here in Kolkata , where I live , but most of them are sex starved creeps who thinks about nothing else than sex through out the day. I will be highly obliged if you can please share your views with me.
 Indraneel.
		 
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g_b Need Advice

2014-08-09 Thread guru nanak imad4u2...@yahoo.com [gay_bombay]
Hi All,
 
Need advice from you...
 
I have a colleague actually he is my junior. We started chatting casually and 
we get along well with each other.
I first started saying jokingly "I Love You" and all...and he dint mind.
Then we really get along so well that I fall in love with him...Whenever we 
chat he will call me "JAAN"...
I then told him that my love for him is not brotherly or friendly...I would 
like to sleep beside you...I would like to sleep wrapping
my arms around you...I would like to kiss you and all...
Then he used to send some romantic messages like the one which a guy send to 
girl...he send me some romantic English songs as well...
 
He recently got married to his long time girl friend...And he told me that 
although I am married you are part of my life and I love you...
 
I told him many times that " My love for you is not brotherly or friendly" and 
he said he knows it..and even his is same...
Even just to taste him I said that someone saying me that my relation with him 
is not good and all my love messages to him is not good as well...
 
For which he got angry and he said he don't care of any one and whoever is 
saying it is wrong
 
My confusion is we never got physical nor we talked about sex
 
How would I know if he is straight or bi or gayOr whether he actually knows 
what relation I am talking about...
 
I told him even recently like that I love you more than anything and you are my 
life and I cannot control it and he was OK with it.
 
Kindly help me to find out his orientation

Re: g_b Need advice

2005-11-05 Thread abc def



Hi Indraneel,
read ur mail and felt the emotions vicariously
the phase u r goin thru now may be very difficult for u to cope with...but friend,i wd advice you to take life as it comes...don't think too much about somethinghave many hobbies,interests and indulge into them...keep urself occupied most of the times..and u will get someone ,the kind u r looking for ,for sure one day accidently 
about ur dilemma with ur best firend and her Gfi wd say..if ur friend is not a gay...and is very good and close friend of urs,dont try to get emotionally involved with him very much...bcos finally he will be going wid the girl only and u will feel lonely and rejected-dejectedalso if u get emotionally involved with him,u might expect him physically,which he may not be ready for...and this may make u loose ur close-good palso don't fall for a straight guy
hope my words may help u...all the best and best wishes for ur future life..
 
Rgds,
CooldudeIndraneel Sengupta <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:


Dear Friends,
    I am a 23 year old Pg student,coming to terms with my sexuality. Well, first of all a big thanx to the moderator for providing a platform where we gay people can speak our minds and exchange our views. Well I am quite a good looking straight acting fellow. I have a good sense of humour which many girls find quite attractive. But lately my life has come to a point where I am finiding it difficult to put on this charade any longer. I am tired of acting like a straight man, and at the same time , am not that brave enough that I will come out of the closet just yet. I am a very social animal and I cant stand being stigmatised by the society. I am in great pain lately, as I have fallen in love with this guy, who thinks of me as his closest buddy. Even his girl friend like me a lot and I cant imagine what will happen if he ever finds out my feelings for him.  You know the most difficult thing to do in life , is to see some one you love,
 love somebody else. I am very depressed by this and life seems to have come to a point where I dont know what to do next. The only thing that I am findig solace is my work and studies.In order to forget him I have tried dating sevaral guys out here in Kolkata , where I live , but most of them are sex starved creeps who thinks about nothing else than sex through out the day. I will be highly obliged if you can please share your views with me.
 Indraneel.


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Re: g_b Need advice

2005-11-06 Thread Lapin




  
hey indraneel,

ive been there and done nothing! i know how hard it is to love one's straight best friend. oh indraneel i wish i could find some solution to ur depression...but all u can do is let time pass. only time can helpplus i know itd be very very very unkind of me to say this but if ur friends the coz of ur depression plz try and stay away from him if u cant confront him with ur feelings.

my advice might not work...but get urself engrossed and keep those sexual perverts out of ur life.

