Re: [ozmidwifery] Reflux/ chiro

2007-02-04 Thread meg
Thanks for that Pinky. I am still generally skeptical, but certainly agree that 
in all professions or occupations there are some who will have outstanding 
results!
Megan
  - Original Message - 
  From: Pinky McKay 
  To: ozmidwifery@acegraphics.com.au 
  Sent: Sunday, February 04, 2007 2:34 PM
  Subject: Re: [ozmidwifery] Reflux/ chiro


  Hi Michelle  Suzi and Meg

   I absolutely agree that some babies do have reflux/ colic -I  had one baby 
who vomited and screamed - baby no 3 - reflux wasnt a diagnosis in those days 
and I lived through it with her in a sling against my bare skin and a poncho 
over both of us. I actually wasnt worried that she had 'something dreadful' 
despite the first two being fat happy boys. I do believe allergies contributed 
-  but certainly didnt have Michelle's experience of constipation as well. 

   I would never undermine a mother's claim of 'reflux' -but I do seem to find 
that aboiut 2/ 3 of babies in my massage classes have been diagnosed AND 
medicated for reflux so I wonder if some of these are more of an 'unsettled' 
baby rather than a truly distressed one - there are definitely degrees  eg the 
definition of colic - 3 hours of crying, 3 days a week for 3 weeks - I dont 
think two hours screaming is any fun for any mum but does she miss out on 
support if her baby cries less than the definition?. Or are there are other 
contributing causes to the crying that are simply being palmed off as 'reflux'. 
 I believe what  mums say and would especially never question a mum of 
multiples as having unrealistic expectations as they have comparison of their 
own previous experience. Perhaps I only see more desperate people and many mums 
are very isolated - who is taking a screaming baby out? In such cases it isnt 
easy for a tired, worried mum to see what is a range of baby behaviour when you 
are adjusting to a whole new life. 

   Re the chiro - I had suggested to this particular mum ( with breech bub) 
that perhaps a chiro or osteopath would be helpful ( I was thinking more of 
hip/ nerve pinching) . Could an arm have been up by babys head and 'squashed'?? 
I havent seen the mum privately to ask this - when I asked did he favour one 
side/ seem more unsettled on a particular side, she didnt know as according to 
her, he was always so miserable that she couldnt tell and prescribed reflux 
meds werent helping.  She is a vet herself so made her own choices. The chiro I 
referred to is paed trained (not many are), married to an osteopath  and very 
gentle with babies -I have heard him speak ( he has spoken to midwives at RWH 
Melbourne) and seen him work ( on my own child and grandchild who was a gentle 
waterbirth but commando crawling asymmetrically, using one leg only - pushed 
off with the opposite leg a couple of days later ?? coincidence or treatment, I 
guess we wont know but I have seen 'slower' babies crawl the same week as a 
treatment) .

  I used to be a skeptic myself and would never refer to anybody I wasn't very 
confident about- even then I am gentle about suggesting anybody other than MCH: 
LC or GP - However, I have seen some wonderful results both from this 
particular chiro and some osteopaths - eg babies who favour one side/ 
positional turns and in particular one baby who was very 'sicky' dribbly and a 
very slow feeder (already on bottle before I met him) -  baby came without his 
bib to class and I commented -I didnt know he had been to the chiro. The 
parents beaming, said, we took him to Braden yesterday and he feeds in twenty 
minutes now and has stopped vomiting/ dribbling.

  Pinky 
- Original Message - 
From: suzi and brett 
To: ozmidwifery@acegraphics.com.au 
Sent: Sunday, February 04, 2007 2:39 PM
Subject: Re: [ozmidwifery] Reflux


I have one of those coloured charts too - diary of a mad housewife!  I 
always planned to blow it up and make art - its quite graphic and pretty!  We 
could have an exhibition!  mine did help explain to the Child Health nurse that 
- yes my baby never slept for 45 mins at a time then and hour of crying...for 7 
months!  I am absolutely convinced now that im more informed that it was REFLUX 
even though every one said its over diagnosed and mythological at the time.  
Sitting up, eating solids, general maturation of the oesophageal sphincter all 
helped and proved retrospectively what the prob was.  If only some one had 
diagnosed it earlier and i had treated with homeopathics (and ive heard a great 
Bowen therapy technique helps too) I might have had a second baby after all !

