Re: Did you hear the one about Bob Shell?

2003-06-16 Thread Anthony Farr
Here's a hypothetical question.  Definitely hypothetical, my wife's not that
kind of girl.

Presuming that a person took pornographic photos (not of anything illegal,
of course), but never intended to distribute them and always meant to keep
them private, is that illegal or immoral?  That is, if it's legal to perform
certain acts, and thus see them as a participant,  is it nevertheless an
offence to photograph those acts even for strictly private viewing?

I'm not making presumptions about Bob Shell, it just happens to remind me of
a  circumstance in Australia about 30 years ago, where a celebrity ran foul
of the law because he had a private collection of intimate photographs of
himself and his wife.

regards,
Anthony Farr

- Original Message - 
From: Peter Alling [EMAIL PROTECTED]


(snip)
 There is another possibility, if as Greywolf says Shell was producing
 pornography, real
 or imagined the local prosecutor may be out to make Roanoke safe for God
 Fearing people.


(earlier message snipped)



Re: Did you hear the one about Bob Shell?

2003-06-16 Thread Peter Alling
The State cannot legislate morality no matter how it hard they 
try.  Pornography
is more in the eye of the beholder than anything.  The question of legality, no
matter what the justification depends on the jurisdiction.

At 08:40 PM 6/16/03 +1000, you wrote:
Here's a hypothetical question.  Definitely hypothetical, my wife's not that
kind of girl.
Presuming that a person took pornographic photos (not of anything illegal,
of course), but never intended to distribute them and always meant to keep
them private, is that illegal or immoral?  That is, if it's legal to perform
certain acts, and thus see them as a participant,  is it nevertheless an
offence to photograph those acts even for strictly private viewing?
I'm not making presumptions about Bob Shell, it just happens to remind me of
a  circumstance in Australia about 30 years ago, where a celebrity ran foul
of the law because he had a private collection of intimate photographs of
himself and his wife.
regards,
Anthony Farr
- Original Message -
From: Peter Alling [EMAIL PROTECTED]
(snip)
 There is another possibility, if as Greywolf says Shell was producing
 pornography, real
 or imagined the local prosecutor may be out to make Roanoke safe for God
 Fearing people.


(earlier message snipped)
To grasp the true meaning of socialism, imagine a world where everything is 
designed by
the post office, even the sleaze.
O'Rourke, P.J.



Re: Did you hear the one about Bob Shell?

2003-06-15 Thread Steve Desjardins
In VA, if you have sex with a person who is sufficiently incapacitated
that is considered rape.  We warn male students about this all the time.
 If you are at a party and a women is really drunk, then don't have sex
with her even if she appears to be willing.   If a court/jury decides
that you took advantage of a sufficiently impaired state, then legally
it's rape.  I'm not making a moral point here, just a practical one. 
The difficulty is always that the guy is also usually drunk, but if a
male can perform then it's difficult legally to demonstrate
impairment.

I know I may sound a little cold-hearted about this, but I'm usually
trying to protect young people from making stupid mistakes and sometimes
you have to scare the hell out of them.  I don't really know enough
about the Shell case to make any specific comment.  


Steven Desjardins
Department of Chemistry
Washington and Lee University
Lexington, VA 24450
(540) 458-8873
FAX: (540) 458-8878
[EMAIL PROTECTED]



Re: Did you hear the one about Bob Shell?

2003-06-15 Thread Peter Alling
I doubt that it is as simple as all that.  Roanoke is still a small town. 
You're dealing
with a local paper, not the New York Post or Daily News, it is most likely 
they toned down
their report rather than playing up the more sensational aspects of the 
case to spare the
local populaces's sensibilities.  In which case you have to read between 
the lines it seems
to me they were hinting that local police were able to piece together a 
very bizarre scene.
There is another possibility, if as Greywolf says Shell was producing 
pornography, real
or imagined the local prosecutor may be out to make Roanoke safe for God 
Fearing people.

At 05:25 PM 6/14/03 -0400, you wrote:
Treena wrote:
Whether she consented or not, I suspect he will still be charged with
negligent homicide or manslaughter. I doubt he intended to kill her, but
he'll have a difficult time proving he didn't help her get there.
Weird laws. So if X gets a girl in his house, takes her photos, then they 
have sex, then the girl takes Valium, goes to bed and dies in sleep, X is 
a criminal ?

A strong reason for me to keep photographing flowers ;-)

cheers,
caveman
To grasp the true meaning of socialism, imagine a world where everything is 
designed by
the post office, even the sleaze.
O'Rourke, P.J.



