[Goanet] Thank you, Selma-bai

2008-01-27 Thread anand virgincar




Dear Frederick-bab, You may or may not have brought up some interesting issues 
in your fairly lengthy discourse ( which has followed the mailing I sent to 
Selma )however , I do not think I shouldget any credit for throwing up 
these  interesting issues . If you have a look back at my reply to Selma-bai, 
( and usea degree of logic ), you will note that I was not being in any way 
apologetic for not being a very devout Hindu.All I was trying to say that if 
the previous posting madeby her was hurtful to someone like myself , it was 
likelyto cause a much more severe reaction in those who aremore concerned above 
their religious affiliation than I am. Excuse me for not going into too much 
more detail withrespect to your very considerable literary effort. Whileit is 
not easy for me to decipher your no doubt very professional  effort, the 
vague and sweeping remarkslike the one which says that Catholic institutions in 
Goadisallow the developement of liberal and forward thinkingpersonalities , do 
make me wonder about which institutionsand ,even , which Goa you are speaking 
about.In passing, if this is your idea about Catholic schools , youwill be 
delighted to know that Manohar Parrikar went toLoyola High School in the course 
of his education..that , my dear friend , is my personal gift to you in 
your one point mission to whip up more sentiments against the one threat to the 
 current Congress goverment's onepoint mission to destroy Goa . luv and 
regards,anand ( Dr Anand Virgincar )  

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[Goanet] Thank you,Selma-bai

2008-01-26 Thread anand virgincar
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Dear Selma-bai,
Although you had made a sharp comment about the kars of Goa,
I had resisted replying to you as I felt I would not be adding in any
way to the discusion. However, your follow up to the thread (see 
below )does raise a few points .
Before we proceed,however,let me thank you for your advice to me
and all kars to learn from the liberal and broad minded South Indians.
I can assure you that I am willing to learn from any sensible person
wherever they come from the world. I have,however,found many 
people with the characteristics you describe above in Goa itself.
In fact, I owe a lot to a wonderful lady called Carvalho who was
one of my first teachers in Loyola High School, Margao ( and unlike
your distaste for my surname,I have tremendous respect for the
one you sign off with )
 
With respect to your mail below, I note the strong plea you make
towards religious and cultural harmony.I shall now rewind back and
reproduce verbatim a posting you made on this forum  :
 
 A similar fate awaits Goan Catholics in Goa,I am sure of it ! There
is a whole generation of young Goan Hindus being systemetically 
trained to hate Christians.Their cadres are organised and they are
armed.Voices like Gadgil and Pravin will be whispers or perhaps even 
whimpers in the dust left behind.I can only wish the Angel of Death
visits me before I am visited by the likes of some who frequent Goanet
 
1) This statement is totally out of context to any discussion
about Goa or about Goan communities ( It was in relation to the
assassination of Benazir Bhutto and her democratic credentials )
2) Even after repeated perusal, I cannot find any humorous and/or
satirical element in th posting.
3) Now,although born into that religion , I am not a terribly devout
Hindu. I enjoy my Pork Sorpotel and Beef Vindaloo and do not 
necessarily picture a Hindu deity in my mind when I pray to God.
I have been to a Jesuit school ( as Cedrico-bab will confirm ), my
daughters go to a Catholic school in the UK out of choice and I 
have by far more Christian friends than Hindus.I am vehemently
against bigotry and violence in the name of any religion.
BUT...WHAT YOU SAID ABOVE HURT ME AND HURT A LOT
4) As far as I am aware, what you say above is a blatant untruth
( and I hope you and the moderators had evidence to back what
was posted because this could well be termed as an incitation 
for fuelling communal tension between Goan peoples )
 
To,conclude on a similar note as your letter below, dear Selma-bai,
there are many things whch make us fundamentally human...one 
of the most important though, is the way we interact with each other
in our speech,writing,actions and even thoughts.
I hope you, the moderators and owners of Goanet ( who I am 
surprised, if not shocked, let the above posting through ) and the
readers can now decide whether such rheotoric is justified 
and/or proves that we are fundamentally good human beings.
 
luv and regards,
anand
 
( Dr Anand Virgncar ) 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 Date: Fri, 25 Jan 2008 06:54:10 -0800 From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] To: 
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   --- Kamalaksh Chari [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:   Thanks for not 
 supporting fellow Goan and praising  mistakes done by   Non-Goans.
 Keep it up.Regards,Kamalaksh 
  Oh dearie me!  There's a common 
 misconception in India, that it is Catholic Goans who feel a cultural 
 dissonance
  with the rest of India. Reading Rajan's recent call for autonomy, the rabid 
use of the the word ghantis by the BJP coterie, the calls for Ghanti go 
home, and the venom with which RNK has been attacked for being a madrassi 
trying to tell Goans about Goenkarponn, that misconception has been shattered, 
alongwith several other misconceptions such as Goa is the epitome of cultural 
and religious tolerance.  Whatever cultural dissonance Goan Catholics may 
feel in heartland India, has been long mitigated by having 

Re: [Goanet] Thank you,Selma-bai

2008-01-26 Thread JOHN MONTEIRO
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Anand
   
  You took up this thread at the wrong end.  I think the subject under 
discussion was indeed about communalism in which we all took part thoughout 
last year (I have only been a member of Goanet for a year).
   