Love suzi
  - Original Message - 
  From: MHOOK 
  To: ozmidwifery@acegraphics.com.au 
  Sent: Saturday, February 03, 2007 1:28 PM
  Subject: Re: [ozmidwifery] Reflux


  I don't know about over-diagnosis- my second baby (now 17) had reflux and 
it made her first six months the worst of my life. I'd had a perfectly normal 
time with my first baby, he was unsettled like

Re: [ozmidwifery] Reflux

2007-02-03 Thread Michelle Windsor
Hi All,

I'm not sure if this has come up on the list before but has anyone else 
heard of success for reflux/colic from osteopaths?  When I was working in 
Darwin there was an osteopath who had done further studies in treatment for 
babies, and had had some good success according to the midwives and some of the 
new mums.  Her theory was that the vagus nerve (controls vomiting etc) could be 
affected during the birth and by some very gentle massage/treatment of the back 
of the neck that it could be put right.  She said that generally it took only 4 
treatments and once put right should stay that way. It seems to make sense when 
you think about the stress put on the neck during instrumental and caesar 
births (or even normal births when someone restitutes the head the wrong way 
and then pulls!)  Anyway, some of the mums swear by it, they say they had 
babies that basically didn't sleep and after the first treatment, slept 5 hours 
straight.

Cheers 
Michelle


- Original Message 
From: MHOOK [EMAIL PROTECTED]
To: ozmidwifery@acegraphics.com.au
Sent: Saturday, 3 February, 2007 12:28:39 PM
Subject: Re: [ozmidwifery] Reflux


I don't know about over-diagnosis- my second baby (now 17) had reflux and it 
made her first six months the worst of my life. I'd had a perfectly normal time 
with my first baby, he was unsettled like most and woke at night until over 12 
months but I considered that that was normal and looked forward to my second 
child with pleasure and anticipation. 
 
It was a nightmare- not hte birth, that was fine, but from about 3 weeks of age 
she screamed constantly, vomitted even while attached to the breast, never 
slept for more than 10 minutes at a time day or night- no one understood how 
terrible it was, she was obviously in pain, poor mite; my toddler was seriously 
shortchanged because how can you leave a child who is shrieking with pain to go 
and play with the other one. Just things like the carpet (whole house was 
carpeted, even the kitchen) being simply filthy from her constant vomiting, 
which was not projectile but which managed to defeat the towels etc I had 
strategically placed. The crying got me down dreadfully, this was nothing like 
I'd experienced with my first child. There was just no way to soothe her. I 
still have a colour chart I filled out at that time, showing her behaviour in 
ten minute slots over a week to show the baby health sister- red for unsettled, 
blue for feeding, green for sleeping etc. That sounds
 excessive but truly, I felt I needed evidence for people to believe me; they 
said things like, Oh yes it's difficult with two, in a patronising way as if it 
was just me not coping with an unsettled baby when I knew it was more than that.
 
We tried all the normal things, positioning, Early childhood centre, 
paediatrician, medication, nothing worked. Although she was fully breastfed she 
had the most atrocious constipation, stools like pieces of chalk that had to be 
drawn out when half expelled because she couldn't get it out. Finally I went to 
a homeopathic dr and whatever he gave her (smelt like pure alcohol but I was 
desperate enough to try anything!) fixed the pain overnight. She still vomitted 
and still was very wakeful but without the constant crying and pain behaviour 
it was so much easier to cope with. 
 
I'd been told it would probably get better when she was standing up and it did, 
over about a week all the vomitting etc stopped and life became about a 
thousand times easier. 
 
So I think that 'reflux' is very different from 'unsettled baby' but after what 
I went through I'd be inclined to give any mother who said her baby had reflux 
the benefit of the doubt, and the offer of a little help.
 
Monica
 
 
- Original Message - 
From: Helen and Graham 
To: ozmidwifery 
Sent: Saturday, February 03, 2007 9:22 AM
Subject: [ozmidwifery] Reflux


Just found this article whilst surfing the net.  I feel anecdotally that both 
reflux and colic are overdiagnosed.  I am a midwife but not a MCH nurse.  If it 
is so common maybe it IS a normal variation..what do you think about it?  
It just seems to me that some people aren't happy until they have a label and a 
medicine to treat it with when they have an unsettled baby.  Maybe I am being 
too simplistic about this subject.  
 
Interested in the thoughts of some of our online listers.
 
