Re: [Texascavers] Lee Jay in hospital

2018-11-26 Thread Geary Schindel
Saw you called last night, I’ll try and call today.

Geary

From: Texascavers  On Behalf Of Michael 
Gibbons
Sent: Sunday, November 25, 2018 7:19 PM
To: texascavers@texascavers.com
Subject: Re: [Texascavers] Lee Jay in hospital

Thank you for the news Justin.
Please pass on my condolences and prayers to Lee Jay and family.

On Fri, Nov 23, 2018, 7:33 PM Justin Shaw 
mailto:jus...@oztotl.net> wrote:
Lee Jay Graves has suffered a massive stroke with subarachnoid bleeding. His 
condition continues to deteriorate and he is not expected to recover.

If you would like to visit him he is at the main St. David’s hospital on 32nd 
St. here in Austin. He is on the 5th floor, room 555. Nurses recommend coming 
tonight or early tomorrow. There are no restrictions on visiting hours. Though 
he seems unresponsive, the sense of hearing is often the last to go.

His family is aware, and his sisters are in route and expected to arrive 
tonight or early tomorrow morning.

If you would like details, I’m willing to talk on the phone. 512-593-2283

With Love,
Justin



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think of everyone, much less directly contact everyone)

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Re: [Texascavers] Lee Jay in hospital

2018-11-25 Thread Michael Gibbons
Thank you for the news Justin.
Please pass on my condolences and prayers to Lee Jay and family.

On Fri, Nov 23, 2018, 7:33 PM Justin Shaw  Lee Jay Graves has suffered a massive stroke with subarachnoid bleeding.
> His condition continues to deteriorate and he is not expected to recover.
>
> If you would like to visit him he is at the main St. David’s hospital on
> 32nd St. here in Austin. He is on the 5th floor, room 555. Nurses recommend
> coming tonight or early tomorrow. There are no restrictions on visiting
> hours. Though he seems unresponsive, the sense of hearing is often the last
> to go.
>
> His family is aware, and his sisters are in route and expected to arrive
> tonight or early tomorrow morning.
>
> If you would like details, I’m willing to talk on the phone. 512-593-2283
>
> With Love,
> Justin
>
>
>
> (apologies for such a heavy post, however when you’ve touched as many
> lives as LJ did, there’s too many people who’ll want to be in the loop for
> me to even think of everyone, much less directly contact everyone)
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Re: [Texascavers] Lee Jay in hospital

2018-11-24 Thread gcaver69
He will be missedSent from my Samsung Galaxy , an AT LTE smartphone
 Original message From: Jay Jorden  Date: 
11/24/18  4:43 PM  (GMT-06:00) To: Cavers Texas  
Subject: Re: [Texascavers] Lee Jay in hospital All - Christmas music is playing 
everywhere this weekend, but I'm sad beyond words at hearing this. Lee Jay was 
a great friend who's gone too soon - and way too suddenly. 
It was a privilege to serve with Lee Jay on the TCMA board. He was a passionate 
advocate for us and made a real difference for Central Texas caving and cave 
conservation over the years. He truly knew the meaning behind volunteerism and 
giving back.
I got to visit with Lee Jay this summer, but he was too sick to come to our 
last board meeting earlier this month. I will miss his friendship and unique 
perspective. 
Justin, many thanks for the heads-up on this, keeping us posted and for being 
there for him at the end. And thanks to George for a wonderful tribute to Lee 
Jay - and to others who share his stories.
Unfortunately,  I'll be out-of-state for the gathering next weekend. But please 
give my condolences to Lee Jay's family, and pass along any funeral 
arrangements when you can.
Jay 
At 9:15 this morning, Lee Jay Graves moved on to his next big adventure. Mimi, 
myself, and two of his sisters were there to pass on everyone's warm regards 
and wish him well on this new journey. Lee Jay held a fascination for the world 
that drove his thirst for knowledge and attention to detail, and he touched the 
lives of many with his kindness and conversation. We will miss you, friend.In 
celebration of our great times with LJ, we will have an impromptu gathering 
around a fire tonight at the Ediger compound on Mockingbird. Fire starts at 
sunset (7:11). Please park on the road.In his honor, there will also be a 
caver-style celebration of Lee Jay's life and times on the 1st of December 
(that's next Saturday, folks). Details coming soon.On Nov 23, 2018, at 19:33, 
Justin Shaw  wrote:Lee Jay Graves has suffered a massive 
stroke with subarachnoid bleeding. His condition continues to deteriorate and 
he is not expected to recover. If you would like to visit him he is at the main 
St. David’s hospital on 32nd St. here in Austin. He is on the 5th floor, room 
555. Nurses recommend coming tonight or early tomorrow. There are no 
restrictions on visiting hours. Though he seems unresponsive, the sense of 
hearing is often the last to go. His family is aware, and his sisters are in 
route and expected to arrive tonight or early tomorrow morning.If you would 
like details, I’m willing to talk on the phone. 512-593-2283With Love,    
Justin(apologies for such a heavy post, however when you’ve touched as many 
lives as LJ did, there’s too many people who’ll want to be in the loop for me 
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Re: [Texascavers] Lee Jay in hospital

