Re: [IceHorses] Dilemma

2008-03-26 Thread Mic Rushen
On Tue, 25 Mar 2008 21:51:56 +, you wrote:

>then I honestly turned to him and said "if this mare was in my herd and the 
>animal inspector came to my place I would get a warning" I said and looked him 
>in the eye´s.

I told the owner of the chestnut mare exactly the same thing -
basically I said "if she did not have such a heavy coat, so people on
the bridleway only 50m away could see her clearly, you would be
reported to the RSPCA."

Knowing the person concerned, the mare will not be fed more, just
moved away from the bridleway.

Sigh

Mic


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Re: [IceHorses] Dilemma

2008-03-26 Thread Mic Rushen
On Tue, 25 Mar 2008 15:32:47 -0600, you wrote:

>If not, keep an eye on the horses as much as possible and keep going for
>visits and just go out and throw them hay (if there is some available).
>
Trouble is, it's 5 hours drive from me. I've not had a reply to the
email asking about her.
>
>What are your animal protection laws like over there?
Not bad for horses. I'll wait a bit, and if I don't hear anything, I
will report the horses.
: (

Mic


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Re: [IceHorses] Dilemma

2008-03-25 Thread Skye and Sally ~Fire Island

Mic

Hard situation.

Seems they have the 'right' answers.however you could ask what is
their next step since what they have done is not working.

We had a 14 horse barn, wealthy clients, whose horses were
boney...all the time.  We mentioned it every 6 weeks...we watched as
they fed those arabs mabye 8-10 lbs a day of straight alfalfa, no
salt, no mineral...we quit.  We could not keep working at a barn
whose owners were so cruel.  As they ate great meals daily, had hired
help whenever they wanted it and drove big expensive cars.

We did our best to help those horses, but when we figued we were not
helping we had to quit, we just could not be a part of their
sickness.

She even bred a marfe and kept that poor colt locked up in a 12 x12
stall with its dam for about 5 weekspoor thing...of course she
wanted top dollar to sell it...she wanted $7,000 for a 4 month old
colt because the coat was pretty, a pinto color.  She never sold it.

If we have to we have cut cane grass for our horses during drought so
that they could have fresh feed with the alfalfa I have to purchase
them.

Some people just should not ever own an animal to care for or breed
themselves.

Skye


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Re: [IceHorses] Dilemma

2008-03-25 Thread pyramid
On Tue, Mar 25, 2008 at 06:28:51PM +, Mic Rushen wrote:
> What would you do if you visited someone you have known very well for
> many years, and found several horses so thin they are bordering on
> emaciated (even though the person has plenty of feed, and plenty of
> money), kept in an exposed field, with no shelter? Someone who claims
> to be a "natural horse trainer who takes in and rehabs horses no-one
> else can ride" yet who finds most of their own horses impossible to
> catch? Whose partner rides in a bitless bridle, but has such wicked
> hands that the horse is still in pain?

i'd call the mspca.

--vicka


Re: [IceHorses] Dilemma

2008-03-25 Thread kolugil
Hi Mic

I had this experience last week when I went down to Reykjavik to ride with a 
friend and it turned out that the horse I was gonna ride was in a thin 
condition (brown gelding) and I pointed that out that "this horse shouldn´t get 
any thiner to just be able to build more mucles and so on." we are going 
toghter in a horse trip this summer 8 day´s long

Then I saw the mare we was going to take with us in hand...I mare that has 
been in my place for two years ago then with a foal by the side
my gosh! awful if you lay your hands on her side you could feel all ribb´s and 
tip your finger down between them!!

then I honestly turned to him and said "if this mare was in my herd and the 
animal inspector came to my place I would get a warning" I said and looked him 
in the eye´s.

yes I know she a little bit thin she was when we brought her in from winter 
pasture ect,ect
and I said then you just simply have to give her food not just hay when she is 
in this condition she burns mucle´s not build them I said as I know he do work 
out a lot and know´s what I´m talking about (Im a former football player and 
alway´s talk about horses as an athlet to thoose that are working out having 
diet´s and that mostly turne´s out good)

My friend don´t own this mare it´s another person (also a man) when the turned 
up in the stable my friend simply said  hey! Malin don´t think we feed them 
enough!  then the man walked up to my friends dun gelding and said this one is 
at least very fat  I put my hand on the horse and said this is nothing you 
starw away you ride to build up mucles and with this fat on you will be faster 
to build him up vs the brown gelding you will have to feed him diffient so he 
can both build and burn in the same time!