Helen
 
http://www.bubhub.com.au/newsletterdec0601.shtml
 
Reflux is so common it is almost seen as 'normal', or even trivial, and most 
people just don't understand how difficult life can be for many families, or 
understand the impact reflux can have on their lives! They may think of it 
erroneously as 'just a bit of vomiting', or 'just a behavioural issue'. They 
don't see how it impacts on the child's eating, sleeping, growth, behaviour or 
quality of life; or on the family's quality of life, relationships between 
partners, siblings or other children; finances; and even leisure time

Re: [ozmidwifery] Reflux

2007-02-03 Thread suzi and brett
I have one of those coloured charts too - diary of a mad housewife!  I always 
planned to blow it up and make art - its quite graphic and pretty!  We could 
have an exhibition!  mine did help explain to the Child Health nurse that - yes 
my baby never slept for 45 mins at a time then and hour of crying...for 7 
months!  I am absolutely convinced now that im more informed that it was REFLUX 
even though every one said its over diagnosed and mythological at the time.  
Sitting up, eating solids, general maturation of the oesophageal sphincter all 
helped and proved retrospectively what the prob was.  If only some one had 
diagnosed it earlier and i had treated with homeopathics (and ive heard a great 
Bowen therapy technique helps too) I might have had a second baby after all !

Love suzi
  - Original Message - 
  From: MHOOK 
  To: ozmidwifery@acegraphics.com.au 
  Sent: Saturday, February 03, 2007 1:28 PM
  Subject: Re: [ozmidwifery] Reflux


  I don't know about over-diagnosis- my second baby (now 17) had reflux and it 
made her first six months the worst of my life. I'd had a perfectly normal time 
with my first baby, he was unsettled like most and woke at night until over 12 
months but I considered that that was normal and looked forward to my second 
child with pleasure and anticipation. 

  It was a nightmare- not hte birth, that was fine, but from about 3 weeks of 
age she screamed constantly, vomitted even while attached to the breast, never 
slept for more than 10 minutes at a time day or night- no one understood how 
terrible it was, she was obviously in pain, poor mite; my toddler was seriously 
shortchanged because how can you leave a child who is shrieking with pain to go 
and play with the other one. Just things like the carpet (whole house was 
carpeted, even the kitchen) being simply filthy from her constant vomiting, 
which was not projectile but which managed to defeat the towels etc I had 
strategically placed. The crying got me down dreadfully, this was nothing like 
I'd experienced with my first child. There was just no way to soothe her. I 
still have a colour chart I filled out at that time, showing her behaviour in 
ten minute slots over a week to show the baby health sister- red for unsettled, 
blue for feeding, green for sleeping etc. That sounds excessive but truly, I 
felt I needed evidence for people to believe me; they said things like, Oh yes 
it's difficult with two, in a patronising way as if it was just me not coping 
with an unsettled baby when I knew it was more than that.

  We tried all the normal things, positioning, Early childhood centre, 
paediatrician, medication, nothing worked. Although she was fully breastfed she 
had the most atrocious constipation, stools like pieces of chalk that had to be 
drawn out when half expelled because she couldn't get it out. Finally I went to 
a homeopathic dr and whatever he gave her (smelt like pure alcohol but I was 
desperate enough to try anything!) fixed the pain overnight. She still vomitted 
and still was very wakeful but without the constant crying and pain behaviour 
it was so much easier to cope with. 

  I'd been told it would probably get better when she was standing up and it 
did, over about a week all the vomitting etc stopped and life became about a 
thousand times easier. 

  So I think that 'reflux' is very different from 'unsettled baby' but after 
what I went through I'd be inclined to give any mother who said her baby had 
reflux the benefit of the doubt, and the offer of a little help.

  Monica


  - Original Message - 
From: Helen and Graham 
To: ozmidwifery 
Sent: Saturday, February 03, 2007 9:22 AM
Subject: [ozmidwifery] Reflux


Just found this article whilst surfing the net.  I feel anecdotally that 
both reflux and colic are overdiagnosed.  I am a midwife but not a MCH nurse.  
If it is so common maybe it IS a normal variation..what do you think about 
it?  It just seems to me that some people aren't happy until they have a label 
and a medicine to treat it with when they have an unsettled baby.  Maybe I am 
being too simplistic about this subject.  

Interested in the thoughts of some of our online listers.

