Re: [kde-community] FOSDEM Organisation

2014-12-09 Thread Myriam Schweingruber
Hi Valorie,

On Sun, Dec 7, 2014 at 1:08 AM, Valorie Zimmerman 
valorie.zimmer...@gmail.com wrote:

 Woah. I never thought I would hear such things here.

 On Sat, Dec 6, 2014 at 9:22 AM, Pau Garcia i Quiles
 pgqui...@elpauer.org wrote:
  John,
 ...

 There are many reasons women don't submit talk proposals. One of them
 is the perceived unfriendly, unwelcoming nature of the conf. I'm not
 saying that FOSDEM *is* unfriendly or unwelcoming to women. However,
 it certainly has that reputation.


Really? I was absolutely not aware of that, and I have attended FOSDEM very
often in the past. Is there any links to why you state that FOSDEM is
unfriendly and unwelcoming? From my personal experience I certainly can't
confirm that!

Please everybody, can we not extrapolate from events where discrimination
happened and which led to the elaboration of as CoC to that all events by
default are unwelcoming and unfriendly? And as mentioned by other FOSDEM
regulars: there is a social policy in place which answers pretty much all
the objections I could have.

I am very surprised at the assumption of FOSDEM being a bad event, really.

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Re: [kde-community] FOSDEM Organisation

2014-12-08 Thread Riccardo Iaconelli
On 7 December 2014 at 18:15, Carl Symons carlsym...@gmail.com wrote:

 * Get on with it. John's not attending and not bringing equipment that has
 been used in the expo space in past years. Who can pick up the slack?


What would be needed? A WikiFM contributor is currently studying and living
in Bruxelles (ERASMUS), maybe I can ask her for help if we have problems
with logistics...

I am also likely attending FOSDEM.

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Re: [kde-community] FOSDEM Organisation

2014-12-08 Thread Thomas Pfeiffer
On Saturday 06 December 2014 08:36:35 Carl Symons wrote:

 At least some of the FOSDEM organizers believe that it's important. They
 have a social conduct policy. It's published in the front of the program
 brochure. Apparently John doesn't think that it is proper (whatever that
 means):
 
 Social conduct policy
 
The FOSDEM organisers were surprised to hear that
harassment is a common problem at open source conferences
around the world. While we have no evidence of antisocial
behaviour ever having been a problem at FOSDEM, we would
like to remind everyone that harassment of any kind will
not be tolerated.  Please report any concerns to a FOSDEM
staff member (yellow shirts), or contact our coordinator
Wynke on (telephone number)
 from the 2014 conference in plain view
 (https://archive.fosdem.org/2014/assets/booklet-a1fec82960ed17ed7974bc2e9951
 dfc898c83318f8634f7ee046d952ada8ecb7.pdf)

That sounds pretty much exactly what at least I would be looking for in a code 
of conduct, I think it is quite well written and balanced.
However, the important disadvantage of making your CoC available only to 
people who are already _at_ the conference is that people for whom the 
presence of a CoC is a criterion for joining the conference will never know 
there is one.
So if they just put their social conduct policy on their website in addition 
to the brochure, I think it would be fine.
Could you maybe ask your FOSDEM contact if they could do that, Carl?
Thanks,
Thomas
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Re: [kde-community] FOSDEM Organisation

2014-12-08 Thread Eike Hein



On 12/08/2014 11:33 PM, Laszlo Papp wrote:

On Mon, Dec 8, 2014 at 10:02 PM, Alex Merry alex.me...@kde.org wrote:

As Valorie said, if you want more female talk submissions,


I am afraid that I am personally not yet sure whether I wish that. I
am not going to those places and events to see beautiful ladies, get
dates later and the like. What I personally would like is the most
qualified submissions. Whether that happens to be from a male, female,
etc, that does not matter so much to me. When I visit these
conferences I would like to have the best technical experience and
then the socialization as the secondary trait. Even then, I do not
mind what gender I am socializing with.