Re: Did you hear the one about Bob Shell?

2003-06-15 Thread Bruce Rubenstein
Shell's wife had enough of the whole thing: 
http://www.roanoke.com/roatimes/news/story150953.html

BR





Re: Did you hear the one about Bob Shell?

2003-06-15 Thread Treena
Oh, I very much doubt that. You'd be surprised at what goes on regularly in
small towns, and what the cops find on a regular basis. A LARGE portion of
the weirdness in this country is in its small towns, and if I were to
describe to you some of the stuff that has gone on in our little town of
2,500 over just the last three or four years, you probably wouldn't believe
half of it. I'm sure the locals have known all about him and his exploits
over the years - more than even he suspects. There's no hiding anything in a
small town. But, you're probably right about the coverage - they're probably
sticking very closely to just the known facts. One wrong move in a story
right now, and it's a huge potential lawsuit waiting to happen.

- Original Message - 
From: Peter Alling [EMAIL PROTECTED]
To: [EMAIL PROTECTED]
Sent: Sunday, June 15, 2003 5:06 PM
Subject: Re: Did you hear the one about Bob Shell?


 I doubt that it is as simple as all that.  Roanoke is still a small town.
 You're dealing
 with a local paper, not the New York Post or Daily News, it is most likely
 they toned down
 their report rather than playing up the more sensational aspects of the
 case to spare the
 local populaces's sensibilities.  In which case you have to read between
 the lines it seems
 to me they were hinting that local police were able to piece together a
 very bizarre scene.
 There is another possibility, if as Greywolf says Shell was producing
 pornography, real
 or imagined the local prosecutor may be out to make Roanoke safe for God
 Fearing people.



Re: Did you hear the one about Bob Shell?

2003-06-15 Thread Peter Alling
I live in a small town too, and I understand the weirdness that can lie 
below the surface.
I was only commenting on small town newspapers, (who in my experience gloss 
over such
things), and politics, (I believe that district attorneys are elected in 
Virginia which
makes a very political office even more so).

At 05:43 PM 6/15/03 -0500, you wrote:
Oh, I very much doubt that. You'd be surprised at what goes on regularly in
small towns, and what the cops find on a regular basis. A LARGE portion of
the weirdness in this country is in its small towns, and if I were to
describe to you some of the stuff that has gone on in our little town of
2,500 over just the last three or four years, you probably wouldn't believe
half of it. I'm sure the locals have known all about him and his exploits
over the years - more than even he suspects. There's no hiding anything in a
small town. But, you're probably right about the coverage - they're probably
sticking very closely to just the known facts. One wrong move in a story
right now, and it's a huge potential lawsuit waiting to happen.
- Original Message -
From: Peter Alling [EMAIL PROTECTED]
To: [EMAIL PROTECTED]
Sent: Sunday, June 15, 2003 5:06 PM
Subject: Re: Did you hear the one about Bob Shell?
 I doubt that it is as simple as all that.  Roanoke is still a small town.
 You're dealing
 with a local paper, not the New York Post or Daily News, it is most likely
 they toned down
 their report rather than playing up the more sensational aspects of the
 case to spare the
 local populaces's sensibilities.  In which case you have to read between
 the lines it seems
 to me they were hinting that local police were able to piece together a
 very bizarre scene.
 There is another possibility, if as Greywolf says Shell was producing
 pornography, real
 or imagined the local prosecutor may be out to make Roanoke safe for God
 Fearing people.
To grasp the true meaning of socialism, imagine a world where everything is 
designed by
the post office, even the sleaze.
O'Rourke, P.J.



Re: Did you hear the one about Bob Shell?

2003-06-15 Thread Bill Owens
As someone who grew up in Roanoke and still visits quite often...

It's not what you would normally picture as a small town.  The city of
Roanoke has a population of ~90,000 and the metropolitan area brings it well
over 100,000.  Since Radford University and Virginia Tech are the largest
universities in the area, they get considerable play in the Roanoke
Times/World News.  However, like most newspapers, they will sensationalize
news items if it will benefit circulation.

Bill

- Original Message - 
From: Treena [EMAIL PROTECTED]
To: [EMAIL PROTECTED]
Sent: Sunday, June 15, 2003 6:43 PM
Subject: Re: Did you hear the one about Bob Shell?