Yours

lapin


On Sun, 06 Nov 2005 Indraneel Sengupta wrote :
>Dear Friends,
>         I am a 23 year old Pg student,coming to terms with my sexuality. Well, first of all a big thanx to the moderator for providing a platform where we gay people can speak our minds and exchange our views. Well I am quite a good looking straight acting fellow. I have a good sense of humour which many girls find quite attractive. But lately my life has come to a point where I am finiding it difficult to put on this charade any longer. I am tired of acting like a straight man, and at the same time , am not that brave enough that I will come out of the closet just yet. I am a very social animal and I cant stand being stigmatised by the society. I am in great pain lately, as I have fallen in love with this guy, who thinks of me as his closest buddy. Even his girl friend like me a lot and I cant imagine what will happen if he ever finds out my feelings for him.  You know the most difficult thing to do in life , is to see some one you love, love somebody else. I am very depressed by
>  this and life seems to have come to a point where I dont know what to do next. The only thing that I am findig solace is my work and studies.In order to forget him I have tried dating sevaral guys out here in Kolkata , where I live , but most of them are sex starved creeps who thinks about nothing else than sex through out the day. I will be highly obliged if you can please share your views with me.
>                                                                                  Indraneel.
>
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Re: g_b Need advice

2005-11-06 Thread idont likeit
hi neel,

It often happens in a gay's life, falling in love with
  a straight friends. and it is hard to pass. it is
not going to happen neel. sometimes u cud express
urself to him and if he is a good person, he would
help u tackle the situation. u cud try telling to him
stressing like u dont expect anything from him but
that these are ur innate feeling. and after all it not
possible and does not make sense to control urself for
long. just be patient and look out carefully. there
are good guys around who cud be ur life partner if u
wish. all the best da.

regs
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Re: g_b Need advice

2005-11-06 Thread bsutesh
Hi Indraneel,

Indraneel this happens with many of us.We get more attracted towards 
straight friends which are a bit alluring.Nevertheless, just becauz 
he has a gf does not mean he is straight , just cvk this out.If he's 
is finally straight, just let time pass and try to get yourself 
involved with your work, hobbies and of course more friends.YES in 
the start as all new things, it is bit difficult to disassociate 
yourself from him ,but you will not regret later.Becauz there are 
many who want sincere and good friends and not sex starved friends , 
but for that you have to leave the anchor and shore and search for 
them never to look behind , and i bet you will find them if you 
search with all your attention.
And believe me while searching you will find many friends and even 
though when your mind went back to him , think that as a beautiful 
dream which got over after you got up. 
All the best ,
Rgds,
bs




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Re: g_b Need advice

2005-11-06 Thread dorans2000
hi indrannel trust me i will also vouch for the same
thing if u have a crush on ur friend who is stright
then dont make the mistake of harbouring feelings dfor
him sorry to say that deprssion will be a part and
parcel of the package if u harbour feelings coz u r
gonna make expectations and dont say u wont becoz its
human pyscology and trust me straight men need a hole
and dont get vulnerable sorry to put it that way but
yes it will harm u in the long run and short run will
kill u so dont bother just let time heal take it from
me a person whose has been through what u r going thru 





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Re: g_b Need Advice

2014-08-17 Thread rohan rana coolrohanr...@yahoo.com [gay_bombay]
My dear friend,
you are lucky to have a partner like that, who loves you.
you said you guys never performed physical, and that things probabllyy bugs u.
listen yaar, basicalllyy nowdays everything is only for sex(like msg chat, 
movie, dates) every thing, bcz one or other guy want that at the end, maximum 
guys dnt care for the actual love, but as in urs case , he never ask fr u to 
being physical, and he still cares for u and love u.


love is not what we do physicallyy, love is ..what we you or that guy feel for 
each other.


my only advice for u is that, stop thinking about any doubts or smthing, just 
keep flow with time
...
and enjoy the moments


all the best.






On Sunday, August 10, 2014 1:02 AM, "guru nanak imad4u2...@yahoo.com 
[gay_bombay]"  wrote:





 
Hi All,
 
Need advice from you...
 