I hope that this effort for fixing the gender ratio will not
compromise the quality of the conferences. I personally believe more
in meritocracy than genderocracy. Therefore, I would rather put the
effort into attracting world-wide and recognized industry and
community experts than ladies just for the sake of being females.

I agree about the CoC, however, gender independently. This is not such
a big concern for me, but I appreciate that if it is for some other
people. I have personally never seen the QtCS, Qt dev days, etc, code
of conducts either and they were amazing events. Qt dev days in Munich
(2011?) had many ladies around, too. Either way, If the organizers can
do something to make the attendants feel comfortable without too much
extra work, I think they ought to try.



A few thoughts on that:

* The above diatribe is largely an example of yesterday's conflict.
  If you look at the gender ratio in CS courses at universities
  today, or the gender ratio in demographically younger work forces
  in companies, the gender ratio has already shifted. Ours hasn't by
  as much, though, which means we're starting to miss out on tapping
  into available talent, which we should definitely care about for
  open source to remain competitive. These kinds of efforts don't
  exist as let's-pat-ourselves-on-our-backs feel-good initiatives
  anymore. I recommend treating it as a PR and recruitment problem:
  We want to be more attractive to female contributors simply for
  the health of our contributor base. And I think we should be in-
  tentionally aggressive about pursuing that talent.

* And that PR problem is real. I've been interacting with young,
  bright, female recent CS graduates a bunch of times this year,
  and especially the older FOSS communities tend have a rap of being
  stuffy, kind of off-putting boys' clubs. I recommend stepping
  outside the bubble now and then -- you might be surprised how
  others perceive you. It's not a nice experience.

* In a broader industry context, one of the main things KDE cares
  about is making socially responsible software. Using open source
  licenses, or caring about lowering power usage - many things we do
  are about technology palatable for society, instead of being a
  burden on it. Technology is also a main driver of change in the
  job market right now, causing numerous professions to grow
  obsolete. Tech-related careers remain - for now - as one in a
  dwindling field of options that promise self-supporting employ-
  ment. I think there's an argument for caring about the industry-
  wide gender ratio in that context, because as we head into these
  future problems, a world in which unemployment is heavily corre-
  lated with gender would be Pretty Damn Bad. As I'd like open
  source to scale to industry-size, I think it'd be nice to work
  on these things on our turf.


Cheers,
Eike
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Re: [kde-community] FOSDEM Organisation

2014-12-08 Thread Carl Symons



On 12/08/2014 12:27 PM, Rick Timmis wrote:

Bless you Sebastian

You expanded my think with clarity and intelligence, thank you.


Same here. Thank you, Sebas



I am sorry i SHOUTED, that was not necessary


Thank you Rick.

And I apologize for the harsh tone of my message.



I agree re personal / organisational, I had not considered it from this
point of view.

Best wishes

Rick



Chastened and edified by sebas's message, it's clear that various parts 
of my message were ill-informed and wrong.


When KDE participates in a conference as an organization, it's important 
to make sure that there's a good fit.


This is not a slippery slope...we participate as an organization in only 
a few conferences. And our presence can be seen as approval of an event. 
We can evaluate our participation in those conferences. They are:

FOSDEM
KDE India
Mobile World Congress
Qt Contributors Summit
Qt Developer Days (Europe, US)
LinuxTag
LAkademy
Akademy-fr
Akademy-es
US grassroots events such as LinuxFest NW, SCaLE, Texas LF, etc.
Others?

It would be a simple matter to see whether or not any particular 
conference has a Code of Conduct.


More problematical...John Layt mentions a proper Code of Conduct. It's 
not clear what that means. It's difficult to assess Codes of Conduct 
without agreed upon, objective criteria. If we're going to assess 
conferences in order to participate as an organization, someone needs to 
define proper code of conduct.


Much more problematical...does the conference do enough to encourage 
diverse participation? Over my head.


Carl





On 8 Dec 2014, at 1:44pm, Sebastian Kügler se...@kde.org
mailto:se...@kde.org wrote:

Hi Rick, all,

On Sunday, December 07, 2014 00:26:08 Rick Timmis wrote:

STOP, That is Enough !!