 Oh, I very much doubt that. You'd be surprised at what goes on regularly
in
 small towns, and what the cops find on a regular basis. A LARGE portion of
 the weirdness in this country is in its small towns, and if I were to
 describe to you some of the stuff that has gone on in our little town of
 2,500 over just the last three or four years, you probably wouldn't
believe
 half of it. I'm sure the locals have known all about him and his exploits
 over the years - more than even he suspects. There's no hiding anything in
a
 small town. But, you're probably right about the coverage - they're
probably
 sticking very closely to just the known facts. One wrong move in a story
 right now, and it's a huge potential lawsuit waiting to happen.

 - Original Message - 
 From: Peter Alling [EMAIL PROTECTED]
 To: [EMAIL PROTECTED]
 Sent: Sunday, June 15, 2003 5:06 PM
 Subject: Re: Did you hear the one about Bob Shell?


  I doubt that it is as simple as all that.  Roanoke is still a small
town.
  You're dealing
  with a local paper, not the New York Post or Daily News, it is most
likely
  they toned down
  their report rather than playing up the more sensational aspects of the
  case to spare the
  local populaces's sensibilities.  In which case you have to read between

  the lines it seems
  to me they were hinting that local police were able to piece together a
  very bizarre scene.
  There is another possibility, if as Greywolf says Shell was producing
  pornography, real
  or imagined the local prosecutor may be out to make Roanoke safe for
God
  Fearing people.






RE: Did you hear the one about Bob Shell?

2003-06-15 Thread Shaun Canning
Shit, you guys think 90,000 is a small town. I live in a town of 2,500
and think it's big enough (admittedly Melbourne is only 60 kilometres
away and has 3~4 million). The best part about my town is that nothing
ever happens, and I mean nothing

Cheers

Shaun Canning
Cultural Heritage Services
High Street, Broadford, 
Vic, 3658
Mob: 0414-967 644
e-mail: [EMAIL PROTECTED]
www.heritageservices.com.au


-Original Message-
From: Bill Owens [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] 
Sent: Monday, 16 June 2003 9:05 AM
To: [EMAIL PROTECTED]
Subject: Re: Did you hear the one about Bob Shell?

As someone who grew up in Roanoke and still visits quite often...

It's not what you would normally picture as a small town.  The city of
Roanoke has a population of ~90,000 and the metropolitan area brings it
well
over 100,000.  Since Radford University and Virginia Tech are the
largest
universities in the area, they get considerable play in the Roanoke
Times/World News.  However, like most newspapers, they will
sensationalize
news items if it will benefit circulation.

Bill

- Original Message - 
From: Treena [EMAIL PROTECTED]
To: [EMAIL PROTECTED]
Sent: Sunday, June 15, 2003 6:43 PM
Subject: Re: Did you hear the one about Bob Shell?


 Oh, I very much doubt that. You'd be surprised at what goes on
regularly
in
 small towns, and what the cops find on a regular basis. A LARGE
portion of
 the weirdness in this country is in its small towns, and if I were to
 describe to you some of the stuff that has gone on in our little town
of
 2,500 over just the last three or four years, you probably wouldn't
believe
 half of it. I'm sure the locals have known all about him and his
exploits
 over the years - more than even he suspects. There's no hiding
anything in
a
 small town. But, you're probably right about the coverage - they're
probably
 sticking very closely to just the known facts. One wrong move in a
story
 right now, and it's a huge potential lawsuit waiting to happen.

 - Original Message - 
 From: Peter Alling [EMAIL PROTECTED]
 To: [EMAIL PROTECTED]
 Sent: Sunday, June 15, 2003 5:06 PM
 Subject: Re: Did you hear the one about Bob Shell?


  I doubt that it is as simple as all that.  Roanoke is still a small
town.
  You're dealing
  with a local paper, not the New York Post or Daily News, it is most
likely
  they toned down
  their report rather than playing up the more sensational aspects of
the
  case to spare the
  local populaces's sensibilities.  In which case you have to read
between

  the lines it seems
  to me they were hinting that local police were able to piece
together a
  very bizarre scene.
  There is another possibility, if as Greywolf says Shell was
producing
  pornography, real
  or imagined the local prosecutor may be out to make Roanoke safe
for
God
  Fearing people.





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RE: Did you hear the one about Bob Shell?