2018-11-24 Thread Jay Jorden
All - Christmas music is playing everywhere this weekend, but I'm sad
beyond words at hearing this. Lee Jay was a great friend who's gone too
soon - and way too suddenly.
It was a privilege to serve with Lee Jay on the TCMA board. He was a
passionate advocate for us and made a real difference for Central Texas
caving and cave conservation over the years. He truly knew the meaning
behind volunteerism and giving back.
I got to visit with Lee Jay this summer, but he was too sick to come to our
last board meeting earlier this month. I will miss his friendship and
unique perspective.
Justin, many thanks for the heads-up on this, keeping us posted and for
being there for him at the end. And thanks to George for a wonderful
tribute to Lee Jay - and to others who share his stories.
Unfortunately,  I'll be out-of-state for the gathering next weekend. But
please give my condolences to Lee Jay's family, and pass along any funeral
arrangements when you can.

Jay

At 9:15 this morning, Lee Jay Graves moved on to his next big adventure.
Mimi, myself, and two of his sisters were there to pass on everyone's warm
regards and wish him well on this new journey. Lee Jay held a fascination
for the world that drove his thirst for knowledge and attention to detail,
and he touched the lives of many with his kindness and conversation. We
will miss you, friend.

In celebration of our great times with LJ, we will have an impromptu
gathering around a fire tonight at the Ediger compound on Mockingbird. Fire
starts at sunset (7:11). Please park on the road.

In his honor, there will also be a caver-style celebration of Lee Jay's
life and times on the 1st of December (that's next Saturday, folks).
Details coming soon.





On Nov 23, 2018, at 19:33, Justin Shaw  wrote:

Lee Jay Graves has suffered a massive stroke with subarachnoid bleeding.
His condition continues to deteriorate and he is not expected to recover.

If you would like to visit him he is at the main St. David’s hospital on
32nd St. here in Austin. He is on the 5th floor, room 555. Nurses recommend
coming tonight or early tomorrow. There are no restrictions on visiting
hours. Though he seems unresponsive, the sense of hearing is often the last
to go.

His family is aware, and his sisters are in route and expected to arrive
tonight or early tomorrow morning.

If you would like details, I’m willing to talk on the phone. 512-593-2283

With Love,
   Justin



(apologies for such a heavy post, however when you’ve touched as many lives
as LJ did, there’s too many people who’ll want to be in the loop for me to
even think of everyone, much less directly contact everyone)


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Re: [Texascavers] Lee Jay in hospital

2018-11-24 Thread Justin Shaw
At 9:15 this morning, Lee Jay Graves moved on to his next big adventure. Mimi, 
myself, and two of his sisters were there to pass on everyone's warm regards 
and wish him well on this new journey. Lee Jay held a fascination for the world 
that drove his thirst for knowledge and attention to detail, and he touched the 
lives of many with his kindness and conversation. We will miss you, friend.
In celebration of our great times with LJ, we will have an impromptu gathering 
around a fire tonight at the Ediger compound on Mockingbird. Fire starts at 
sunset (7:11). Please park on the road.
In his honor, there will also be a caver-style celebration of Lee Jay's life 
and times on the 1st of December (that's next Saturday, folks). Details coming 
soon.