This conversation does not belong here, it is devisive,
confrontational and
can not be resolved here..


That may be true for some replies, but it's not true for the discussion
itself. KDE considers taking part in FOSDEM as an organization. FOSDEM as a
conference has different standards that what KDE considers, collectively, as
good practice, the specific item we're talking about here is a Code of
Conduct.

I agree that the discussion should be held level-headed instead of in
headless-chicken-mode. I also think KDE has a better chance of actually
achieving something than individuals.

In other words, it's well worth to think of this as an organization. And
that's exactly what this thread should be about.

WE - The KDE Community have a responsibility, and duty first and
for most to
protect the unity of our community


our community, in the wider sense, yes.

PLEASE Cease with this thread of conversation.

IF YOU Feel strongly on either side of this argument then please
make you
feelings known directly to the organisers of FOSDEM


It's an issue at organizational level, it should be handled at 
organizational
level, not at individual level. KDE is organizing its participation, not 
just
individuals who want to attend.

PLEASE STOP..


Please keep the discussion level-headed and productive. While the topic 
might
not be pleasant to discuss (or read its discussions), it's an important
discussion to have, and this is the right place for it.

Cheers,



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Re: [kde-community] FOSDEM Organisation

2014-12-08 Thread Jens Reuterberg
The last decades Computer Sciences have lost women across the board, from 
being a steadily rising curve it is now lower than it was in the 80's (1)
Women in STEM sciences are low but in many other areas this is slowly getting 
better because the age old excuse of well women don't really want to doesn't 
hold muster when the natural question why? is asked.

Earlier you asked about female dominated areas like child care for example - 
the same are true for them, the attempt is to find more men to enroll in 
educations for example (a drive that has worked rather well here for example). 
The reasoning isn't so the girls taking those classes could socialize or find 
dates (I am actually pretty certain not a one argued for that eventual 
benefit) - its because it enriches the area when there is 
1) more people (adding women does not mean kicking out an equal amount of 
men of course.
2) people from different backgrounds behave differently in situations. More 
minds thinking about a problem from different angles = new ideas and 
solutions.

For example there are female showers at hostels not because the owners 
think that women are better hostel guests than men or that they want to 
implement a genderocracy (a term I think is a rather apt description of what 
we're living under now) but because they want more guests and not having 
seperate showers tend to drive people away. 

Finally the Code of Conduct is not just about women, its about LGBT people, 
people of color etc. AND white straight men too of course.

(1) From Wp 
http://www.washingtonpost.com/opinions/when-computer-programming-was-womens-work/2011/08/24/gIQAdixGgJ_story.html?hpid=z3



On Monday 08 December 2014 22.33.50 Laszlo Papp wrote:
 On Mon, Dec 8, 2014 at 10:02 PM, Alex Merry alex.me...@kde.org 
wrote:
  As Valorie said, if you want more female talk submissions,
 
 I am afraid that I am personally not yet sure whether I wish that. I
 am not going to those places and events to see beautiful ladies, get
 dates later and the like. What I personally would like is the most
 qualified submissions. Whether that happens to be from a male, female,
 etc, that does not matter so much to me. When I visit these
 conferences I would like to have the best technical experience and
 then the socialization as the secondary trait. Even then, I do not
 mind what gender I am socializing with.
 
 I hope that this effort for fixing the gender ratio will not
 compromise the quality of the conferences. I personally believe more
 in meritocracy than genderocracy. Therefore, I would rather put the
 effort into attracting world-wide and recognized industry and
 community experts than ladies just for the sake of being females.
 
 I agree about the CoC, however, gender independently. This is not such
 a big concern for me, but I appreciate that if it is for some other
 people. I have personally never seen the QtCS, Qt dev days, etc, code
 of conducts either and they were amazing events. Qt dev days in Munich
 (2011?) had many ladies around, too. Either way, If the organizers can
 do something to make the attendants feel comfortable without too much
 extra work, I think they ought to try.
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Re: [kde-community] FOSDEM Organisation

2014-12-07 Thread Carl Symons



On 12/06/2014 04:26 PM, Rick Timmis wrote:

STOP, That is Enough !!