2003-06-15 Thread Peter Alling
Well, more properly the town I live in used to be a small town, about 20
years ago we had a year round population of about 3000, now it's about 20,000.
It's still got a small town mentality.
At 09:30 AM 6/16/03 +1000, you wrote:
Shit, you guys think 90,000 is a small town. I live in a town of 2,500
and think it's big enough (admittedly Melbourne is only 60 kilometres
away and has 3~4 million). The best part about my town is that nothing
ever happens, and I mean nothing
Cheers

Shaun Canning
Cultural Heritage Services
High Street, Broadford,
Vic, 3658
Mob: 0414-967 644
e-mail: [EMAIL PROTECTED]
www.heritageservices.com.au
-Original Message-
From: Bill Owens [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]
Sent: Monday, 16 June 2003 9:05 AM
To: [EMAIL PROTECTED]
Subject: Re: Did you hear the one about Bob Shell?
As someone who grew up in Roanoke and still visits quite often...

It's not what you would normally picture as a small town.  The city of
Roanoke has a population of ~90,000 and the metropolitan area brings it
well
over 100,000.  Since Radford University and Virginia Tech are the
largest
universities in the area, they get considerable play in the Roanoke
Times/World News.  However, like most newspapers, they will
sensationalize
news items if it will benefit circulation.
Bill

- Original Message -
From: Treena [EMAIL PROTECTED]
To: [EMAIL PROTECTED]
Sent: Sunday, June 15, 2003 6:43 PM
Subject: Re: Did you hear the one about Bob Shell?
 Oh, I very much doubt that. You'd be surprised at what goes on
regularly
in
 small towns, and what the cops find on a regular basis. A LARGE
portion of
 the weirdness in this country is in its small towns, and if I were to
 describe to you some of the stuff that has gone on in our little town
of
 2,500 over just the last three or four years, you probably wouldn't
believe
 half of it. I'm sure the locals have known all about him and his
exploits
 over the years - more than even he suspects. There's no hiding
anything in
a
 small town. But, you're probably right about the coverage - they're
probably
 sticking very closely to just the known facts. One wrong move in a
story
 right now, and it's a huge potential lawsuit waiting to happen.

 - Original Message -
 From: Peter Alling [EMAIL PROTECTED]
 To: [EMAIL PROTECTED]
 Sent: Sunday, June 15, 2003 5:06 PM
 Subject: Re: Did you hear the one about Bob Shell?


  I doubt that it is as simple as all that.  Roanoke is still a small
town.
  You're dealing
  with a local paper, not the New York Post or Daily News, it is most
likely
  they toned down
  their report rather than playing up the more sensational aspects of
the
  case to spare the
  local populaces's sensibilities.  In which case you have to read
between
  the lines it seems
  to me they were hinting that local police were able to piece
together a
  very bizarre scene.
  There is another possibility, if as Greywolf says Shell was
producing
  pornography, real
  or imagined the local prosecutor may be out to make Roanoke safe
for
God
  Fearing people.




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Re: Did you hear the one about Bob Shell?

2003-06-15 Thread Leonard Paris
This reminds me of a story I heard recently.  It goes like this:

A girl goes to the police station and reports that she was raped.  The desk 
sergeant asks when it happened.  She says, Two weeks ago.  The desk 
sergeant asks, When did you realize that you had been violated?  She says, 
When the check bounced.

It seems a bit outrageous but, in some places, consensual sex can turn into 
rape if the woman (not the man) decides she didn't want to do it, even days 
after she consented.  Bob Shell should not have to prove that he didn't 
help her get there.  The state needs to prove that he did, beyond the 
shadow of doubt.

Len
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To: [EMAIL PROTECTED]
Subject: Re: Did you hear the one about Bob Shell?
Date: Sat, 14 Jun 2003 17:25:01 -0400
Weird laws. So if X gets a girl in his house, takes her photos, then they 
have sex, then the girl takes Valium, goes to bed and dies in sleep, X is a 
criminal ?

A strong reason for me to keep photographing flowers ;-)

cheers,
caveman
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Re: Did you hear the one about Bob Shell?

2003-06-15 Thread Bill Owens

My Dad always said Roanoke was too big to be a small town and too small to
be a big town.

Bill

 Well, more properly the town I live in used to be a small town, about 20
 years ago we had a year round population of about 3000, now it's about
20,000.
 It's still got a small town mentality.

 At 09:30 AM 6/16/03 +1000, you wrote:
 Shit, you guys think 90,000 is a small town. I live in a town of 2,500
 and think it's big enough (admittedly Melbourne is only 60 kilometres
 away and has 3~4 million). The best part about my town is that nothing
 ever happens, and I mean nothing
 
 Cheers
 
 Shaun Canning
 Cultural Heritage Services
 High Street, Broadford,
 Vic, 3658
 Mob: 0414-967 644
 e-mail: [EMAIL PROTECTED]
 www.heritageservices.com.au




Re: Did you hear the one about Bob Shell?