> On Nov 23, 2018, at 19:33, Justin Shaw  wrote:
> 
> Lee Jay Graves has suffered a massive stroke with subarachnoid bleeding. His 
> condition continues to deteriorate and he is not expected to recover. 
> 
> If you would like to visit him he is at the main St. David’s hospital on 32nd 
> St. here in Austin. He is on the 5th floor, room 555. Nurses recommend coming 
> tonight or early tomorrow. There are no restrictions on visiting hours. 
> Though he seems unresponsive, the sense of hearing is often the last to go. 
> 
> His family is aware, and his sisters are in route and expected to arrive 
> tonight or early tomorrow morning.
> 
> If you would like details, I’m willing to talk on the phone. 512-593-2283
> 
> With Love,
>Justin
> 
> 
> 
> (apologies for such a heavy post, however when you’ve touched as many lives 
> as LJ did, there’s too many people who’ll want to be in the loop for me to 
> even think of everyone, much less directly contact everyone)
> 
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Re: [Texascavers] Lee Jay in hospital

2018-11-24 Thread Alex
I will miss you, Lee Jay.

And thank you, George, for an elegant eulogy.

Alex

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Re: [Texascavers] Lee Jay in hospital

2018-11-24 Thread Logan

Sad news. Thanks for letting us know, Justin.
I'm contacting some people who are not on Texascavers. Fortunate that 
the list is back online.

Logan

On 11/23/2018 7:33 PM, Justin Shaw wrote:

Lee Jay Graves has suffered a massive stroke with subarachnoid bleeding. His 
condition continues to deteriorate and he is not expected to recover.

If you would like to visit him he is at the main St. David’s hospital on 32nd 
St. here in Austin. He is on the 5th floor, room 555. Nurses recommend coming 
tonight or early tomorrow. There are no restrictions on visiting hours. Though 
he seems unresponsive, the sense of hearing is often the last to go.

His family is aware, and his sisters are in route and expected to arrive 
tonight or early tomorrow morning.

If you would like details, I’m willing to talk on the phone. 512-593-2283

With Love,
 Justin



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Re: [Texascavers] Lee Jay in hospital

2018-11-24 Thread grubbsi
Thank you George, you speak for many of us at this sad moment.  Life is short, 
dont waste your's or others time with pointless BS.  Go outside and enjoy the 
splendor of this fantastic creation where we are blessed to dwell. Fly up and 
catch your dreams before they slip away.  Grubbsi

- Original Message -
From: "George Veni" 
To: "texascavers" 
Sent: Friday, November 23, 2018 11:41:45 PM
Subject: Re: [Texascavers] Lee Jay in hospital

Lee Jay and I never caved much together recreationally. We worked together for 
many years on countless karst consulting projects until I moved to Carlsbad 12 
years ago. Everyone knows he is a talker, and more than once I had to tell him 
"Enough talking. We need to get to work." But I found that when I listened to 
him, he was amazingly well read and informed on a diverse range of topics. Lee 
Jay is a generalist who finds all that's in the world interesting.  That is 
probably what makes him most valuable on a caving team. He has an eye for 
detail because he is fascinated by everything. He would produce great sketches 
and notes that were key to making good decisions on how to evaluate and manage 
a certain cave or karst feature. This attention to minutia allowed him to 
discover one of the tiniest and probably rarest spiders in Texas in a 
Williamson County cave.

As a generalist, I could count on him for pretty much whatever was needed on 
our team. Once I asked him to bring his rifle for a karst evaluation. He 
thought I was joking but I assured him I serious. When we met in the field, we 
walked to an abandoned well that I needed to assess with my downhole camera, 
except that a rock was jammed in the well bore about 7 m down. Three shots from 
his rifle down the well shattered the rock and allowed us to look with the 
camera into a cave, which remains unexplored for lack of a humanly accessible 
entrance. Check out the attached photo.

I find myself at the moment on the wrong side of the planet to go visit him in 
the hospital and tell him how much I appreciate his friendship and comradery. 
Perhaps more sad is that like with too many lost friends, we make time for 
final goodbyes at bedsides and funerals when it is too late, and not when they 
are alive and well to truly appreciate our words. The last time we saw each 
other, I knew I needed to visit with him more. It had been too long, but there 
was always "tomorrow."

Lee Jay's final lesson to me and many us may be to remind us that sometimes 
there are no tomorrows, and to let those you care about know today how you feel.