This conversation does not belong here, it is devisive, confrontational
and can not be resolved here..

WE - The KDE Community have a responsibility, and duty first and for
most to protect the unity of our community

PLEASE Cease with this thread of conversation.

IF YOU Feel strongly on either side of this argument then please make
you feelings known directly to the organisers of FOSDEM

PLEASE STOP..

Thanks

RIck Timmis


I debated with myself about this message and the thread subject 
matter...and decided to speak up about a couple of issues.


The bossy tone of the Rick Timmis message is unusual for KDE. In the 
spirit of working together, assuming the best, uninhibited 
self-expression, I cannot see any conversation not belonging here if 
people want to express their opinions. I want to hear from others and 
encourage people not to stifle themselves.


Anyone who doesn't like the subject matter is free to ignore the thread.

I simply do not agree that our primary duty to protect the unity of our 
Community. I find that the KDE Code of Conduct and the Manifesto are 
clear about how we do things. In particular, the Code of Conduct 
addresses inevitable disagreements. It does not say anything about 
stopping uncomfortable or contentious conversations.


Re: the thread subject

John's original message laid down a pivot point for the thread. It 
raises a hot topic, one that generally is not dealt with effectively, so 
that there continue to be oppressive, harassing environments around tech 
conferences.


The question for me about FOSDEM is So what? KDE people have 
interacted with the FOSDEM organizers. Some are dissatisfied, although 
not much specific information was shared about why they feel that way. 
I've now heard from 4 people who are closely involved with FOSDEM 
organizing.


My sense is that Pau is well-qualified to speak to the issues...he has 
been closely involved with KDE's participation for several years. As one 
of the Desktop DevRoom organizers, he almost certainly has recruited and 
selected speakers. His views on the welcoming atmosphere and the 
speaker/attendee gender ratio carry weight with me.


Likewise John Layt, who has been one of the primary organizers of the 
KDE exhibit space. IMO, he is clearly speaking from a solid position, 
although I don't know the basis for his opinions.


I've worked closely over some months with one of the organizers on a 
non-KDE open source project, which involves mostly men. She is a savvy 
techie, hardworking, insightful, cooperative, collaborative and more. I 
emailed her about these issues. Her views on the subject under 
discussion mean a lot to me. She doesn't see anything to be alarmed about.


Based on my own work on a Code of Conduct for linuxfestnorthwest.org 
[1], the FOSDEM Social Conduct Policy seems to be what the conference 
needs. The FOSDEM organizers are aware of potential problems and have a 
way to address them.


So what?
* There is not likely to be any KDE policy regarding the policies, 
recruiting and selection criteria of other organizations. Any effort in 
this direction won't end well. For example, KDE adopts a policy that 
encourages people to boycott FOSDEM. Do we then have policies about 
other tech conferences? Who decides what is a proper code of conduct?
* It is helpful to me to hear various views on conference Codes of 
Conduct, people's opinions, what makes people feel oppressed, harassed, 
unwanted and unfree. I don't see the kinds of offensive behaviors that 
others report, but I'm certain that it happens. There is a long history 
of man's inhumanity to man.
* There are efforts [2],[3] to deal with unacceptable conference 
behavior. People who feel strongly about the issues can support those 
efforts.
* Regarding FOSDEM specifically...24 members of the organizing team are 
listed at the FOSDEM website. Presumably someone who advocates stronger 
stances on the subjects at hand could join the team.
* Don't participate if a conference has a reputation for being 
unfriendly or unwelcoming to women that one finds offensive.
* Get on with it. John's not attending and not bringing equipment that 
has been used in the expo space in past years. Who can pick up the slack?


Carl


[1] http://linuxfestnorthwest.org/code-of-conduct. I wrote the original, 
lifting as appropriate from similar documents from other organizations.