2003-06-15 Thread Brendan
 And to think people have been comparing me to Bob
shell, K

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Re: Did you hear the one about Bob Shell?

2003-06-15 Thread frank theriault
Well, Leonard,

You've hit the nail on the head.  He's innocent until proven guilty.  And the
State has to prove it's case against him beyond a reasonable doubt (not beyond
a shadow of a doubt - commone mistake g).  Hard to know what the guy did or
didn't do, or what the girl did or didn't agree to, from a brief newspaper
story.

As for the issue of the woman's consent, I actually carry around consent forms
with me, so that I can get any partner to sign a written consent ahead of time,
just in the case of such little problems.  Been carrying them around for about 5
years now.  Haven't had the opportunity to use one yet...   vbg

ciao,
frank

Leonard Paris wrote:

 This reminds me of a story I heard recently.  It goes like this:

 A girl goes to the police station and reports that she was raped.  The desk
 sergeant asks when it happened.  She says, Two weeks ago.  The desk
 sergeant asks, When did you realize that you had been violated?  She says,
 When the check bounced.

 It seems a bit outrageous but, in some places, consensual sex can turn into
 rape if the woman (not the man) decides she didn't want to do it, even days
 after she consented.  Bob Shell should not have to prove that he didn't
 help her get there.  The state needs to prove that he did, beyond the
 shadow of doubt.

 Len
 ---


--
What a senseless waste of human life
-The Customer in Monty Python's Cheese Shop sketch




Re: Did you hear the one about Bob Shell?

2003-06-15 Thread frank theriault
Biting my tongue, biting my tongue, biting my tongue...

vbg

-frank

Brendan wrote:

  And to think people have been comparing me to Bob
 shell, K

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Re: Did you hear the one about Bob Shell?

2003-06-15 Thread Brendan
Fank be nice :D

 --- frank theriault [EMAIL PROTECTED]
wrote:  Biting my tongue, biting my tongue, biting my
 tongue...
 
 vbg
 
 -frank
 
 Brendan wrote:
 
   And to think people have been comparing me to Bob
  shell, K
 
 

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Re: Did you hear the one about Bob Shell?

2003-06-15 Thread Caveman
Naah, listen to good old Caveman: you have to get married first. This is 
the only true way to get a divorce. (And that's why wimin are so 
insistent about it.)

Then get a studio and do nudes. Lots of them, including fetish, bondage 
and the whole dark side. Get published. From this moment wife will be 
able to get a divorce any time she wants.

Then spend the rest of your life working sweating hard to pay her all 
the fancy dresses, shoes, jewelry, new cars and everything, so you can 
delay the divorce.

cheers,
caveman
Brendan wrote:
 And to think people have been comparing me to Bob
shell, K
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Re: Did you hear the one about Bob Shell?

2003-06-15 Thread frank theriault
So that's why you work in an underground bunker, completely impervious to
nuclear (or as GW would say, nuk-u-lar) attack?  So your signifcant other
won't know what evil lurks in your mind?  vbg

cheers,
frank

Caveman wrote:

 Naah, listen to good old Caveman: you have to get married first. This is
 the only true way to get a divorce. (And that's why wimin are so
 insistent about it.)

 Then get a studio and do nudes. Lots of them, including fetish, bondage
 and the whole dark side. Get published. From this moment wife will be
 able to get a divorce any time she wants.

 Then spend the rest of your life working sweating hard to pay her all
 the fancy dresses, shoes, jewelry, new cars and everything, so you can
 delay the divorce.

 cheers,
 caveman

 Brendan wrote:
   And to think people have been comparing me to Bob
  shell, K
 
  __
  Post your free ad now! http://personals.yahoo.ca
 
 

--
What a senseless waste of human life
-The Customer in Monty Python's Cheese Shop sketch




Re: Did you hear the one about Bob Shell?

2003-06-15 Thread Peter Alling
The circumstances of her death will weigh heavily against him.  Remember 
there is
a death involved here.  There is no question of the girl agreeing or not, she's
dead that is not an option of consent, not in any jurisdiction I'm aware of.

At 08:40 PM 6/15/03 -0400, you wrote:
Well, Leonard,

You've hit the nail on the head.  He's innocent until proven guilty.  And the
State has to prove it's case against him beyond a reasonable doubt (not 
beyond
a shadow of a doubt - commone mistake g).  Hard to know what the guy did or
didn't do, or what the girl did or didn't agree to, from a brief newspaper
story.