Thank you LJ,

George


George Veni, PhD
Executive Director, National Cave and Karst Research Institute (NCKRI)
and
President, International Union of Speleology (UIS)

NCKRI address (primary)
400-1 Cascades Avenue
Carlsbad, New Mexico 88220 USA
Office: +575-887-5517
Mobile: +210-863-5919
Fax: +575-887-5523
gv...@nckri.org
www.nckri.org

UIS address
Titov trg 2
Postojna, 6230, Slovenia
www.uis-speleo.org 

-Original Message-
From: Texascavers  On Behalf Of Justin Shaw
Sent: Friday, November 23, 2018 18:33
To: CaveTex 
Subject: [Texascavers] Lee Jay in hospital

Lee Jay Graves has suffered a massive stroke with subarachnoid bleeding. His 
condition continues to deteriorate and he is not expected to recover. 

If you would like to visit him he is at the main St. David’s hospital on 32nd 
St. here in Austin. He is on the 5th floor, room 555. Nurses recommend coming 
tonight or early tomorrow. There are no restrictions on visiting hours. Though 
he seems unresponsive, the sense of hearing is often the last to go. 

His family is aware, and his sisters are in route and expected to arrive 
tonight or early tomorrow morning.

If you would like details, I’m willing to talk on the phone. 512-593-2283

With Love,
Justin



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Re: [Texascavers] Lee Jay in hospital

2018-11-24 Thread John Brooks
That is very sad news. Sorry to hear.

John Brooks 

Sent from my iPhone

> On Nov 23, 2018, at 11:57 PM, carl.kunath  wrote:
> 
> Well said, George!
> ===Carl Kunath
> 
> 
> 
> Sent from my Sprint Samsung Galaxy S® 6.
> 
>  Original message 
> From: George Veni 
> Date: 11/23/18 11:41 PM (GMT-06:00)
> To: texascavers@texascavers.com
> Subject: Re: [Texascavers] Lee Jay in hospital
> 
> Lee Jay and I never caved much together recreationally. We worked together 
> for many years on countless karst consulting projects until I moved to 
> Carlsbad 12 years ago. Everyone knows he is a talker, and more than once I 
> had to tell him "Enough talking. We need to get to work." But I found that 
> when I listened to him, he was amazingly well read and informed on a diverse 
> range of topics. Lee Jay is a generalist who finds all that's in the world 
> interesting.  That is probably what makes him most valuable on a caving team. 
> He has an eye for detail because he is fascinated by everything. He would 
> produce great sketches and notes that were key to making good decisions on 
> how to evaluate and manage a certain cave or karst feature. This attention to 
> minutia allowed him to discover one of the tiniest and probably rarest 
> spiders in Texas in a Williamson County cave.
> 
> As a generalist, I could count on him for pretty much whatever was needed on 
> our team. Once I asked him to bring his rifle for a karst evaluation. He 
> thought I was joking but I assured him I serious. When we met in the field, 
> we walked to an abandoned well that I needed to assess with my downhole 
> camera, except that a rock was jammed in the well bore about 7 m down. Three 
> shots from his rifle down the well shattered the rock and allowed us to look 
> with the camera into a cave, which remains unexplored for lack of a humanly 
> accessible entrance. Check out the attached photo.
> 
> I find myself at the moment on the wrong side of the planet to go visit him 
> in the hospital and tell him how much I appreciate his friendship and 
> comradery. Perhaps more sad is that like with too many lost friends, we make 
> time for final goodbyes at bedsides and funerals when it is too late, and not 
> when they are alive and well to truly appreciate our words. The last time we 
> saw each other, I knew I needed to visit with him more. It had been too long, 
> but there was always "tomorrow."
> 
> Lee Jay's final lesson to me and many us may be to remind us that sometimes 
> there are no tomorrows, and to let those you care about know today how you 
> feel.
> 
> Thank you LJ,
> 
> George
> 
> 
> George Veni, PhD
> Executive Director, National Cave and Karst Research Institute (NCKRI)
> and
> President, International Union of Speleology (UIS)
> 
> NCKRI address (primary)
> 400-1 Cascades Avenue
> Carlsbad, New Mexico 88220 USA
> Office: +575-887-5517
> Mobile: +210-863-5919
> Fax: +575-887-5523
> gv...@nckri.org
> www.nckri.org
> 
> UIS address
> Titov trg 2
> Postojna, 6230, Slovenia
> www.uis-speleo.org 
> 
> -Original Message-
> From: Texascavers  On Behalf Of Justin 
> Shaw
> Sent: Friday, November 23, 2018 18:33
> To: CaveTex 
> Subject: [Texascavers] Lee Jay in hospital
> 
> Lee Jay Graves has suffered a massive stroke with subarachnoid bleeding. His 
> condition continues to deteriorate and he is not expected to recover. 
> 
> If you would like to visit him he is at the main St. David’s hospital on 32nd 
> St. here in Austin. He is on the 5th floor, room 555. Nurses recommend coming 
> tonight or early tomorrow. There are no restrictions on visiting hours. 
> Though he seems unresponsive, the sense of hearing is often the last to go. 
> 
> His family is aware, and his sisters are in route and expected to arrive 
> tonight or early tomorrow morning.
> 
> If you would like details, I’m willing to talk on the phone. 512-593-2283
> 
> With Love,
> Justin
> 
> 
> 
> (apologies for such a heavy post, however when you’ve touched as many lives 
> as LJ did, there’s too many people who’ll want to be in the loop for me to 
> even think of everyone, much less directly contact everyone)
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Re: [Texascavers] Lee Jay in hospital