  Selma if anything is one of the least people to consider as a hate-monger on 
this forum.  I notice that there are times when Selma will dig  poke to get a 
reaction from some posters who are continually brash on issues, this is not 
meant in the way this comes over to you.
   
  Reading her post that you have subject lined in your post does come across as 
a rebel rouser but believe me she is far from that.  Some of her posts are 
meant to be tongue in cheek remarks on subjects as diverse as those discussed 
here.
   
  Please do not take offence, nor feel hurt when you find something in you 
inbox from Selma. Last year I regarded her as one of the top ten posters who 
will I will read first before any other, in case I do not have time to go 
through all 50 to 80 emails in my inbox, not to mention other private emails 
which number about the same.
   
  I think you will find that if you go back a year and slowly go through the 
archives you will find the thread where Selma's opinions may well ring true, if 
only sometimes provocative to the point of putting a smile on your face.
   
  Not everything is as it should be on Goanet, we all get our posts rigorously 
checked by the moderators  sometimes we are all annoyed when a certain post 
you have sent to Goanet, is rejected.  Its either because it was getting boring 
(subject discussed for too long), or the thread has gone too far to be almost 
obscure.  
   
  I have read some posts in the past years that I would have liked to have 
strung up the author by the ankles  left dangling over the Mandovi, but 
everyone has a right to an opinion  if expressed on this forum, we can then 
deal with them individually.  
   
  But welcome in any case, we can see you are as sensitive as the rest of us, 
when it comes to certain issues so dont lose this gut feeling 
it's what makes contributions to this forum so genuine, albeit this time 
perhaps you may have felt something was wrong, it really was not I think meant 
to be so hurtful, but I may be wrong of course, but I doubt it.
   
  Oh by the way, I too was in LHS in the late 1950's until time to leave Goa, 
in 1961, as so many others on this forum have either attended there or been 
associated with this school.  I hope to return end of the year, the Gods 
willing.
   
  Best wishes to you.  
   
  John Monteiro
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Dear Selma-bai,
Although you had made a sharp comment about the kars of Goa,
I had resisted replying to you as I felt I would not be adding in any
way to the discusion. However, your follow up to the thread (see 
below )does raise a few points .
Before we proceed,however,let me thank you for your advice to me
and all kars to learn from the liberal and broad minded South Indians.
I can assure you that I am willing to learn from any sensible person
wherever they come from the world. I have,however,found many 
people with the characteristics you describe above in Goa itself.
In fact, I owe a lot to a wonderful lady called Carvalho who was
one of my first teachers in Loyola High School, Margao ( and unlike
your distaste for my surname,I have tremendous respect for the
one you sign off with )

With respect to your mail below, I note the strong plea you make
towards religious and cultural harmony.I shall now rewind back and
reproduce verbatim a posting you made on this forum :

 A similar fate awaits Goan Catholics in Goa,I am sure of it ! There
is a whole generation of young Goan Hindus being systemetically 
trained to hate Christians.Their cadres are organised and they are
armed.Voices like Gadgil and Pravin will be whispers or perhaps even 
whimpers in the dust left behind.I can only wish the Angel of Death

[Goanet] Thank you,Selma-bai - to Anand

2008-01-26 Thread Edward Desilva
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Selma said says Anand:
 A similar fate awaits Goan Catholics in Goa,I am sure of it !
Thereis a whole generation of young Goan Hindus being systemetically
trained to hate Christians.Their cadres are organised and they
arearmed.Voices like Gadgil and Pravin will be whispers or perhaps
even whimpers in the dust left behind.I can only wish the Angel of
Deathvisits me before I am visited by the likes of some who frequent
Goanet

And, Anand says:
BUT...WHAT YOU SAID ABOVE HURT ME AND HURT A LOT4) As far as I am
aware, what you say above is a blatant untruth( and I hope you and the
moderators had evidence to back whatwas posted because this could well
be termed as an incitation for fuelling communal tension between Goan
peoples )
**
Reply:
I fully support what Selma wrote.
The Selma's text that you reproduced. I don't see her pointing a
finger at the 'cars' or 'kars' of Goa who have been to Catholic
schools in Goa but the 90% of the BJP/RSS supporters in Goa who have
not been humanly educated.

And, the Porrikars who have been educated by the catholic system are
not doing Goans any favour by sitting on the fence.

For you to take a personal hurt for what she said determines that you
are one of the members of the RSS Elite Group who fund the training of
these young vulnerable youths (non don boscos) to do the dirty work
for you, while you write sweet sacrosanct letters to avoid detection
and throw us off the scent.