[2] http://geekfeminism.wikia.com/wiki/Conference_anti-harassment/Policy
[3] http://www.ashedryden.com/blog/codes-of-conduct-101-faq





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On 7 Dec 2014, at 12:08am, Valorie Zimmerman
valorie.zimmer...@gmail.com mailto:valorie.zimmer...@gmail.com wrote:

Woah. I never thought I would hear such things here.

On Sat, Dec 6, 2014 at 9:22 AM, Pau Garcia i Quiles

John,

You couldn't be more wrong.

I have been organizing the Desktops DevRoom for the last 4-5

Re: [kde-community] FOSDEM Organisation

2014-12-06 Thread Jens Reuterberg
o.O

Can I ask you, do you represent Fosdem at all?

On Saturday 06 December 2014 18.22.45 Pau Garcia i Quiles wrote:
 John,
 
 You couldn't be more wrong.
 
 I have been organizing the Desktops DevRoom for the last 4-5 years (cannot
 really remember), so I can speak from reality.
 
 There is no discrimination against women in FOSDEM. It's just they do not
 submit talk proposals. Simple as that. E. g. this year we have only had one
 talk proposal from a woman and I had to chase her! In the very few cases
 where they do submit talks, more often than not when you tell them you've
 got your slot the answer will be oh, I won't be attending, I need more
 time to plan. Well, sorry but everybody is notified of
 acceptance/rejection with exactly the same amount of time (4-6 weeks) due
 to the timeframe FOSDEM manages. If men can come, why can't women? (we do
 also have some rejections from men due to too-late notice but it's less
 frequent).
 
 People are overreacting with these CoC's (or lack of). For some reason, and
 it's not discrimination of any kind, women are by far not interested in
 technology and engineering. In the same way they are by far more interested
 in Nursery, Medicine, Psychology, Marketing  Advertising, etc than men. Is
 there a CoC about men for Nursery or Midwife conventions? I don't think so.
 
 On Thu, Dec 4, 2014 at 2:21 AM, John Layt jl...@kde.org wrote:
  Hi,
  
  Just a heads-up that I will not be attending FOSDEM next year and will
  not be assisting in any way with preparations for FOSDEM or providing
  any hardware. This is the result of the FOSDEM organisers refusing to
  institute a proper Code of Conduct for attendees or to take any other
  steps in addressing the dreadful gender ratio of speakers on their
  program or attending the conference itself. I have attempted to
  discuss these issues with them and found their attitude and beliefs
  completely unacceptable to me. As such I cannot give them any form of
  support, and sadly that means not helping the KDE community at this
  event anymore.
  
  John.
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Re: [kde-community] FOSDEM Organisation

2014-12-06 Thread Valorie Zimmerman
Woah. I never thought I would hear such things here.

On Sat, Dec 6, 2014 at 9:22 AM, Pau Garcia i Quiles
pgqui...@elpauer.org wrote:
 John,

 You couldn't be more wrong.

 I have been organizing the Desktops DevRoom for the last 4-5 years (cannot
 really remember), so I can speak from reality.

 There is no discrimination against women in FOSDEM. It's just they do not
 submit talk proposals. Simple as that. E. g. this year we have only had one
 talk proposal from a woman and I had to chase her! In the very few cases
 where they do submit talks, more often than not when you tell them you've
 got your slot the answer will be oh, I won't be attending, I need more
 time to plan. Well, sorry but everybody is notified of acceptance/rejection
 with exactly the same amount of time (4-6 weeks) due to the timeframe FOSDEM
 manages. If men can come, why can't women? (we do also have some rejections
 from men due to too-late notice but it's less frequent).

There are many reasons women don't submit talk proposals. One of them
is the perceived unfriendly, unwelcoming nature of the conf. I'm not
saying that FOSDEM *is* unfriendly or unwelcoming to women. However,
it certainly has that reputation.

