Re: [Origami] CoC: Thoughts on Common Objections

2021-06-02 Thread Joseph Wu
> On May 20, 2021, at 04:25, Brian Chan  wrote:
> 
> There are a handful of objections to having a CoC that I see coming up
> in the discussions, that I would paraphrase as "It would be hard to
> enforce" or "It can be used dishonestly" which beg the question, is it
> really better to not bother at all?

On the point of CoCs being used dishonestly, the reverse situation must also be 
considered. The treatment of Naomi Osaka by the Grand Slam tennis officials is 
an excellent example. 

https://www.usatoday.com/story/opinion/2021/06/02/naomi-osaka-mental-health-french-open-violated-law/7493794002/

The officials use the Code of Conduct as a threat against Naomi when she asked 
for accommodation for her mental health needs. This emphasizes the need for an 
arbiter for Code of Conduct issues who can be viewed as safe to approach and 
trustworthy to deal with the issue with the care and compassion required. 

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[Origami] CoC: Thoughts on Common Objections

2021-05-20 Thread Brian Chan
There are a handful of objections to having a CoC that I see coming up
in the discussions, that I would paraphrase as "It would be hard to
enforce" or "It can be used dishonestly" which beg the question, is it
really better to not bother at all?

If the answer is yes, then the only rules that remain would then be 1)
law enforcement and 2) whatever the organizers deem unacceptable. In
my opinion these are both inferior to having a CoC. Honestly if it's
going to be 1) ("Just don't break laws") I think I don't need to
elaborate why it would be a woefully deficient set of guidelines. A
lot of harassment isn't breaking the law but has no place in a
convention. Enough said.

This leaves option 2), organizers acting on their own set of
principles; but if that's the case, why not write out some of those
principles so we know what to expect? What kind of complaint would be
dismissed, what would be taken seriously? How do I know that the
volunteer or organizer isn't acting strongly on their own personal
biases rather than an agreed upon set of rules?

The other common form of objection is that "some rules are ridiculous,
and/or too specific". This is an easy answer. If organizers don't like
such rules, they can omit them from their code of conduct.

There is a balance though, between what is too vague and what is too
specific. If the only guideline is "don't be a jerk" or "have common
sense" be warned that people have differing concepts of "common
sense". Even "Do unto others as you would have them do unto you" is
incomplete because of different people's expectations. Imagine trying
to enforce that in the presence of a masochist, for example.

Rules change depending on the context and culture of the event. For
example, I would imagine there are a lot of things that are acceptable
at Burning Man that would get you kicked out of most origami cons. Or
maybe you want to run a convention in the style of Burning Man? Even
if the only rule is solely "Don't break laws", it's better to have
that explicitly stated. That Code of Conduct is an opportunity for
convention organizers to be *transparent* about how things are run,
and to define the culture of the convention. This is great for
newcomers too, who might not know what to expect otherwise.

These are my thoughts as an "old-timer" of many conventions, origami
and otherwise.
Brian Chan


Re: [Origami] COC Thoughts

2021-05-17 Thread Malachi Brown
On Sun, May 16, 2021, 8:08 PM John R. S. Mascio  wrote:

> I have some questions, I feel, we need to seriously think about:
>
> *What do we hope to accomplish?  *Have a CoC?  Bad.  Reasons for a CoC?
> I'm sure we can come up with 1000's of reasons, and probably all good, but
> a knee-jerk reaction we need one is not a reason to have one.  But reasons
> for it are the motivation, not the outcome.  Are there laws or other rules
> that possibly cover this better that we just need to use/enforce?  Are
> there other methods we can use?
>
The reason we need Codes of Conduct is that the origami community is not
immune to having people act badly and is also diverse and global enough
that large events are likely to bring together people with different
backgrounds and from different cultures why have different assumptions
about what is "reasonable".

One impetus for this is that there are members of the origami community who
have assaulted or harassed other members of the origami community at times
and places in the past.

Some of those victims do not feel comfortable attending a convention that
does not have a Code of Conduct that provides adequate protection from
further harm for victims that decide to come forward in the event that an
incident does occur.

I, personally, want more people to feel safe and comfortable attending more
origami events and a robust Code of Conduct is one element that helps
ensure that for some people.

Malachi

>


[Origami] COC Thoughts

2021-05-16 Thread John R. S. Mascio

I have some questions, I feel, we need to seriously think about:

*What do we hope to accomplish? *Have a CoC?  Bad. Reasons for a CoC?  
I'm sure we can come up with 1000's of reasons, and probably all good, 
but a knee-jerk reaction we need one is not a reason to have one.  But 
reasons for it are the motivation, not the outcome.  Are there laws or 
other rules that possibly cover this better that we just need to 
use/enforce?  Are there other methods we can use?


*What is the goal and expected outcome? *And what are the consequences 
of violating the CoC?  Fundamentally we are imposing a set of Rules or 
localized laws on behavior.  I think we should think of it in that context.


*What unintended negative consequences might arise? * We can look to 
history for may examples of well intended laws and rule that backfired 
in spectacular, sometimes amusing, ways. *

*

*How should a report be addressed, and how should the complaint be 
investigated?*  For people to feel safe, yes, the reporter needs to feel 
their complaint will be taken seriously, but the complainant should also 
feel safe from false accusations.  I've had female students threaten to 
accuse me, but when they found out, it's not a "accuse and, by 
definition, win", fundamentally blackmailing me with the threat of an 
accusation means they can get what they wanted, they backed down.  There 
was a process of investigation.  A case of attempting to get an 'A' by 
blackmail, not by actually studying and thinking.


And a CoC will not mean things are by definition safe.  But hopefully, a 
person with a complaint of harassment, bullying, or what ever complaint 
they may have, will feel they will be taken seriously and looked in to 
as thoroughly as possible.  And what is the process?  Who has the finial 
authority?  Much like the agreements for warranties that say "you agree 
to binding arbitration under thus and such conditions."  Maybe not 
binding arbitration, but what is  the escalation path, and where does it 
stop?  And where and how does the complaint get escalated, Heaven 
forbid, to law enforcement?  And over all, what documentation will be 
taken and how?


JRSM

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