As for the issue of the woman's consent, I actually carry around consent 
forms
with me, so that I can get any partner to sign a written consent ahead of 
time,
just in the case of such little problems.  Been carrying them around for 
about 5
years now.  Haven't had the opportunity to use one yet...   vbg

ciao,
frank
Leonard Paris wrote:

 This reminds me of a story I heard recently.  It goes like this:

 A girl goes to the police station and reports that she was raped.  The desk
 sergeant asks when it happened.  She says, Two weeks ago.  The desk
 sergeant asks, When did you realize that you had been violated?  She says,
 When the check bounced.

 It seems a bit outrageous but, in some places, consensual sex can turn into
 rape if the woman (not the man) decides she didn't want to do it, even days
 after she consented.  Bob Shell should not have to prove that he didn't
 help her get there.  The state needs to prove that he did, beyond the
 shadow of doubt.

 Len
 ---

--
What a senseless waste of human life
-The Customer in Monty Python's Cheese Shop sketch
To grasp the true meaning of socialism, imagine a world where everything is 
designed by
the post office, even the sleaze.
O'Rourke, P.J.



Re: Did you hear the one about Bob Shell?

2003-06-15 Thread Caveman
frank theriault wrote:
Hard to know what the guy did or
didn't do, or what the girl did or didn't agree to, 
Strange: a tape recorded with a porn movie constitues evidence 
(pornography found on premises), while one with a record of what 
actually happened in the room can't be used as evidence in court.

As for the issue of the woman's consent, I actually carry around consent forms
with me, so that I can get any partner to sign a written consent ahead of time,
just in the case of such little problems.  Been carrying them around for about 5
years now.  Haven't had the opportunity to use one yet...   vbg
Don't bother. Just ask for a receipt or pay by INTERAC.

cheers,
caveman ;-)


Re: Did you hear the one about Bob Shell?

2003-06-15 Thread frank theriault
That was clearly an improper instruction, and if appealed, would likely have
resulted in a new trial.  The fact that the Crown didn't appeal just says
that they didn't give a s**t either...

-frank

William Robb wrote:

 We had a case here a few years back where a couple of rich white kids
 whacked an Aboriginal hooker for fun.
 At the trial, the jury was instructed by the judge to take into account
 that the girl was a prostitute, and had agreed to engage in activities
 with the two morons before deciding if they were guilty of murder or
 manslaughter.
 They were found guilty of manslaughter, and both were back on the street
 in less than five years.

 William Robb

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What a senseless waste of human life
-The Customer in Monty Python's Cheese Shop sketch




Re: Did you hear the one about Bob Shell?

2003-06-15 Thread Caveman
frank theriault wrote:
I didn't mix sex into it at all, the police did.  AFAIK, he hasn't been charged with
murder yet, only with sodomy (which shouldn't be a criminal charge, imho), and with
sexual penetration with an object (which shouldn't be a criminal charge, either).
Huh. So using a suppository might be considered a criminal offence ? 
Sodomy through sexual penetration with an object ? How do the 
proctologists get away with their stuff ? Frank, are these laws also 
valid in Canada or are they US only ?

I was using the word sordid tongue-in-cheek.
I feel relieved. For a moment I suspected you of being the grumpy old 
man type ;-)

BTW, I don't even know that drug overdose is being touted as the cause of death.  All
I've read is that we have a dead girl, who had drugs in her system, the police have found
drug paraphenalia at his place (they didn't even say if it was his), and they found
pornography at his place. 
I did a quick mental sanity check. If police comes now into my cave, 
they can find all of the above, except a dead body. Aspirin is a drug 
and can also kill if you take too many pills, some jpegs on the hard 
drive and you're all set up. Nice job.

cheers,
caveman


Re: Did you hear the one about Bob Shell?

2003-06-15 Thread frank theriault
Who the hell am I kidding?  Any reference to my sex life must be presented in the past
tense.  vbg

-frank

I rather optimistically wrote:

 snipNo one here knows anything about my
 sexual preferences (and it's gonna stay that way!)snip

--
What a senseless waste of human life
-The Customer in Monty Python's Cheese Shop sketch




Re: Did you hear the one about Bob Shell?

2003-06-15 Thread Peter Alling
I wouldn't say this can't happen here but it shouldn't.