2018-11-23 Thread carl.kunath
Well said, George!===Carl KunathSent from my Sprint Samsung Galaxy S® 6.
 Original message From: George Veni  Date: 
11/23/18  11:41 PM  (GMT-06:00) To: texascavers@texascavers.com Subject: Re: 
[Texascavers] Lee Jay in hospital Lee Jay and I never caved much together 
recreationally. We worked together for many years on countless karst consulting 
projects until I moved to Carlsbad 12 years ago. Everyone knows he is a talker, 
and more than once I had to tell him "Enough talking. We need to get to work." 
But I found that when I listened to him, he was amazingly well read and 
informed on a diverse range of topics. Lee Jay is a generalist who finds all 
that's in the world interesting.  That is probably what makes him most valuable 
on a caving team. He has an eye for detail because he is fascinated by 
everything. He would produce great sketches and notes that were key to making 
good decisions on how to evaluate and manage a certain cave or karst feature. 
This attention to minutia allowed him to discover one of the tiniest and 
probably rarest spiders in Texas in a Williamson County cave.As a generalist, I 
could count on him for pretty much whatever was needed on our team. Once I 
asked him to bring his rifle for a karst evaluation. He thought I was joking 
but I assured him I serious. When we met in the field, we walked to an 
abandoned well that I needed to assess with my downhole camera, except that a 
rock was jammed in the well bore about 7 m down. Three shots from his rifle 
down the well shattered the rock and allowed us to look with the camera into a 
cave, which remains unexplored for lack of a humanly accessible entrance. Check 
out the attached photo.I find myself at the moment on the wrong side of the 
planet to go visit him in the hospital and tell him how much I appreciate his 
friendship and comradery. Perhaps more sad is that like with too many lost 
friends, we make time for final goodbyes at bedsides and funerals when it is 
too late, and not when they are alive and well to truly appreciate our words. 
The last time we saw each other, I knew I needed to visit with him more. It had 
been too long, but there was always "tomorrow."Lee Jay's final lesson to me and 
many us may be to remind us that sometimes there are no tomorrows, and to let 
those you care about know today how you feel.Thank you 
LJ,GeorgeGeorge Veni, PhDExecutive Director, National Cave 
and Karst Research Institute (NCKRI)andPresident, International Union of 
Speleology (UIS)NCKRI address (primary)400-1 Cascades AvenueCarlsbad, New 
Mexico 88220 USAOffice: +575-887-5517Mobile: +210-863-5919Fax: 
+575-887-5523gveni@nckri.orgwww.nckri.orgUIS addressTitov trg 2Postojna, 6230, 
Sloveniawww.uis-speleo.org -Original Message-From: Texascavers 
 On Behalf Of Justin ShawSent: Friday, 
November 23, 2018 18:33To: CaveTex Subject: 
[Texascavers] Lee Jay in hospitalLee Jay Graves has suffered a massive stroke 
with subarachnoid bleeding. His condition continues to deteriorate and he is 
not expected to recover. If you would like to visit him he is at the main St. 
David’s hospital on 32nd St. here in Austin. He is on the 5th floor, room 555. 
Nurses recommend coming tonight or early tomorrow. There are no restrictions on 
visiting hours. Though he seems unresponsive, the sense of hearing is often the 
last to go. His family is aware, and his sisters are in route and expected to 
arrive tonight or early tomorrow morning.If you would like details, I’m willing 
to talk on the phone. 512-593-2283With Love,    Justin(apologies for such a 
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Re: [Texascavers] Lee Jay in hospital