Some women are pioneers enough to attend, or even speak. That can
require a great deal of courage, which is not always on-tap. Those who
are experienced speakers of course often come up with a talk on short
notice -- I know of many good female speakers. Why are they not
speaking at FOSDEM? Seriously, if the steering committee wants more
diversity, it should be talking to these experienced speakers and find
out why they choose not to come.

 People are overreacting with these CoC's (or lack of). For some reason, and
 it's not discrimination of any kind, women are by far not interested in
 technology and engineering. In the same way they are by far more interested
 in Nursery, Medicine, Psychology, Marketing  Advertising, etc than men. Is
 there a CoC about men for Nursery or Midwife conventions? I don't think so.

This paragraph here leaves me shocked and speechless. Say what?

Valorie


 On Thu, Dec 4, 2014 at 2:21 AM, John Layt jl...@kde.org wrote:

 Hi,

 Just a heads-up that I will not be attending FOSDEM next year and will
 not be assisting in any way with preparations for FOSDEM or providing
 any hardware. This is the result of the FOSDEM organisers refusing to
 institute a proper Code of Conduct for attendees or to take any other
 steps in addressing the dreadful gender ratio of speakers on their
 program or attending the conference itself. I have attempted to
 discuss these issues with them and found their attitude and beliefs
 completely unacceptable to me. As such I cannot give them any form of
 support, and sadly that means not helping the KDE community at this
 event anymore.

 John.

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Re: [kde-community] FOSDEM Organisation

2014-12-06 Thread David Narvaez
On Sat, Dec 6, 2014 at 7:08 PM, Valorie Zimmerman
valorie.zimmer...@gmail.com wrote:

 Woah. I never thought I would hear such things here.

 On Sat, Dec 6, 2014 at 9:22 AM, Pau Garcia i Quiles
 pgqui...@elpauer.org wrote:
  John,
 
  You couldn't be more wrong.

Can everybody just take a step back and relax?

John is not calling for a KDE UPRISING (in capital letters), he's just
saying he's not collaborating for this and that reason, and someone
else needs to step in. None of you posting here have posted scientific
proof of your claims, so let's just talk about who's taking on John's
missing contributions. We can discuss FOSDEM's policy in a separate
thread/meeting.

David E. Narvaez
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Re: [kde-community] FOSDEM Organisation

2014-12-06 Thread Valorie Zimmerman
On Sat, Dec 6, 2014 at 8:36 AM, Carl Symons carlsym...@gmail.com wrote:


 On 12/05/2014 09:11 PM, Valorie Zimmerman wrote:

 On Wed, Dec 3, 2014 at 5:21 PM, John Layt jl...@kde.org wrote:

 Hi,

 Just a heads-up that I will not be attending FOSDEM next year and will
 not be assisting in any way with preparations for FOSDEM or providing
 any hardware. This is the result of the FOSDEM organisers refusing to
 institute a proper Code of Conduct for attendees or to take any other
 steps in addressing the dreadful gender ratio of speakers on their
 program or attending the conference itself. I have attempted to
 discuss these issues with them and found their attitude and beliefs
 completely unacceptable to me. As such I cannot give them any form of
 support, and sadly that means not helping the KDE community at this
 event anymore.

 John.


 Ouch, I was not aware that FOSDEM has no CoC. That is really bad. Do
 we have any connections to the organizers where we can make them aware
 that this is *important*?

 I for one would never want to attend a conf. with no CoC. There have
 been far too many incidents of harassment, assault and other nastiness
 to ignore. It is up to us individually and up to us as the KDE
 community to stand up for minority communities, and extend the hand of
 friendship to all.

 I know FOSDEM is happening soon, but it is not too late to take some
 action on our part, and not too late for them to add a link to a
 decent CoC on their website, at the very least.

 Thank you John for raising the issue on the list. I wish I had known
 earlier.

 Valorie


 I have been in contact with FOSDEM organizers. I worked closely with one of
 them earlier this year. She writes...
 Not that I am personally against a code of coduct, but being a FOSDEM
 attendee for the last 3 years, I don't feel that FOSDEM is not
 welcoming to women, or that it discriminates in any way.