Helen

http://www.bubhub.com.au/newsletterdec0601.shtml

  Reflux is so common it is almost seen as 'normal', or even trivial, 
and most people just don't understand how difficult life can be for many 
families, or understand the impact reflux can have on their lives! They may 
think of it erroneously as 'just a bit of vomiting', or 'just a behavioural 
issue'. They don't see how it impacts on the child's eating, sleeping, growth, 
behaviour or quality of life; or on the family's quality of life, relationships 
between partners, siblings or other children; finances; and even leisure time. 
The truth is, only families who have experienced it for themselves really 
understand.

  Many families:


a.. Have difficulty

Re: [ozmidwifery] Reflux/ chiro

2007-02-03 Thread Pinky McKay
Hi Michelle  Suzi and Meg

 I absolutely agree that some babies do have reflux/ colic -I  had one baby who 
vomited and screamed - baby no 3 - reflux wasnt a diagnosis in those days and I 
lived through it with her in a sling against my bare skin and a poncho over 
both of us. I actually wasnt worried that she had 'something dreadful' despite 
the first two being fat happy boys. I do believe allergies contributed -  but 
certainly didnt have Michelle's experience of constipation as well. 

 I would never undermine a mother's claim of 'reflux' -but I do seem to find 
that aboiut 2/ 3 of babies in my massage classes have been diagnosed AND 
medicated for reflux so I wonder if some of these are more of an 'unsettled' 
baby rather than a truly distressed one - there are definitely degrees  eg the 
definition of colic - 3 hours of crying, 3 days a week for 3 weeks - I dont 
think two hours screaming is any fun for any mum but does she miss out on 
support if her baby cries less than the definition?. Or are there are other 
contributing causes to the crying that are simply being palmed off as 'reflux'. 
 I believe what  mums say and would especially never question a mum of 
multiples as having unrealistic expectations as they have comparison of their 
own previous experience. Perhaps I only see more desperate people and many mums 
are very isolated - who is taking a screaming baby out? In such cases it isnt 
easy for a tired, worried mum to see what is a range of baby behaviour when you 
are adjusting to a whole new life. 

 Re the chiro - I had suggested to this particular mum ( with breech bub) that 
perhaps a chiro or osteopath would be helpful ( I was thinking more of hip/ 
nerve pinching) . Could an arm have been up by babys head and 'squashed'?? I 
havent seen the mum privately to ask this - when I asked did he favour one 
side/ seem more unsettled on a particular side, she didnt know as according to 
her, he was always so miserable that she couldnt tell and prescribed reflux 
meds werent helping.  She is a vet herself so made her own choices. The chiro I 
referred to is paed trained (not many are), married to an osteopath  and very 
gentle with babies -I have heard him speak ( he has spoken to midwives at RWH 
Melbourne) and seen him work ( on my own child and grandchild who was a gentle 
waterbirth but commando crawling asymmetrically, using one leg only - pushed 
off with the opposite leg a couple of days later ?? coincidence or treatment, I 
guess we wont know but I have seen 'slower' babies crawl the same week as a 
treatment) .

I used to be a skeptic myself and would never refer to anybody I wasn't very 
confident about- even then I am gentle about suggesting anybody other than MCH: 
LC or GP - However, I have seen some wonderful results both from this 
particular chiro and some osteopaths - eg babies who favour one side/ 
positional turns and in particular one baby who was very 'sicky' dribbly and a 
very slow feeder (already on bottle before I met him) -  baby came without his 
bib to class and I commented -I didnt know he had been to the chiro. The 
parents beaming, said, we took him to Braden yesterday and he feeds in twenty 
minutes now and has stopped vomiting/ dribbling.

Pinky 
  - Original Message - 
  From: suzi and brett 
  To: ozmidwifery@acegraphics.com.au 
  Sent: Sunday, February 04, 2007 2:39 PM
  Subject: Re: [ozmidwifery] Reflux


  I have one of those coloured charts too - diary of a mad housewife!  I always 
planned to blow it up and make art - its quite graphic and pretty!  We could 
have an exhibition!  mine did help explain to the Child Health nurse that - yes 
my baby never slept for 45 mins at a time then and hour of crying...for 7 
months!  I am absolutely convinced now that im more informed that it was REFLUX 
even though every one said its over diagnosed and mythological at the time.  
Sitting up, eating solids, general maturation of the oesophageal sphincter all 
helped and proved retrospectively what the prob was.  If only some one had 
diagnosed it earlier and i had treated with homeopathics (and ive heard a great 
Bowen therapy technique helps too) I might have had a second baby after all !