I have a colleague actually he is my junior. We started chatting casually and 
we get along well with each other.
I first started saying jokingly "I Love You" and all...and he dint mind.
Then we really get along so well that I fall in love with him...Whenever we 
chat he will call me "JAAN"...
I then told him that my love for him is not brotherly or friendly...I would 
like to sleep beside you...I would like to sleep wrapping 

my arms around you...I would like to kiss you and all...
Then he used to send some romantic messages like the one which a guy send to 
girl...he send me some romantic English songs as well...
 
He recently got married to his long time girl friend...And he told me that 
although I am married you are part of my life and I love you...
 
I told him many times that " My love for you is not brotherly or friendly" and 
he said he knows it..and even his is same...
Even just to taste him I said that someone saying me that my relation with him 
is not good and all my love messages to him is not good as well...
 
For which he got angry and he said he don't care of any one and whoever is 
saying it is wrong
 
My confusion is we never got physical nor we talked about sex
 
How would I know if he is straight or bi or gayOr whether he actually knows 
what relation I am talking about...
 
I told him even recently like that I love you more than anything and you are my 
life and I cannot control it and he was OK with it.

 
Kindly help me to find out his orientation


Re: g_b Need Advice (reply)

2014-08-17 Thread nirb...@aol.com [gay_bombay]
Kiss him and see what happens !!!


In a message dated 8/9/2014 3:32:10 P.M. Eastern Daylight Time,
gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com writes:






Hi All,

Need advice from you...

I have a colleague actually he is my junior. We started chatting casually
and we get along well with each other.
I first started saying jokingly "I Love You" and all...and he dint  mind.
Then we really get along so well that I fall in love with him...Whenever
we chat he will call me "JAAN"...
I then told him that my love for him is not brotherly or friendly...I
would like to sleep beside you...I would like to sleep wrapping
my arms around you...I would like to kiss you and all...

Then he used to send some romantic messages like the one which a guy send 
to girl...he send me some romantic English songs as well...

He recently got married to his long time girl friend...And he told me  that
although I am married you are part of my life and I love you...

I told him many times that " My love for you is not brotherly or  friendly"
and he said he knows it..and even his is same...
Even just to taste him I said that someone saying me that my relation  with
him is not good and all my love messages to him is not good as  well...

For which he got angry and he said he don't care of any one and whoever  is
saying it is wrong

My confusion is we never got physical nor we talked about sex

How would I know if he is straight or bi or gayOr whether he actually
knows what relation I am talking about...

I told him even recently like that I love you more than anything and you
are my life and I cannot control it and he was OK with it.

Kindly help me to find out his orientation










Re: g_b Need advice--Why Label people?

2005-11-06 Thread beejay uncle
hi all, 

why do people have to use undesirable words-- like
creeps and perverts. if somebody only likes to have
multiple partners, it is his choice, who r indraneel
or lapin, or anybody else, to judge them.  

bj

--- Lapin <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: 


hey indraneel, 

ive been there and done nothing! i know how hard it is to love one's straight 
best friend. oh indraneel i wish i could find some solution to ur 
depression...but all u can do is let time pass. only time can helpplus i 
know itd be very very very unkind of me to say this but if ur friends the coz 
of ur depression plz try and stay away from him if u cant confront him with ur 
feelings. 

my advice might not work...but get urself engrossed and keep those sexual 
perverts out of ur life. 

Yours 

lapin 


On Sun, 06 Nov 2005 Indraneel Sengupta wrote : Dear Friends, I am a 23 year old 
Pg student,coming to terms with my sexuality. Well, first of all a big thanx to 
the moderator for providing a platform where we gay people can speak our minds 
and exchange our views. 


Well I am quite a good looking straight acting fellow. I have a good sense of 
humour which many girls find quite attractive. But lately my life has come to a 
point where I am finiding it difficult to put on this charade any longer. I am 
tired of acting like a straight man, and at the same time , am not that brave 
enough that I will come out of the closet just yet. I am a very social animal 
and I cant stand being stigmatised by the society. I am in great pain lately, 
as I have fallen in love with this guy, who thinks of me as his closest buddy. 