2018-11-23 Thread George Veni
Lee Jay and I never caved much together recreationally. We worked together for 
many years on countless karst consulting projects until I moved to Carlsbad 12 
years ago. Everyone knows he is a talker, and more than once I had to tell him 
"Enough talking. We need to get to work." But I found that when I listened to 
him, he was amazingly well read and informed on a diverse range of topics. Lee 
Jay is a generalist who finds all that's in the world interesting.  That is 
probably what makes him most valuable on a caving team. He has an eye for 
detail because he is fascinated by everything. He would produce great sketches 
and notes that were key to making good decisions on how to evaluate and manage 
a certain cave or karst feature. This attention to minutia allowed him to 
discover one of the tiniest and probably rarest spiders in Texas in a 
Williamson County cave.

As a generalist, I could count on him for pretty much whatever was needed on 
our team. Once I asked him to bring his rifle for a karst evaluation. He 
thought I was joking but I assured him I serious. When we met in the field, we 
walked to an abandoned well that I needed to assess with my downhole camera, 
except that a rock was jammed in the well bore about 7 m down. Three shots from 
his rifle down the well shattered the rock and allowed us to look with the 
camera into a cave, which remains unexplored for lack of a humanly accessible 
entrance. Check out the attached photo.

I find myself at the moment on the wrong side of the planet to go visit him in 
the hospital and tell him how much I appreciate his friendship and comradery. 
Perhaps more sad is that like with too many lost friends, we make time for 
final goodbyes at bedsides and funerals when it is too late, and not when they 
are alive and well to truly appreciate our words. The last time we saw each 
other, I knew I needed to visit with him more. It had been too long, but there 
was always "tomorrow."

Lee Jay's final lesson to me and many us may be to remind us that sometimes 
there are no tomorrows, and to let those you care about know today how you feel.

Thank you LJ,

George


George Veni, PhD
Executive Director, National Cave and Karst Research Institute (NCKRI)
and
President, International Union of Speleology (UIS)

NCKRI address (primary)
400-1 Cascades Avenue
Carlsbad, New Mexico 88220 USA
Office: +575-887-5517
Mobile: +210-863-5919
Fax: +575-887-5523
gv...@nckri.org
www.nckri.org

UIS address
Titov trg 2
Postojna, 6230, Slovenia
www.uis-speleo.org 

-Original Message-
From: Texascavers  On Behalf Of Justin Shaw
Sent: Friday, November 23, 2018 18:33
To: CaveTex 
Subject: [Texascavers] Lee Jay in hospital

Lee Jay Graves has suffered a massive stroke with subarachnoid bleeding. His 
condition continues to deteriorate and he is not expected to recover. 

If you would like to visit him he is at the main St. David’s hospital on 32nd 
St. here in Austin. He is on the 5th floor, room 555. Nurses recommend coming 
tonight or early tomorrow. There are no restrictions on visiting hours. Though 
he seems unresponsive, the sense of hearing is often the last to go. 

His family is aware, and his sisters are in route and expected to arrive 
tonight or early tomorrow morning.

If you would like details, I’m willing to talk on the phone. 512-593-2283

With Love,
Justin



(apologies for such a heavy post, however when you’ve touched as many lives as 
LJ did, there’s too many people who’ll want to be in the loop for me to even 
think of everyone, much less directly contact everyone)

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Re: [Texascavers] Lee Jay in hospital

2018-11-23 Thread Linda Palit
Thanks Justin. 
I am so sad to hear this. 


Sent from my iPhone

> On Nov 23, 2018, at 8:33 PM, Justin Shaw  wrote:
> 
> Lee Jay Graves has suffered a massive stroke with subarachnoid bleeding. His 
> condition continues to deteriorate and he is not expected to recover. 
> 
> If you would like to visit him he is at the main St. David’s hospital on 32nd 
> St. here in Austin. He is on the 5th floor, room 555. Nurses recommend coming 
> tonight or early tomorrow. There are no restrictions on visiting hours. 
> Though he seems unresponsive, the sense of hearing is often the last to go. 
> 
> His family is aware, and his sisters are in route and expected to arrive 
> tonight or early tomorrow morning.
> 
> If you would like details, I’m willing to talk on the phone. 512-593-2283
> 
> With Love,
>Justin
> 
> 
> 
> (apologies for such a heavy post, however when you’ve touched as many lives 
> as LJ did, there’s too many people who’ll want to be in the loop for me to 
> even think of everyone, much less directly contact everyone)
> 
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