  Love suzi
- Original Message - 
From: MHOOK 
To: ozmidwifery@acegraphics.com.au 
Sent: Saturday, February 03, 2007 1:28 PM
Subject: Re: [ozmidwifery] Reflux


I don't know about over-diagnosis- my second baby (now 17) had reflux and 
it made her first six months the worst of my life. I'd had a perfectly normal 
time with my first baby, he was unsettled like most and woke at night until 
over 12 months but I considered that that was normal and looked forward to my 
second child with pleasure and anticipation. 

It was a nightmare- not hte birth, that was fine, but from about 3 weeks of 
age she screamed constantly, vomitted even while attached to the breast, never 
slept for more than 10 minutes at a time day or night- no one

RE: [ozmidwifery] Reflux

2007-02-03 Thread A C Palmer
In my experience as Midwife/LC I have seen some great results from an Osteo
who practiced Cranio-Sacral Therapy (CST) on babies and children. I have
referred quite a few babies to her with great improvements in suck, overall
muscle tone and more settled babies. Only one baby did not return to
breastfeeding (was EBM fed by a very committed mother) and a few months
later was found to have a salivary gland cyst that required surgery. 

 

This Osteo felt that CST was extremely helpful in babies with reflux due to
the involvement of the vagal nerve in reflux. I have yet to twist my brain
around the science of it, but it works. Mothers who do go are usually at the
end of the road with ideas and when it helps, they are so pleased. 

 

I have an article written by an Aussie midwife that supports the use of CST.
When I eventually unpack the box (moved late Dec) that it is in, I'll have a
reference for it if anyone is interested.

 

Cath Palmer

 

-Original Message-
From: [EMAIL PROTECTED]
[mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On Behalf Of Michelle Windsor
Sent: Sunday, February 04, 2007 12:37 PM
To: ozmidwifery@acegraphics.com.au
Subject: Re: [ozmidwifery] Reflux

 

Hi All,

 

I'm not sure if this has come up on the list before but has anyone else
heard of success for reflux/colic from osteopaths?  When I was working in
Darwin there was an osteopath who had done further studies in treatment for
babies, and had had some good success according to the midwives and some of
the new mums.  Her theory was that the vagus nerve (controls vomiting etc)
could be affected during the birth and by some very gentle massage/treatment
of the back of the neck that it could be put right.  She said that generally
it took only 4 treatments and once put right should stay that way. It seems
to make sense when you think about the stress put on the neck during
instrumental and caesar births (or even normal births when someone
restitutes the head the wrong way and then pulls!)  Anyway, some of the mums
swear by it, they say they had babies that basically didn't sleep and after
the first treatment, slept 5 hours straight.

 

Cheers 

Michelle

- Original Message 
From: MHOOK [EMAIL PROTECTED]
To: ozmidwifery@acegraphics.com.au
Sent: Saturday, 3 February, 2007 12:28:39 PM
Subject: Re: [ozmidwifery] Reflux

I don't know about over-diagnosis- my second baby (now 17) had reflux and it
made her first six months the worst of my life. I'd had a perfectly normal
time with my first baby, he was unsettled like most and woke at night until
over 12 months but I considered that that was normal and looked forward to
my second child with pleasure and anticipation. 

 

It was a nightmare- not hte birth, that was fine, but from about 3 weeks of
age she screamed constantly, vomitted even while attached to the breast,
never slept for more than 10 minutes at a time day or night- no one
understood how terrible it was, she was obviously in pain, poor mite; my
toddler was seriously shortchanged because how can you leave a child who is
shrieking with pain to go and play with the other one. Just things like the
carpet (whole house was carpeted, even the kitchen) being simply filthy from
her constant vomiting, which was not projectile but which managed to defeat
the towels etc I had strategically placed. The crying got me down
dreadfully, this was nothing like I'd experienced with my first child. There
was just no way to soothe her. I still have a colour chart I filled out at
that time, showing her behaviour in ten minute slots over a week to show the
baby health sister- red for unsettled, blue for feeding, green for sleeping
etc. That sounds excessive but truly, I felt I needed evidence for people to
believe me; they said things like, Oh yes it's difficult with two, in a
patronising way as if it was just me not coping with an unsettled baby when
I knew it was more than that.