At 08:03 PM 6/15/03 -0600, you wrote:

- Original Message -
From: Peter Alling
Subject: Re: Did you hear the one about Bob Shell?
 The circumstances of her death will weigh heavily against him.
Remember
 there is
 a death involved here.  There is no question of the girl agreeing or
not, she's
 dead that is not an option of consent, not in any jurisdiction I'm
aware of.
We had a case here a few years back where a couple of rich white kids
whacked an Aboriginal hooker for fun.
At the trial, the jury was instructed by the judge to take into account
that the girl was a prostitute, and had agreed to engage in activities
with the two morons before deciding if they were guilty of murder or
manslaughter.
They were found guilty of manslaughter, and both were back on the street
in less than five years.
William Robb
To grasp the true meaning of socialism, imagine a world where everything is 
designed by
the post office, even the sleaze.
O'Rourke, P.J.



Re: Did you hear the one about Bob Shell?

2003-06-15 Thread Peter Alling
I think they'd need a bit more than you've described unless the subjects in 
the jpegs can be
construed as being under age.  You might be in trouble then US or Canada.

At 10:19 PM 6/15/03 -0400, you wrote:
frank theriault wrote:
I didn't mix sex into it at all, the police did.  AFAIK, he hasn't been 
charged with
murder yet, only with sodomy (which shouldn't be a criminal charge, 
imho), and with
sexual penetration with an object (which shouldn't be a criminal 
charge, either).
Huh. So using a suppository might be considered a criminal offence ? 
Sodomy through sexual penetration with an object ? How do the 
proctologists get away with their stuff ? Frank, are these laws also valid 
in Canada or are they US only ?

I was using the word sordid tongue-in-cheek.
I feel relieved. For a moment I suspected you of being the grumpy old 
man type ;-)

BTW, I don't even know that drug overdose is being touted as the cause of 
death.  All
I've read is that we have a dead girl, who had drugs in her system, the 
police have found
drug paraphenalia at his place (they didn't even say if it was his), and 
they found
pornography at his place.
I did a quick mental sanity check. If police comes now into my cave, they 
can find all of the above, except a dead body. Aspirin is a drug and can 
also kill if you take too many pills, some jpegs on the hard drive and 
you're all set up. Nice job.

cheers,
caveman
To grasp the true meaning of socialism, imagine a world where everything is 
designed by
the post office, even the sleaze.
O'Rourke, P.J.



Re: Did you hear the one about Bob Shell?

2003-06-15 Thread Brendan
 --- Caveman [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:  So it can
be used as evidence, but only if it's
 against you. Sounds fair 
 to me. ;-)
 

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Re: Did you hear the one about Bob Shell?

2003-06-15 Thread Caveman
I'm not that cave, I don't even remotely think of messing with such 
things. I was speaking of rather tame things like a playboy centerfold 
or some nude pics from usefilm, photosig, photonet. It's so easy to 
label them as porn. It takes only one grouchy old lady and whoaaa 
you're a pervert.

cheers,
caveman
Peter Alling wrote:
I think they'd need a bit more than you've described unless the subjects 
in the jpegs can be
construed as being under age.  You might be in trouble then US or Canada.



Re: Did you hear the one about Bob Shell?

2003-06-15 Thread Treena
What the police will really be looking at in their investigation is which of
the circumstances, or combination of circumstances led to her death. A key
issue will be whether he noticed she was in physical distress and tried to
do anything about it, time of death vs time the authorities were notified
she was deceased. It is entirely possible he could walk out of this with a
few minor drug and paraphernalia charges. It looks bad for him now, but it's
usually the policy of law enforcment agencies to investigate all unattended
deaths or deaths under unusual circumstances as homicides. Doesn't
necessarily mean it is.

- Original Message - 
From: Caveman [EMAIL PROTECTED]
To: [EMAIL PROTECTED]
Sent: Sunday, June 15, 2003 9:19 PM
Subject: Re: Did you hear the one about Bob Shell?


 frank theriault wrote:
  I didn't mix sex into it at all, the police did.  AFAIK, he hasn't been
charged with
  murder yet, only with sodomy (which shouldn't be a criminal charge,
imho), and with
  sexual penetration with an object (which shouldn't be a criminal
charge, either).

 Huh. So using a suppository might be considered a criminal offence ?
 Sodomy through sexual penetration with an object ? How do the
 proctologists get away with their stuff ? Frank, are these laws also
 valid in Canada or are they US only ?

  I was using the word sordid tongue-in-cheek.

 I feel relieved. For a moment I suspected you of being the grumpy old
 man type ;-)

  BTW, I don't even know that drug overdose is being touted as the cause
of death.  All
  I've read is that we have a dead girl, who had drugs in her system, the
police have found
  drug paraphenalia at his place (they didn't even say if it was his), and
they found
  pornography at his place.