Hope it goes well for you Mic

This is what I did but I don´t know yet if it worked

Regards Malin
www.kolugil.tk


Re: [IceHorses] Dilemma

2008-03-25 Thread Wanda Lauscher
On 25/03/2008, Mic Rushen <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
>
> >The only thing you can do is present the facts in straight
> >forward manner and try to stay calm no matter how they respond.
>
> I did that, but the person concerned always had an answer and a
> justification
>
> I just emailed to ask how much for the chestnut mare. I keep seeing
> her poor sad face.


Mic, my experience with emaciated horses is that the owners are suffering
some kind of break down.

If you feel comfortable phoning the authorities...do so.

If not, keep an eye on the horses as much as possible and keep going for
visits and just go out and throw them hay (if there is some available).

Animals need three things before they can be seized, food, shelter, and
water.  If they don't have one then that's a reason to seize them...at least
here in Canada that's the case.

What are your animal protection laws like over there?

Wanda


Re: [IceHorses] Dilemma

2008-03-25 Thread Mic Rushen
On Tue, 25 Mar 2008 15:10:16 -0400, you wrote:

>The only thing you can do is present the facts in straight
>forward manner and try to stay calm no matter how they respond. 

I did that, but the person concerned always had an answer and a
justification

I just emailed to ask how much for the chestnut mare. I keep seeing
her poor sad face.

Mic


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Re: [IceHorses] Dilemma

2008-03-25 Thread Laree Shulman
On Tue, Mar 25, 2008 at 2:28 PM, Mic Rushen
<[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
> What would you do if you visited someone you have known very well for
> many years, and found several horses so thin they are bordering on
> emaciated (even though the person has plenty of feed, and plenty of
> money), kept in an exposed field, with no shelter?

This is part of the human nature that I will never understand - try as
I might.  The only thing you can do is present the facts in straight
forward manner and try to stay calm no matter how they respond.  If
they get angry and shut you out, there is nothing you can do.
Hopefully they just need the offer of a helping hand.  If not, as
heartbreaking as it is, you can only do so much.
-- 
Laree in NC
Doppa & Mura
Simon, Sadie and Sam (the "S" gang)

"Yet when all the books have been read and reread, it boils down to
the horse, his human companion, and what goes on between them." -
William Farley


RE: [IceHorses] Dilemma

2008-03-25 Thread Jeannette Hoenig
 > But - people who keep their horses there say they have already tried> to get 
 > something done about the state of the owner's horses, and> nothing has 
 > happened. That those horses are not being fed anything> extra, and don't 
 > even get much haylage - and what they are fed is not> good quality. >



Mic, if I were in your shoes, and this friend or friends of yours had these 
kinds of conditions for their own horses, my first thought is they are not very 
happy in their lives and they aren't energized in taking care of their horses, 
seeing them thrive and look healthy, but the ones in their care that I would 
assume they are being paid to care for, are looking well, then I would try to 
get them to find new homes for the horses and decrease their burden, as that is 
what it must be for them. The horses can't speak for themselves and if you are 
able to speak to these people honestly, then helping them to realize they are 
needing a break from their horses, even if it would be a free lease to other 
places so they don't have any work involved in the care, since money isn't the 
problem, a free lease might be the best way to maintain some control but none 
of the care. They might need a vacation from their horse lifestyle for a 
prolonged period to decide what direction they need to go to be happy. I see 
people buy farmettes here fairly frequently and burn out in less than 2 years, 
because the horse care becomes a ball and chain and they really can't enjoy 
their horses when they are the sole providers of care. Jeannette