 

We tried all the normal things, positioning, Early childhood centre,
paediatrician, medication, nothing worked. Although she was fully breastfed
she had the most atrocious constipation, stools like pieces of chalk that
had to be drawn out when half expelled because she couldn't get it out.
Finally I went to a homeopathic dr and whatever he gave her (smelt like pure
alcohol but I was desperate enough to try anything!) fixed the pain
overnight. She still vomitted and still was very wakeful but without the
constant crying and pain behaviour it was so much easier to cope with. 

 

I'd been told it would probably get better when she was standing up and it
did, over about a week all the vomitting etc stopped and life became about a
thousand times easier. 

 

So I think that 'reflux' is very different from 'unsettled baby' but after
what I went through I'd be inclined to give any mother who said her baby had
reflux the benefit of the doubt, and the offer of a little help.

 

Monica

 

 

- Original Message - 

From: Helen and Graham mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED

Re: [ozmidwifery] Reflux

2007-02-02 Thread Pinky McKay
Helen - I tend to agree - I see many babies who have been 'diagnosed'with 
reflux - I heard a paed speak ( sorry cant remember his name) who said it was 
more to do with anxiety/ lack of attunement than a 'stomach' condition -I 
wouldnt blame parents though as anyone with an unsettled baby would be anxious/ 
vicious cycle. I have though seen babies settle miraculously' after a little 
work with parents - teaching baby massage is a very non-intrusive/ non 
blaming way to help parents become confident at attuning with baby non-verbal 
cues and thus responding appropriately; also if they do a few tangible things 
like positioning babies - ie head elevated - I show a lovely position with a 
pillow between parents bent legs( feet together, knees open, with pillow 
resting on parents feet), baby facing parent, so baby and parent make good eye 
contact - babies seem to stop grizzling straight away - and colic holds ; 
'colic' massage -I too am a bit sceptical about all the 'wind' that seems to be 
around; plus a few changes to mums diet ( wonder if some of this is allergies/ 
food sensitivity - mums tend to fill up on chocolate when they feel stressed 
with unsettled bubs) and within days babies are much better.

perhaps having a label takes away the blame aspect that parents are doing 
something wrong - I also see babies for whom meds make no difference - eg one 
this week diagnosed with 'reflux' -I suggested a really good paediatric chiro 
locally - bub had been breech ( vag birth) and turned out he had a shoulder  
dislocated - mum also eating loads of dairy. Bub was much calmer after his 
shoulder was fixed, relaxed and took a full massage that afternoon - the 
previous session he cried so much he couldnt be massaged at all.

I wonder if the 'overdiagnosis' of reflux is a treatment of symptoms not a look 
at what could be causing the crying and /or vomiting.

Pinky
  - Original Message - 
  From: Helen and Graham 
  To: ozmidwifery 
  Sent: Saturday, February 03, 2007 9:22 AM
  Subject: [ozmidwifery] Reflux


  Just found this article whilst surfing the net.  I feel anecdotally that both 
reflux and colic are overdiagnosed.  I am a midwife but not a MCH nurse.  If it 
is so common maybe it IS a normal variation..what do you think about it?  
It just seems to me that some people aren't happy until they have a label and a 
medicine to treat it with when they have an unsettled baby.  Maybe I am being 
too simplistic about this subject.  

  Interested in the thoughts of some of our online listers.

  Helen

  http://www.bubhub.com.au/newsletterdec0601.shtml

Reflux is so common it is almost seen as 'normal', or even trivial, and 
most people just don't understand how difficult life can be for many families, 
or understand the impact reflux can have on their lives! They may think of it 
erroneously as 'just a bit of vomiting', or 'just a behavioural issue'. They 
don't see how it impacts on the child's eating, sleeping, growth, behaviour or 
quality of life; or on the family's quality of life, relationships between 
partners, siblings or other children; finances; and even leisure time. The 
truth is, only families who have experienced it for themselves really 
understand.