 I might be biased since I am one of FOSDEM organizers, but I truly
 think that FOSDEM is the foss event with less, if any, discrimination...

 There's more about the situation that should be taken into account before
 there is a KDE UPRISING.

I wasn't asking for an uprising. It sounds like you have done what I
was calling for, which was talking with the organizers. I had lost
touch with Wynke; I'm glad you have contact.

 At least some of the FOSDEM organizers believe that it's important. They
 have a social conduct policy. It's published in the front of the program
 brochure. Apparently John doesn't think that it is proper (whatever that
 means):

 Social conduct policy

   The FOSDEM organisers were surprised to hear that
   harassment is a common problem at open source conferences
   around the world. While we have no evidence of antisocial
   behaviour ever having been a problem at FOSDEM, we would
   like to remind everyone that harassment of any kind will
   not be tolerated.  Please report any concerns to a FOSDEM
   staff member (yellow shirts), or contact our coordinator
   Wynke on (telephone number)
 from the 2014 conference in plain view
 (https://archive.fosdem.org/2014/assets/booklet-a1fec82960ed17ed7974bc2e9951dfc898c83318f8634f7ee046d952ada8ecb7.pdf)

 Some policies spell out detailed definitions of harassment and harassing
 behaviors, discussions of social structures of domination. How much effect
 does that detail and philosophizing have? IMO not much. A Code of Conduct
 encyclopedia is not likely to change dominating, churlish, harassing
 mindsets.

 What makes a practical difference is that the FOSDEM social conduct policy
 is clearly, though generally stated, published and given to attendees.
 Further, it includes a complaint resolution structure.

This satisfies me, and I didn't know about it. Thank you for clarifying, Carl.

 I don't have enough information to address John's claims about the FOSDEM
 organizers refusing to address a lopsided gender ratio. Presumably someone
 who feels strongly about the issue could join the organizing team and do
 something about it.

 The quick, friendly response I got from my acquaintance and one other person
 on the FOSDEM organizing team was quite different than what John describes.

 Carl

Setting up and enforcing a CoC is one thing, and really the easy
thing. As Pau describes, addressing gender ratio is rather more
difficult. In my experience, they work together to make a better
experience for everyone. While being the unicorn (lone female) in a
male space can be enjoyable for some, most women find the stress too
much, and choose not to do the extra work. Which of course leaves the
few women attending feeling even more alone.

Until KDE, and until FOSS, and even until the tech industry as a whole
crack this problem, we'll have uneven progress. When we embrace
diversity, and hold out a welcoming hand to all, and not just a few,
we enrich our community.

Valorie

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Re: [kde-community] FOSDEM Organisation

2014-12-05 Thread Valorie Zimmerman
On Wed, Dec 3, 2014 at 5:21 PM, John Layt jl...@kde.org wrote:
 Hi,

 Just a heads-up that I will not be attending FOSDEM next year and will
 not be assisting in any way with preparations for FOSDEM or providing
 any hardware. This is the result of the FOSDEM organisers refusing to
 institute a proper Code of Conduct for attendees or to take any other
 steps in addressing the dreadful gender ratio of speakers on their
 program or attending the conference itself. I have attempted to
 discuss these issues with them and found their attitude and beliefs
 completely unacceptable to me. As such I cannot give them any form of
 support, and sadly that means not helping the KDE community at this
 event anymore.

 John.

Ouch, I was not aware that FOSDEM has no CoC. That is really bad. Do
we have any connections to the organizers where we can make them aware
that this is *important*?

I for one would never want to attend a conf. with no CoC. There have
been far too many incidents of harassment, assault and other nastiness
to ignore. It is up to us individually and up to us as the KDE
community to stand up for minority communities, and extend the hand of
friendship to all.

I know FOSDEM is happening soon, but it is not too late to take some
action on our part, and not too late for them to add a link to a
decent CoC on their website, at the very least.

Thank you John for raising the issue on the list. I wish I had known earlier.

Valorie

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