There is no smoke without fire, and there is evidence that during the
election Porrikar brought BJP/RSS thugs from outside to create trouble
in Goa. THERE IS EVIDENCE.
Go back to Goanet archives and you will find it there.
ED.


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2008-01-26 Thread Santosh Helekar
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--- Edward Desilva [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

I don't see her pointing a finger at the 'cars' or
'kars' of Goa who have been to Catholic schools in
Goa but the 90% of the BJP/RSS supporters in Goa who
have
 not been humanly educated.
 

What percentage of the Goan population does this
amount to? How many of these people are Hindus,
Christians and Muslims?

It would also be nice to know what is meant by being
humanly educated.

Cheers,

Santosh



Re: [Goanet] Thank you,Selma-bai

2008-01-26 Thread Frederick [FN] Noronha * फ्रेडरिक नोरोंया
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Dr Anand's posts raise interesting issues

On 26/01/2008, anand virgincar [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 3) Now,although born into that religion , I am not a terribly devout
 Hindu. I enjoy my Pork Sorpotel and Beef Vindaloo and do not
 necessarily picture a Hindu deity in my mind when I pray to God.

How is your religious beliefs relevant here? Should you at all come
across as  apologetic about being a terribly devout Hindu? In any
case, correct me if I'm wrong, but I don't think Hinduism is primarily
about dietary habits and such superficialities.

In fact, I am suspicious about people who claim they are not religious
and yet show a very high intolerant streak towards The Other. For that
matter, I would be far happier to deal with a religious man (of any
religion) who has tolerance to someone who subscribes to a different
religious ideology.

Some examples: Gandhi was a very religious man, but his religion never
came in the way of him building bridges with the Indian Muslim and
doing his best to understand the latter. Jinnah and Advani both term
themselves non-religious, and we know the levels of their
intolerance/communalism. Someone might call this nationalism, but I
wouldn't!

Others who were not very religious were very intolerant too. Adolf
Hitler, while getting the support of the hierarchy of the Church,
wasn't a very religious man personally, and perhaps this allowed him
to slaughter millions of Jews without too much of a problem of
conscience.

Being religious is not a negative thing in itself. It depends on
whether those views help one to be a better person or otherwise.

I have nothing against the followers of any religion; I have
everything against ideologies of hate that (mis)use religion for
political purposes, and threaten to create volcanoes of bitterness
while doing so. Whichever religion these base their politics on (and
we know, from history, that no religion  has a monopoly over
bigotry... every religion and non-religious ideology has been used,
misused and abused).

 I have been to a Jesuit school ( as Cedrico-bab will confirm ), my
 daughters go to a Catholic school in the UK out of choice and I
 have by far more Christian friends than Hindus.I am vehemently
 against bigotry and violence in the name of any religion.

The first part of the above statement reminds me of another famous
statement by L K Advani.

When visiting Goa once, he pompously declared, I learnt my lessons of
tolerance at St Patrick's (the famous school) in Karachi. He said
this at one of the functions at Agnelganv, Verna, if I recall right.

Three months later, he presided over the demolition of the Babri
Masjid at Ayodhya!

Which brings me to a related point... at the Goanetters meet, I was a
little surprised to learn that Rajan Parrikar was a student of Don
Bosco's Panjim. And a couple of years earlier, I was equally surprised
to learn that Manohar Parrikar had been an alumni of St Xavier's
Mapusa.

So, what's it in the Catholic institutions that disallows them from
creating more liberal and forward-looking people, specially in a place
like Goa? (It might work differently in other parts of India, as my
friend Rahul Shrivastava was arguing the other day.)

Till I was about 17 myself, I used to be fairly bigoted in my
worldview. Perhaps I should not blame the institutions I studied in,
but that's how it was. I think Catholic institutions in Goa, with
their emphasis on discipline and order, could be creating a mind-set
that is suited to the 18th century, not the 21st.

Some of our educationists took pride in adopting near-Fascist
approaches, and themselves shared a rather conservative approach that
carried traces of a hangover from colonial times (which lasted as
early as till the early 1960s in Goa!)

Goa's Catholic institutions (specially the better-off ones) were
arrogant enough to create enclaves where the non-Catholics (as they
were condescendingly referred to) were probably treated like the
second-rate citizens that the Nazis or the Hindutva lobby would like
others to become in their scheme of things.

It's wholly another matter that the boot is on the other foot today,
After the 1991 'medium of instruction' policies put in place by
Shashikala Kakodkar and the Alemao-Barbosa PDF government, the
Catholic middle classes have amputated themselves from
Catholic-schools, opening up the latter to a wider base of students,
thus making them more reflective of the demographic mix of Goa
(including migrant kids of the 

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2008-01-26 Thread Alfred de Tavares
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 Date: Sat, 26 Jan 2008 15:45:27 -0800 From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] To: 
 goanet@lists.goanet.org Subject: Re: [Goanet] Thank you,Selma-bai - to 
 Anand  It would also be nice to know what is meant by being humanly 
 educated.  Cheers,  Santosh Perhaps, Eddie means 'humanely'?
 
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