Many families:


  a.. Have difficulty getting people to believe just how bad the 
vomiting and/or the screaming really are

  b.. receive conflicting and confusing advice

  c.. become socially isolated

  d.. feel like failures as parents

  e.. have family and friends who just didn't understand

 

  Even when a baby is suffering from relatively uncomplicated reflux, families 
often need reassurance, and enjoy talking to someone who understands. For the 
families whose infants suffer complications, it is even more important that 
they can talk to other parents, and have the support, reassurance and 
understanding they need to get through this stressful experience


Re: [ozmidwifery] Reflux

2007-02-02 Thread MHOOK
I don't know about over-diagnosis- my second baby (now 17) had reflux and it 
made her first six months the worst of my life. I'd had a perfectly normal time 
with my first baby, he was unsettled like most and woke at night until over 12 
months but I considered that that was normal and looked forward to my second 
child with pleasure and anticipation. 

It was a nightmare- not hte birth, that was fine, but from about 3 weeks of age 
she screamed constantly, vomitted even while attached to the breast, never 
slept for more than 10 minutes at a time day or night- no one understood how 
terrible it was, she was obviously in pain, poor mite; my toddler was seriously 
shortchanged because how can you leave a child who is shrieking with pain to go 
and play with the other one. Just things like the carpet (whole house was 
carpeted, even the kitchen) being simply filthy from her constant vomiting, 
which was not projectile but which managed to defeat the towels etc I had 
strategically placed. The crying got me down dreadfully, this was nothing like 
I'd experienced with my first child. There was just no way to soothe her. I 
still have a colour chart I filled out at that time, showing her behaviour in 
ten minute slots over a week to show the baby health sister- red for unsettled, 
blue for feeding, green for sleeping etc. That sounds excessive but truly, I 
felt I needed evidence for people to believe me; they said things like, Oh yes 
it's difficult with two, in a patronising way as if it was just me not coping 
with an unsettled baby when I knew it was more than that.

We tried all the normal things, positioning, Early childhood centre, 
paediatrician, medication, nothing worked. Although she was fully breastfed she 
had the most atrocious constipation, stools like pieces of chalk that had to be 
drawn out when half expelled because she couldn't get it out. Finally I went to 
a homeopathic dr and whatever he gave her (smelt like pure alcohol but I was 
desperate enough to try anything!) fixed the pain overnight. She still vomitted 
and still was very wakeful but without the constant crying and pain behaviour 
it was so much easier to cope with. 

I'd been told it would probably get better when she was standing up and it did, 
over about a week all the vomitting etc stopped and life became about a 
thousand times easier. 

So I think that 'reflux' is very different from 'unsettled baby' but after what 
I went through I'd be inclined to give any mother who said her baby had reflux 
the benefit of the doubt, and the offer of a little help.

Monica


- Original Message - 
  From: Helen and Graham 
  To: ozmidwifery 
  Sent: Saturday, February 03, 2007 9:22 AM
  Subject: [ozmidwifery] Reflux


  Just found this article whilst surfing the net.  I feel anecdotally that both 
reflux and colic are overdiagnosed.  I am a midwife but not a MCH nurse.  If it 
is so common maybe it IS a normal variation..what do you think about it?  
It just seems to me that some people aren't happy until they have a label and a 
medicine to treat it with when they have an unsettled baby.  Maybe I am being 
too simplistic about this subject.  

  Interested in the thoughts of some of our online listers.

  Helen

  http://www.bubhub.com.au/newsletterdec0601.shtml

Reflux is so common it is almost seen as 'normal', or even trivial, and 
most people just don't understand how difficult life can be for many families, 
or understand the impact reflux can have on their lives! They may think of it 
erroneously as 'just a bit of vomiting', or 'just a behavioural issue'. They 
don't see how it impacts on the child's eating, sleeping, growth, behaviour or 
quality of life; or on the family's quality of life, relationships between 
partners, siblings or other children; finances; and even leisure time. The 
truth is, only families who have experienced it for themselves really 
understand.

Many families:


  a.. Have difficulty getting people to believe just how bad the 
vomiting and/or the screaming really are

  b.. receive conflicting and confusing advice

  c.. become socially isolated

  d.. feel like failures as parents

  e.. have family and friends who just didn't understand

 

  Even when a baby is suffering from relatively uncomplicated reflux, families 
often need reassurance, and enjoy talking to someone who understands. For the 
families whose infants suffer complications, it is even more important that 
they can talk to other parents, and have the support, reassurance and 
understanding they need to get through this stressful experience