 I did a quick mental sanity check. If police comes now into my cave,
 they can find all of the above, except a dead body. Aspirin is a drug
 and can also kill if you take too many pills, some jpegs on the hard
 drive and you're all set up. Nice job.

 cheers,
 caveman




Re: Did you hear the one about Bob Shell?

2003-06-15 Thread Ann Sanfedele
Caveman wrote:

 frank theriault wrote:
 (snip,snip)

  I was using the word sordid tongue-in-cheek.

 I feel relieved. For a moment I suspected you of being the grumpy old
 man type ;-)


Not what leaps to mind when the phrase tongue-in-cheek comes up in the middle
of this discussion g

annsan



RE: Did you hear the one about Bob Shell?

2003-06-15 Thread Shaun Canning
I wonder if that was the 'object'

Cheers

Shaun Canning
Cultural Heritage Services
High Street, Broadford, 
Vic, 3658
Mob: 0414-967 644
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-Original Message-
From: Ann Sanfedele [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] 
Sent: Sunday, 15 June 2003 2:21 PM
To: [EMAIL PROTECTED]
Subject: Re: Did you hear the one about Bob Shell?

Caveman wrote:

 frank theriault wrote:
 (snip,snip)

  I was using the word sordid tongue-in-cheek.

 I feel relieved. For a moment I suspected you of being the grumpy old
 man type ;-)


Not what leaps to mind when the phrase tongue-in-cheek comes up in the
middle
of this discussion g

annsan


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Re: Did you hear the one about Bob Shell?

2003-06-14 Thread Caveman
T Rittenhouse wrote:
I especially don't like, even the concept of, bondage. 
There's nothing wrong with the concept. Your objections are probably 
against some ways of executing it.

cheers,
caveman


Re: Did you hear the one about Bob Shell?

2003-06-14 Thread Treena
It was rape, in any case, whether the boy consented or not because of his
age. Whether she consented or not, I suspect he will still be charged with
negligent homicide or manslaughter. I doubt he intended to kill her, but
he'll have a difficult time proving he didn't help her get there.

- Original Message - 
From: Caveman [EMAIL PROTECTED]
To: [EMAIL PROTECTED]
Sent: Saturday, June 14, 2003 2:34 PM
Subject: Re: Did you hear the one about Bob Shell?


 Was the boy knowing what he was doing, wanted it and consented to it ? I
 suspect that the case you mentioned was about rape.

 Treena wrote:
  We had a case a couple of years back that sounds similar - two men
drugged a
  12-year-old boy, then sodomized him. Because of the way he was lying and
the
  large amount of drugs in his system, he died of positional asphyxiation.
  They were charged with homicide. If she was heavily under the influence
and
  was lying in such a way that she couldn't breathe well, it could
definitely
  happen even though it would be unintentional.
 
  - Original Message - 
  From: Caveman [EMAIL PROTECTED]
  To: [EMAIL PROTECTED]
  Sent: Saturday, June 14, 2003 1:47 PM
  Subject: Re: Did you hear the one about Bob Shell?
 
 
 
 It takes lawyers to make things complicate. I have two questions that
 have no clear answer there:
 - did she die of Valium, of sex or of too many photos of her being taken
 - did she know what she was doing when taking Valium and was that
 consensual or against her will.
 
 Otherwise anyone should make sure he doesn't receive any guests in his
 home, or have it arranged as a psycho cell with pillowed walls, and keep
 the guests in straighjackets so they can't harm themselves. And they
 still can kill themselves by refusing to breath or something.
 
 Bruce Rubenstein wrote:
 
 http://www.roanoke.com/roatimes/news/story150854.html
 
 BR
 
 
 
 
 
 






Re: Did you hear the one about Bob Shell?

2003-06-14 Thread Caveman
Treena wrote:
Whether she consented or not, I suspect he will still be charged with
negligent homicide or manslaughter. I doubt he intended to kill her, but
he'll have a difficult time proving he didn't help her get there.
Weird laws. So if X gets a girl in his house, takes her photos, then 
they have sex, then the girl takes Valium, goes to bed and dies in 
sleep, X is a criminal ?

A strong reason for me to keep photographing flowers ;-)

cheers,
caveman


Re: Did you hear the one about Bob Shell?

2003-06-14 Thread William Robb

- Original Message -
From: Caveman
Subject: Re: Did you hear the one about Bob Shell?


 Was the boy knowing what he was doing, wanted it and consented to it ?
I
 suspect that the case you mentioned was about rape.

Most jurisdictions in North America have a statutory rape law.
You and I have had this discussion some time ago, and you seemed baffled
by the concept.

William Robb