Even his girl friend like me a lot and I cant imagine what will happen if he 
ever finds out my feelings for him.  You know the most difficult thing to do in 
life , is to see some one you love, love somebody else. I am very depressed by 
this and life seems to have come to a point where I dont know what to do next. 
The only thing that I am findig solace is my work and studies.In order to 
forget him I have tried dating sevaral guys out here in Kolkata , where I live 
, but most of them are sex starved creeps who thinks about nothing else than 
sex through out the day. I will be highly obliged if you can please share your 
views with me. 

Indraneel. 




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Re: g_b Need advice--Why Label people?

2005-11-07 Thread MICHAEL DRINKWATER
Dear Beejay uncle, In my country the usual rule about
the use of these undesirable words is : people who use
derogatory terms for gay  people are themselves
freaked out by their own secret sexuality and this can
lead to(in its ultimate extreme) to 'poofter bashing"
. I am bashing poofters,  so everyone , Look I can not
possibly be One .Derogatory language is but the first
step down this path . Sadly... 
Michael , Sydney
P.S. I'm looking forward 2 visiting Kolkata , seems
like a great spot 4 a 60 year old gay guy who looks
like Cournel  Sanders (of KFC), with a complexion like
one of his chickens. LOL   
--- beejay uncle <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:

hi all, 

why do people have to use undesirable words-- like creeps and perverts. if 
somebody only likes to have multiple partners, it is his choice, who r 
indraneel or lapin, or anybody else, to judge them. 

bj 

--- Lapin <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: 


hey indraneel, 

ive been there and done nothing! i know how hard it is to love one's straight 
best friend. oh indraneel i wish i could find some solution to ur 
depression...but all u can do is let time pass. only time can helpplus i 
know itd be very very very unkind of me to say this but if ur friends the coz 
of ur depression plz try and stay away from him if u cant confront him with ur 
feelings. 

my advice might not work...but get urself engrossed and keep those sexual 
perverts out of ur life. 

Yours 

lapin 


On Sun, 06 Nov 2005 Indraneel Sengupta wrote : Dear Friends, I am a 23 year old 
Pg student,coming to terms with my sexuality. Well, first of all a big thanx to 
the moderator for providing a platform where we gay people can speak our minds 
and exchange our views. 


Well I am quite a good looking straight acting fellow. I have a good sense of 
humour which many girls find quite attractive. But lately my life has come to a 
point where I am finiding it difficult to put on this charade any longer. I am 
tired of acting like a straight man, and at the same time , am not that brave 
enough that I will come out of the closet just yet. I am a very social animal 
and I cant stand being stigmatised by the society. I am in great pain lately, 
as I have fallen in love with this guy, who thinks of me as his closest buddy. 

Even his girl friend like me a lot and I cant imagine what will happen if he 
ever finds out my feelings for him.  You know the most difficult thing to do in 
life , is to see some one you love, love somebody else. I am very depressed by 
this and life seems to have come to a point where I dont know what to do next. 
The only thing that I am findig solace is my work and studies.In order to 
forget him I have tried dating sevaral guys out here in Kolkata , where I live 
, but most of them are sex starved creeps who thinks about nothing else than 
sex through out the day. I will be highly obliged if you can please share your 
views with me. 

Indraneel. 





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Re: g_b Need advice--bi love is difficult

2005-11-06 Thread Manthan Kulkarni
Hey Indraneel,

I completely agree with Lapin & cooldude, Love is the
most difficult part of our life, and upon that
maintaining a kind of bi love is again very difficult
task.

These are my personal experiences, I was also in Love,
infact I am still in love with him, but what i was in
my ealier stage, I am not now... I had cried for him
many times, even in front of my 1/2 girl friends.. One
of my girl friend knew that iam in love with him...
But lately i realised i should not have done these
things, i did not loose him, its a different story..
But he is happy with his girl, though he has a very
good and close friendship with me, and i was trying to
advantage of that friendly love..

I would stringly recommend you, not to get into
emotionals with him, you might loose him... or may be
you might not loose him, but other hand he might loose
his girl friend for which you will be responsible. He
is a good friend of yours, treat him as a good
friend

Hope this convinces you.

Regards,
Manthan








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