Re: [ozmidwifery] Reflux

2007-02-02 Thread meg
Pinky,
Firstly, let me say Pinky, that I have the greatest respect for you and your 
beliefs, but let me admit straight up that I am very sceptical of 
chiropracters, particularly those who are happy to manipulate babies. So I must 
ask, did this baby have any symptoms of a dislocated shoulder? Was it favouring 
the other arm or not moving it at all? Was it lengthened, disproportionate to 
the body or other arm, or was there an abnormality in the appearance of the 
shoulder. I have never seen a baby with a dislocated shoulder, broken clavicle 
and erbs palsy yes, but no dislocation. I have seen adults with dislocations 
and they are rather easy to spot and can be fun to replace! I would have been 
surprised that a breech birth would be associated with a dislocated shoulder. 
There is a correlation between breech birth and congenital dislocation of the 
hip, particularly in girls. I am unsure how the mechanisms of breech birth 
(Hands off the breech) would cause such an injury. Perhaps you can offer me 
some insight into this case?

Thankfully,
Megan
  - Original Message - 
  From: Pinky McKay 
  To: ozmidwifery@acegraphics.com.au 
  Sent: Saturday, February 03, 2007 10:35 AM
  Subject: Re: [ozmidwifery] Reflux


  Helen - I tend to agree - I see many babies who have been 'diagnosed'with 
reflux - I heard a paed speak ( sorry cant remember his name) who said it was 
more to do with anxiety/ lack of attunement than a 'stomach' condition -I 
wouldnt blame parents though as anyone with an unsettled baby would be anxious/ 
vicious cycle. I have though seen babies settle miraculously' after a little 
work with parents - teaching baby massage is a very non-intrusive/ non 
blaming way to help parents become confident at attuning with baby non-verbal 
cues and thus responding appropriately; also if they do a few tangible things 
like positioning babies - ie head elevated - I show a lovely position with a 
pillow between parents bent legs( feet together, knees open, with pillow 
resting on parents feet), baby facing parent, so baby and parent make good eye 
contact - babies seem to stop grizzling straight away - and colic holds ; 
'colic' massage -I too am a bit sceptical about all the 'wind' that seems to be 
around; plus a few changes to mums diet ( wonder if some of this is allergies/ 
food sensitivity - mums tend to fill up on chocolate when they feel stressed 
with unsettled bubs) and within days babies are much better.

  perhaps having a label takes away the blame aspect that parents are doing 
something wrong - I also see babies for whom meds make no difference - eg one 
this week diagnosed with 'reflux' -I suggested a really good paediatric chiro 
locally - bub had been breech ( vag birth) and turned out he had a shoulder  
dislocated - mum also eating loads of dairy. Bub was much calmer after his 
shoulder was fixed, relaxed and took a full massage that afternoon - the 
previous session he cried so much he couldnt be massaged at all.

  I wonder if the 'overdiagnosis' of reflux is a treatment of symptoms not a 
look at what could be causing the crying and /or vomiting.

  Pinky
- Original Message - 
From: Helen and Graham 
To: ozmidwifery 
Sent: Saturday, February 03, 2007 9:22 AM
Subject: [ozmidwifery] Reflux


Just found this article whilst surfing the net.  I feel anecdotally that 
both reflux and colic are overdiagnosed.  I am a midwife but not a MCH nurse.  
If it is so common maybe it IS a normal variation..what do you think about 
it?  It just seems to me that some people aren't happy until they have a label 
and a medicine to treat it with when they have an unsettled baby.  Maybe I am 
being too simplistic about this subject.  

Interested in the thoughts of some of our online listers.

Helen

http://www.bubhub.com.au/newsletterdec0601.shtml

  Reflux is so common it is almost seen as 'normal', or even trivial, 
and most people just don't understand how difficult life can be for many 
families, or understand the impact reflux can have on their lives! They may 
think of it erroneously as 'just a bit of vomiting', or 'just a behavioural 
issue'. They don't see how it impacts on the child's eating, sleeping, growth, 
behaviour or quality of life; or on the family's quality of life, relationships 
between partners, siblings or other children; finances; and even leisure time. 
The truth is, only families who have experienced it for themselves really 
understand.

  Many families:


a.. Have difficulty getting people to believe just how bad the 
vomiting and/or the screaming really are

b.. receive conflicting and confusing advice

c.. become socially isolated

d.. feel like failures as parents

e.. have family and friends who just didn't understand

   

Even when a baby is suffering from relatively uncomplicated reflux, 
families often need reassurance