Re: [IceHorses] Dilemma

2008-03-25 Thread Janice McDonald
This brought tears to my eyes, I'm not kidding.  I have been in this
circumstance with others a few times.  It is so so hard.  I have
always said something, in a kind way.  I have understood sometimes,
they were taking bad vet advice or worried themselves, grasping at
straws trying to figure it out.  I have gone thru it myself with
jaspar, turned out it was his teeth, to the tune of three different
teeth jobs that cost a lot and all three did a lousy job etc.

But I have had people lie to me, and say "I lost my pasture lease" and
then found out they never had a pasture lease.  I have always tried to
help if they were people I knew and cared about.  But when they lie
and make crazy excuses I end up just losing all respect and walking
away, trying to find good homes for horses when I can.  But ironically
usually people like this wont sell a horse cheap, oh no, they want top
dollar for a starved lame sick horse, its just unreal.

I have a friend with a paso.  She is very very goey mare.  She took
her on a 50 mile endurance ride without any prep in the least.  The
mare was in enough condition from trail riding all the time that she
passed vet checks.  but she blew a tendon and is totally worthless
now.  I saw the woman last week.  She says she doesnt have a horse
anymore, are any of mine for sale.  I told her no, they are like my
children, and she says, get this "oh, I see you just like to spend all
your money feeding horses."  That infuriated me.  How dare she judge
me for having too many horses, all of them well tended as can be, its
my money,  and what would she have said if I had blurted back  "If I
sold a horse it would be to someone who didnt ride them into the dirt
and then dump them crippled at auction" which she has done twice now.

But everyone talks about them all the time, these people, and they get
turned in, turned on by other decent horse people etc...  sigh.  I
promise you this Mic, wont hurt anything at all for you to tell her
how you feel in no uncertain terms because when its all said and done
she'll remember at least you tried to be decent about it and you know
she knows she is not doing the right thing!

There is an old saying, "ask yourself three questions when you want to
open your mouth and say something---1.  is it true?  2.  Is it kind?
3.  Is it necessary?"


janice--
even good horses have bad days sometimes.


Re: [IceHorses] Dilemma

2008-03-25 Thread Renee Martin
Mic,
Ugh.You're in a hard place.   But the horses are in a harder one.
It would seem your friend has the "correct" answers for all your 
questions. . . What if you pulled him/her out in the field and had the bare 
evidence standing before you while you discussed things further?I think 
it would be a lot harder then, and maybe at least, they would concede 
whatever they've done or are doing for the horses isn't working (obviously!) 
Are there other horses on their premises who AREN'T in this condition? 
Could it simply be a matter of the lowest horses in the herd aren't getting 
their fair share?
   Can you suggest maybe taking the horses home to your place over the 
summer to see if they might improve since the owner has obviously not had 
luck at getting weight on them?You could play up how wonderful your 
pasture is and that your animals are having trouble keeping up with it --  
they'd be doing YOU a favor in helping you to keep it from becoming 
overgrown. . .

You'll have to be careful and not make your friends defensive about the 
situation. . . Perhaps express your concern over how awful they'd feel if 
the horse(s) died and how willing you are help them in giving it a go at 
getting the horses back on track.

   I feel for ya.   Nothing worse than having to walk on eggshells around a 
family member or friend in order to help an animal in need.  It's quite an 
dance of diplomacy and tact to get the desired help to the animal.

  I could never be an SPCA officer here. . . I think they are allowed to 
carry guns and I'd shoot far too many violators. . . on the spot:

"That your starving, beaten, mange-ridden, injured dog over there sir 
without any food or water sitting in the hot sun?   Yes, it is?"

Bam.Now it's my dog.

-- Renee M. in Michigan who will always prefer the company of animals to 
most people